Chapter 144. Love is very persistent in my heart. Courageously pursue it

Entering Mao Ruixi's room, Zhao Jianren looked helpless, looked at Ma Xidi and said, "She doesn't want to accept it, I just agreed to keep it temporarily." As he spoke, he sat next to Ma Xidi and looked at Ma Xidi with a confused expression.

"Do you think she likes that necklace?" Ma Xidi asked.

"I like it, I like it very much, my eyes light up when I look at the necklace." Zhao Jianren said weakly.

"Well, as long as she likes it." Ma Xidi said and turned her head to look at Mao Ruixi who was standing on the side and said: "Ruixi, you go to her house and call her over, just say that Director Zhao wants to play cards, if she is not willing to come, you will say that Lord Zhao is the big boss of our factory, without Director Zhao, we will have no food, let her have a heart to repay Director Zhao, and be like a family." Another thing is that you have to convey to her that everything she is doing now is doing things for the factory, she is working, she is working for the well-being of hundreds of workers in the factory, and you have to tell her that after the matter is successful, you will commend and reward her at the factory staff meeting, and promote her to the position of deputy factory director again. You go and paint her a big cake, make her hopeful, make her feel that everything she does is a supreme honor. ”

After finishing speaking, he turned his face to look at Zhao Jianren and said: "You play cards with us later, let her join you, find a way to let her preside over the game, and then the two of us cooperate with you, we will lose more and win less, try to let you win more money, you pick up the money when you win, don't give her a point, let her feel that this money won is her credit." He said and said, "After this, when we drink in the evening, you only lose and not win, and then beg her to drink for you, so that she feels that you are on her side, and she has a credit for it, and the more wine you let her drink for you, the better." As long as you win and lose, you don't need to mention the necklace anymore, she will not mention the necklace again, and take it for herself with peace of mind, and tomorrow you will see that the necklace is hanging around her neck. ”

After speaking, he advised: "You must not let her see that we are angry in this matter, as long as she feels that what you do is done willingly by herself, you will succeed in this matter." After that, he glanced at Mao Ruixi and said, "You go over, draw the cake to the big mile, don't be stingy, Xu has a vision that is not big enough, not enough to eat." He laughed, and the atmosphere in the room suddenly became warm. Zhao Jianren's face looked much better, and Mao Ruixi also jumped out of the door.

To make a long story short, how one lamb can fight three old foxes. Like the bureau designed by Ma Xidi, Sima Lina was always immersed in the deception from morning to night.

Life is often like this, and sometimes you really don't know what a scam is, what is real life. Sometimes I know that I am walking in a virtual world, but I can't get out of it, and I would rather face it with a smile than choose to leave crying. The reason is that you and I are all members of society, society is a different circle, you and I are all members of society, and we are all looking for a circle suitable for their own survival.

This is also the difference between Eastern and Western cultures, here I will talk about Chinese rationality, Chinese traditional rationality can be basically divided into three stages of development, the first stage of development is the late Warring States period to the early Tang Dynasty, the second stage of development is the Tang Dynasty to the fall of the Yuan Dynasty, and the third stage of development is the Ming and Qing dynasties to the Republic of China.

So what exactly is science? Science is the study derived from the I Ching, to be precise, all the learning derived from the I Ching is collectively called traditional Chinese science, of which Confucianism, Taoism, Mojia, Legalism are the most representative, and then derived such as Chinese medicine, eight-character numerology, feng shui, etc., all related to the traditional culture of the Chinese are owned by traditional Chinese science, including the three teachings and nine streams, Quyi courtesans and so on.

Speaking of which, I am afraid that even the so-called great Confucians in modern China have not figured out what "science" is, so what is science in the end? In the final analysis, science is the study of "reasoning", that is, it is talking about the word "reason", and this word is the word "truth" that we hang on our lips today, in fact, "science" is the study of "truth", when it comes to the big truth, it is metaphysical, it is the political ideology of the superstructure, and when it comes to small truths, it is the common sense in the lives of the common people.

Speaking of metaphysics, it is the knowledge used by the ancient Chinese royal class to rule the lower classes, and when it comes to metaphysics, it is the knowledge that the common people use to measure the problems they encounter in their daily lives. To put it in layman's terms, it is the knowledge that the ancient emperors used to formulate the rules of the country, how to formulate the state system, when to go to the court, how to salute the monarchs and ministers after the court, how to call them, and how to deal with the government and so on.

Let me give you an example to illustrate that it is easy to understand, for example, the ancient marriage system is the most illustrative example. We know that the marriage system in ancient China was ordered by the parents, according to the words of the matchmaker to establish the marriage relationship, the man and woman did not meet before marriage, let alone love, the marriage relationship in ancient China is the "absolute material" conditions in the front, the spiritual level in the back of the physical and personnel relationship, men and women in the absence of any emotional interaction at all, combined together, to complete the physical first satisfaction of the material needs, this is completely the material basis in the first nature, the spiritual realm in the second nature of the materialist order of sorting, Nature is an absolute materialist relationship of human change.

On the other hand, the marriage relationship of Westerners is a marriage relationship at the level of "absolute spirit" under the definition of Platonic love, Plato believes: "This is the best when the mind abandons the body and yearns for truth." And when the soul is infected by the sins of the flesh, people's desire to pursue the truth will not be satisfied. When human beings do not have a strong need for the body, the state of mind is peaceful, and the desire of the flesh is the manifestation of the animal nature in human nature, and it is the nature of every living organism. It can be seen that Western culture is an idealist view of marriage that puts spiritual communication as a precondition, and a study of "human nature" that places physical desires after the spiritual realm.

In this way, it seems easy to understand what "rationality" is, and why Chinese rationalism finally ended in the Republic of China. The reason is that when the science of science is developed to the extreme, everything is a barrier, you stretch your legs, exhale and breathe may be in a strict barrier, the closed structure has exceeded people's normal rationality, everything is based on material conditions, the mind is full of material foundations, put the material foundation at the front of everything, do everything first talk about money, talk about material conditions, use the moral world, perfectionism to restrain people's normal behavioral reactions and spiritual choices, is this road still possible? People living in modern times make you imagine the feudal etiquette of the Ming and Qing dynasties, and you can shudder.

There is a very important truth here, that is, when you look at money and put material conditions in front of all problems, you only see the intuitive world, only material conditions, as for the spiritual things, you may not even imagine the psychology, at this time you will inevitably use the perfect rational expectations you envision to restrain the other party's behavior and reaction, deal with problems, here your thinking method must be to use moral standards and the perfect world to measure all indicators, The result of this is a kind of expected goal that is difficult to achieve, because you do not anticipate the original defects of the problem, you only see the completeness of the problem, and finally the defects are revealed in the process of problem development, because you do not anticipate the defects of the problem, naturally there is no plan to deal with the defects, and finally lead to the final failure of the matter. This is the reason why Chinese partners in business with nine out of ten people, before the partnership only saw the perfect world, but ignored the inevitable flaws of things, did not defend in advance, and looked at it afterwards, the only way to deal with problems after discovering them was to complain, accuse, or even attack each other, and break up the gang.

When you start from "human nature" to deal with problems, you will look at the problem with spirit and love, you are first satisfied with the objective understanding of the whole event by spiritual induction, and then use the logic of thinking to judge the integrity and defects of the material conditions, and use the pre-spiritual concept to look at the post-material conditions, which makes it easier to correctly choose the method of dealing with the problem, set up the preliminary plan, prevent the occurrence of defects, and achieve psychological expectations and achieve the ideal goal. Westerners like to deal with everything in a partnership way, and have set psychological expectations before the matter is carried out, and set up a plan to deal with possible defects in advance before the psychological expectation happens, so that the result of the thing is more likely to succeed perfectly.

Westerners' view of marriage is even more so, Westerners look at marriage as love in the preposition, most Westerners hold the attitude that there is no marriage without love, in the face of love, love is a precondition, and there is no marriage without love. It is very gratifying that the majority of young people in modern China hold this view, which shows that the Chinese are very, very correct in bravely smashing their traditional theories.

From here you can also understand what is the study of "human nature", you will find that the original "human nature" science is all around us, not cows, ghosts, snakes and gods, we often use too many methods of human nature, but I don't know. Once we understand what "Humanology" is, we will know why Western "Humanology" has finally become a winner and has achieved world-class learning that expands to the world.

In fact, the controversy between reason and human nature, between science and philosophy, between Eastern culture and Western culture, is, in the final analysis, a dispute over methodology.

From this, we can understand what Western philosophy is, which is precisely the study based on the spirit, and philosophy is the cloud of smoke in the virtual world, ethereal, vague, and broad and expansive. If you have to put philosophy in a certain box, then you can define it in the human heart, or you can define it in the spiritual soul. In any case, philosophy has no specific relationship with "matter", and even if it does, it is the "material world" under the "absolute spirit".

If you must relate philosophy to the material foundation, then you should not call it "Western philosophy", you should still call it "Chinese science", you should return to the study of "reasoning", "reasoning" and "reason", continue to build your lofty and noble tower, continue to maintain your image of a righteous man and a gentleman, and advocate and carry forward your righteous and bright virtues. Anyway, hypocrisy and flaws have nothing to do with you, so you should continue to set your moral standards. Even denying the existence of a human soul, and the true face of a person has nothing to do with you.

In the final analysis, Western philosophy is a study based on objective idealism and has a theory of defects, while Chinese philosophy is a study based on intuitive materialism and only exists in a perfect world.

This is the fundamental difference between Western philosophy and Chinese science, and this is also the fundamental reason why people know that they are walking in a virtual world, but they can't get rid of it, because if you really have love, love is a manifestation of perseverance, and you will face it bravely and pursue it bravely.

On the third day, the set set by Ma Xidi began to tighten the rope, and he entered the card field in the morning and played until the sky was dark. Dahlia has lost all the money she has won from Mao Ruixi and Zhao Jianren these days, and if she had withdrawn from this scam at this time, maybe the result of this scam would have been different. But Dahlia went the other way. This makes people's hearts insufficient, and this is an eternal truth. Dali, who lost the money, is no longer as steady as before, her chubby face is flushed, her eyebrows are locked, her lips are blue and red, her voice trembles slightly, and she said, "Governor Zhao lent me your money, let's continue." ”

Zhao Jianren, Ma Xidi, and Mao Ruixi were secretly happy when they heard this, and they knew that Sima Lina had taken the bait. When the gambling reached the second half of the night, Sima Lina was already dizzy, and she couldn't open the cards if she lost, as long as she opened the cards, she must have lost, and when it was almost dawn, Sima Lina couldn't count how much she had lost, anyway, when she stood up and dragged her heavy steps to the door, Zhao Jianren's words came from behind her, "She took 10,000 yuan from me." "More than 10,000 yuan is not a lot of money now, but what did it mean at the time? Sima Lina knew too well in her heart that she could buy a property of more than 100 square meters, which was the total salary that required ten years of work to get it, which could be said to be enough astronomical amount to kill her.

By the time she opened her eyes in a daze, the lights were already on. Dali's eyes widened with great effort, and then she shook her head vigorously to regain consciousness as quickly as possible, and in the midst of the shaking she saw a figure swaying in front of her eyes, and a kind cry came from her ears. "Dahlia, you've finally woken up. You've slept so well for a day and a night. ”

"Director Zhao, why are you here?" Dahlia muttered.

"I've been here all day and night, and I came to call you for dinner at noon yesterday, and I didn't dare to call you when I saw that you were sleeping soundly. In the afternoon, I came to see that you didn't wake up, and you still didn't wake up at night, you scared me to death, and I didn't dare to wake you up, I kept watching here, for fear that something would happen to you. ”

"I might as well sleep and die, I owe you so much money, I can pay it off in a few lifetimes, it's better to die." As he spoke, tears rolled in his eyes, and he was about to flow down.

"Don't talk about repaying the money first, get up first and see what it is!" As he spoke, he pointed to a wad of money on the bedside table, and said, "I'm going to get back all the money you lost the night before." ”

"Hair mill chief?"

"The director of the Mao factory said that there was an urgent matter at home, and they went back. Before leaving, I asked them for the money they had won the night before, and when they asked them for money, they were reluctant to give me at first, which annoyed me, and I immediately became angry, and I said at the time that it was okay not to give it, and you should not ask me for anything in the future. When they heard this, they obediently took out the money. No, you don't count enough. After saying that, she looked at Sima Lina and smiled proudly.

Sima Lina gasped for breath when she heard this, and she immediately became energetic and sat up from the bed.

This man is a breath, God is a burner of incense, as long as a person is full of anger, there will be nothing.

I saw Dali look at the money on the bedside table, turned over and got out of bed, grabbed the money on the bedside table, looked at Zhao Jianren and asked suspiciously: "Director Mao really returned the money to me." ”

"I don't need to ask, he dares not to give me this face." Zhao Jianren was even more proud when he said it.

"Director Zhao's money is coming back, just pay you back, I will never enter this gambling house again, and I will never play cards with others again, I thought I was so capable, I really didn't hit it at the critical moment. Alas, if this money is not returned, I am afraid that I will not be able to survive tomorrow. Tears really flowed down her cheeks.

When Zhao Jianren's hands touched Sima Lina's cheeks, Sima Lina was not reluctant, but very useful, at the mercy of Zhao Jianren, Zhao Jianren saw a burst of joy in his heart, wiped away the tears on Sima Lina's face, Zhao Jianren took a step back, looked at Dali and asked, "I haven't eaten a serious meal for two days, are you hungry?" ”

"Uh-huh!" Sima Lina will really feel hungry, calm down, and people will really feel hungry.

Zhao Jianren walked briskly to the room, and after a while, a dining car came in, and the dining car was full of all kinds of delicacies.

Sima Lina saw that everything was her favorite food, and her heart couldn't help but feel grateful to Zhao Jianren, and her eyes couldn't help but look at Zhao Jianren affectionately, and her face was suddenly red to the root of her ears, and she was flushed.

Rank male readers, if there is a woman around you who sees you suddenly blushing to the root of your ears, this is a drama, which means that this woman is moved by you, and there is passion surging in her heart, if you want to go to her, be bold, and make sure that you can eat sweet and sour fruits, so that you can happily remember the sweetness of this chapter of life, and always remember it in your heart, and you will smile until you die.

This is the true meaning of human nature, when the heart rises to the highest point of love, the soul sees the existence of truth, and the world is the most perfect ending.

All this is the result of Zhao Jianren's very careful observation of Sima Lina's interests and preferences these days, and this turtle has been remembered one by one in his heart, and now it has come in handy.

Dahlia looked at it and got out of bed and went to the bathroom.

Coming out of the bathroom, Zhao Jianren hurriedly pushed the dining cart in front of Sima Lina, bowed down, with a smile on his face, and watched Sima Lina have dinner.

I saw Sima Lina reach out and grab a chicken leg and eat it in a big gulp.

If you want to eat fat, the wine and meat must wear the intestines, this will make you look at Da Li again, she is pouring a glass of wine into her stomach, don't look at her as a girl, she doesn't lose to a man at all when she drinks wine, since she found out that she can drink, she can also drink half a pound and eight taels when she is in a good mood. Now Sima Lina is in a good mood, she drinks a glass of wine, and a mouthful of meat and a mouthful of wine is refreshed.

When the delicious food and drink were stuffed into his stomach, he wiped his mouth and fell crooked on the bed.

Zhao Jianren will completely lose the dignity of the president, and wait for Sima Lina like waiting for Lafayette.

When Zhao Jianren finished his work and returned to Sima Lina, Sima Lina was counting the money one by one, when she saw Zhao Jianren coming over and asking, "Why didn't you go back to your house?" ”

"I can't sleep when I go back, I want to talk to you." Zhao Jianren said with a smile on his face.

Sima Lina glanced at Zhao Jianren, her cheeks turned red again, then she lowered her head and spit on her fingers, and went to count the money again.

Precisely:

Love is very persistent in my heart,

Courageously pursue it.

The marriage hall needs love,

If there is no love, why go with the flow. (To be continued.) )