Chapter 42 The Flowers Bloom and the Wind Blows, He Kan's Life Breaks His Hearts and Hates (1)
Drum stunned stunned,
Ermao wants to welcome the bride again.
The dew couple does not last long,
It's better than nothing.
It is said that the two left the river embankment and went home separately. Fan Ermao went home to see that it was almost noon, and the fortune teller had not finished yet, so he went into the kitchen to make lunch.
After lunch, Ermao still sat in the hall and listened to his aunt's fortune telling. When it got dark, after dinner, the two of them sat under the small oil lamp and started gossiping. I heard Ermao ask, "Auntie, how is the woman's life this morning?" ”
"Which one?"
"That man went out to earn money for two years, and he didn't come back."
"Ahh Let me think. The widow looked down and thought for a while, then raised her head to look at Ermao and said, "What are you asking her for?" ”
"I'm just curious, you don't think she's good-looking, why doesn't her man want her?"
"Ermao, speaking of this, I have to tell you, this is a hexagram, you can't just look at the face. Why? I don't know if you've paid attention, people's faces will change. If you observe carefully, you will find that people will have local changes in their physiognomy at different times, some people are obvious, and some people are not easy to observe, but if you leave an image of someone for a period of time, when you see him again after a while, there may be subtle changes in a certain part of him, which requires you to observe carefully. Like a man's nose, when you knew him when you were young, he had a very good nose. But when you see him again in middle age, his nose bone is slightly crooked, and if you look closely, you will see that it is oblique to one side, which is obvious. This situation shows that there is a dilemma in the life of this person in middle age, and his fate is changing, under normal circumstances, a person's physiognomy can only be deduced from the time period you see now, and you can't use his face to arbitrarily infer his life.
But the eight characters can make up for this shortcoming, and the eight characters can deduce the fate of a person's life. A person's life will not be immutable, and the direction in which a person constantly moves is the dominant factor in the change of his destiny in his life. Time, place, natural person. That is to say, the three elements of heaven, earth and man are the leading factors in the change of life and destiny. The change of fate in a person's life changes with the transfer of the human body and the change of time. Man is a product of nature, and all his behaviors and vital signs are influenced by nature. This is what the ancients believed that the five elements of gold, wood, water, fire, and earth in nature created man, and at the same time, man was governed by the five elements of nature.
Looking at a woman's fate, physiognomy is just a kind of appearance, a basis for you to deduce fate, the first impression. You have that first impression, and then you can deduce the eight characters. Combined, it's much more accurate. To look at the eight characters of a woman's life, you must first look at the official star in the eight characters, to see whether her official star is pure or mixed, and the official star of a woman's life dominates the fate of most of her life. On women's lives, young adults should be the main line, because teenagers are under the care of their parents, and there is no need to discuss them, but she has to be self-reliant from the beginning of her youth, so the first ten gods who affect her fate are Guanxing. The prosperity and weakness of the official star are returned to Lu. Moaning, burial, pure, mixed, hurting. Chong Xing and Heke are all important factors that dominate the fate of women. The main basis and main position for inferring these numerology are the moon pillar and the sun pillar among the four pillars. The main inference is the Japanese branch, because the Japanese branch represents the husband. The ancients called it Fugong. The inference of the day branch is an important basis for characterizing a woman's marriage relationship, and the comprehensive information of the woman's husband is hidden under the sun, which is the theoretical basis for inferring the marriage and family of the woman's life. So how to deduce the fate of the woman's husband and the woman's own fate? This has to be looked at from several aspects.
One. Inference of the sun pillar yin and yang.
The female life pillar is masculine, masculine, and manly. On the female life of the sun pillar with the sun lord as me and the day branch as the husband. When reasoning, first look at the stem branch of the sun pillar, and use the stem branch as me to govern my husband, and the female life of this kind of sun pillar has the heart to dominate men. Such as the female life of Wuzi Risheng, Wutu Kezi Shui, this kind of female life of the Sun Pillar, the husband is the object of her control, once any man becomes her husband, then this life is like entering an invisible cage, even if he resists, it will be useless, as long as he does not get rid of this marriage, this invisible five-fingered mountain will always press him. Even if you have the skills of Sun Wukong, I am afraid that it will be difficult to escape. This is fate, and the theoretical and practical results of this fate cannot be believed. If the sun pillar is born in the trunk and branches, then she treats her husband most considerately and gently, and can synthesize the masculinity of men, form yin and yang complementarity, and live in harmony. For example, the female life of Jiazi is born, and the water is a flexible thing, and the natural warmth raises the wood. In other words, this kind of woman has a gentle personality and can tolerate each other and form one. This kind of fateful woman follows her husband's will all her life, caring and considerate of her husband. At the same time, under the love and care of your husband, you are a piece of treasure jade in your husband's hand, and he will always pay attention to you, for fear that you will fall to the ground and break. Generally speaking, for this family, the man is the core, and the man has the final say. This principle is also applicable to the inference of the relationship between husband and wife, and this numerology theory has a very wide range of practical application value in real life, providing a very practical theoretical basis for understanding the relationship between husband and wife and correctly viewing the relationship between husband and wife. The yin and yang of the stem and branch of the female life pillar are balanced, such as Bingwu, the stem and branch are all fire, and the fire is fierce. The male and female personalities are equally masculine, so only have they fought. The two yangs meet each other, attract and repel each other, and sweetness and contradiction go hand in hand. No one is to be outdone, and they complement each other, and the tribulations and sweetness of natural marriage coexist.
The female life pillar is gentle, and the feminine breath is strong. The female dependence of this kind of sun pillar is strong, like a bird relying on people. Such as decay, decay water soft, thin stream moist wood, this kind of fate of the man, you will be happy, she will raise you fat, as comfortable as a pig. If the sun pillars are born together, then the husband she is looking for knows how to cherish each other, can absorb the femininity of women, form yin and yang complementarity, and live in harmony. That is to say, a man's character can tolerate each other and form one. Generally speaking, most of the family's major and minor matters can be agreed upon, and there are few conflicts and conflicts. The same applies to men's lives. A fateful situation of the sun's pillars and branches, such as the female life born on the day of Ding Hai, the water of the sun in Haizhong, although the Keding fire is a love restraint, but the female life of this kind of fate cannot escape the suppression of her husband in her life. To make an inappropriate analogy, it is like a male and a female chicken, the hen's resistance is only before the rooster rides on his back, once the rooster rides on his back, the hen only has the ability to beat his wings a few times. When you see the fate of a sun pillar yin and yang balance, how to deduce it? For example, Ding Wei's female life, not in the Ding fire is comparable to the Japanese Lord, the two fires are naturally flames, but this kind of fire does not burn for a long time, the two fires meet, see each other late, hate to melt each other, but if two men and women with the same feminine character, or the same masculine personality live to everything, stand side by side, no one obeys anyone, friendly when it is like paint, it is too late to melt each other, once there is a big thing and a small love, two yin or two yang meet, mutual exclusion, contradiction and conflict is an inevitable trend, dark wars, do not give way to each other, can not form complementary, the natural marriage will be more tribulation. The pain of this kind of secret war is sometimes better than the open fight, and often the marriage is difficult to sustain, and there must be a wound.
2. The ten gods hidden in the earthly branches.
This is a much more complicated reasoning. Let's start with the official star sitting on the day, those who sit on the official star on the day, we must first check the position of the official in the zodiac, how the woman sits on the official day, and there is an official star when she sits, then it can be inferred that the husband of this woman must be an official person. If you are not in the position of the official in the 12th house, then as long as there is a positive wealth star under the sun and the moon, it will also be inferred from the husband of the official. If there is no positive wealth and a positive seal, his daughter will marry a prosperous husband, and his husband will be smart and virtuous. Women sit in the right place on the day of life, there are no seven killings, they are mostly decent, behave properly, can treat the relationship between husband and wife correctly, handle the feelings of husband and wife, and be able to sing and sing with their wives and grow old together. It is the nature of a magistrate to be impartial, law-abiding, and principled. Therefore, if a woman sits in the right office, the four pillars have no torture and injury, and there is no mixing of seven killings, and the fate of the lady is judged.
The female life sits on the seven kills, the seven killings are also known as partial officials, and the partial officials are more radical, enterprising, dare to do things, and act resolutely. Partial officials, strong, courageous, rich and beautiful, able to endure humiliation and burdens, responsible, willing to work hard, and adapt to a highly competitive society. If there is a god of food in the four pillars, it will be judged by the official. If there is no god of food in the four pillars, the evil star theory will be the main culprit. The seven killings must be fierce and unrestrained, and the behavior will collide without knowing the danger. This kind of character is a disaster for the husband, often because of the fierce personality and self-restraint, which brings irreparable disasters to his family. Therefore, when pushing a woman's life and jealousy of God, the seven killings are to some extent more fierce than the wounded officer's day. The wounded officer sits on the day of the Kefu, but in the modern society, the result of the wounded officer Kefu is mostly divorced, so as not to cut off people's lives. And the risk that the Seven Killings bring to the husband in some specific circumstances is a disaster.
The female life pillar sits on the right wealth, the rich person is diligent, lives carefully, frugally, decently, loves life, seeks wealth to obtain labor income, follows the rules, and legally obtains wealth. Therefore, the person who sits on the day of wealth is more virtuous and reasonable, and can follow the will of her husband and sing with her husband, so the woman who sits on the right fortune is more prosperous, and most of the families are rich after marriage, and the economic conditions are good.
The female life pillar sits on the wealth side, and when inferring the creation of wealth, the wealth is greater than the positive wealth, and the wealth is generous, amorous, and graceful. Sexual adventure, dare to do it, informal, strong will to invest and seek wealth, seek wealth is big, dare to take big risks, the rewards are naturally rich, and most of them are rich people. Wealthy women dominate with strong willpower and have a desire to suppress their husbands, unlike wealthy women's husbands who sing with their wives. Wealthy women have a strong ability to create wealth, and most of them are the breadwinners of the family. Therefore, it is inevitable that the wealthy woman will run the house. Generally speaking, it is difficult for a husband who is a rich woman to escape from the hands of his wife. (To be continued......)