Chapter 388: Fighting is communication

Yuan Shixiang turned around in surprise when she heard this, and immediately showed a smile when she saw that it was Xu Xiuxiu, and then glanced at Song Chenguang, who was bald in Lichen, and reached out and touched it heartily: "Chenguang is actually bald!" Did your mother force you to have a bald haircut? However, Chenguang Ricana's head is so cute and handsome. Pen, fun, pavilion www. biquge。 info" Yuan Shixiang praised Song Chenguang in a truthful tone before he raised his head, with the expression I expected you to come to me: "You are here because my stinky boy brought Chenguang into trouble!" ”

"Indeed." Xu Xiuxiu smiled and nodded.

"Xiuxiu, you are really good-tempered, if it weren't for the little demon king of my family, where would your Chenguang be so well-behaved to fight! You didn't even rush with me, I thought you came to tell me that my Shi Yu will not be allowed to play with your Chenguang again in the future! Yuan Shixiang has dealt with many parents because of Shi Yu, and some of them have a harmonious relationship at the beginning, but later after Shi Yu took well-behaved children to fight, the relationship between adults broke down instantly, causing the relationship between adults to be very embarrassing.

As soon as she heard that Shi Yu took Song Chenguang to fight today, she was a little worried, and she was mentally prepared, after all, Xu Xiuxiu was a mother who cared about her children very much, but at this moment, seeing Xu Xiuxiu smiling at her calmly, she knew that she had met a friend who was very attractive and could tell right from wrong this time.

"I know Shi Yu is a good boy, so I don't think I need to stop him from associating with Chenguang!" Xu Xiuxiu said her thoughts seriously, don't look at Shi Yu's kid who usually fights, but he and Chenguang are also noisy when they play at home, but Xu Xiuxiu can still see that Shi Yu's kid is good, but his temperament is a little stronger.

"I came to you to talk to you about how to deal with the morning, after all, Chenguang and Shi Yu made each other's five children cry, they have to apologize!"

"Don't you really think that it was my family Shi Yu who brought your Chenguang to ruin?" Yuan Shixiang didn't answer what Xu Xiuxiu said, but asked Xu Xiuxiu about the point of her worries in some surprise.

Xu Xiuxiu shook her head indifferently: "I don't think so." ”

Yuan Shixiang immediately breathed a sigh of relief when she saw this: "Xiuxiu, you can rest assured!" It's really nothing to fight between these children, I'm used to my Shi Yu's fights, and the children in the military academy are actually very resistant, and the parents are not so careful with their children, and even the girls are rough, besides, isn't it normal for these children to bump and bump into each other? Don't worry too much, when you bring Song Chenguang to the door to apologize in a while, just take my stinky boy with you by the way. "Yuan Shixiang has dealt with this kind of thing too much, and it has become a habit.

In the past, when Shi Yu fought for the first time, she was also very nervous, and seriously came to the door with gifts to apologize to people in person, but this time there were more times two or three times, and her heart to apologize had long been numb, so she still had Xu Xiuxiu, a person with a good temper and full of patience, plus Shi Yu and Song Chenguang were also good, she felt that she could comfortably throw the problem of her son's fight to Xu Xiuxiu in the future.

"Moreover, there are five people on the other side, that Qiu Tongbing is bigger than our two children, the key is that he still has four helpers, and he lost two of the five fights, this is to be calculated, the other party must also have that face! Where is this skill not as good as people, it is embarrassing to shout! I have to say that Yuan Shixiang and Song Yuanhuan have the same idea about children fighting, and Qiu Tongbing in Yuan Shixiang's mouth is the little fat man who was beaten.

"It's normal for children to fight, but many things don't just rely on fights to solve, children are still young, we have to remind them, instill in them the right thinking, it's not okay to fight all the time!" Xu Xiuxiu knew that Yuan Shixiang was free-range Shi Yu, but she didn't expect that this woman would be able to raise her son so far.

"Xiuxiu, don't worry! Both of our children are good. Yuan Shixiang has full trust in Shi Yu: "I know what kind of character Shi Yu is, so I give him full trust, your family Chenguang is the same, he is smart and sensible, don't think it's bad to fight, fighting between children is actually part of growing up, we parents give full trust, we just need to check it, besides, they don't beat people for no reason?" Yuan Shixiang didn't speak bitterly, just said what he thought.

"You see what is the reason why he is two against two enemies five today, it is because the little fat man owes his own mouth, so he two cleaned it up." Yuan Shixiang pointed out the key point: "You put yourself in your shoes, what would happen if we were verbally insulted?" We are adults, we know how to behave in the world, but we will also fight back, but we adults are used to reasoning, and the so-called gentleman does not move his mouth. But they are only children, they are only a few years old, do you expect them to be sensible enough to be wronged and reasonable? No, the way they reason is by fighting, and fighting is how children communicate with each other. ”

"There is no child in this world who doesn't fight, a child who is well-behaved and sensible will fight, and even if it is a fight, it doesn't matter, as long as they don't deliberately hit people, as long as they take advantage of it, I won't stop it, and I won't criticize them, because we insist on stopping it, that is, killing their nature, I don't want my children to be wronged and still have a nest." Yuan Shixiang said his thoughts simply and rudely.

In fact, she doesn't know how much she will have an accident if she is too indulgent to her children, but as an adult, you can't keep an eye on your child's every move all the time, and it is not necessarily the most appropriate way to educate children from fighting.

"Okay!" Xu Xiuxiu felt that she was persuaded by Yuan Shixiang's free-range policy.

She actually knew that Song Chenguang was a good boy, and she was also worried that he would learn badly, but Yuan Shixiang was so indifferent that she felt inexplicably that her worries might be unnecessary, she should believe in Song Chenguang, and believe that he already has the ability to distinguish between right and wrong.

"Then you're busy! I took Tatsumitsu home first. Thinking about it, Xu Xiuxiu planned to take Song Chenguang home.

"Well, be careful on your way." Yuan Shixiang nodded, and at the end of the day, he seemed to remember something, and said another word to Xu Xiuxiu's departing figure: "You can also ask Shi Yu how his father handles it, our family has already reached a consensus on the matter of managing children, and this matter is generally handled by Shi Yanting today." It seemed that Xu Xiuxiu was afraid that she would think she was too indifferent and forceful, so she said another word.

"Okay." Xu Xiuxiu walked with a step, but suddenly laughed when she heard the words. (To be continued.) )