Chapter 140 There is a human idea
In the modern era of big economy, the consequence of everything looking at money is that when reputation and money are tied together, reputation becomes extremely important, and after reputation becomes important, people become stubborn and do not admit their mistakes! Because this world is who if he bows his head, what he gets is not understanding, but the trampling of 10,000 feet that keep up, this situation is not close to relatives, and the closer the person, the more fierce the attack on the person who admits his mistake and admits defeat.
This is the normal state of the world, and in this normal state, those who can introspect themselves are regarded as diligent gentlemen, and a society with criticism and self-criticism as a broad demand is bound to be a deformed society.
Criticism is okay, self-criticism is also OK, but when the two are combined and done at the same time, it will not only produce confusion in the worldview, but also very easy to produce tyrannical emotions, so the school has taught children to learn to criticize and self-criticize, to know how to admit mistakes, it is a completely wrong education, and the story of Washington cutting down cherry trees is itself made up.
The real rule of survival in this world is to die and never admit mistakes.
Knowing mistakes must be corrected, but never admitting mistakes is the correct code of conduct!
Children who always admit their mistakes will be prone to habitual self-denial when they grow up, and this self-denial will hinder people's survival in this society.
And life is prone to all kinds of accidents, misfortunes, mistakes, don't always admit mistakes, take the responsibility for these inevitable or always probable things on your back, so that your whole body and mind are not healthy, not sunny!
So most of those positive and optimistic people are guys who ignore their mistakes and don't admit their mistakes.
And what is reputation?
A unified evaluation of a person's ability, creditworthiness, and sense of security.
When a person often admits mistakes and has the courage to take the initiative to admit mistakes, he will inevitably self-damage the value of these three, and it is different from the real harm questioned by others.
Therefore, the most important trick of a successful person with a full reputation is self-confidence, that is, not admitting defeat to death, and in turn, the essence of this sentence is to never admit mistakes!
Knowing your mistakes is great to improve, of course this is right, knowing your mistakes, quietly correcting them, but never admitting mistakes, whether it is to others or to yourself.
It boils down to one sentence: shameless stinky rascals!
Yes, this sentence proves that the reason why I am single is that I am too cautious in front of beautiful women, and always being humble is not the posture of a successful person, so I naturally can't attract the attention of the goddess!
This is the true meaning that men are not bad and women are not loved!
Shameless for your goals, move forward without admitting your mistakes!
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"Hey, what kind of book do you read so hard?!" After a long period of silence, Yoshiya Ikeda had to take the initiative to find a topic to chat with the eyes around him.
Kamiya Kiyoshi glanced at this guy who seemed to be shaking with a macho signal on every hair, and said boredly: "A book written by a guy named Huangliang Yito about dark successology is very interesting!" ”
"Successology? In my opinion, most of the examples listed by successful education are some of the history of brazen and shameless guys, and reading these books will turn you into an idiot who likes empty talk and is so ambitious! Yoshiya Ikeda said, throwing out his arguments in passing, waiting for the other party's rebuttal.
Kamiya Qing helplessly raised his eyes and said, "What you said makes sense." Then he stopped talking and went on reading!
Yoshiya Ikeda was choked by the guy's behavior in front of him, and he was inexplicably angry. My desire to communicate was stifled by the cold reaction of the other party!
How can it be repaired!!
The lobbying efforts of the Japanese martial arts team, led by Kanichi Ikeda, did not produce the desired results, but brought back a stomach full of ridicule.
The rise of one side will inevitably indicate that the market of the other side will be squeezed out. Either close your own market and entertain yourself, the rise and fall depends on whether your own market can survive, you want to open the market, and merge with the market leader, so that your own market may no longer be under your control.
So there is a third way, to keep your own market, or to close your own market, and then reach out to other markets to make money, so that you can not only keep your basic market, but also get a lot of extra money, so it seems that the benefits are there. But such a comfortable life will inevitably lead to a loss of fighting spirit and motivation.
This kind of model is always played by the Japanese, to the depths of their subconscious, to the point of complaining, to the point of taking it for granted, to the point that others don't want them to play like this, and they feel that others are bad people.
Therefore, Ikeda Kanichi and Hideki Kamiya felt humiliated, and after running around the mainland for a while, they began to work out how to protect their own basic market and share the profits of the mainland market.
After secretly talking to a few masters on the mainland, he found that he didn't seem to have any obvious suppressive power here, so he decided to use richer methods to solve this matter.
So when I came back to Japan for a while, a group of people met from time to time to see if they could inspire some inspiration, and then someone suggested that young people like to think cranky, so the inspiration is also the most abundant, and they should also be called to participate, so they brought their sons, who have no sons, to bring their daughters over to participate in the meeting.
Later, the one who brought his daughter felt that he had suffered a little bit, so he suggested that others also bring their daughters over and not their sons. After a few days of arguing over whether to bring a son or a daughter, the quarrel stopped after it was later confirmed that Ikeda had only a son, and that the illegitimate daughter was not his own.
Instead, Daddy is going to a meeting, and whoever wants to go will follow, and this time it will not be forced, but one thing is that the child who takes the initiative will have 10,000 yen pocket money.
As a result, the old men who have greatly improved the parent-child relationship have a meeting, and they are more energetic!
Because of the relationship between the only child, Ikeda Yoshiya comes to every meeting, although he has pocket money, but he is also very bored with this seemingly fruitless meeting, the most important thing is that the meeting is on the mountain, there is no Internet signal, and he is a little dizzy when he reads, and he has to come here for most of the day every week, and he is bored with part-time work, so he has quickly developed a problem of chatterboxing during this period of time.
Kiyoshi Kamiya got this opportunity after drawing lots with the other four siblings in the family, and he didn't think that the time on the mountain was so difficult to read. On the contrary, he liked the quiet environment here very much, and gave him a new understanding of the wisdom in the book. The premise is that which of the talking golden retrievers here can be quiet!
"As a descendant of a martial artist, how can you devote yourself to such a boring and mind-corrupting knowledge?" Yoshiya Ikeda issued a firm question.
Kamiya Xiu helplessly raised his eyes, and said in his heart, don't pretend to be traditional and good if you have a yellow hair, but after comparing the size gap between each other, he decided to say it tactfully: "What is too difficult for martial artists, I am inspirational to enter politics!" ”
"Nani? Politics?! What's the difference between you and being a comedian? Yoshiya Ikeda asked rhetorically.
Kamiya Shu grabbed his hair and thought for a while and said, "I think the difference is that you don't need to be praised to perform well, which is difficult!" ”
The two made popular jokes about politicians, but they felt that they had a much better relationship with each other.
At this time, a young man ran back quickly and shouted to everyone, "Come on, everyone, Miss Hiroshimi is here." ”
The other teenagers quickly ran out, and for the teenagers, Sister Macro Xue Nai is everyone's favorite.
Yoshiya Ikeda originally wanted to follow the trend, but when he looked back, he found that Kiyoshi Kamiya, a beautiful boy, was still there and hadn't left, and after thinking about it, it was a bit too frivolous for him to chase stars like this! He stopped, endured the heart of running together, and pretended to walk back calmly.
I can restrain the idea of chasing stars, and I have really matured!
Boasting so much, he saw Master Matsumoto from Aikido walking out of the courtyard.
"Yo, boys, have you ever enjoyed the scenery here?" It is a fixed and forcibly pretended Matsumoto-style greeting method again.
"Yes, Master Matsumoto." The two of them replied respectfully.
"Huh? Qing: Are you reading? Sure enough, it's a child who loves to learn, can you let me see it? Before Kamiya Kiyoshi could react, the book in his hand was held by Master Matsumoto.
"Well, that's the way it is, the idea here...... Sure enough, there are a lot of talents in the mainland, which makes people's brains open, oops, I have inspiration! With that, Master Matsumoto threw down the book and rushed back to the auditorium like a whirlwind.