Lili's mother said: "What's the use of just having money? I don't have a town hukou, I don't have a formal job, and I always feel unstable. ”

Ding Hongxing shook his head secretly, people in this era always don't think much of people who make money in business, in their eyes, a stable formal job is much more important than those, no matter how rich they are, they are just self-employed. Of course, such values are not advisable with the values of pure money worship later, and people should be more comprehensive.

At this time, Ding Hongxing still had to try to persuade Lili's mother, and he said to Lili's mother: "Uncle, you are all old ideas, the country now encourages some people to get rich first, even if they are self-employed, as long as they can create zào wealth, it is also glorious." Besides, isn't it unstable to work now? You just say workers, isn't it the most honorable job? But how many workers have been laid off now? Even if it is a cadre, how many cadres have resigned and gone to sea in recent years? This shows that being a cadre is not necessarily good. ”

What Ding Hongxing said is also the actual situation at the moment, Lili's mother usually can't see it, she has been nodding, but when she listened to Ding Hongxing's last sentence, she turned her head to look at Gong Jingtian, Gong Jingtian couldn't cry or laugh, Ding Hongxing said that being a cadre is not necessarily good, what are you looking at me, but he doesn't have a temper, he is a cadre, the level is not low, but it really didn't bring much benefit to the family.

Ding Hongxing pointed at Shen Fucai again and said: "Uncle, look at my brother Fucai, although he has a rural household registration, what is the difference between this white and pure person and the people in the city?" ”

Lili's mother looked at Shen Fucai carefully, Hongxing said it was not bad, although Shen Fucai is a rural person, but he has never done farm work, and he has been guarding the store in the stamp store in the past few months, and he has never sunbathed in the sun, so his skin is very fair, and his facial features are also very delicate.

Ding Hongxing looked at his face, and saw that Lili's mother's expression was not so strict, and he was secretly happy in his heart, he continued: "Speaking of cultural level, Brother Fucai is also a high school graduate, usually studies well, but he didn't play well in the college entrance examination, and he didn't get admitted to college by about ten points, but he is also quite fond of learning and quite motivated; His legs and feet are indeed a little inflexible, caused by the sequelae of polio, but they are not too strict, as long as they are not walking, they are not very visible; He is also an honest man and very filial, and he will not only be good to Sister Lili in the future, but also to you and Uncle Gong. Finally, let's talk about Brother Fucai's family, his family was indeed quite poor, but since the beginning of this year, his family has started to raise fish, which can be regarded as a professional fish farming household, how profitable the professional fish farming household has been in recent years, Uncle Gong should know, doesn't he have relatives who are also professional fish farming households? ”

Gong Jingtian nodded again and again, he did have a relative who was a professional fish farmer, and after raising fish for a year, his family built three large tiled houses.

Lili's mother's face was cloudy, obviously she was a little tempted, but she couldn't make up her mind in her heart, she was struggling, Ding Hongxing stopped talking, Shen Fucai looked at Lili's mother nervously, he knew that whether he could be happy or not depended on her decision.

Ding Yuejin and his wife were also very nervous, they also looked at Lili's mother nervously, of course they also hoped that she could change her mind.

Gong Jingtian has no prejudice against Shen Fucai, he himself comes from the countryside, and he doesn't think that people in the city are higher than people in the countryside, and he also likes Shen Fucai, a motivated child, Shen Fucai takes care of the stamp store prosperously, he is a capable person, and he also believes that his future will be better.

Of course, he also had some hesitation, that is, Shen Fucai's legs and feet were inconvenient, it can be said that this was the only thing he was dissatisfied with Shen Fucai, and he also wanted to see how much Shen Fucai loved his daughter, so he didn't speak and kept watching.

Seeing Ding Hongxing trying to convince his wife, in fact, he also hoped that Ding Hongxing could convince himself, and after listening to Ding Hongxing's words, he admitted that he had basically been persuaded by Ding Hongxing.

Lili's mother thought for a long time, and then stretched out two fingers to Ding Hongxing and said: "It's okay if you want me to agree to the two of them to engage in a partner, but I have two conditions, the first is that Fucai must solve the urban household registration; The second is that he must live in the city. ”

Everyone looked at each other, the two conditions seemed to be not much, and they seemed to be very simple, but these two conditions were as difficult as the sky at that time, and they were not simpler than the later mother-in-law who asked for a luxury car diamond ring.

After the founding of the People's Republic of China, there was a deep gap between the rural people and the urban people, and if the rural people wanted to solve the problem of urban household registration, they either had to be admitted to a university or a technical secondary school, or they had to be recruited as regular workers by state organs or state-owned enterprises, or they had to have connections.

Shen Fucai was not admitted to the university, due to his physical problems and no background, there is no hope of being recruited, and if you want to solve the problem of this town's household registration, how easy it is to talk about it!

The second one, let him live in the city, in fact, Lili's mother asked him to buy a house in a vague way, she really didn't want her daughter to marry into the countryside and suffer that kind of suffering. Although the economic conditions of the Gong family may not be very good, but both of them are on a salary, and they are better than a stable dìng, and they have not let their daughter suffer for so many years, how can she bear to let her daughter suffer after marriage?

In recent years, there have been commercial houses sold, and the price is not expensive, two or three hundred yuan per square meter, and it is about 20,000 yuan to buy a set of seventy or eighty square meters of commercial housing, but 20,000 yuan was also astronomical at that time.

Speaking of which, Lili's mother These two conditions are understandable for a mother, after all, she has to think about her daughter, but these two conditions are indeed a bit too high for Shen Fucai.

Gong Jingtian frowned and said, "Lili's mother, are your two conditions too much?" ”

At this time, the door of the back room opened, Gong Lili ran out of the back room crying, she said to her mother: "Mom, I really love Fu Cai, I like him, he is also good to me, you can fulfill us!" ”

Lili's mother said to her: "Child, don't blame your mother for being hard-hearted, your mother is doing this for your good." Two people are engaged in objects, not children playing house, it is a major event in a lifetime, if you don't do it well, you will suffer for a lifetime. Anyway, I'm going to leave it here today, just these two conditions, if he can't meet these two conditions, I won't agree to this matter! By the way, these two conditions must be met as soon as possible, if you wait for three or five years, ten years and eight years, my girl can't wait, and then she will become an old girl! ”