1

If Liu Tao is asked to evaluate the relationship between the two friends, it will probably be that I have never seen such a boring and naïve couple in more than 30 years of life.

He Zhang is responsible for childishness, and Jiang Qi is responsible for boredom.

The former fell in love for the first time, and he couldn't wait to pile up all the good and beautiful things in front of his girlfriend, and wanted to go through all the routines in the romance, while the latter knew all the routines, but there were few roots, no tricks to win, and they flirted with each other, and they didn't go further except hugging and kissing.

He Zhang was not in a hurry, Jiang Qi didn't want him to take his time.

In this regard, she is a very assertive person, and it is strange to have a relationship for three months without doing it, or bullshit rules such as having a round house after marriage, she has never thought about it, she just thinks that she will do it when she feels it, and she will have a condom in her wallet at any time and take sufficient safety measures. He Zhang didn't mention it, and she didn't take the initiative to ask for it.

So to the point of talking about marriage, the two are still in love and stop at the relationship of etiquette.

And the reason why it comes to marriage is also a very strange reason.

2

Sprinkle pepper on Jianghu vegetables.

Jiang Qi loves this restaurant the most, He Zhang accompanied her to eat, just ordered cold cucumber and rice, and saw that his girlfriend was sweating and her cheeks were red, and she was full. She was working on a pot of frog meat floating in a crimson liquid when his phone rang.

She raised her eyebrows and glanced at him, and He Zhang gestured to her and answered the phone: "Hey? Xiao Yu? ”

"Well, what's the matter, I'm having dinner with your sister-in-law."

"Oh, you tell her that if she does this again, I won't be going home for the New Year this year. Don't be nervous, after I rejected the blind date she arranged for me, I began to cut my wrists every week and hang myself once a month to protest my unfilial piety, which is a periodic clamor for suicide. ”

"How can I still be so calm? Just look at her wrists and neck, whiter and tenderer than me. If she bothers you again, you can come to S City and live with me...... What the!? Are you living with Yu Xianzhong? Well done, he didn't bully you, did he? ”

After hanging up the phone, Jiang Qi asked curiously, "What happened?" ”

"My mom hanged herself."

……？？？

Jiang Qi grabbed the straw and looked at him in confusion.

"It's okay, this is her entertainment, it's uncomfortable, she wants me to get married all day long, I'm still so young, get a yarn."

Jiang Qi took a sip of mint lemonade: "You're thirty this year, aren't you?" ”

He Zhang immediately looked like a cat with its tail stepped on: "A man will always be a teenager if he doesn't die!" ”

"Okay, good, young man is young," Jiang Qishun Mao: "Good, but do you want to get married?" ”

Marriage is a serious issue.

It's serious, and divorce is too much trouble.

She doesn't resist getting married, in terms of psychological age, she is much better than He Zhang, she likes to fight on the battlefield in her career, but she is relatively indifferent in love, perhaps because of her father's relationship, she doesn't yearn for the family. Mother Jiang didn't say anything, but she knew that she wanted to see herself in a wedding dress.

If Jiang's mother said it, Jiang Qi might go to the photo studio to take half a dozen wedding photos to satisfy her mother, but she would not consider getting married.

She didn't say it, she thought for herself.

He Zhang's opinion is the same as hers: "In addition to not living together, our current mode of getting along is no different from getting married, right?" Even if we get married, we may not live together until we have children. Start a family...... I'm not very prepared...... Ahem, but I actually want to. At the end of the day, he was a little embarrassed.

She wondered, "Why?" ”

"Although I can't keep you if you want a divorce, isn't it romantic to 'in good times and bad, rich or poor, healthy or sick, happy or sorrowful......?"

Saying that, He Zhang looked away, quite empty-hearted: "I'm just talking, don't laugh at me." ”

Jiang Qi will never make fun of someone who really likes him.

She lowered her eyes and said softly, "Then let's talk about marriage." ”

3

That night, Jiang Qi consulted friends and family separately.

This is also a wonderful phenomenon, just like honoring parents, many people will be disgusted with their parents and siblings sucking their own blood, and threaten to never care about that kind of family. But when parents and relatives are unwilling to accept their own care, they only hope that the juniors will live well, and in turn be considerate and helpful, even if they are children, they must stuff money into the hands of their parents.

Her friends and relatives are more sensible and can give effective advice, so she doesn't mind asking more questions.

Yu Tong was surprised: "You can actually take the initiative to think of getting married?" Not bad, kudos to you. ”

“…… What kind of image am I in your mind? ”

Jiang Qi asked Cangtian speechlessly.

"The two of you have been dating for several years, you have the financial ability in the same city and don't need to wait to buy a house, the love long-distance run and so on are all down payments, there is no problem for the two of you to buy another set in full, and you can get married early in case you can't get through it."

Others may feel that they don't like it, but with the friendship between the two, Jiang Qi feels that she is very reasonable.

With her current income class, second marriage or first marriage, she doesn't deal with this kind of problem, and she will no longer become a person who shakes her value It doesn't matter if she gets married or not, whether she is born depends on her mood and preparation, she will not essentially choose a man who looks down on others because of her emotional experience as a partner, what about it, hard work to block herself?

Just like some people whose marriages are already in ruins, they don't divorce just because they can't afford to leave.

Yu Tong added: "Now for you, whether you get married or not has little impact, and the quality of life has reached a level that you are satisfied with, so how happy you can come, you can get married if you want." ”

"You write a lot of emotional Weibo, and now you can fool people more than me."

"You're welcome."

@情感树洞董小姐这个微博俨然已成为情感咨询界的第一人, Jiang Qi felt that it was better to be cautious in this kind of life event, and at that time, he and Yu Tong thought it was feasible. So she went to study for a degree in social work, and when she received counseling on domestic violence, sexual assault or marriage fraud, she was able to give more useful and practical advice, and if necessary, give some assistance.

Consultation sounds simple, and you can enjoy popularity by talking nonsense and commenting a few words, but if someone really listens to your suggestion and something happens, even if you don't pursue it, you will feel uncomfortable.

There are so many ways to make money, and I'd rather go the extra mile to have fun.

Sometimes Jiang Qi will also reflect, maybe Mr. Barra is right, a person with a character like her is not suitable for making a lot of money at all, and it is simply against the sky to get to this point.

After the two had already exchanged opinions, KC, who had been thinking hard for a long time, said: "Xiao Jiang, you're getting married, what about you?" ”

"If there are no accidents, it's just a matter of the past few years."

She felt lost: "You're all getting married, but I haven't ...... yet"

To this day, KC still hasn't figured out whether he likes men or women, let alone relationships.

There are so many fans who want to marry her that they can crowd the whole [Bai He Siwei], and they are not interested in flowers, so they are treated as company welfare, and the windowsill is filled with a good-looking glass vase, and the sunlight shines in, which is particularly beautiful, and there is a faint fragrance when it is close, which enhances the happiness of employees at work.

It's the same on Valentine's Day every year, the average girl receives a bunch of roses and has a lot of face, and the female employees of other companies may secretly be more energetic, but Bai He has no such problem at all, no matter how much he collects one by one, does KC collect more? No matter how many times I persuaded it, I couldn't persuade it not to waste money.

KC was very embarrassed, so he posted a selfie of all the flowers sent to Weibo, asking everyone not to send it, but as soon as the group photo came out, fans found that it could really reach the idol, so they sent it more energetically.

Even the hot rookie anchors in the same period or recently, regardless of men and women, are not as popular as her.

What makes men in the anchor industry silent and women cry the most is that every year when evaluating anchors, as long as they are gender-separated, the female column will be slaughtered by KC who looks completely no different from handsome men, and she doesn't like to make good photos, and the award-winning photos handed in by others are either beautiful or half-exposed, she is good, and every time she takes black powder, she smiles with black powder.

Beautiful, capricious.

KC quickly became happy again: "By the way, Xiao Jiang, I'll be your best man then?" ”

"Yes."

So it was settled, like talking about a trip that was about to go, one by one, if the economic level allows, marriage will save a lot of trouble, and the RV does not need to be ripped off, plus the two have no traditional concepts, and they have talked to each other to save all unnecessary bride price customs, I don't think you sell yourself, and you don't think I'm buying a daughter-in-law, but just work together to further affirm the relationship.

Jiang Qi consulted He Zhang's opinion on living with his elders, he would not live with his parents, but his mother-in-law was casual: "When the time comes, the house will be bigger, and we will not interfere with each other." ”

If you have confidence in your partner's double business and can handle the family relationship well, you can save a lot of earning attachments.

There is no need to ask for absolute fairness in marriage, it is more about looking at personal needs and seeing through the appearance, which in the final analysis means whether you can respect each other and whether the three views are in line with or not.

The bottom line of the two is that the elders cannot affect their personal privacy and life, Jiang Qi muttered: "My mother is not in charge, just live closer to her, so that I can take care of her." ”

Unlike the He family, Jiang's mother is only one person, and she doesn't have the idea of looking for a second spring, if there is one, she strongly supports it, even if she raises a little white face, it doesn't matter, she can afford it, and she should add some joy to life: "Then buy another place in the community of the marriage house for your aunt, and rent it out where you live now?" ”

S city limited purchase, into the S city can only buy two sets, married two people as a person, naturally it is cost-effective to buy before marriage.

Jiang Qi now has two properties under his name, one for investment and one for self-occupation back then, and the quota is full.

At this time, when it came to marriage, she bought two more houses in Jiang's mother's name, and asked her to collect rent when she was happy, so as to find something to pass the time and give her mother a sense of security.

Other people's property is protected to death, the rich party wants to protect their own property, and the high climber wants to dig up some subsidies, but these two people talk about property like talking about equipment in a game.

After listening to her thoughts, He Zhang: "Cheng, do you have enough hot money in your hands?" Not enough to swipe my card. ”

“……”

Jiang Qi found that he had a good innocence and was not pretentious...... The point is on a boyfriend who is stupid and has a lot of money.

No, it's a fiancé now.