485 Asking for a son
The anti-theft chapter will be replaced by 8 a.m. tomorrow
My eyelids have been jumping for the past few days, and I don't know if it's because I haven't had a good rest lately or something else. Pen @ fun @ pavilion wWw. biqUgE。 info thought, tomorrow is the Mid-Autumn Festival, I want to take a Meijia Qingyuan Village to see. But when we went to the ceremony together, the family had no money, and I felt a little uncomfortable.
At night, after I coaxed my third daughter and eldest daughter and second daughter to go upstairs to sleep together, I had to coax Yimei again. Yimei couldn't sleep well for several nights in a row, and she kept dreaming at night, thinking that her current child, who will turn eight months old tomorrow, is a son.
Son, isn't it a dream of mine?
I also want a son, and even every time Yimei is pregnant, my mother will go to Kehong Township to find Daxian fortune telling. gave birth to three daughters, and my mother went to count three times, except for the first time, the first time I said that it was a son, and the result was that all daughters were born.
This one, but the fourth, in order to prove that the baby in Yimei's belly must be a son, my mother actually found three immortals, and all of them said that they were sons. Even the women in the village who have given birth to several women say that Yimei's pregnancy is like a son.
As a result, I also dreamed at night, and I dreamed that my first child was sent away by my mother and Yimei just after birth, and the reason was because she was a daughter.
I was suddenly awakened, and before the sweat on my forehead was wiped off, I heard Yimei cry out in pain, saying that her stomach hurts. As soon as I got dressed and was about to go out to call my mother and midwife, Yimei screamed: "It's out, it's born, it's born." ”
Her words really scared me.
I just shouted pain just now, and I was born?
The child is now exactly eight months old...... Premature, said that the stomach hurt to the point that it was only a few minutes to give birth.
Before I could react, Yimei picked up the child by herself, and suddenly cried: "Why is it a daughter again?" Why is it a money-losing goods again? I was stunned for a few more seconds, looking at the puddle of dirty goods under Yimei and the fourth daughter who was like a little mouse in her hand, I came back to my senses and found scissors to disinfect it with boiling water, cut off the umbilical cord connected to the navel, and applied the medicine that had been prepared a long time ago.
Yimei only cared about crying, and I found someone to wrap the quilt used by the third daughter. It just so happened that my eldest daughter also woke up, and I asked her to go to the kitchen to wash water.
I already have three daughters who let me practice my hands, and I don't know if these four daughters are because I cut the umbilical cord by hand, and I am unexpectedly close to her. A...... It's hard to put into words, and none of my previous three daughters have given me this feeling.
In that moment, I suddenly understood how good brother Xie Changsong felt when he first saw his son. It was the connection between the blood and the blood, and it was so intimate that I could tell at a glance that she was my daughter.
Although I also regret it in my heart, the fourth child is not a son.
"Don't cry, it's good to be a daughter, really, Yimei I like her very much. Don't cry anymore, you're about to go to confinement just after giving birth, and crying is not good for your eyes and your health. Come, I'll help you change your clothes, and change your bed sheets. ”
I comforted Yimei, who had been crying for most of the day, changed the sheets and her clothes, cleaned the fourth daughter, and instructed the three daughters to take care of Yimei and the fourth daughter before going out to report the good news.
I walked to my parents first, but when my father heard that Yimei had given birth to another daughter, he frowned and lit a hookah without saying anything, not even giving a profit to his fourth daughter. Mom's reaction was a little bigger, but I didn't want to listen to it.
", why did you give birth to a money-losing product? Or a premature baby? The immortals all said that they were sons, how did they become daughters? Xiaoqiang, don't lie to me, no, I have to go over with your father to have a look, how can it be a daughter? How can it be a money-losing goods?
Daisen said that if it was a daughter who was born at this time, it must be a broom star...... "I didn't stand there and listen to my mother's scolding, I felt uncomfortable listening to it." I didn't care if they went to see the children at home or not, I just ran to Qingyuan Village to report the good news according to my own wishes.
At the end of the day, among the people who knew him, except for Xie Changsong, a good brother, and a few brothers in the village, no one else congratulated me.
I feel sorry for my fourth daughter, and when I got home at noon, my mother was still in my house, scolding Yimei. It's still those ugly words, saying that my fourth daughter is a loser or something like that. I kicked my mother out, but fortunately I saw my three daughters and liked my fourth daughter very much.
Fortunately, the children at home love her.
It's just that what I didn't expect was that my fourth daughter was sick on the first night of birth, and she had a fever, so scared that I rushed to my dad with my arms. My parents were frightened by the knock on the door in the middle of the night, and when they opened the door, they saw me coming to them with their newborn daughter in their arms, and I will remember their ugly faces for the rest of my life.
Fortunately, Dad, a barefoot doctor, has good medical skills, and he got some Chinese medicine that babies can eat and dripped it into his daughter, and the fever subsided not long after. I thought it was just Yimei not taking care of it, but later I learned that this was just the beginning.
Three months after the birth of the fourth daughter, she fell ill with fever seven or eight times, and almost didn't wake up twice. This makes me very worried, of course, I pay more attention to the fourth daughter than the previous three daughters, and part of the reason for this is that Yimei doesn't like the fourth daughter.
After feeding milk for a month, I didn't feed it, I just gave some rice cereal every day, and I saw that the fourth daughter occasionally scolded a few words, and after I said it a few times, Yimei didn't scold in front of me again. But all three daughters have told me that Yimei really doesn't like the fourth daughter.
I can't help but think, Yimei herself is a woman, and she has already given birth to three daughters, why do you hate her fourth daughter so much?
I understand that many people have such thoughts about patriarchy, but Yimei is a little chilled by her daughter who is only three months old.
However, I can't help Yimei's dislike of the fourth daughter.
The three daughters in front, in addition to the eldest daughter, who was raised by her own hands, the second daughter, the third daughter, and most of them were brought by me and the eldest daughter. Thinking that the three daughters can take the fourth daughter well, I won't care about Yimei.
As for the reason...... Actually, she and I are very clear.
I haven't loved her since I got married, I'm just living my life, who let her calculate me in the first place? But when I think I'm a man and I'm responsible for her, and she's centered on me, I don't care.
However, he began to get bored with Yimei, all years ago, she discussed with my mother to send her fourth daughter out, which is what I really hated her. During that time, I went out to work and came back late or had to be busy for a few days.
Yimei and my mother were optimistic that I would come back late that day, so they actually contacted the person who adopted the fourth daughter without telling me in advance. Both of them had said before they wanted to send their fourth daughter away in front of me, but I refused. I thought they understood me and wouldn't think about anything else.
As a result, they didn't listen to it at all, and sent their fourth daughter away directly.
When I came back, I saw my three daughters crying, and I rushed to the house where Yimei often went to play mahjong, and found Yimei to ask angrily, and she said it. When I was really sure that my daughter had been sent away, I was angry but I didn't dare to think about it, so I borrowed my bicycle and chased after Yimei where she said.
Yimei said that it was a small road, and I have been riding desperately. It took six hours to get out of Yuyun Township and then to Kehong Township, but it only took me three hours to catch up, and I was handing over a couple who were carrying my fourth daughter down from the bus.
The couple refused to admit that the daughter was mine, and called a group of people to beat me.
Xie Changsong and I have fought before, although people who know me say that I am a Sven person, the kind who can only read. With a brother like Xie Changsong, how could I not fight, even if there were many of them?
I fought seven people alone, and finally beat them to beg their father to tell their mother, yes, the couple who raised my four daughters really asked me to go to their village chief to reason with me. Because it was their village chief who pulled the strings, they also gave my mother and Yimei some money.
I was so angry that I wanted to beat my mother and Yimei severely, but in the end I held back, the village chief was still good at talking, I gave twice the money to the couple, and I took back the fourth daughter. I tied the rope that my fourth daughter had bought on the side of the road to my chest and slowly cycled back to Lingu Village.
After the fight, I didn't feel hurt until I got my daughter back.
But when I took my daughter in my arms and rode home, I realized that I had suffered a lot of injuries.
I rode much slower all the way home, and I found an acquaintance to stay for the night.
I was so tired that my daughter was so hungry that she cried.
On the way back to Lingu Village, I thought that my Lu Qiang was really destined to have no son in his life, so I would raise my fourth daughter as a son.
Four daughters, there is nothing wrong with letting the four daughters stay at home and recruit a son-in-law.
Thinking about it like this, the more I look at my fourth daughter, the more I like it, and when I talk to her on the way, she smiles. When I arrived in Lingu Village, I met Lu Sancai and asked him to help me call several elders of our Lu family, as well as my father, to the Lu family ancestral hall.
They were all surprised when they arrived, especially after listening to my suggestion, and the eyes of me changed.
"Xiaoqiang, do you know that this is nonsense? Our Lu family doesn't have such rules, let our daughter go to the family tree, I think you're talking about a dream, right? "This is what my own father said, so many uncles are here, and my father is really the first person to stand up and say against it.
I know that my parents have liked me since I was a child, but after I insisted on marrying Zhang Yimei, they looked down on me in all kinds of ways, and the same was true for Zhang Yimei and her three daughters.
Now I'm going to give my fourth daughter a family tree, which is indeed unruly, and has never been. Those who raise their daughters as sons are just raising their daughters, recruiting sons-in-law to give birth to sons with the surname Lu, and then letting the son surnamed Lu go on the family tree.
I don't want to, I really want to raise my fourth daughter as a son who didn't give up, then she must be on the family tree, and her name must be the same as her son's name.
I said a lot of things, but my father didn't agree, and my uncles didn't agree very much.
I thought about it and knelt down directly: "I have already given birth to three daughters, this is the fourth daughter, raise her as a son, I will definitely be able to teach her as a teacher, more proud than those sons in Lingu Village, no worse than any real boy." ”
I said all this, but my father scolded me with his old saying, saying that the fourth daughter was a premature baby, frail and sickly, and even if I was on the family tree, I might not be able to raise it. Also, having four daughters and no sons, I can have another child.
But I don't want to give birth, and I don't want to give up my fourth daughter, I can't help it, I feel distressed.
The three daughters in front of me have never had such thoughts.
Three daughters, I have thought about giving one to others to raise before, but I have not been like today's fourth daughter, I will feel distressed and uncomfortable. I know that the feelings of my fourth daughter and my third daughter are different. None of my three daughters were delivered by me, nor did I cut the umbilical cord.
I used to say to the old people that if a man delivers his own child by hand, the relationship with the child must be better than the relationship between the husband (wife) in the future. It's like a life-threatening kind, I guess that's how it feels.
In the end, the last uncle in the family helped me, and also helped my fourth daughter take the name of the boy generation that only our Lu family's sons can use, Qinghe!
Lu Qinghe is my son!
Since then, I have been taking care of Qinghe all the time every day, except for not being able to take her with me when I go out to work, as long as I am free, I will hold her, go to pick vegetables, go to fetch water, I will hold her.
There are still many people in Lingu Village who gossip about me, saying that I am so attentive to a money-losing goods, and I will definitely get nothing if I marry in the future. Because too many people don't believe it, my daughter will listen to me and stay in Lingu Village to recruit a son-in-law.
No one will believe that I can raise my Qinghe.
One-year-old, two-year-old, three-year-old, all the way up to four-year-old.
In the past four years, my Qinghe has been suffering from minor illnesses and occasional serious illnesses, but in any case, the Chinese medicine that my father helped me get has taken care of my Qinghe, and my health is getting better and better. Everyone went to the village chief's house to send the children to kindergarten, and I also sent Qinghe over.
But it's only been a week since it was sent, and the entire Lingu Village knows that my Qinghe is a fool and an idiot. I didn't understand it at first, but then the toddler's Xiaolu teacher came to my house to refund the tuition, and I learned that my Qinghe couldn't learn pinyin.
I really thought it was because my Qinghe was still young, but four-year-old Qinghe told me that it wasn't. She just can't learn it, but she knows all the numbers that Teacher Xiaolu teaches. Qinghe, who is only four years old, can count from one to a hundred, and can also do some simple addition and subtraction, and even the poems taught to her by her eldest daughters, she can recite them once after listening to them.
I can see that my Qinghe is a smart child, how can he be an idiot? Is it stupid?
If Mr. Koji doesn't want to teach, I'll teach it myself.
This is my future son, who will take the teacher exam in the future, and will be a teacher, how can it be like this?
I don't like Qinghe when others scold me, I still take her with me everywhere, but wherever I go, I will help her with a branch and a bag of sand. As soon as I have time, I will teach her to memorize 300 Tang poems, Song Ci, and Sanzijing. And writing.