12.chapter 12 I'm in a bad mood

The couple looked at each other, their eyes full of doubt, not knowing where to start, or if they were embarrassed by outsiders.

From their demeanor, Yin Beiwang seemed to have insight into what they were thinking, and continued: "You can have a face-to-face discussion, just like talking at home. ”

After the woman and her husband glanced at each other, the woman spoke first: "Why did you let that surnamed Li owe money yesterday?" ”

As soon as the husband heard this, his face changed: "Why can't you owe it first?" It's not the first time he's come to us to wholesale snacks. ”

The woman was angry: "Yes, it's not the first time, it's the second time, he's not an acquaintance, what if he doesn't give it in the end?" Tens of thousands! What's the use of you just having an IOU? ”

Yin Beiwang watched the couple quarrel over their family's business, and learned from their conversation that the couple was engaged in snack wholesale, and had a dispute because of a stranger's debts.

The woman and her husband have been arguing, the woman has been talking about the child, and the husband can't say anything, pursing his lips and clenching his fists.

The woman saw the change in her husband's feelings, and immediately turned her head to Yin Beiwang and said, "Doctor Yin, you see that he is like this, he will drop things when he is angry, I am really fed up." ”

Yin Beiwang observed the changes in her husband's demeanor, her pupils dilated, her chest rose and fell violently, and she was obviously in a state of anger and depression.

The couple's problem is obvious, when the husband and his wife have a verbal altercation, because the wife has always been reasonable, while the husband is in a state of language deprivation. When in an awkward stressful situation, the act of throwing objects is used to reduce tension, but the behavior may be motivated by motives that are not within the scope of consciousness.

When people are deprived, they become irrational, they regain the childish mentality of children, and they throw things in order to win the "war" so that their wives can shut up. It's like a child lying on the ground crying in a shopping mall to get a toy. Human beings can often compare the behavior of a deformed child to the behavior of a child, because the deformed behavior of a deformed behavior is guided by immature thinking.

Yin Beiwang pointed out the problems between them, and asked the wife not to speak so strongly with her husband in the future, trying to point out her husband's mistakes in tactful and gentle language, and not to sharpen the contradictions.

By the time the couple finished their counseling, Nanxi had been waiting outside for nearly two hours, and she was almost full of water.

Yin Beiwang didn't expect Nanxi to come to his place of work, and after seeing off the couple, he came to Nanxi's side and asked, "When did you come?" ”

Nanxi didn't answer him, tilted his head, looked at him in a white coat pitifully, and asked, "I'm dying of hunger, you should be okay now, right?" ”

Didn't eat? Yin Beiwang's eyes were heavy, he raised his wrist and looked at the time, seven fifty-five.

"Wait a minute." As he walked, he took off his white coat, went back to the office to change into a black blazer, and asked the intern to check whether the window was turned off before closing the door.

There is a place to eat downstairs, after ordering, Nanxi eats the free dim sum provided by the restaurant, she is so hungry that she must eat something.

Yin Beiwang watched her keep eating snacks and frowned, do you still want to eat? !

In Nanxi's eyes, there is no difference between dim sum and rice, both are foods that can be filled, but at this time she seems to have forgotten about losing weight.

However, Yin Beiwang can still kindly remind, "You eat dim sum like this, how long do you have to run today to burn these calories." ”

As a result, Nanxi couldn't swallow the biscuits she took a bite of, and about two-thirds of the plate of dim sum went into her stomach.

Oh my! I actually forgot that I was losing weight, Nanxi tears.

Silent and difficult to chew the snack in his mouth a few times into his stomach, at this time finally understood the feeling of "breaking his teeth and swallowing in his stomach", and his pain was best experienced by himself.

I have been struggling with weight loss in my heart, and I didn't notice that Yin Beiwang had been looking at her, and when she realized it, she found that he leaned over and wiped her mouth with a tissue, and his movements were gentle, so that Nanxi was very skeptical that he could wipe it clean like this.

Looking at him so close to him, looking into his eyes, seeing two little selves in his black and shiny eyes, at a certain moment, the brain seemed to forget to turn, in a state of emptiness, and the guide was still dizzy when eating.

On the way home, Nanxi was still immersed in the picture of him wiping his mouth.

Yin Beiwang didn't know, and at this time he said coldly: "I told you before that my working hours are unstable, and I don't know when it will end, today the couple has no big problem, it is easy to solve, and if you do something else, it will be possible to end at ten o'clock." ”

These words pulled Nanxi out of the fairy tale world, and his face became not very good, so this was a euphemism to say that he should not go to the studio to wait for him anymore?

She pursed her lips, feeling uncomfortable, and muttered, "If I had left work so late, I wouldn't have waited all the time, stupid me." ”

"What did you say?"

Nanxi immediately changed his face and said with a smile: "I know, I won't wait for you in the future." ”

Yin Beiwang was stunned for a moment, looking at her smiling and unsmiling look, knowing her for so many years, as long as she pouted, she knew what she wanted to say.

At this time, Nanxi's mood is not beautiful, Yin Beiwang still knows this, but he doesn't let her wait, he is afraid that she will be hungry again, this time the time is short, and she is still hungry like this, if it is a long time, she will not eat all the snacks in the restaurant?

The conversation ended here, Yin Beiwang stared intently ahead, Nanxi opened the car window, tilted his head to look at the night scene flashing outside.

The temperature in the car seemed to be at a minimum, and despite the "hot wind" visiting at all times, it could not resist the embarrassing atmosphere of freezing to death.

The summer night breeze was blowing on her face with an obnoxious sultry smell, and it felt like she was turning on the warm air of the air conditioner, but despite this, she wanted to open the window.

Nanxi's arm was resting on the car window, her chin was resting on her arm, and her mind was shouting, and her mind was uncontrollably showing clips of Yin Beiwang and Ai Qing.

Unconsciously making a comparison, if Ai Qing did the same thing as her today, what kind of words would Yin Beiwang get?

It must be a lingering gaze, with an indelible and enviable distress in his words, rather than saying such words similar to criticism in a proper manner.

Nanxi suddenly felt that her nose was very sour, and even the picture of Yin Beiwang wiping her mouth couldn't save her mood at this time.

Closed his eyes, smiled, and told himself: What's the big deal, Ai Qing is different in his heart, she already knew this, but so what, the person who married him in the end was herself, and the future was uncertain.

Yin Beiwang couldn't understand the silence of the people around him, and for the first time, as a psychiatrist, he lost the ability to judge in her.

When he was a child, Nanxi had a very good relationship with him, and he would tell him about small things and big things, and even the thing that girls would use every month, he would buy it for her.

Once the relationship was so good that Uncle Nan and Aunt Nan were jealous, and they came to him more than once to "accuse".

But I just don't know when the two of them began to be estranged.

She went to college in Beijing, four years, and the number of times they saw each other could be counted on five fingers.

Yin Beiwang was in a trance, and the corner of his eye caught a glimpse of Nanxi who closed his eyes and was pretending to sleep, eight years, a full eight years, they had never gotten along well.

That night, Nanxi ran on the treadmill for two hours without stopping, and it was not until more than twelve o'clock that she went to take a shower full of sweat, and after washing, she lay down and fell asleep.

Nanxi's unhappiness lasted for three days, Yin Beiwang felt it strongly, and when he spoke, he was very hurt and didn't know where to offend Nanxi.

I don't know if it's the reason for the negative feelings, Nanxi has lost weight, and it can be clearly seen that the chin is pointed, and the meat on the stomach has gone down a lot.

These days, Yin Beiwang tries to enlighten her.

"You're in a bad mood?"

“…… Nope. ”

"You don't talk very much these days."

"Talking less means you're in a bad mood?"

"No, you have a wooden face all day long, you come back from work and run until about eleven o'clock, you walk with heavy steps and light steps, sometimes fast and sometimes slow, it seems that everywhere you are very irritable......"

Nanxi was really expressionless at this time, and tried to restrain his tone and said, "I'm not your patient, please don't use the judgment of a psychiatrist to dissect my behavior." ”

Nanxi said this more than once when he knew that he was studying psychology, so he never used professional terms to describe her behavior in front of her.

This time, Nanxi's reaction was extraordinary, and he unconsciously judged her with the vision of a psychiatrist, which can be regarded as an occupational disease.

Yin Beiwang sighed, carefully observed her expression, and said, "Are you angry that I said that I didn't want you to wait for me that day?" ”

Nanxi shook her head, "No." ”

Yin Beiwang pursed his lips, whether he had to explain clearly or not, "What I meant that day was that you could go to the studio and wait for me, but you had to solve your food and clothing problem first." ”

In the past few days, he has been wondering if what he said was inappropriate or ambiguous, and she misunderstood.

Thinking about it, it seems that this is it, but ......

"I know."

Yin Beiwang was surprised, if she knew what he meant, then what was she unhappy about?

In fact, Nanxi was not annoyed by what Yin Beiwang said, but involuntarily compared herself with Ai Qing, these obviously had nothing to do with Yin Beiwang, but she was very angry with him, and she couldn't say the specific reason.

So Nanxi fell into a strange circle, while annoyed by Yin Beiwang, and hated himself for being unreasonable......

People are a complex of contradictions!