46 Disputes
Time flies, and a year has passed in a blink of an eye.
This year is a dull and happy year for Qin You and Lu Ning, after the initial short run-in, the two of them are completely familiar with the current life, usually busy with each other, and when they are resting, they are together, doing something that can promote their relationship: cooking together, watching movies, listening to music, or simply going out for a walk.
After the start of school, Lu Ning entered her junior year. The basic courses of the major have been almost taken, and the next is some more in-depth courses. The reduction in the number of classes scheduled by the school also gives students the opportunity to set their own time. Far-sighted students should start preparing for what will happen after graduation at this time.
Although Lu Ning didn't have any worries about this, she also read a lot of information and wondered what she should do after graduation.
Originally, since she went to X Normal University, she naturally wanted to be a teacher. The job is stable, the benefits are good, and there are winter and summer vacations every year, which is convenient to take care of Zhang Jijuan. Besides, as a teacher, the social status is also good. All in all, it's a very suitable career for girls.
The reason why Lu Ning chose this way was not because she loved this profession, but because she felt it was suitable.
But after marrying Qin You, many issues will have to be completely overturned and reconsidered. So the plan she made before is naturally up for debate. It's just that Lu Ning hasn't planned it yet.
She didn't talk to Qin You about it either. Qin You didn't seem to have any requirements for this, even if Lu Ning didn't do anything at home after graduation. It's just that Lu Ning herself is unwilling to waste her youth like this.
Lu Ning was sitting in the library worrying about this matter, and suddenly received a call from the department office, asking her to come over.
Because it's a student union, I don't have a lot of contact with the teachers in the department. Lu Ning thought that there was some arrangement, but when she went, she found out that it was about her private affairs.
The faculty member asked her to talk and placed an invitation in front of her.
X Normal University, as the name suggests, is a normal university. But not all students will become teachers after graduation. Therefore, the school has been committed to expanding the abilities of students, and in recent years, it has formed friendship schools with many excellent foreign universities, and will recommend some students to go abroad as exchange students every year.
Because of her excellent coursework, Lu Ning was the first in the department for two consecutive years and won the national scholarship, so this opportunity naturally fell on her head.
"This is a good opportunity to expand yourself, this university is also a famous institution, and going on an exchange for a year will only benefit you and not harm." The teacher obviously didn't think that Lu Ning would refuse such a good opportunity, "Take the form back and fill it out well, and hand it in to me next Monday, otherwise it will be too late." ”
"Teacher, can I think about it again?" Lu Ning asked.
Of course, the opportunity is a good opportunity, but her current situation is more complicated, and it is not convenient for her to go out to study abroad. At least go back and discuss it with Qin You first.
Lu Ning's identity has been cleaned up in the school. The teachers are also human beings and can also gossip, so the teacher also understands her affairs, and nods and says, "It's okay, you go back and follow ...... The family discussed it. However, the form must be filled out quickly and handed in next Monday. ”
"I see, thank you, teacher."
Coming out of the department office, Lu Ning couldn't help but feel a little worried.
Admittedly, this opportunity is good, and she would love to go too. If nothing else, at least broaden your horizons and improve your foreign language skills are certain. But these two points don't have to be an exchange student to achieve - for Qin You, as long as she wants to, it is too simple to do this. Even in China, it can create such an atmosphere for her.
But Lu Ning still wanted to go.
This is different from what Qin You arranged, she won it herself. Although it is hypocritical to say this, Lu Ning feels that he can't rely on Qin You to solve everything, so even if Qin You doesn't care, the relationship between them will become more and more unequal, more and more unbalanced, and finally become like in the previous life.
And she didn't want to do that.
So always be vigilant to yourself, you can't indulge in it and lose yourself because you are doing well now, otherwise what awaits her will not be a good result.
But for convincing Qin You to agree to herself, Lu Ning was very unsure in her heart.
How clinging to Qin You is to herself, she knows best. He was going crazy when he went to college for a month of military training before, not to mention that now he has to be separated for a whole year?
However, the registration form has already been in hand, and if you don't try it, Lu Ning will not give up.
She thought about it for a while, and didn't rush to fill out the form, but after going home, she put the form on the coffee table where Qin You could see it. As long as he noticed, he would definitely ask, and then she would say that she was still thinking about it, and then naturally bring up this topic, lest Qin You blow up at the beginning and not be able to talk properly at all.
However, she really overestimated Qin You's patience, or underestimated Qin You's care about herself. Even if he saw a form that had not been filled out, Qin You's expression immediately changed, and when he turned his head to talk to Lu Ning, his tone was different, "Wife, are you hiding something from me?" ”
"Do you mean exchange students?" Lu Ning said, "I only found out today. The teacher said let me think about it, it's a rare opportunity. ”
Qin You heard her hesitation almost immediately, "You want to go." "Not a question, but an affirmation.
Lu Ning took a deep breath and nodded.
"I don't agree." Qin You said.
Lu Ning didn't ask why, but began to explain to him the benefits and necessity of this matter, trying to convince Qin Yu with reason. As a result, Qin You put on a non-violent and non-cooperative attitude, with a cold face throughout the whole process, and refused to respond to any words from Lu Ning.
Although she had known that it would be difficult to entangle, Lu Ning was still a little crying and laughing at this moment, "Qin You, don't be like this, can't we talk well?" ”
Qin You took the registration form away, "It's okay not to say this." ”
"What if I say I have to go?"
"Then I won't."
Lu Ning really thanked him for not saying anything about calling the school, otherwise there would be no need to talk about it. She patiently explained, "I only went for a year, and I came back after a year. It will be good for me to go out and see the outside world and improve my skills......"
"Aren't you going to be a teacher in the future? What can these be good for? Qin You immediately asked.
"I'm not going to be a teacher anymore." Lu Ning said.
Qin You narrowed his eyes and looked at her, "When did it happen?" ”
"That's what happened today, when I received this registration form." Lu Ning said, "I have seriously thought about it, my future cannot just be spent in the process of repeating teaching day after day......
"What's wrong with that?"
"It's not bad, but it's not for me anymore." Lu Ning said.
"Why?"
"......" His aggressiveness made Lu Ning simply not know how to deal with it, there were some things she didn't want to tell Qin You, but Qin You's attitude, if she didn't say it, the conversation would freeze here.
Seeing that she was silent, Qin You immediately asked, "Being a teacher was also planned by yourself, wasn't it?" ”
"That was before."
"What's the difference between before and now?"
Of course it's different, she was still alone before, although Qin You mentioned getting married, but Lu Ning didn't take it seriously at that time. In her plan, there is no such person as Qin You at all. But then, they got married.
Of course, he can't say this to Qin You, because if he says it, he will definitely bring up the question that Lu Ning doesn't believe in himself.
"Ok, today is not a good time to talk. Let's all calm down and talk about it tomorrow. Lu Ning finally said.
Probably Qin You also realized that there was nothing to be achieved in this way, so he also readily agreed, "Okay." ”
The next day, the two were going to Zhang Jijuan's, so they didn't talk about it immediately. But it can be seen that this incident still affected the relationship between the two, and even Zhang Jijuan could see it, "Did you quarrel with Xiao Qin?" ”
"It's not a quarrel." Lu Ning said, "The school has an opportunity to be an exchange student. I wanted to go, but he wouldn't let me. ”
"Why do you want to go?" Zhang Jijuan is also a very traditional woman from the Gu family, otherwise she would not have pulled Lu Ning to such a big point alone, "How long will it take?" Qin You was so unhappy. ”
"One year." Lu Ning said, "Mom, you also know that I am majoring in teacher training, but I don't plan to teach now, of course, I have to continue to enrich myself and find more challenging jobs." I think I'm a little bit talented in this area, and it's good to have more opportunities to work on myself. ”
"Why don't you teach?" Zhang Jijuan was surprised.
Facing her mother, Lu Ning had nothing to hide, "An ordinary middle school teacher is not worthy of Qin You." She said, "When I was a child, my mother taught me. Qin You and I are already married, and I can't replace him, so I have to work hard myself. ”
"Then why didn't Xiao Qin agree?" If you are still unwilling to let go after hearing these words, then it is not Qin You.
Lu Ning was silent.
Zhang Jijuan immediately understood, she didn't say anything. What a kid. "You think so well, why don't you tell Xiao Qin?" She asked.
Lu Ning turned her face away and said uncomfortably, "You can't let Qin You be too proud." ”
If he knew that Lu Ning worked so hard to match him, I am afraid that his tail would be able to rise to the sky. Lu Ning won't say it!
"You kid ......" Zhang Jijuan sighed, "Okay, mom will speak for you about this matter." It's just that you can't always be like this, no matter how good you think in your heart, if you don't say it, who can know? 166 Reading Network