The marriage is when the man goes to the woman's house to give the bride price, and the big gift is when the woman's family comes to the man's house to get money.

Do you want to say that they all gave the bride price? That's just the first step. Families who are particular about it usually don't want their daughter's bride price, basically more than 200 yuan of bride price money will be brought to the in-law's house by the bride when they get married, but if you don't pay attention to it, you really detain more than 200 yuan bride price, you can't say anything, you can only admit it.

Since the bride price money is either brought to her mother-in-law's house by the bride or withheld by Lao Tzu, then the clothes, shoes, washbasins, basins, urinals and other bits and pieces purchased for marriage have to be paid by the man's family again, which is the so-called excessive gift.

The big gift is usually half a month before the wedding, and setting the date of the big gift means that the wedding day is one step closer!

Of course, Pan Shicong doesn't want any changes in the family affairs that have already been decided, so naturally the sooner he gets married, the better.

Unexpectedly, Pan Yang was not in a hurry and said, "Shi Cong, you see that the family is in a mess, and nothing has been sorted out yet, so let's wait for the big gift." ”

Hearing Pan Yang say this, Pan Shicong was anxious and said, "If you don't hurry up, the little doll in Jiamei's belly will be almost four months old, and it will be embarrassing to show her pregnancy if she drags it out."

Pan Yang snorted and disagreed, "What's so embarrassing about that, people have two mouths, others can say whatever they want, anyway, they can't get in the way of eating and drinking, if they are willing to say anything, they can say anything." ”

In fact, to put it bluntly, in addition to the ten years of bad customs of the revolution, it may be criticized. Outside the fight, after entering the 80s, when encountering such a thing as unmarried pregnancy, the man's family occupies an absolute advantage, the same is nonsense, outsiders will make a few jokes at most, nothing more than a joke Pan Shixun is really capable, before he gets married, he knows the belly of an adult girl, for this kind of broken mouth, the old Pan family can listen to it as a joke, and it can't hinder them anything.

But for the woman's family is different, everyone can be shrewd, once you are pregnant, there will be someone who quickly calculates the day of your pregnancy, and then combined with the date of the bride price, you can basically know whether you are pregnant before the marriage, or after the marriage.

If you are pregnant after the marriage, then it is easy to say, after all, even if you are half a daughter-in-law, even if you are pregnant, it will be a matter of course.

If it is calculated that it is conceived before the marriage, it will be a big joke, for the woman's family, it is tantamount to a shameful thing, first of all, outsiders will say that this girl is indecent, and then they will mutter that her mother did not educate this girl well, and even more will deduce that this girl is also a after getting married. Woman

No matter what era, poor and rich, people's two slippery mouths can definitely kill people invisibly, it is the terrible words of people!

Pan Shicong is not a fool, Pan Yang is so pushy, he also understands Pan Yang's dissatisfaction with his niece, and he understands that if he is really satisfied with you, he still needs to drag it from the year to the end of the year without getting married?

Pan Shicong lit a cigarette and smoked it, squinted his eyes and spit out the smoke ring, and said to several principals of the old Pan family, "Uncle Zhaoke, Aunt Xuelan, I'm not an outsider anymore, just say it, isn't that Jiamei's kid a little ignorant and offended you?" Just say, I'll teach her a good lesson when I go back." ”

Pan Yang said in his heart, you don't know what your niece is like, not only is she a little ignorant, she is too ignorant, it's just bullshit!

Zhang Xuelan didn't have Pan Yang to calm down, hearing Pan Shicong mention this, she hesitated, and then said, "Shicong, this is my own person I just showed you a mouth, you said Jiamei's temper, alas, I don't take me and Shixun in his eyes too much, just say what you want, this is not married yet, that's it, if you get married in the future, you can't hang me and Shixun and his Adama on the bud to dry!" ”

Zhang Xuelan said it bluntly enough, Pan Shicong's face was embarrassed, after all, this matchmaker was what he said, and when he said matchmaking at the time, he promised Pan Zhaoke that he patted his chest and beat him, his niece was quick and sensible, and now she is really slapping her face

Pan Shicong kept rubbing his hands, and smacked a few times in a row, not knowing what to say.

Pan Yang saw his discomfort, sighed and said, "You Xuelan Aunt is not a lie, to be honest, Shi Cong is that you don't come to me, I'm also going to look for you, I want to ask Jiamei how she educates her daughter, you see that I have been not good at coming to the door, for fear of hurting the harmony, but don't ask, it's our family Shixun who is hurting, such a daughter-in-law, we don't dare to ask for it."

Take 10,000 steps back, if Wang Jiamei is so sensible, Pan Yang says this kind of debt, Pan Shicong can also be anxious with her, copy the guy and fight with her old Pan family, but the problem is that his niece has really done too much, and even his uncle is not suitable to look at, can the old couple of the Pan family stand it, if this is changed to someone else's family, he would have used a rolling pin to push his niece far.

There is only Pan Shicong, Pan Yang can reason with him calmly, fortunately, Pan Shicong is still an understanding person, if he is replaced by Wang Jiamei and her old son at this time, it is estimated that she will have to copy the guy and fight.

Seeing that Pan Shicong didn't squeak, Pan Yang took another cruel medicine and said, "Shicong, this beautiful temper will not change, we can't do the marriage, when the temper will improve, we will talk about the big gift again." ”

The words have come to this, how can Pan Shicong still have the face to stay any longer, he didn't sit for a while and then said goodbye, and when Pan Shicong came out of the old Pan's house, Pan Shixun, who had never dared to fart just now, dared to ask, "Ada, I really don't want to marry Jiamei, but I still have my doll, so it can't be done."

Pan Yang sneered, patted Pan Shixun's shoulder and said, "As long as you calm down, Ada's won't hurt you, do you want a sensible daughter-in-law, or do you quarrel and fight with you every day?" ”

Needless to say, unless Pan Shixun is really stupid, who wants a bullshit daughter-in-law?

Pan Shicong rushed to Lao Pan's house with all his strength, and went back in a gloomy manner, Wang Jiamei and Lao Zi Niang hadn't left yet, chatting with Pan Shicong's woman, waiting for Pan Shicong's news. As soon as Pan Shicong stepped into the door of the hall with his front foot, Wang Jiamei and her mother hurriedly asked, "How is it, what did the Pan family say?" ”

For Wang Jiamei's little thing, it can be regarded as losing Pan Shicong's face, and now hearing his sister-in-law ask like this, Pan Shicong was angry, and said angrily, "Go back and discipline your daughter, people can express their position, when will you discipline well, when will people have a big gift, if the discipline is not good, people don't dare to have such a daughter-in-law!" ”

Wang Jiamei's mother was immediately dumbfounded, and said hurriedly, "It's not a big gift, then our Jiamei will be pregnant immediately, but what should I do!" ”

Speaking of this, Pan Shicong was even more angry, and slapped the Eight Immortals table fiercely and said, "If you want to blame yourself, how to teach Jiamei, a normal girl's daughter can be like that"

Pan Shicong was so angry that he couldn't open his mouth to continue.

As soon as Wang Jiamei heard Pan Shicong say this, she replied and said, "It's not all our Jiamei's fault, if his old Pan family wants to repay the debt, they can come up with any excuse!" ”

Wang Jiamei's mother agreed, "That's it, that's it, I think they just want to pay their debts!" ”

Seeing that his sister-in-law and brother-in-law were still trying to blame the mistakes on others, Pan Shicong instantly had the illusion of a chicken and a duck talking, and waved his hand weakly, "Okay, okay, listen to my advice, you better go back and discipline Jiamei well, anything else is superfluous." ”

Wang Jiamei's mother would be willing, she immediately glared and said, "That's not possible, I have to go to Pan's house in person to ask Pan Zhaoke what the hell is the idea, if he really dares to repay the debt, then I will definitely not let them have a good life!" Grandma's, who dares to make me uncomfortable, I also make him uneasy! ”

Wang Jiamei and Lao Ziniang said that they would go to the door of Lao Pan's house to find Pan Zhaoke and his wife to reason, and now it is already ten o'clock at night, Pan Shicong and his wife dragged one by one, persuading them not to disturb people's rest so late.

Wang Jiamei's eyes widened, and she said loudly, "We are so angry that we can't sleep, can we still make them sleep happily?!" ”

Seeing that he couldn't hold it anymore, Pan Shicong and his woman were so angry that they hammered Pan Shicong's fist, and said angrily, "Look at the good things you have done, you have to do a lot of things to tell Jiamei to Uncle Zhaoke's second child, you don't know what virtues your niece has, but if you are a smooth girl, can you still drag it out until eighteen and not get married?!" ”

Pan Shicong was also annoyed in his heart, and yelled at his woman, "Okay! Things are like this, what's the use of complaining about me, hurry up and take a look, it's a big night, don't have anything wrong! ”

When Pan Shicong and his wife hurriedly chased to Lao Pan's house, Lao Pan's family was already in trouble, and Wang Jiamei and her mother had a loud voice, and they couldn't wait to point at Pan Yang's nose and scold, "Pan Zhaoke, what do you mean, your second child has made our family's beautiful belly bigger, and now I want to pay the bill, right, go to your grandma's bear, I want you to give me a word today, let or not let Jiamei enter the door!" ”

Wang Jiamei and her mother dared to be so arrogant, Zhang Xuelan was not a vegetarian, and immediately jumped up and scolded Wang Jiamei and her mother, "I cǎo your surname Wang's whole family, what kind of girl you have, what kind of mother you have, your mouth is as stinky as eating in the pit anymore, believe it or not, I immediately took a broom and beckoned to you?!" ”

If these two women really talk about shrews scolding the street, none of them are inferior, and the louder they are, the louder they are, they almost throw their shoes and pinch them.

Pan Shicong and his wife hurriedly grabbed Wang Jiamei and her mother, Pan Shicong shouted directly, "It's done, you are not ashamed, let the outsiders hear it, but Jiamei is the first to lose face!" ”

Pan Yang didn't want to be noisy at night, so he pulled Zhang Xuelan's sleeve and said, "Xuelan, you don't have to say a word." ”

Saying that, Pan Yang looked at the angry Wang Jiamei Lao Tzu Niang, and said coldly, "If you come to talk about things well, then go into the hall and talk well, if you want to make trouble, I, Pan Zhaoke, am not a turtle grandson, I can let you take care of it, I will take care of you three seven twenty-one, and scold again, I will immediately sweep you all out of the house, this is my Pan family's territory, I can't allow you to be wild on it, you want to ride on the head of my Pan family to shit and pee, you have to see if I agree!" ”

Hearing Pan Yang say this, Wang Jiamei said angrily, "Okay, I won't make trouble with you, just ask you Pan Zhaoke, when will you have a big gift, you can give a letter!" ”

Pan Yang glanced at Wang Jiamei and said slowly, "I have already talked to Shi Cong about this matter, I said, when will you teach your daughter how to be a daughter-in-law, when will I have a big gift, if she has never understood how to be a daughter-in-law, then this matter will be put on hold, and there is no need to talk about it." ”