Ting Fang thought about it, and felt that Ting Wu could still be rescued, after all, it was her own sister, not to mention that it would be good to mix in the future, if she was an arm, such a small and cute girl, could she really let her go the wrong way? Whether a person can live and understand depends on the nature and the teachings. Tingwu can come to ask her and think about problems, which shows that she has a good foundation. All that's left is the right guidance. But there was no one at home who could guide her. It's good if Aunt Zhou, my own mother, doesn't pit her to death, Tingshu herself is not innocent; Ting Yao is a big Lori, and it is too late to feel sorry for her mother to be squeezed; Chen is not untaught, but now people instinctively ignore girls, and after all, they are the daughters of rivals in love, so it is impossible for her to be very attentive. After thinking about it, I only taught it myself. So he asked tentatively: "Why does the seventh sister think that me, my eldest brother and you should be separated from each other?" ”

Tingwu opened his mouth, unable to answer. In terms of the orthodox education she received, it is true that as Tingfang said, they have the same father and mother, only different aunts. But my aunt can't be a family member with confidence, it stands to reason that she is closer to the Chen family than to Aunt Zhou, but she can't do it. If it's not a mother, it's not, no matter how nice it sounds, it's different from the sister-in-law. She couldn't describe the subtle differences, she could only feel them with her heart. It can only be understood but not spoken.

Ting Fang breathed a sigh of relief, knowing that if she wanted to, she could still be saved. The corners of his mouth were hooked and he said, "I said something bad about my aunt." ”

"Huh!?"

Ting Fang looked at Ting Wu's bewildered expression and said with a smile: "What did my aunt say to you, I probably guessed it." But if you think about it, do you think your aunt is reasonable, or is the sage's words reasonable? "Actually, in terms of the suppression of women in ancient times, the suzhì of women is generally low, and Aunt Zhou's level is certainly not good, but at least it is above the average. Like the old man and the like, aren't they coaxed into dogs? But who does Ting Wu know who he will marry in the future? Average is clearly not enough. She doesn't have a sister-in-law who can tear down the house, and she looks like a bear in the garden tree, which is not a serious hope.

Ting Wu didn't think about it and said: "Sage words! ”

"That's the end of it!"

"Huh?" Tingwu was dizzy again.

Ting Fang smiled: "You also know the rules, why are there rules?" Naturally, there is a reason. You just have to follow the rules. ”

Tingwu said in a low voice: "But the rules ...... I should be close to my mother, but I ...... I'm a little scared of her. ”

Ting Fang smiled: "What are you afraid of her?" ”

Ting Wu couldn't say it, her instinct was that the Chen family was very cold to her, and even disgusted. Aunt Zhou taught her to stammer, because Aunt Zhou also understood that Tingwu was not as good as Tingshu, and the Chen family had the final say on the future. There are many people in the gold and jade outside, and the eldest master may not be able to figure out the twists and turns of the inner house. However, Aunt Zhou's heart was pantothenic, so that she was sloppy, and she said that she wanted to stammer, and she really waited for Tingwu to go to the main room too much, and she had to cry to her about her own difficulties. A few times like this, Chen didn't take Tingwu seriously, and after a long time, she didn't have zài. In addition, Tingfang is very means, the Chen family is a single person, and she is a single cell, how wide is the scope of attention? Ting Fang will not compete with Ting Yao for resources, but Ting Yao's remaining resources are all robbed by her, and Ting Lan and Ting Wu really can't get anything at all. So much so that Ting Wu made a little fuss in the upper room, and Chen became impatient. This knot is hard to unravel!

Ting Fang saw that Ting Wu was silent for a long time, and said directly: "If you don't understand it yourself, don't go against the rules." Of course, there is a way beyond the rules, but you can't find it now. ”

Ting Wu was silent for a while, and then asked uncertainly: "Can the rules fight?" ”

Ting Fang smiled: "What am I fighting for?" ”

Ting Wu raised his head violently!

"Rules, in other words, rules." Ting Fang said, "Although I am impulsive in fighting, it is not good, but my feelings are pitiful and my heart is praiseworthy." Do you know where the pity and praise are? ”

"Is it for me?"

"Exactly." Ting Fang said more carefully, "Say it again, you are my sister, when others bully you, I will come out." Now that you are small, I will protect you. The next day, we are all older, and we should each marry and be wives, so we should protect each other. Be kind to others and be kind to yourself. Speaking of which, when you get home, you can't even get along well with your sisters, what will happen to your concubine in the future? If you don't get along well, what about your relatives and the wives of your husband's colleagues in the future? ”

Ting Wu was like being struck by lightning, no one had ever told her such a truth, no one had ever said that she could go out, there were more people to contact, and more things to deal with. He asked, "What should I do?" ”

"Han Feizi said that he would take what he wanted." Ting Fang smiled, "Although you haven't learned yet, you also listened to Mr. Ran's lecture." The truth is in the book, so there is a golden house in the book. The truth in the book is more precious than gold. ”

"I don't understand ......"

Tingfang readily translates to. Human words: "My aunt's family runs a shop, so I'll give you an example." There is a very beautiful hairpin in the shop, what do you want? ”

"Buy."

"How do I buy it?"

Ting Wu said uncertainly: "Pay for it?" ”

Ting Fang nodded: "To pay is to give, to give." The principle is the same, what you want to get, you have to pay the equivalent first. If you want to get along well with people, you naturally have to make friends first. Friends and sisters are different, we are naturally connected by blood, we live in one place from the moment we land, and we get close when we move around. Speaking of this, Ting Fang paused, so fake, I really want to vomit first. No matter how close your relatives are, if you don't pay, you will be rusty. But in this realm, until the 21st century, such a simple and straightforward truth still cannot be said. If you say it, it's a big rebellion. Pouted, sorted out his thoughts, and then said, "Friend, it depends on what you can give her." ”

Ting Wu was a little unconvinced: "But why should I give it first?" ”

Ting Fang said patiently: "Who wants to make friends?" ”

Ting Wu choked again, and thought about it for a while before he said, "Is everyone in the world like this?" ”

Tingfang had to recite a three-character scripture: "Father and son, husband and wife." Brother is a friend, brother is a friend. Elder and younger, friends and friends. The king is respectful, and the minister is loyal. These ten meanings are shared by all people. After reciting it, he also explained, "No matter which one, the father is before the son, the husband is before the wife, the brother is before the brother, and the elder is before the young." Why? ”

Tingwu shook his head.

"Because the big ones are more sensible, they have to pay first. Only by father's kindness can the son be filial, and only by brothers and friends can be brothers. At home, you can't ask the small ones to let the big ones go out, you can't ask others to let you go first. Ting Fang said, "You are a sister, and you are also a sister." You are a sister to us at home, and when you go out, you have to treat yourself as a sister. It's still the same truth, if you don't pay, you don't get in return. ”

Tingwu felt that she understood, but she didn't feel that she understood, but she consciously translated it into a text that she could understand, and said: "Whoever treats me well, I treat whoever treats him well." Fourth sister, I will treat you well in the future. ”

Tingfang: "......" always felt that this kid had a crooked understanding, so he had to break back again, "So I think you treat me well, and I have to treat you well first, right?" ”

Tingwu nodded.

Ting Fang said again: "You want others to treat you well, what should I do?" ”

Ting Wu suddenly realized: "I'll treat people well first!" ”

Ting Fang breathed a sigh of relief, the son can be taught! Pinched the small Tingwu. Face: "That's right. And ask me why I want to protect you? ”

Tingwu shook his head.

Ting Fang said with a smile: "Then I'll talk about it here today, I can't chew it if I am greedy, and we will talk slowly in the future." ”

Ting Wu is not dry, catch. Zhu Tingfang's hand said eagerly: "Fourth sister, I still don't understand!" "Like our relationship!

Ting Fang said helplessly: "How old are you?" There are many truths that can be understood for a while. You do what the adults tell you first, and you will understand it slowly. ”

Tingwu still didn't let go, but her eyes slowly turned red: "No one taught me...... No one has ever taught me like the fourth sister...... "Aunt Zhou will teach her to call the Zhou family her uncle, teach her to be close to the Zhou family, teach her to be in a group with Tingshu, and even teach her how to sue her father, how to ask for things in front of her father, but she has never taught her what to do when she leaves the house." She hadn't really stepped out of the door, and when she met a relative, she couldn't resist it at all. told Aunt Zhou that Tingfang helped her, but Aunt Zhou said that Tingfang was hiding a traitor and wanted to harm her. But Tingfang has everything, what should she do? Aunt Zhou couldn't answer, so she could only emphasize over and over again that except for their mother and son, the rest were not good people. She was suspicious of Aunt Zhou's words, because her brother didn't help her, and there were not only three mothers and sons in the family. At least, she has to call Chen her mother. How, exactly? What exactly is right and wrong? What I once thought I knew, now I don't seem to know at all. looked at Ting Fang in confusion, choked up and said, "Fourth sister, you teach me ......"

Ting Fang's heart suddenly softened, and she said softly: "It's not that my sister doesn't teach you, but I just don't know how to say it." Do you understand? ”

Tingwu nodded and shook his head again.

"So, how do I teach it?" Ting Fang was full of regrets, Ting Wu missed too many classes, but there was Aunt Zhou in the middle, but she couldn't say it thoroughly. There are also some things that please Chen, let alone her position. To say it is to dig one's own grave. She did her best to please Chen, and of course, she always believed that pleasing was not in conflict with giving feelings. But living in such an environment, even if you can carry it clearly in your heart, you can't say it with your mouth. But if you say it, people will treat you as a calculator. People are self-deceiving, and sincerity is certainly more moving than calculation; People are naturally suspicious, and very few people are willing to believe that calculation and sincerity can coexist. Therefore, if you want to help others, you must first be outside the pit yourself. Otherwise, they will all drown, let alone anything else.

Ting Fang said again: "We all have to read and write, and we all understand the truth." If you don't understand something, either ask your parents, or ask your husband, or ask the old lady, or the big sister. I have a lot of things I don't understand, just ask them, they are all close relatives in the family, how can I not be puzzled? I don't say it's good, but when you ask me, I say, right? ”

Tingwu was reluctant to ask Chen, she was always separated from Chen's in her heart. called his mother in his mouth, but he thought he was a wife in his heart. Ting Yao didn't want to do it even more. The old lady couldn't see it, and the old lady was even more distant than the Chen family. It seems that only Mr. Kang can ask. After thinking about it, he seemed to understand a little, and finally nodded: "Hmm." ”

Ting Fang smiled: "At your age, it doesn't make sense to talk about big truths. In the future, when you encounter specific things, you can ask me again, and you can understand it in front of the scene. "Silly girl, it's a good age to be cute, and you can only get impression points by going to be stupid in front of your elders. With impression points, there are additional points, dear. pestering Aunt Zhou, even if she is an earth-shattering and majestic woman, she is not in charge! Your future is in someone else's hands!

Tingwu was happy: "It turns out that I didn't understand Jing'er, I thought I was stupid." ”

Tingfang: "...... "Your old IQ is about to go against the sky?" Is it okay to have the consciousness of a seven-year-old baby? In her last life, when she was seven years old, she was still dragging her snot and silly fun! This thing has already thought about the philosophy of life. Man is better than man!

Ting Fang felt that his IQ had been destroyed by Yan Zhan, so he drove Ting Wu to bed and shook him back into his room. In the era when there was no electricity, everyone went to bed early. The lights have been turned off in Chen's main house, and the gossip will be left until tomorrow. Ting Fang sighed softly, feeling that Ting Wu was really a pity, her spicy IQ was also rare, much stronger than her brother, and there was no teacher to bring one, which made people look strange and sad.

Tingshu still hasn't woken up. It's okay to be stupid, and the temperament is still cold. It's good that she sweated for Tingwu today, and you won't squeak as a brother! Walking Yangguan Avenue, you have to come and see how your sister is injured, and complain about the bear child next door by the way, saying that we are good brothers and sisters and have the same hatred; Walking the sheep intestine path, I also have to express my gratitude to her on behalf of your Aunt Zhou family, an "outsider with ancient roads and hot intestines". What does it mean that you don't do anything? Is it really a mother's womb? The genetic shock inheritance is amazing. So Ting Fang's IQ, which had been destroyed by Ting Wu, was resurrected with full blood after thinking about Ting Shu for a while. There are still a lot of stupid people in the world! Amitabha!!