68. Born with a rebellious bear child 2
As for how to raise Siris, before crossing over, Xia Xiyan thought that he was because of his relationship with James at Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. Potter is a group of road robbers who bully other children in the schoolyard, so they are classified as bear children by the system.
At that time, Xia Xiyan, Too young, too simple, felt that after she crossed into Ciris's mother, as long as she guided Siris well and made Siris realize that school bullying was wrong, then Siris, who should not be bad in nature, would no longer bully others.
But after reading Walburga's memories and other information given by the system, I found that the naturally rebellious Ciris, who loves to work against people, has a lot of things that have begun to take on some bear child attributes and need to be adjusted and taught by her.
For example, today, Regulus will riot with magic and Volburga will be injured, which is caused by Ciris's deliberate confrontation with Walburga.
Walburga has always forbidden Sirius to take Regulus to play dangerous games, but the adventurous Sirius deliberately took Regulus to the basement where a lot of dangerous magical objects were placed to play the game of Magic High Jump.
Magic high jump means that Sirius uses the little wizard's instinct to master magic and control his body to fall from a high altitude without being injured.
Walburga had seen Siris do it once, and he strictly forbade Siris to do this kind of behavior that might hurt him again, and Siris didn't promise that Walburga wouldn't do it at that time, and did it a few more times in front of Walburga, and the angry Walburga almost cast a petrification spell on him.
And today, Sirius not only took Regulus to play this magic high jump game, but also took Regulus to the basement, a place that Walburga strictly forbade him to go to, while Walburga was in the room to deal with things and Kreacher was not looking at him while he was cooking lunch.
Sirius is adventurous by nature, and when he arrived in the basement, he has been fearlessly running around with Regulus, and then he inadvertently opened a dark magic book that would attack people, and as soon as the black magic book was opened, it bit at him and Regulus, and immediately scared Regulus into a magic riot.
Regulus was frightened by the magic riot, Kreacher sensed running to him, first rescued Siris, who was almost bitten by the dark magic books, but he couldn't deal with the little wizard's magic riot, and finally had to take him to Walburga immediately.
The little wizard's magic riot is not handled well, and the little wizard may be injured and become a squib, so Walburga saw his youngest son's magic riot and was worried that his youngest son would become a squib, so he angrily scolded Siris a few irrationally.
In the end, it was only under the reminder of the portrait of the ancestor in Black's old mansion that she came to her senses and stopped arguing with Sirius, who returned to her mouth, and under the guidance of the ancestor, she used her magic to suppress Regulus's magical riot, so as to prevent Regulus, who could not channel her magic, from being irreversibly damaged.
Walburga had no one else to help him drain all his mana to suppress Regulus's mana riot, so he fainted from some injuries.
And the character that Siris loves to do against Walburga so much, not once or twice, but many times. Regardless of whether Walburga said something good or bad, he was deliberately angry with Walburga to do something to anger Walburga, and Siris often did these things not only to hurt himself, but also to others.
Xia Xiyan looked at Walburga and remembered that Siris deliberately did something against Walburga, and did some 'bad' things that he didn't know the importance of, he really felt that if she wanted her to raise her, her head was too big.
"How do I want to teach this!" Xia Xiyan didn't know how to raise Siris, the two children were very dependent on her before, and they would listen to what she said, but looking at the hostile relationship between Siris and Walburga, what Walburga said, Siris didn't listen, but did it to the extreme.
Even if he preaches with his heart, Siris doesn't listen, but the more the elders say, the more he does it, and even the more he says, the more he will do it.
When Xia Xiyan didn't finish reading all of Walburga's memories, she still felt that Walburga and Sirius had a bad relationship, or that Walburga was too 'Black' to suppress Siris, so she made Siris so rebellious, but later looked at Walburga's memories and saw Siris's relationship with other elders, and found that Siris also loved to fight against each other, even if the other party was using reason to correct Siris's 'bear' behavior, Siris would still be very rebellious and continue to do more excessive things.
"Isn't that even if I change Walb's strong attitude and face Siris again, Siris will still be so rebellious and don't listen? He loves to work against his elders so much, disobedient children, how can I teach them well! ”
Xia Xiyan sighed deeply, and then turned over and over on the bed thinking about how to get along with the naturally rebellious Siris, and how to make Siris listen to her.
"Master, a child of Siris's type is a little more difficult to teach than other children, but it is not as difficult as the master thinks!"
Just when Xia Xiyan's head hurt when she thought about it, and she didn't think about how to raise Ciris, who didn't listen to adults, the system saw that Xia Xiyan hadn't seen Siris yet, and she was annoyed by the 'problem' child of Siris, so she reminded Xia Xiyan out loud.
"Compared to some children, Sirius is a 'difficult to raise' child. However, this kind of difficult maintenance is also relatively 'easy to raise'. Many babies are born with some kind of stable personal characteristics, or a certain temperament, and according to these temperaments, there is actually a good division in psychology, one of which is the division of temperament, which is to divide them into four types of temperament babies. These four temperament babies are bloody, mucous, choleric and depressive. This division is based on the baby's neural circuits, different neuro-brain circuits, resulting in the different personalities of the babies, but also caused their 'difficulty' differences in the process of raising, and divided the 'difficult' babies and 'easy-to-raise' babies. ”
"Temperament baby?" Xia Xiyan listened to the words of the system, and listened to some rhetorical questions that she didn't understand, and the system began to follow Xia Xiyan's characteristics of popular science temperament baby.
"Multi-blood babies, this kind of baby's neuro-brain circuits are "divergent" transmission mode, so when one of his neurons is stimulated, it will be transmitted to different nerve cells in the fastest time. Therefore, this kind of baby responds quickly, not to mention, and the strength is relatively strong and rich. Therefore, this kind of baby loves to watch itself, and deep down in his heart will be extremely eager to get the attention of his parents and others, as long as the 'desire' of attention is satisfied, this kind of baby is extremely easy to raise. Most of them can be considered 'easy to raise' babies. ”
On the other hand, such as choleric babies, their neuro-brain circuits are "linear" transmission, so when the neurons in their brains are stimulated, they will respond and express themselves in the fastest time. This creates a choleric baby's fast thinking, rapid changes in feelings, and many are born with a quick temper. And this kind of baby or individual attaches great importance to their inner feelings, and does not like to accept the requirements imposed on them by others, because this will make them extremely uncomfortable, and this discomfort will make them choose to retaliate against each other, and produce antagonistic feelings.
"How is this choleric baby a little similar to Siris's temperament?" Xia Xiyan heard the system say that the bile baby, so he couldn't help but interrupt the system, and the system listened to Xia Xiyan understand what he wanted to express, so he analyzed Siris with Xia Xiyan with some excitement.
"Yes, master, there are many characteristics on the surface of Siris, he is energetic, not easy to get tired but impulsive, poor self-control, impatient temperament, etc., are obvious attributes of a choleric baby, and you see him, he attaches great importance to his inner feelings, so he extremely does not like to listen to others, whether it is good or bad, he will feel uncomfortable, because he feels restrained, so he is unwilling to listen, and because the other party makes him uncomfortable, and has resistance or revenge and wants to do it against the other party. So you see, master, in Blake's house, the favorite to preach to Siris is Walburga, and Siris also loves to work with Walburga, the choleric baby is like a spring, the tighter you press, the more he rebounds! ”
"Siris is really like this, like a little stubborn donkey!" Xia Xiyan analyzed Siris on Walburga's memory, and then found that Siris was indeed the more hysterical Walburga did, the more naughty he became.
"And when Siris grew up, he would bully his classmates, which is actually a situation that many choleric people will have when their parents are not properly educated. When encountering unsatisfactory or unsatisfactory things, there is a greater chance than other types of people to bully innocent people to vent their dissatisfaction! ”
"And such an analysis!?" Xia Xiyan listened to the words of the system, and was so surprised that she couldn't close her mouth, the division of this temperament baby is also accurate, right?
"Since there is a psychological analysis of the personality and behavior of children like Siris, there are also ways to get along with such children, right? I know you can't tell me directly how to raise Ciris, but you should be able to show me the psychological information in this area, I have seen the method myself, it shouldn't be considered a violation of the rules, right? Xia Xiyan saw that the system just gave her a wake-up call and analyzed the situation of Siris, but she didn't say how to get along with Siris, so she thought about it and asked the system directly.
"Yes, master, I can give you these materials, you can send them to you when I am completely organized!" The cheerful voice of the system made Xia Xiyan a little happy to listen to it, knowing that Ciris's problem was so rebellious because of the adult's relationship with him, and there were also relevant methods for raising this kind of child, Xia Xiyan was not as irritable as before, and felt that as long as she found out Ciris's psychology and guided him with the right method, he should be able to listen.
"Master, it's dinner time, do you need to eat?"
Xia Xiyan hadn't received the information from the system yet, but she was still in a good mood and opened her eyes, but when she opened it, she heard some unique voices from Kreacher, and the voice suddenly came out, startling Xia Xiyan.
"Master, I'm sorry, Kreacher scared the master, Kreacher is not a good elf, please punish Kreacher"
Kreacher saw that Xia Xiyan was frightened by him, so he panicked and began to hit her bedpost with his head, Xia Xiyan was shaking by Kreacher's impact while lying on the bed, and almost fell out of bed, before he immediately made a voice for Kreacher to stop.
"Kreacher, stop!"
"It's the master, Kreacher and the others will put their heads in the oven for an hour to punish themselves, I hope the master will not be angry!" Kreacher heard Xia Xiyan's command to raise his voice, so he immediately stopped, and then looked at Xia Xiyan with big tennis eyes, teary-eyed, and said his punishment for himself.
Xia Xiyan heard Kreacher say this, and the picture of Kreacher putting his head in the oven and being burned came to his mind, and he said extremely uncomfortable, "No, Kreacher, you don't have to punish yourself like this!" If you go make me more dessert now, you'll be punished for scaring me!" ”
"The master is so kind, he is so good to Kreacher, Kreacher will go and do the master's orders immediately!"
Kreacher looked at Xia Xiyan with some gratitude, and then disappeared in front of Xia Xiyan's eyes with a 'snap'.
"Whew!" The self-punishment spirit of the house-elf is really terrifying, if Xia Xiyan doesn't open his mouth to transfer the punishment, I'm afraid that tomorrow Kreacher will come to see her with an even more terrifying face, and now seeing Kreacher go to get dessert, Xia Xiyan also got out of bed with a sigh of relief, and then changed his clothes and walked out of the room, ready to go to see Siris and Regulus.
"Bang!"
As soon as Xia Xiyan walked out of the room, he walked to the two bedrooms next door, Xia Xiyan advanced to Cialis's room, but as soon as he entered, he was almost hit by a ball thrown by Cialis, but fortunately, Xia Xiyan reacted quickly and dodged it, only letting the ball hit the door.
"Hahaha, scared!" Cialis, who was lying on the bed, laughed extremely happily when he saw Xia Xiyan being frightened by the ball he thrown.
Xia Xiyan turned his head for the first time not to remember, but to look at Siris with his eyes, looking at the 4 and a half-year-old Siris triumphantly, looking at her very provocatively, Xia Xiyan somewhat realized the reason why Walburga jumped every time he was angry, because his eyebrows were slightly raised, and the corners of his mouth were pulled to the right.
"Are you here to keep scolding me? Yes, I deliberately took my brother to touch that book today, just to hurt him! I just can't see him! ”
Ciris saw that Xia Xiyan had been staring at him, and he didn't know what to think, and the expression on his face became extremely unruly on Xia Xiyan, and then he said this.
Xia Xiyan had seen Walburga's memories and knew that after Regulus was frightened by the magic riot, Walburga angrily scolded what Siris had just said, and at that time, he felt that Walburga said this about a child, whether the child rebelled or not, it would cause bad psychological consequences, because the accusation was too harsh.
"I know that Siris wants to be angry with me, so I took my brother to the basement, but Siris must not have touched that book on purpose, and Siris must not have known the danger of that book, so he opened it, right?" Xia Xiyan looked at the untamed Siris, who was stiff in his neck, and admitted that Walburga had some heart-wrenching words, knowing that those words must still hurt Siris, so he smiled and said Siris's heart, hoping to alleviate the damage to Siris from Walbuga's previous words.
"That's not right! I just did it on purpose! Hum! Cialis was a little surprised by Xia Xiyan's words, the expression on his face loosened a little, but he continued to talk to Xia Xiyan with a hard mouth, Xia Xiyan knew his 'choleric' attribute, and did not talk to him, but changed the topic and asked him.
"Have you had dinner?"
"I didn't eat it, but I don't want to listen to you! Hey! ”
Siris said this provocatively to Xia Xiyan, and at the same time, I didn't know where I learned it, and made an ugly grimace at Xia Xiyan, this grimace has always been what Walburga hated the most, because in the eyes of the 'noble' Walburga, the behavior of grimace is not in line with aristocratic temperament, so Siris is not allowed to do it, but Siris has to make this expression every time he does it against Walburga.
"The grimace is so ugly!" Xia Xiyan was a little helpless that Siris's deliberate intention to provoke his grimace was angry, and he didn't jump to his feet like Walburga, but underrated Siris's grimace, and finally looked at the scattered things in Siris's room, and found that there were many magical snacks scattered on the table next to Siris's bed, and they were all open-mouthed, so I guessed that Siris had eaten these things, so now I was so 'backbone' that I said that I wouldn't eat dinner.
"Since you don't eat dinner, then I'll call your brother to eat!" Xia Xiyan didn't ask Siris to go to dinner, because according to Walburga's memory, the more she said it, the more she didn't eat, the more she didn't call it, maybe she would follow it to eat, even if she didn't eat, Xia Xiyan looked at Siris's table again, there were a variety of snacks on it, and she couldn't be hungry for Siris.
"Bang"
Xia Xiyan walked out of Siris's room, closed his door, and then heard the sound of something hitting the door again, that sound, Xia Xiyan must admit, has the potential to provoke her.
"Whew!"
Xia Xiyan walked to Regulus's room, calmed down, and then entered Regulus's room, and saw Regulus who was lying on the bed in a daze, and when he saw her coming, he immediately sat up and smiled at her Regulus, Xia Xiyan felt that there was Sirius as a comparison, and Regulus, who was already exquisite, smiled at her like this, it was a proper little angel.
"Mom, are you alright?" Regulus asked Xia Xiyan about her physical condition with concern, which made Xia Xiyan feel that the other party was a warm-hearted little angel.
"Mommy is alright, Reggie, are you still feeling well?" Xia Xiyan called Regulus's nickname, sat down beside Regulus, and then reached out and touched his still somewhat pale little face.
"Mom, Reggie is not uncomfortable!" Regulus was shy because of Xia Xiyan's action of touching his face, and his shy little face turned red, and his voice became like a mosquito to answer Xia Xiyan's words, that cute and shy appearance, Xia Xiyan chuckled when he saw it.
"Did Reggie eat dinner? If you don't have it, go down with your mother and use some! Xia Xiyan rubbed Regulus's black hair again, looked at Regulus with a shocked look, and then asked him if he had had dinner.
"Reggie hasn't eaten yet, Mom, shall we go down now?" Regulus was very shy by Xia Xiyan's deliberate intimate actions towards her, but he tried his best to answer Xia Xiyan's words calmly.
Xia Xiyan saw the joy revealed by Regulus under his shyness, and felt that she was right to do this.
In Walburga's memory, Xia Xiyan saw that Walburga wanted to be kind to the well-behaved Regulus, compared to Siris, but this kind of kindness only did not reprimand Regulus, and would not do intimate actions to Siris, Xia Xiyan didn't know whether it was Walburga's own indifference to his heirs, or some of the nobles' behavior, so Walburga never did too much intimate interaction with children like ordinary people, and got along with children, most of them were reserved and noble to sit on the side. Watch as the house-elves take care of Siris and Regulus.
Walburga's calm and self-contained attitude, Xia Xiyan is not very understandable, children's growth needs the care of their parents, not simply material, but spiritual, many children will be born with an instinctive desire to be loved, and to perceive being loved, many are perceived from the intimate actions such as kisses and hugs made by their parents.
"Let's go down!" Xia Xiyan helped Regulus put on his slippers in Regulus's surprised eyes, and then took Regulus's hand and walked out of his bedroom with Regulus, whose little face had turned red into an apple.
"Brother!"
Xia Xiyan and Regulus hadn't walked out of his bedroom yet, just saw a small figure by the door, Xia Xiyan hadn't seen who it was, but Regulus shouted, letting Xia Xiyan know that the black shadow at the door who was sneaking away was Siris.
When Sirius heard Regulus call him, he stopped, and Xia Xiyan couldn't help but want to laugh when he heard his somewhat annoyed voice.
According to Cialis's behavior just about to sneak away, Xia Xiyan could guess that he was peeking outside the door just now, and now that he was discovered, he was so annoyed, but Xia Xiyan didn't expose him, but instead pretended not to know and asked him, "Cialis, what are you doing out out?" Is there something going on? ”
When Sirius heard Xia Xiyan's voice, he immediately raised his head without annoyance, looked at Xia Xiyan majestically and said, "I suddenly want to eat dinner!" ”
Xia Xiyan looked at Siris's look of 'waiting for her to say something, he was refuting', and just said a simple 'oh', and didn't say anything superfluous and led Regulus out of the bedroom.
"Kreacher should have prepared our dinner, we should have it delicious!"
Xia Xiyan didn't directly say 'let's go down to eat', Xia Xiyan wasn't sure if it would trigger Ciris's 'anti-bone' words, but said something irrelevant and took Siris with his empty hand, wanting to take him down to dinner.
It's just that after Xia Xiyan took him, Siris withdrew his hand and said arrogantly, "I don't want you to lead, I can go by myself!" ”
After Cialis finished speaking, he went to observe Xia Xiyan's feelings, and saw that Xia Xiyan was not angered by him, but snorted a little unhappily, and then turned around and ran downstairs first.
Xia Xiyan didn't mind that Siris didn't give her face so much, and continued to hold Regulus's little meat hand and prepare to go downstairs without being affected.
Just walked to the staircase on the fifth floor, Xia Xiyan saw Siris running and jumping, and the extremely unsafe way to go downstairs downstairs couldn't help but tell him.
"Cialis, slow down the stairs and be careful of falling!" Xia Xiyan was afraid of Siris's short legs, so she ran fast and stepped on the empty steps and rolled down, so she reminded her, but after Siris heard it, she didn't slow down, but deliberately "yo", not to mention that Xia Xiyan ran faster, ran up the bench steps, and Siris also took the time to turn around and throw a provocative look at Xia Xiyan.