11. Bear child with the appearance of an angel 9
Xia Xiyan has been able to see Long Xiaoyun's admiration for her or for Lin Shiyin recently. The nature of a child is to love and attach himself to the mother who brought him into this world, and Long Xiaoyun is also such a child. He will expect Lin Shiyin to set his eyes on him, and he will expect Lin Shiyin to always accompany him, no matter what he does, he hopes that Lin Shiyin can think of him.
But Lin Shiyin's heart is the most important thing is Li Xunhuan, and Long Xiaoyun's heart is the most important thing is power and Lin Shiyin, as their son, most of the care they get is also material things, and there is very little spiritual comfort, but spiritual comfort is an indispensable thing for the healthy growth of children.
Long Xiaoyun is extremely smart, or rather a genius-type child, his intelligence is in all aspects, the older he is, the more he can detect the problems in his family, although he doesn't understand what happened between his parents, but he can see that they are not tired. Lin Shiyin is often sad, Long Xiaotian is often gloomy, and these negative feelings often make Long Xiaoyun inexplicably painful.
Children are often more sensitive to love than adults, so Xiaoxiao Long Xiaoyun can feel the unknown panic from Lin Shiyin's occasional departure from him. Coupled with Long Xiaoyun's father's lack of attention to him, Long Xiaoyun is actually a very insecure child.
So he will use some behaviors to attract the attention of his parents, and he also tried to be a good child, but he received very little attention at that time, but he inadvertently got into trouble, Long Xiaotian and Lin Shiyin will come forward to help him settle it out, which is perceived in Long Xiaoyun's unsound thinking, as long as he gets into trouble, his parents will set their eyes on him. So he began to continue to get trouble and gain attention.
In modern times, Xia Xiyan has seen a lot of naughty and mischievous children, who often do things that make people cry and laugh to make their parents pay attention to them.
Some parents just give them a stern reprimand when they are naughty, but many children continue to be naughty like this, never asking them why they do it.
However, some parents ask their children why they do that when they find out that they are mischievous, the children do not say that they are not forced, but just spend more time with their children, and through their own observations to discover the child's naughty thinking, they want to find the root cause to solve the child's naughtiness, and then find that as long as they are around, their naughty mischievous will never appear again.
Of course, there are also parents who spend time with their children, and the children continue to be naughty, but they find that the child does not know that what he is doing is wrong, he just perceives from the reactions of the people around him, what he does will surprise everyone, and bad thoughts are not born. If parents guide them well at this time to recognize that their behavior is wrong, many children will correct these problems.
And this is how Long Xiaoyun used trouble to attract Lin Shiyin and Long Xiaoyun's attention, but Long Xiaoyun and Lin Shiyin were both immersed in their adult world, and never tried to understand Long Xiaoyun's needs.
Long Xiaoyun is not a good person, he can't set a good example for his son Long Xiaoyun, not to mention, he got Li Xunhuan's property and fiancée, the huge amount of property and beautiful wife made him ecstatic at first, but Lin Shiyin's obsession with Li Xunhuan, and Li Xunhuan's existence also reminded him in disguise that these were given to him by others, so they may be taken away one day. These uncertain factors made Long Xiaoyun live in fear of Li Xunhuan, and he didn't want to find a way to ruin Li Xunhuan on the rivers and lakes all the time, so that Li Xunhuan couldn't come back and take away his current situation.
This also made him unable to put his mind on Long Xiaoyun and raise Long Xiaoyun? He didn't take it to heart at all, or he never thought that the child still needed to be raised. So when Long Xiaoyun was in trouble, he felt harmless, and solved it with money, neither punishing nor persuading, let alone trying to understand what Long Xiaoyun needed.
On the other hand, Lin Shiyin's upbringing of Long Xiaoyun is also a mess of neglect, in her thinking, Long Xiaoyun has someone to take care of, eat well and dress well, so there is nothing for her to worry about. Long Xiaoyun made a mistake, and she came forward to solve it at most, anyway, Xingyunzhuang was easy to settle Long Xiaoyunchuang's 'small' disaster.
As for Long Xiaoyun, he didn't get the correct guidance of Lin Shiyin and Long Xiaoyun after he got into trouble, in his eyes, getting into trouble was not a wrong thing, it was a way for him to attract the attention of his parents. His view of right and wrong was slowly distorted in the attitudes of Lin Shiyin and Long Xiaoyun.
In the original book, Long Xiaoyun killed people at the age of seven, and then he didn't know how many people folded in his hands, and when he met Li Xunhuan in his teens, he was able to kill Li Xunhuan because he was dissatisfied with the doctor who treated Li Xunhuan first, and he wanted to kill Li Xunhuan with all his vicious methods.
From the first time he killed someone when he was seven years old, to the later stage of casually killing people, during this period, Long Xiaoyun and Lin Shiyin, as his parents, gave him many wrong views of right and wrong. He will feel that killing someone is a small thing, even if it is a big thing, it is fine, and his 'powerful' father and mother will help him settle it.
How lethal is a child who doesn't know what he is doing is wrong?
That is, even if they are holding a knife, they don't think it's a murder weapon, they only think it's a toy.
Long Xiaoyun, who is still a little ignorant of this world, is such a child, and he is completely unaware that some of his actions are wrong.
Xia Xiyan sent Long Xiaoyun back to the yard, and temporarily prepared to watch him sleep before leaving, Long Xiaoyun could happily roll on the bed childishly, Xia Xiyan covered him with the quilt, Long Xiaoyun could still kick excitedly in the quilt, Xia Xiyan looked at Long Xiaoyun like this, and her heart was also a little soft.
"Close your eyes and go to sleep! It's not too early! Xia Xiyan looked at his mental state, and didn't know when he would be able to sleep, so he said to let him sleep quickly.
Long Xiaoyun winked at Xia Xiyan a few times, there was a little bit of pity, Xia Xiyan didn't urge him to close his eyes, raised his hand and patted his chest to help him fall asleep quickly.
"Mother!" In Xia Xiyan's pat, Long Xiaoyun's sleepiness came up and yawned, and then he called 'Niang' in a very small voice, and his eyes slowly closed.
Xia Xiyan waited until he was asleep before she stopped patting, carefully stuffed the small hand holding her other hand into the quilt, and then stood up and left.
"Master, don't you give Long Xiaoyun a goodnight kiss?"
When Xia Xiyan stood up and turned around, the Jinjiang Bear Child Parenting System spoke out to Xia Xiyan's system again, Xia Xiyan's body stiffened for a second, and then turned around and left as if he hadn't heard it.
The system complained a few words to Xia Xiyan all the way, saying that Xia Xiyan was too shy to give Long Xiaoyun a good night kiss, Xia Xiyan didn't speak, and when she returned to her yard, she finished washing and lying on the bed under Xiaolan's service before she asked the system.
"Is this body suitable for martial arts?"
"Does the master want to practice martial arts?" The system did not answer Xia Xiyan's question directly, but asked her another one.
Xia Xiyan replied yes, the system didn't ask Xia Xiyan anything again, and knew the reason from Xia Xiyan's heart.
Xia Xiyan suddenly looked like practicing martial arts, and she was also reminded by Long Xiaoyun that he wanted to practice martial arts to protect her and Xingyunzhuang's property.
Some time ago, Xia Xiyan was just thinking about how to teach Long Xiaoyun well, so he temporarily forgot about some crises in this world.
In the world of martial arts, human life is much less valuable than other worlds. Xia Xiyan didn't want to have no self-protection ability at all, so she wanted to ask the system whether Lin Shiyin's body was suitable for martial arts, but she remembered that in Lin Shiyin's hand, there was a copy of "Treasure of Mercy Flowers" that she had swallowed privately.
And the Treasure of the Flower is a collection of Wang Lianhua's lifelong learning, which not only has martial arts, but also includes medical astrology, Xia Xiyan made good use of the Treasure of the Flower. If she is suitable for learning martial arts, then she is still mainly martial arts, if she is limited by her body and cannot practice martial arts, then she will learn other self-defense techniques in it, Xia Xiyan faintly remembered that Wang Lianhua seemed to be able to use poison, and how could she gain a foothold in the rivers and lakes if she mastered it.
"Master, are you going to take Long Xiaoyun on a tour of the rivers and lakes?" The system caught what Xia Xiyan was thinking, and asked the key, and Xia Xiyan didn't hide it from it, and directly sued it.
"I'm going to take Long Xiaoyun out of Xingyunzhuang, Xingyunzhuang is not suitable for children to grow up, and I don't want to be the wife of a scumbag like Long Xiaoyun!" Xia Xiyan interrupted and said some of the interruptions in her heart, "Long Xiaoyun's current view of right and wrong is already very problematic, although he will listen to some of my persuasions to make changes now, but not every time it works and is effective, some truths are just lip service, and they can't be remembered by him at all." ”
"So the master wants to take him on a trip to the rivers and lakes?" The system asked, but Xia Xiyan said, "It's not to travel in the rivers and lakes, but to go to the outside world, so that Long Xiaoyun's horizons will be broadened a little more, and some narrow-minded thoughts will naturally change." And Long Xiaoyun may be coming back in about a year, I don't want to see such a disgusting person, and I don't want Long Xiaoyun to contact him and learn the thoughts of those villains in him. ”
"The reason why I want to do something to protect myself is also because the world I am in now is a world of martial arts, so where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, there are rights and wrongs, I am a lone woman with a child, if there is no self-defense thing, what will happen when you leave Xingyunzhuang, just think about it." What Xia Xiyan hasn't said yet is that if she learns martial arts and poison techniques, then she will be able to occasionally abuse the brains and scum of this world in the future.
"Oh, master, I know!" The system took the initiative to think about Xia Xiyan, how to cultivate Long Xiaoyun's attitude, and his voice was a little excited, but Xia Xiyan didn't care about it and continued to ask it, "Is my physique suitable for martial arts?" ”
The system received Xia Xiyan's questioning this time, so it gave Xia Xiyan's current body, did a test, and then told Xia Xiyan, "Master, although your body is not the best martial arts physique, it is also the root bone of the middle and upper ranks. ”
Xia Xiyan listened to the words of the system, and knew that she could practice martial arts, so she was a little excited, and if she practiced martial arts, she would be able to fly off the wall, which was an irresistible temptation for people who had a bit of a martial arts dream in modern times.
Xia Xiyan, who was excited that she could practice martial arts, couldn't sleep for a while while while lying on the bed, so she sat up and took out the Treasure Book of Mercy Flowers hidden by Lin Shiyin from the dark compartment next to the bed, and then looked through it.
It's just that I've only read a few pages of the Treasure Book of Flowers, and Xia Xiyan is a little square!