Missed a market because of the rain.

Today on the 9th, Dad will come home, and the sisters will not go to the market.

Now that his mother is back, Lu Qinghe and his mother don't deal with it, Lu Baozhi, as the eldest sister, is afraid that his mother will be angry again, so he let Xiaosi go out for a walk. Since New Year's Day, Xiaosi has been following his father to do business, busy with this and that. Didn't play much.

The fourth and fifth children have come to look for it a few times.

"Eldest sister, don't worry, I'm not sad." Twenty-eight years have passed in her previous life, and her mother's attitude towards herself is like this, and now she is still this attitude towards herself, and she has long been used to it.

Therefore, even if his mother scolds him or beats him, Lu Qinghe thinks that it doesn't matter.

It's just that after being beaten by his mother last time, Lu Qinghe has reflected on himself a lot. Mom, eloquence is actually very good, in addition to loving mahjong, in addition to not loving housework, in addition to the patriarchal thinking is too heavy, there are still many advantages. For example, I love my future sister very much!

For example, you will always be obedient to your father!

Well, the main thing is that my mother has always loved my father and surrounded my father very much.

In addition to those shortcomings, there are still many advantages. I've been reborn, why can't I change my mother's attitude towards me and my sisters? Think about it, if my mother can love her sister, is it possible, and be better to their four sisters, like a mother, and care about it?

"Little four, mom and dad love us very much. It's just that since my mother married my father, she has been bullied by her grandmother because she didn't give birth to a son. I gave birth to several of our sisters in a row, listened to a lot of bad words, and suffered a lot. So, little four, can you not be angry with your mother? ”

Lu Baozhi put the fried rice with two eggs in the bowl, sent it in, and ran to the kitchen to make breakfast for their sisters.

Seeing that Xiao Si's face was not angry or unhappy because she talked too much, Lu Baozhi was relieved, she knew that she was talking about this, and Xiao Si must be able to understand: "Our family is not poor for a day or two, but my mother has not given birth to a son, and because her family is poor, she is gossiped a lot." Several times I have seen my mother crying secretly, and she was angry with others. ”

Because Lu Baozhi is the eldest in the family, he sees and hears much more than his three younger sisters. She can also see that the second and third sisters still listen to their mother. Only the little four, this little sister, makes her feel that she seems to have some different prejudices against her mother.

It's not prejudice, it makes her feel that there is something between her mother and Xiaosi that is difficult to accommodate and exist.

Like mothers who get angry, hit them or scold them, they rarely get heavy-handed. But when dealing with Xiaosi, it is a bit like treating enemies, and he doesn't treat Xiaosi as a child at all. Thinking about the injury on Xiao Si's body that time, Lu Baozhi's heart twitched and hurt.

"Huh? Mom secretly crying? ”

In the impression of Lu Qinghe's previous life, my mother really never cried. In front of outsiders, my mother is a woman who is spoiled by my father. She has never lost a fight with others. That time she was blocked by Pork Yuan to ask for debts, it was all because she was pregnant, worried about the child in her belly, and was blocked by Pork Yuan at the door, my mother must have felt that she couldn't get over her face.

Now I listen to the eldest sister say, 'several times' secretly crying, how hurtful are the words of those long-tongued women, in order to make that 'tough' mother cry?

"Yes, although my mother cares more about her mother's family, she cares less about us. But Mom is the one who loves Dad the most. Little four, just for the sake of your father, you also have to block your breath less with your mother. Didn't you say that your mother was pregnant with a younger sister in her belly? Have you ever wondered how much pressure your mother would have if she gave us another sister? ”

The idea of preference for sons over daughters is not only shared by mothers, but also by 90 percent of all people in rural areas. Just like the fourth family and five sons, which family doesn't have a good relationship with his family? Everyone else knows that a family with a son, not to mention the strong labor force, marry a daughter-in-law and enter the door, and then give birth to a child, at least two or three in a family.

Then their family will marry five daughters of other people's families in the future, plus the children born, and there will be dozens of people in the three generations of this real lineage. Slowly, there are no five generations, their family is a big family. In the countryside, the more prosperous the people, the more blessed the family.

Even for the sake of this blessing, I must also strive to have a son.

The four words of inheritance have too many meanings in rural areas, and even for many women, it is a very heavy word.

Besides, giving birth to a daughter is destined from birth, and the married daughter spills out the water. This is also the reason why many people scold their daughters for losing money. After working hard for more than ten or twenty years, can you be comfortable marrying into someone else's family, giving birth to other people's families, honoring other people's parents, and taking care of other people's grandparents?

Lu Baozhi said this, and he really hoped that the relationship between Xiaosi and his mother would be eased. Now the fourth child is only four years old, and he has already remembered, if he doesn't get along with his mother now, and when he grows up in the future, then this family will not be peaceful. Just because my father loves Xiao Si from the tip of my heart, my mother will also put Xiao Si in the position of 'enemy opponent'.

Lu Qinghe nodded thoughtfully, and said firmly: "Eldest sister, I understand." I really don't get angry with my mother, and I won't trouble her in the future, let alone complain to my father. I understand what you mean, and I will find a way to make my mother more like my mother. ”

In their previous lives, their sisters either married into other places or had their own small families. Indeed, the only one who has been with my father is my mother.

It's really like what the eldest sister said, even if it's for her father, she wants her mother to like herself.

She didn't believe it, God let her be reborn back, it must be for the stability and happiness of their family.

"Xiaosi is the smartest, in fact, my mother loves money so much, and I really can't blame her. Your third sister must have told her mother about her father's business, and you can't say that you are your third sister, you know? ”

Lu Baozhi's breakfast is made with rice. After stir-frying a big bowl of fried rice for my mother, there wasn't much leftover rice from last night. To make rice, one bowl per four sisters is enough. The soaking rice with spicy pickles is also great.

After breakfast, the eldest sister went to feed the pigs, the second sister and the third sister went to pick pigweed in the vegetable field, and the mother went to bed to make up for sleep.

Lu Qinghe was dragged by the fourth and fifth children to the orange mountain in the village, and also went to 'pick up waste'. This scavenging is to find the small oranges that have been missed in the orange mountains that have been picked, or the oranges that were too small and unripe before.

It is only in January that everyone dares to go to the orange mountain without asking the master's house. Before January, everyone consciously did not go to Orange Mountain, for fear that others would treat you as a thief.