This era is still an era of gentlemen, an era of painting the ground as a prison. If someone unmistakably occupies territory, very few people will take the initiative to provoke or seize it, or even dig into the corners of others.

It's not that the school doesn't want to pursue Tong Ruoying's boys, but most of them compare the advantages of wolf handsome in their hearts, and find that they are not good at anything other than dedication, so they can only curse while giving up helplessly. The few who are not afraid of Ye Luwei's material advantages, but they are restricted by not having much material dominance, and it is completely impossible to use their parents' money to pay Ye Luwei.

The ability to pay is the greatest sex appeal of a man, and a man without the ability to pay is like a toothless lion on the grassland, no matter how strong his appearance and muscles are, he is a complete loser, and it is absolutely impossible to win the right to mate.

The only thing that human beings are more advanced than lions is that we don't exterminate the loser, but only despise him in the social system, accusing him of not working hard, not succeeding, and not lucky. A man who has no ability to pay is destined to be the lowest level of this society, and he himself cannot muster the courage to challenge the perception of the whole society.

The campus in the 90s, compared to later, must be simple and vibrant, and many people, including Ye Luwei himself in the previous life, are confident that they can change their fate with their hands.

At that time, Ye Luwei, dressed as a street stall in a lotus pond, walked on campus but thought he was still the most handsome boy in the school, gave a speech or performed on stage, wearing cloth shoes made of broken leather full of red jade, thinking that he represented the justice and strength of this era. Poverty cannot make you lose your morale, let alone lose your confidence.

However, Ye Luwei, who is middle-aged, often asks himself, in fact, he was already a little inferior at that time. In addition to the face given by his parents and his strong learning ability, his ability to pay the bill is so low that it is not enough to support himself in reading.

I didn't dare to go to Banhua's girlfriend when I participated in the work, so I simply wrote a few letters to confess to myself. didn't dare to pursue Huang Qingju for five years, wasn't it because of his low income that he knew that he couldn't support a family?

Under the bleak future, I had to force myself to keep studying, and keep using my own still need to learn to anesthetize my helplessness and disappointment in life.

The five years of ambiguity with Huang Qingju in the previous life were the most difficult five years of the Zhongwan Bureau, the salary was only enough to fill his stomach, and the expenses of the business trip needed to be borrowed from the finance, and he was waiting for the salary to be paid at the end of each month.

Ye Luwei came from the next 20 years and knew that material conditions are the foundation of a qiē. For Ye Luwei, who has read a lot of philosophy books, all philosophy is only studying one problem: how to make everyone stop rebelling when the material conditions are insufficient.

With the understanding that material is the root of a problem, Ye Luwei solves everything from material conditions, and in life and work, he is invincible.

Love? Love is first and foremost built on physical strength. However, human beings have evolved to this day, and the most powerful thing is no longer the claw, but the brain. Not genetically powerful sperm, but silver with strong purchasing power.

Ye Luwei does not doubt that his women really love him, but he will not be stupid enough to pretend to be poor to challenge their values and views on love.

Ju Rongmei fell in love with her teenage self in both lives, which is pure love, and it is the only substitute for loneliness and loneliness. At that time, she needed a simple emotional sustenance without any utilitarianism, and her appearance coincided with the meeting.

Later, she was desperate and denied the world, so she gave herself to Ye Luwei, and then died. There may be a glimmer of hope that Ye Luwei can hold her and give her a chance to live. It's a pity that Ye Luwei was just a simple peasant child at that time, with a beautiful yearning in her heart, but where could she understand her complex and contradictory thoughts, and finally buried her own short life.

Huang Qingju is poisoned by education and romance novels, full of fantasies about beautiful love, and always dreams that she will have a romantic passion that people can write into the book.

However, reality gave her a mud puddle of outdoor work, surrounded by a crowd of construction workers in gray-blue overalls. Roaring machines, splashes of grout, and tattered camps...... Even if there is a blue sky and white clouds as a background, and the surrounding mountains and green waters, what about it?

Ye Luwei's appearance is already her latest goal to place her emotions, at least he has a handsome appearance, an unyielding heart, and an enterprising ambition to work hard. In that closed environment, Huang Qingju had no choice, and there was no one to accompany her to read a book, except for Ye Luwei.

At that time, Ye Luwei was still not enough to satisfy all her imagination, Ye Luwei could only occasionally give her a book or make a bowl of noodles for her. These are only warm, but there is no passion of BMW.

Tong Ruoying also wants a happy love and family, but it is more realistic and practical than Huang Qingju, when she met Ye Luwei, Ye Luwei was already good enough in the surrounding crowd, a handsome face and an unyielding heart, enough for Tong Ruoying to decisively decide to try to love him.

Huang Qingju's imminent departure made Tong Ruoying realize that she was not the only choice, but Ye Luwei might be her only choice, so she jokingly announced that she was going to pursue Ye Luwei, relying on her beautiful appearance and smart personality, she quickly captured Ye Luwei's heart. Maybe Ye Luwei fell in love with Tong Ruoying earlier than Tong Ruoying really fell in love with him.

After Hu Weiwei divorced, she really knew Ye Luwei, at that time she was already mature and rational, and in the contact between the two, she slowly realized that she was in love with Ye Luwei, but she controlled the distance very well, and let her own wisp of meditation be immersed in the depths of her heart, so as not to let it have the opportunity to set off a storm.

The four women who fell in love with Ye Luwei, when they fell in love with Ye Luwei, were all the best times when Ye Luwei was the best in the limited population at that time, and they may have Ye Luwei's unique personality charm, but Ye Luwei's relatively strong learning and fighting ability in the limited population at least revealed that he had more potential than the surrounding crowd.

In this life, Ye Luwei has passed the simple love yearning of adolescence, and no longer believes that happiness can be achieved by relying only on simple love.

The abundant material life of true love is certainly much happier than having only true love but being dragged down by food, clothing, shelter and transportation. As for life without love, it is not life, it is a transaction, even if a life without love lasts for a lifetime, at most it is just a general contract, which is essentially a transaction.

Why love makes people yearn for it, of course, not only needs to be materially based, but also its own powerful charm, as well as the throbbing that touches the depths of the soul when you love each other deeply, the other party's every move, sadness and joy, pain and happiness, all make people's souls resonate and dazzle.

There is also one of the most important substances of true love, and that is the willingness to sacrifice for the other person! Sacrifice the body, sacrifice the intellect, and even sacrifice the life.

Throughout the ages, human beings' expectations for beautiful love have slowly raised love itself to a sacred height, slowly tolerating any blasphemy, and slowly trying to strip it from the dirty material foundation and become a pure spiritual enjoyment.

A person's true love can basically only happen in adolescence. Because human beings at this time were protected in a narrow and closed educational environment, they did not know the importance of the material base, and in disguised form met the conditions for taking love as a pure spiritual enjoyment, thus stripping it from the material base. So love at this age of adolescence is simple and pure.

In the early nineties, this extremely precious time, people just dared to express their love freely, and materially did not have the conditions to greatly affect love, and the second generation of pit goods did not grow up. Therefore, the love of this era has stripped away the material conditions, and it is pure and beautiful.

More than ten years later, the great unfairness of material distribution has lightly washed away the pure love of this youth, and the divorce rate has reached the highest level in history, which has fully analyzed that simple love cannot withstand the simple blow of the material foundation.

Ye Luwei also yearns for beautiful love, but he believes that love needs to be cared for and cultivated, including using rich substances as the main culture medium, so that love grows in nutritious cow dung, which is the most suitable way for it. Free-range is not love, it is irresponsible for love.

Tong Ruoying in this life, Ye Luwei at this time has a sense of responsibility, he can't let himself live in the high-end of material life, but Tong Ruoying is still struggling at the bottom of the basics.

How to make Tong Ruoying accept his material help is more important and urgent than making her fall in love with herself. Ye Luwei knows her family well, and knows that she only has 80 yuan a month for living expenses, although she has a little scholarship, it adds up to 100 yuan, and if she wants to eat herself well in Shudu, she must plan her daily meal expenses well, otherwise she will have to be hungry for a few days.

The ones given to Room 308 and Mencius Tong's bedroom were all eaten, mainly because what they lacked the most was food.

At this time, college students were far more proud than ten years later, and Ye Luwei had to be careful to avoid their fragile self-esteem. Just now Tong Ruoying said that Ye Luwei would stop paying Hong Jun's salary, and Ye Luwei could already foresee that Hong Jun would no longer help him, even if he wanted to help, he would no longer charge "express fees".

Meng Zitong came from the banking system, and his own family income was higher, so his role and understanding of money were far higher than those of others. His resistance to doing paid work is not so strict.

At this time, people really have some educational problems, and doing some paid service seems to insult his personality. Especially a person with a bit of intellectual culture, he is completely mentally crippled, and he is even more angry and humiliated than spit on his face for someone who is not paid for his service.

At this time, people also have a lovely problem, they don't accept paid extra work, but they are willing to provide free extra help.

Ye Luwei finally did not persuade Tong Ruoying to accept his help, and did not accept his love for the time being. Before Tong Ruoying left, she really couldn't find the right words to deal with Ye Luwei, who had a sincere face, so she replaced it with a universal word: phew.