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This is not a very easy question to answer.
After such an extremely illusory rebirth, the truth sounds like crazy words, and it must not be said. But neither Lin Shu nor Ju Mingfeng wanted to make up too many lies to deceive their parents, because the more lies they had, the easier it was to be exposed.
So Ju Mingfeng was silent for a while, and then replied: "It was love at first sight!" ”
His words left the three adults a little dumbfounded. Cui Wenxin's first mind couldn't turn around, and asked with an unbelievable expression: "Love at first sight?" How old were you when you first met? ”
Ju Mingfeng said: "...... Am I precocious? ”
You're talking too much about being precocious to this point, aren't you? Whose child will fall in love at first sight when he is ten years old...... Then a few adults turned around their minds and thought that maybe there really was. In other words, today's children are often courteous when they are still in kindergarten.
But can the feelings of kindergarten children be taken seriously?
The same is true for Ju Mingfeng - if he is still ten years old, he just likes Lin Shu until he dies, and no adult will take this matter seriously. But he is now sixteen years old...... Then Cui Wenxin suddenly realized that the two children had been together for so long.
Regardless of what kind of liking the ten-year-old Ju Mingfeng likes Lin Shu, let's just say that his liking can last so long...... No one can say that the two children are just child's play.
Because of such a thought in her mind, Cui Wenxin was silent for a while.
She has vaguely realized that her so-called tests for Ju Mingfeng may not be difficult for the two children in the end.
Lin Shu only felt that Ju Mingfeng's answer was too arbitrary and stimulating to the elders, so he immediately opened his mouth and tried to remedy it. He said: "I have always liked Mingfeng, and I feel that I am very happy and tacit to talk to him about anything. But if you really like it, it's probably the first year of junior high school...... Later we said it bluntly......"
The first and second years of junior high school are the time when many children's self-consciousness awakens during adolescence, and many people's first love also occurs during this time period. Lin Shu's answer was also carefully considered, and he felt that this statement would be more credible.
Cui Wenxin and the others listened to it, and they really believed it. However, it was because it was credible that several people were extra frightened. From the first year of junior high school to the first year of high school, it has been three years, but the two children have been silent and have not shown any signs. This patience and scheming is simply shocking.
Even if they are discovered now, the two of them deal with it very calmly and calmly, without the impatience and impulsiveness that children of this age usually have—if Romeo and Juliet had this scheming, they might have children and grandchildren decades later.
However, the more this is the case, the more tricky and difficult it is for the three parents to deal with.
The adults were speechless, but Ju Mingfeng didn't intend to let everyone go. He took a deep breath, this time his demeanor was much more solemn, walked up to Liang Yuehua, and said, "Auntie, I know I'm young, and it doesn't sound very credible. I also know that I am a boy, and as Lin Shu's lover, it may make you feel that it is not so acceptable, but I am serious. ”
"I have liked Lin Shu for many years, and I will be very good to him. But if he is with me in the future, I will definitely regard him as more important than myself. I will listen to Lin Shu and take care of him, so please recognize us and allow us to be together. Could you please ...... Don't threaten Lin Shu with yourself, because you are really, really important to him. If he is forced to choose, it will be painful for him. ”
Because of his personality, Ju Mingfeng rarely uses honorifics. When used occasionally, it often has a slight taste of mockery. But at this time, his attitude was very strict, although he used honorifics to speak to Liang Yuehua, but there was no disrespect in his tone.
Liang Yuehua was stunned.
In fact, she had already threatened Lin Shu with the mother-son relationship, but Lin Shu was not coerced. Although he did not fight Liang Yuehua head-on, he was not obediently coerced.
Lin Shu's attitude was very calm, and she was unwilling to clash with Liang Yuehua head-on, she was like a fist hitting the cotton, she was completely powerless, and she couldn't get the desired result.
Because of this, Liang Yuehua had no choice but to pull Ju Baiqi in.
However, at this time, Ju Mingfeng said to her: Don't threaten Lin Shu with yourself, because he will be in pain.
Ju Mingfeng's demeanor was very serious, Liang Yuehua was stunned for a moment, and suddenly felt a suffocation in his chest. She has never seen such a Ju Mingfeng - this child has always had a very unserious attitude, and when she meets, she is more coquettish and tricky, and rarely says anything serious.
Liang Yuehua doesn't hate children being coquettish. Lin Shu is quite young and mature on weekdays, and he is rarely coquettish, and Liang Yuehua is more or less regretful in his heart. So whether it is Chen Mingxue or Ju Mingfeng, seeing beautiful and pleasing children coquettish Liang Yuehua is very useful most of the time.
But that's also when the other party is a "child".
If Ju Mingfeng is reviewed from the perspective of an adult, he is actually not reliable and immature enough in Liang Yuehua's impression. Childish, freewheeling, and without self-control - these are Liang Yuehua's vague impressions of Ju Mingfeng.
But what Ju Mingfeng said at this moment, what he did that night, completely broke Liang Yuehua's impression. After playing Ju Baiyan in a childish way, his real attitude and thoughts hidden behind this incident were neither naïve nor frivolous.
And the words spoken at this time have also changed from the usual style, and they are very old-fashioned and tolerant.
Ju Mingfeng said: Don't threaten Lin Shu with yourself, because Lin Shu will be sad.
His attitude towards Ju Baixi and Cui Wenxin was a little willful and frivolous, but in the face of Liang Yuehua, he instantly became solemn and mature, is that a disguise?
No, Ju Mingfeng did not hide the way he got along with his parents.
He is actually telling Liang Yuehua that his usual childishness is just an attitude that only shows to his family or elders, and it is his heart-to-heart to please. But deep down, he's not really that naïve and unresponsible.
What's more, he told Liang Yuehua on the side that he cared about Lin Shu no less than Liang Yuehua. And not only will he not let Lin Shu face many problems alone, he doesn't want to cause Lin Shu and his relatives to break up, and he will fight with him.
And this kind of behavior, whether intentional or not, is to contrast the unreasonableness of Liang Yuehua's behavior and attitude - if he really cares about Lin Shu so much, there is no reason to coerce him with some hurtful practices. To love someone, you should respect the other person's ideas and strive for understanding and consideration, rather than forcing the other person to behave according to your own ideas.
Ju Mingfeng may not have expressed these thoughts in such detail, and the feelings that Liang Yuehua felt at that moment were not so detailed and specific, but she did feel a little weak at that moment, and felt a weakness in her heart.
Because Ju Mingfeng is an object, the more qualified and responsible he is, the smaller and weaker Liang Yuehua's foothold against the two is. Her rationality will naturally refute her feelings, making her contradictory and unreasonable.
After all, gender is never a criterion for judging whether a person is suitable as a partner. Even if it is heterosexual, the other party may be opposed by family members for various reasons, such as personality, such as feelings, such as responsibility, such as ability.
When a person has all kinds of defects, opposition is a very simple thing - he may not be responsible, he may not love your children enough, he may not be dedicated enough, he may not be able to make him worry-free...... These are all justifiable objections.
But what if he was ready for everything but his gender? Can Liang Yuehua really oppose this relationship just because of the wrong gender? It's too easy to find a lover of the right gender in this world, but it's too difficult to find a lover who treats you wholeheartedly, is willing to take care of you, is ready to take responsibility for each other, and never leaves.
Can she really object?
Liang Yuehua stood there for a long time before he said, "Mingfeng...... You don't know how hard it is to walk this path. Aunt Liang is not against you for the sake of opposition......"
Ju Mingfeng said: "I know. Auntie is worried that I can't take care of Lin Shu and that he will be injured. Auntie, I'll protect him. ”
If before today, Liang Yuehua would definitely question Ju Mingfeng: protection? What do you take to protect?
But Ju Mingfeng's momentum today is too strong, which inexplicably makes Liang Yuehua feel that he is not just talking. In the final analysis, it was Ju Mingfeng's resolute attitude and fearless appearance that shook Liang Yuehua.
Liang Yuehua said: "...... I don't want to judge you by your academic performance, but you are usually very loose in your studies, and Aunt Liang really can't believe how persistent you can be in this matter. ”
Ju Mingfeng thought for a while before he spoke: "Auntie, the reason why I don't study so hard is not because I can't do it, but because I don't think it's necessary. But if you want to see if I have enough perseverance and determination from this point of view, then I can also work hard...... It's too difficult to win against Lin Shu, but I'm still confident that I'll get in the top ten. ”
Liang Yuehua listened to him easily, but she didn't believe it very much, and said, "You are quite confident? ”
Ju Mingfeng Zhengse said: "There may be some things in this world that can't be done, but the exam is definitely not one of them." The original standard for exams was that students should 'do well as long as they have the heart'. I'm not too stupid, and whether I can do well in the exam depends on how much I want to do it. ”
"It's like you said, Auntie...... Do you think that if I am with Lin Shu, the road ahead will be difficult. But there really is no difficulty in this world that cannot be overcome no matter what—except death. Dad said that sooner or later he will regret it, but why don't you feel ...... Can we endure these regrets? Ju Mingfeng thought to himself, don't say that he didn't want children at all, even if he really wanted to, he wouldn't want children more than Lin Shu, "People live in the world, there must be many trade-offs, and there will definitely be tribulations." But why do you think we have to avoid these tribulations in order to be happy? ”
"Like you said, if we can't bear these tribulations, we will naturally separate." But if we endure it, we will grow old together and live happily. Then the end result is that we are either separated or happy together. ”
"So, what do you have to object to?"