Gong Yan didn't dare to make eye contact with Lu Chong, and waved his hands vigorously: "Let's go!" Don't bother me! ”

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He stepped forward, took Gong Bin in his arms, and whispered in her ear: "Since I saw you in a movie pictorial ten years ago, I have fallen in love with you deeply, in my eyes, you are not only the first beauty in the film industry in the eighties, but also the first beauty in all eras, a beautiful woman like you should have a fuller life and happier happiness......

Gong Bin was still struggling at first: "No! I'm married, I have a family! ”

If you were Lu Chong in that life, you might be afraid, but Lu Chong in this life knows very well that this is the anti-slut mechanism of women's psychology at work.

Chinese women are more conservative based on traditional thinking, believing that if they have a relationship with a man easily, they will not be cherished, and they will be easily abandoned by men, or some women use them to reject that kind of behavior, or avoid the responsibility after that kind of behavior, and the strategies used.

Women will deliberately emphasize the romantic aspect of a relationship, downplay the topic related to that kind of thing, they will deliberately say less about the kind of behavior they have done in the past, or they will say something like, "I don't like to do that kind of thing", in order to maintain the image of a pure girl in the other person's mind. Women will usually step out of their role and present themselves as a "simple girl", and will even show their indifference or even disgust to that kind of relationship, and women will fake rejection before having that kind of relationship with a man. This is determined by the internal mechanism of the woman's psyche, which convinces the woman that she is not so easily captive, but the truth is diametrically opposed.

Rookies usually believe it and leave in frustration, but when a master hears a woman's refusal at this time, he usually just listens to it, and does not think deeply about it and takes it seriously, otherwise both parties will be very frustrated.

In fact, women are very smart, wouldn't she know that dating you alone can lead to intimate behavior? Does she really think that when she goes to the hotel with you, she takes a shower after drinking soy sauce and blows down the air conditioner? If you're interested, do a few push-ups to train your psoas muscles? If she wants, any hint will do, this kind of thing, it's not very difficult.

At this time, the man does not necessarily have to have a very reasonable reason, as long as she feels that it is a safe thing to open a room with you.

A woman rarely does anything during a pick-up so as not to feel that what may happen between you is her responsibility, and no matter how heavy she feels the responsibility, it will activate her anti-slut defense mechanism, so she needs to pass the buck reasonably.

For example, if a man says to her, "Hey, let's go back to my house and shoot," even if she wants to say yes, she has to say no, because if she does, she will be burdened with the responsibility of the matter – she absolutely does not want to.

But if the man says, "Hey, let's go to my house first, I want you to see my tropical fish," then she will have an excuse and a reasonable margin to go to your house and have sex with you very unfortunately. "And so it happened......

That's why the windfall is particularly romantic, and if it's meant to happen, how can it be her fault? How could she resist fate?

When a woman activates this anti-slut mechanism, the man has to act bravely, he has to always dominate the interaction, and he has no choice because women rarely take responsibility for what happens in the moment.

For example, the opening phase of the game must keep the situation interesting, and if the man doesn't try to steer the conversation to an interesting topic, the woman may accidentally bring up her own boring topic – and then she finds it boring, and it's your fault. It may seem unfair that we men are responsible for leading the conversation, but if we don't, we risk losing women. If she finds it boring to be around you and exciting to be around other men, why waste time on you?

To create miracles, to be responsible for creating the experience you share, to facilitate every moment of sharing, to be brave enough to lead her forward, whether it is the progress of the stage, the achievement of the goals of each stage, the ascension, the change of venue, or anything else, it is your responsibility if she is bored or you are bored, it is all your fault.

Finally, it is necessary to stay the course, which is another way to relieve her of all responsibility.

Of course, don't confuse persistence with pleading, arguing, aggressive, clingy, or intimidating. In other words, don't give up too easily. Women may test you to see if you give up easily – in fact, to measure your self-confidence. Just assume that she is symbolically reserved and continue to treat her. If she doesn't resist a little, she will feel like a slut, which is absolutely not allowed. If you can't bear her humiliation, how can you possibly protect her from other people's humiliation?

This kind of thing is very weird, and men who are too positive may misunderstand that all resistance is just a gesture, and finally end up with a lawsuit for some reason. However, a man who can't stay the course will acquiesce every time a woman resists, and many times she actually hopes in her heart that he can be a little stronger.

Lu Chong's eyes stared at her affectionately, his eyes were still full of power: "Don't worry, I won't ruin your marriage, I will only meet you when you have time, but I will always miss you!" ”

Gong Bin is still struggling: "I have a husband, I love her!" ”

Lu Chong didn't let go of her, and looked at her gently: "I like you, that's why I want you to be happy, I won't destroy your happiness, I will only watch over you from the side, as long as you turn around when you're tired, I will always be behind you not far behind." ”

Gong Bin could hear such love words, and her body was a little soft, but she was still pushing Lu Chong: "You can't destroy my marriage!" You bad guy! ”

Lu Chong was still staring at her, saying hot love words: "Love is longer than the length of marriage, marriage is over, love can continue, love does not care whether there is a marriage or not, but in the content, our love cannot be blocked by anything." Love is mutual, although I don't care who pays more and who pays less, but I care that when we give each other, we do our best! ”

Gong Yan's body was softer, but she still resisted: "I'm not a casual woman......"

Lu Chong hugged her tightly and said in her ear: "I know, I know that you are not a casual person, you have never been in my eyes!" Me neither; But dear, I must tell you that you are important in my heart, only you can make me so crazy, I want to get you, I want to be with you tonight. ”

Gong Bing's body was already so soft that he had to lie in Lu Chong's arms, because, when Lu Chong was saying those hot love words, his hands were not idle, and his hands were up and down.