Chapter 13 Mate Selection Conditions

If you want to ask her how the relationship with Ruan Bin is closer, it seems to start with eating.

After eating spicy noodles, the whole person was warm, and when he walked out of the restaurant, the cold outside came to his face, which made Xia Zhi's little face immediately red, and it became more and more delicate and moist.

Ruan Bin inadvertently saw her, and he couldn't take his eyes off it for a while, and stared at her for several seconds.

Xia Zhi patted his face and said, "Oh, I often eat spicy food these days, and I should have acne on my forehead again." ”

Ruan Bin joked: "It's good to have acne, it means that you are still young, I don't think you have this chance to grow up." ”

Xia Zhi turned his head to look at him and said, "Aren't you still young, why do you talk about how old you are." ”

"Hahahaha, thank you for looking up to me, mine is really not young. You're graduating from graduate school this year, right, I'm probably ?? Seven or eight years older than you, several generations apart. ”

Xia Zhi shook his head, "Yes, in this way, aren't you an older leftover man,"

Ruan Bin was stunned for a moment, saying that he was the fifth oldest diamond king, saying that he was an older leftover man, and she was really the only one, and the word "older leftover man" sounded so awkward.

Xia Zhi talked eloquently, "Mr. Ruan, fortunately you grew up in the city, if you grew up in the countryside, you would be an outlier in the village." ”

"Yes,"

"Yes," Xia Zhi said solemnly, "for example, in my hometown, the suburbs of Hangzhou are considered to be developed rural areas, and their thoughts are close to those of the city, and they are much more open, but there are still some old concepts." For example, if a woman is over twenty-five, she will only be left to be picked, and a man who is thirty or single, he must have a problem. A single man in his thirties is more terrifying than a divorced man in his thirties. Let's just talk about me, in the eyes of my mom and relatives, I was an outlier, and every time I came home, I was forced to meet one or two boys. ”

In fact, there are problems in this area not only in the countryside, but also in the city, and he is indeed older, and he is also facing the problems that Xia Zhi said. Didn't he come to Hangzhou this time to escape his father's forced marriage?

He said empathetically: "It seems that both of us are outliers in the eyes of our families. By the way, how do you avoid that?"

Speaking of which, Xia Zhi said quite experienced: "Don't avoid it, I've seen a lot, haha, when I meet someone who catches my eye, I will talk a few more words, and when I meet someone who doesn't look good, I will bow my head and be silent, and people will naturally understand." ”

"Look at you like this now, you haven't met the eye-catching,"

"Hehe, yes," thinking that Ruan Bin said that she was too demanding, then she was really wronged, she hurriedly explained, "It's really not that I'm picky, it's just that this kind of thing won't come, it's not right, it's not right, if you want me to say specific requirements, it's really nothing, but it's just not right." ”

Ruan Bin said with emotion: "Well, it's okay for girls to be cautious when talking about their partners." ”

Xia Zhi didn't answer, she didn't know how to answer, she didn't know his past, a man of his age must have a love history, maybe there were a lot.

There was silence between the two, and under the streetlights, their reflections were like two parallel lines, and there was no intersection in the end.

In the early winter season, being in a foreign land, there is less sense of belonging, and it is inevitable that there will be a little sadness.

Ruan Bin suddenly asked: "You have eaten back and forth several times in the restaurant near your house, do you have anything new?"

Xia Zhi thought for a while and said, "It's better to eat outside than to make it yourself, and let you taste my craft next time." "She doesn't have anything else to boast about, but she's very confident in her cooking skills. Her father has been a chef in a big hotel for more than 20 years, and later returned to his hometown to open his own restaurant.

"But there's one thing, there's a lack of guys in the place where I live, so I'm going to have to borrow a kitchen."

Ruan Bin said directly: "Go to me, there is everything in the hotel apartment where I live, and I haven't been in the kitchen, and the equipment is quite high-end." ”

Xia Zhi didn't think too much about it at the time, and agreed at once, he hadn't cooked for a long time, and his hands were itchy, "Okay, then it's better tomorrow, go grocery shopping after work, and then go directly to your place to do it, okay?"

After asking, she felt reckless, is it really good for a girl to take such an initiative, and it doesn't seem good to be in the same room with him.

"Hehehe, it's okay another day, let's do it another day."

Ruan Bin: "Why do you want to change the day, it's just tomorrow, just do what you say, I have a large supermarket downstairs, where you can buy vegetables." As for you, let's think of a recipe first. ”

Xia Zhi's face was getting redder and redder, and she could feel that her cheeks were getting hot, but fortunately it was night, and the light was not very good.

While talking, she went downstairs to the apartment, the old rule, Xia Zhi went up first, and when she got to the house, she turned on the light, she ran to the windowsill to poke her head, and Ruan Bin left.

Often at this time, Xia Solstice will fantasize about whether he likes him or not, and then he is so excited that he can't sleep all night.

Crush is a bitter and blissful taste.

The next day, with yesterday's agreement, Xia Zhi worked more actively and hard, and finished the work in hand early.

She was bored and sent a message to Ruan Bin, "Mr. Ruan, what flavors of food do you want to eat, Sichuan cuisine, Cantonese cuisine, Hunan cuisine,"

Ruan Bin didn't reply, she thought he was probably busy.

In the office, colleagues were talking about what to plan for New Year's Day, and Feng Jingjing was the most active, "I'm going to Hong Kong to shop, who wants to be together,?? Cut, I'll go alone if no one goes, I've been looking at a Burberry cashmere scarf for a long time, and I have to buy it back this time, about two or three thousand. ”

Li Xiaomei: "I don't have any money, go to my relatives to clean up the house, where is the time to travel." ”

Tang Sitian leaned over and asked, "Summer Solstice, what about you, how did you spend New Year's Day?"

"Go back to your hometown, how else can you live, you can take three days off, I must go back."

Tang Sitian knew the situation at home, so she said, "It's okay, wait for me to say hello to my uncle and aunt and your brother." ”

"Hehe, no questions."

Speaking of her younger brother, in addition to feeling sorry for her parents, she only sighed. She and her younger brother are dragon and phoenix fetuses, and they were born five minutes apart.

His father is a hotel chef and his mother is a primary school teacher, so they were originally a family of four, plus two elderly grandparents, and they were a very happy family.

Unbeknownst to them, when they were eight years old, disaster suddenly befell their ordinary family. The younger brother suddenly had a high fever and took him to the hospital for a check-up, acute meningitis, and the situation was quite serious.

Fortunately, the younger brother was able to pick up a life, but Yan Zhan's meningitis caused irreparable damage to the younger brother's brain stem, and his intelligence declined, and now more than ten years have passed, and he only has the IQ of a four- or five-year-old child.

Since then, my father has continued to work in the hotel kitchen, earning money to treat my younger brother, while my mother has quit her job to focus on watching her children at home.

At that time, the doctors said that the younger brother's IQ was only that of a two-year-old child, and it could not be changed. Over the years, after his mother's unremitting teaching, my younger brother has recovered a little, at least he can eat and brush his teeth by himself, and he can also talk and communicate with others.

My father's cooking skills were very appreciated by the big bosses, and his salary was good. As I grew older, my grandparents were not in good health, and my mother couldn't take care of them, so my father quit his job and simply went home and opened a small restaurant.

The small restaurant business was good, and he made some money, and later, his father also opened a small factory, and now in the local area, their family is also a good family. Fathers use their hands to create more wealth and security for their children.

Her father not only supported the whole family with his own skills, but also provided her with a master's degree.

She knew that her father pinned all his hopes on her, he didn't want her to let a girl take on the burden of the family, no matter how difficult and hard it was, he had to train his only daughter to become a talent.

Fortunately, she herself is also angry, whether it is her studies or work, she has never disappointed her parents. She had to work hard.

In her eyes, her brother is a four or five-year-old child, innocent, kind, simple, every time she goes home, her brother will wait at the door of the house, and when he sees her, his brother will dance and shout: "Sister is back, sister is back." ”

The child's world is the purest, as long as you are good to him, he will be good to you. As soon as she came home, her brother would take out the candy he had hidden and give it to her all of them.

She thought that now that her parents are alive, her younger brother is taken care of by her parents, and when her parents are old, the responsibility of taking care of her younger brother will fall on her.

When talking to Ruan Bin about the blind date, she actually hid some information. She went on a blind date, but she didn't say anything, and as soon as the other party heard that she had such a younger brother, she refused in advance.

There are also some people who do not refuse because of this, but they will ask about the distribution of family property in the future, which makes Xia Zhi very disgusted.

At first, she will be a little lost, but after a long time, it will be like that, but she will comfort her mother, Mom, it's okay, human nature, don't be too sad.

She never felt that her brother was a burden, on the contrary, she felt that the time she spent with her brother was the happiest and easiest.

Therefore, she has to choose her partner more carefully than the average person, and her other half, not coveting her father's small estate, must also accept it along with her younger brother.

She knew that it would be difficult for her to meet such a person, but the obsession in her heart made her not want to lower her requirements.

Ruan Bin said that she has high conditions for choosing a mate, yes, yes, yes, thinking about it this way, her requirements are indeed high.

When she was studying, there were also many boys with good conditions who pursued her, but she refused on the grounds that she didn't feel it. First, she didn't want to waste everyone's time, and second, she didn't want to intimidate them by telling them that she had such a brother.

She felt that this was disrespectful to her brother.

She is deeply in love with her brother.

Suddenly, the mobile phone shook, interrupting her thoughts, she picked up the phone and looked at it, it was Ruan Bin's reply, "It seems that you can do quite a lot, then come the same, don't embarrass you for the first time, you can do it." ”

Xia Zhi pursed his lips and smiled, is it possible that he will cook for you often in the future?

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