This night, Calm didn't fall asleep for a long time, because she has been trying to persuade the man to reconcile with her parents, after all, Calm has been educated by the Central Plains culture since she was a child - filial piety comes first, filial piety is greater than the sky, these are the indelible nature of human beings in the eyes of any person in the Central Plains, so for the unfilial people, the condemnation of the past dynasties is countless, if someone is unfilial to his parents, don't say that he will be despised by all the neighbors, Even if he becomes a high-ranking person above 10,000 people, he will be criticized by countless people.

But this is only the custom of the Central Plains people, before the calm anyway also stayed in the Xiongnu for about ten years, the customs of the people here have an understanding, in their eyes, although filial piety is also very important, but it will not be directly related to a person's life or even career, at most it will become a joke after dinner.

Calm wants to help the man reconcile with his parents, not only because she has regarded him as a friend, but more importantly, because Calm can understand the man's feelings, although the man did not say it, and his attitude towards the family seems to be indifferent, but in fact, Calm knows that he still cares in his heart, and it can be seen from his lack of anger about the nurse alone.

Although on the surface, he is just holding grievances with the nurse who has raised him for more than ten years, but every time he sees his family in his mouth, he calmly feels that the reason why he can't let go of this qiē is because in his eyes, he is ashamed of what his family has done, if it is really a stranger, who cares about the dignity of a stranger, so in fact, the man still can't let go.

Calm down and think a lot about it this night, and in her opinion, the only way to solve this problem truly and effectively is to compromise.

The Book of Rites is an important book of rules and regulations for the Han people, and the code system is the basic norm of the code of conduct followed by a country.

Successive rulers attached great importance to the construction of the canonical system.

Among them, the master of the collection is none other than the "Historical Records", in which the "book"

and the "Zhi" in the official history of later dynasties

, "Record"

He left a wealth of records about the canonical system.

This shows the importance of the Book of Rites, which still affects people's behavior all the time, and it is known as the "mean"

As the highest moral code and the law of nature.

It is not easy to be biased, and it is not easy to be mediocre.

Dealing with things impartially and excessively is its core proposition, so solving problems naturally starts from this, with the intention of weighing the pros and cons and finding the center as the starting point.

Therefore, it is not unreasonable for each other to compromise with each other in order to seek to reduce the contradictions between the two sides from large to small and small to none.

But although it is easy to say, it is very difficult to do, because the people of Loulan are relatively extreme, they have a clear sense of likes and dislikes, and they have always had revenge, even if they hit a stone with an egg, they will not compromise.

So calmly wanting to make a step between the man and the parents, the idea is good, but the reality is very difficult to achieve.

But if you don't do it, you can't be sure that it's impossible, so I decided to give it a try when I calmed down.

After all, the man's parents are the rulers of the entire Loulan, and their majesty and status must be maintained, so if they want to find room for compromise in this situation, they can only use the man as a breakthrough.

Therefore, he doesn't care much about the man when he is calm on weekdays, and lets him sleep until midnight, wasting a lot of time.

And today, the rooster had just crowed, and calmly dragged the man out of the house.

Although the breeze was blowing in the yard, it was quite cold, and ordinary people didn't feel sleepy as soon as they walked outside, but the man was different, after all, he had slept on the street before, and he just found a tree with a crooked neck, climbed it and fell asleep.

So the man stood in the yard, but he was still drowsy and couldn't open his eyes.

When the ancients were reading, they stabbed the head with a cone of the beam, so Calm directly stabbed the man with the awl that the old grandmother used to hold shoes, of course, Calm had already ground the sharpest tip of the awl with a stone in advance, so he couldn't hurt him at all, but the man who still hurt after stabbing down scolded, "Which one is looking for death with a thousand knives, and dares to move rough on Lao Tzu, thinking that he is too long-lived?" Then I'll help you break your life today!! ”

After saying this, he was about to make a move, but when he saw that he was calm, he braked urgently.

"Grandma, what are you going to do in the morning?"

The man immediately changed his attitude, complaining while pressing his hand on the spot that had been stung by the awl.

Calm down and didn't say anything, the man walked to the study, "A man must be able to write and martial arts, you have a body of kung fu but no strategy to use it effectively, and in the end you will only be defeated due to recklessness." ”

Calm because the man was not honest, so he directly tied him to the seat with an iron cable, and in this way, the man still refused to read, his hands could not be put down, and he could not even fall forward, so he still sat and fell asleep, and whenever he calmly opened his mouth to look at him, the man pretended to be in good spirits and was really full of energy, and when he spoke calmly, he also agreed but did not understand anything, but when she lowered her head and resumed her original state and continued to sleep, so the man forced the time of the day to pass.

After Calm finished the book, the man couldn't wait to walk out, and at this moment he ran out like a wild horse off the leash, for fear that Calm would arrest him to study again.

Seeing the man like this, he couldn't help but shake his head calmly, and after reading and reading on the scroll, he crossed it, it seems that the man was born to be a rough man who practices martial arts, and it is too difficult for him to dance and write.

So calmly gave up the idea immediately, and could only find another way to help the man.

The man was unaware of these plans of Calm, and thought that Calm would let him read, and that reading those words that only knew the teachings but did not pay attention to the practicality was worthless in his eyes, so it was better not to read them.

Besides, he was naturally impatient, and it was really difficult for him to sit down and read the mysteries and take time to understand them.

After that, Calm didn't ask him to go to school, but every day when the man walked to the garden to practice martial arts, he could always feel a pair of eyes looking at him from a distance, looking in the direction of feeling, and found that Calm was dangling with a pen, holding a notebook in the other hand, and his eyes looked down at the book to look at him, and finally the man couldn't help it, he walked straight over and asked, "Why are you looking at me?" ”

At this time, he was calm and wanted to be caught by something, and the whole person became nervous, and then retired and did not retreat into the house and then stuttered and said "No...... It's nothing. ”

Then close the door and stop coming out, until the man doesn't pay attention to her and continues to practice, and calms down and does this again.

Repeating it many times, the man couldn't help but grab Calm's arm and dragged her out of the house, looked at Calm and said, "If you really want to learn martial arts, I can teach you!" You don't have to show that thief-eyed expression. ”

Calm didn't expect the man to come to such a conclusion after being discovered by the man, so he couldn't help but ask, "Huh?!" ”

But at the same time, I am also glad that the man is still five big and three coarse, and he doesn't know how to read words and looks, if he finds out that he wants to reconcile him with his parents in a similar way, he will definitely raise his head high, and choke at her with his nostrils, "Hmph!" Don't! ”