What is love? No one can give a definitive answer!

Love may be a kind of life, look at the person you love and smile, silently hold hands and walk by, without words or promises.

Lace up an apron, go into the kitchen, make a pot of soup for your loved one, tighten her clothes and haircut when the wind blows, and hold up a clear sky for her with an umbrella on rainy days. When you wake up, the thoughtfulness and gentleness between the eye waves and the warmth between the skin can make you happy for a lifetime!

Love may be a phone call when you are away from home, and two worries can make each other's hearts go home together in the waiting lovesickness.

Love may be a sip of water when you are thirsty, a cup of tea when you are tired; A word of hush and warmth when you are wronged, and a little humor when you are angry.

Love may be a state of mind. The roses of the yuan and the diamonds of the thousand yuan are as beautiful as they can be loved, and they can be the paradise in each other's eyes.

Love may be a responsibility. You know what shoulders to lean on, and he knows that he can only sleep in your arms.

Love may be a kind of fate. One red line, two lovesickness, three lives.

Love may be a kind of life. Confucianism, never give up, hold your hand, and endure the wind and rain together. The vicissitudes of time are like white horses, and the love of aging is like a glass of wine, like a play.

Love may be very simple, that is, inadvertently, warm your hand touches your heart, spring, summer, autumn and winter reincarnation, slowly grow old together.

There are many kinds of love.

But the simplest thing is that both of them are willing to be together.

or the life of tea, rice, oil and salt, this is called love.

Love, you ask, for what!

I can only say that the feeling is coming, nothing can stop it, and people get into this problem headlong without any reason, such as Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian.

When Lin Yilian first debuted, she was not popular, but fate is so strange, when you have nothing at the bottom, it seems that nothing has anything to do with you, when you are unstoppable and popular all the way, all kinds of opportunities will come together, and the turning point of this time is often when you meet someone - the person who changes you.

At that time when there were many powerful female singers, it was not easy for the Hong Kong music scene to get ahead, Lin Yilian, who was not beautiful but had a good voice, was lucky to meet Li Zongsheng. This talented man has tailored a lot of songs for her that suit her voice and temperament, these are urban love songs that can only be understood by having a certain amount of experience, especially suitable for deep cold and rainy nights, which flow slowly in the record player and soothe the hearts of a large number of wounded.

Moreover, Lin Yilian's love songs, only Lin Yilian sings them well, and when she changes to other female singers, she can't sing her kind of hardness and sonorous in a thousand twists and turns, like a dagger hidden in a delicate rose, she will not deceive herself, under the gentleness is the truth, first poke the heart and then release the poison, and then pick the pus and apply medicine, and finally heal and recover.

A woman, a talented woman, if she meets a man who understands her in this life, a man who discovers her potential and makes her a new man, it is a kind of grace that is difficult to give up. But this kind of grace of knowing is the easiest soil to breed love.

In this soil, there used to be Dou Wei and Wang Fei, Zhang Yimou and Gong Li, and now there are Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian, and people call them fairy couples.

Li Zongsheng's first wife, Zhu Weiyin, is a Hong Kong radio host, a well-known DJ, and a singer. After getting married in 1988, Zhu Weiyin settled in Taiwan with her husband Li Zongsheng. In 1995, Lin Yilian joined Li Zongsheng's Rolling Stone Records, and after 3 years of bitter love, Li Zongsheng divorced Zhu Weiyin with infamy, and married Lin Yilian in Canada in February 1998, when Lin Yilian was 5 months pregnant.

After marriage, Lin Yilian spent the life of a semi-retired young grandmother after launching "Sonorous Rose".

"Some of the stories in my songs are mine, and some are someone else's. Sometimes, in order not to let others know, I find a very good singer to sing my songs. ”

This is what Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian said when they were in love. Those secrets that cannot be told can be revealed in another way.

For creators, love is the easiest driving force to inspire inspiration, just like Dou Wei wrote "Impetuous" for Wang Fei, and Zhang Yimou filmed "Red Sorghum" for Gong Li, and the more you can't see the light, the more lasting creativity you have - those sweet obsessions and sadistic pain that you can't get and can't be separated will turn into a burning fireball, making you suddenly excited, suddenly low, suddenly ignited, and suddenly burned.

So, in the song and in the movie, they told their own stories, which hit more people, and then became a work that has been passed down to the world, year after year, and has become a classic that plays themselves in other people's stories.

However, compared to the harmony of the piano in music, the truth of this marriage is: it is said that Li Zongsheng loves the two daughters born to him and his ex-wife, and also loves the young daughter born to Lin Yilian, but this very contradictory living environment is so tiring for Li Zongsheng. Life is out of shape, and it is difficult to return.

"Women don't think that men can do anything, and women's happiness is to be found by themselves. There are many things in life that are powerless, and men can't do it, so I think in marriage, or in a relationship, the big problem is that when you have difficulties in life, when you feel that there is a problem, you are easy to say, then don't you say you love me, then why can't you do this for me, why can't you do that for me, my life has not changed because of being with you, my difficulties have not been solved because of being with you, I haven't gotten happier with you because I'm here, so I think that's the biggest problem with a lot of relationships. ”

Li Zongsheng, who has written too many women's songs, understands the singer Lin Yilian who sings the songs he wrote, but he doesn't understand the wife Lin Yilian who married him and became the mother of the child.

This passage is so chattering. His complaints about his marriage, for the first time, are no longer as good as the lyrics have written. It turns out that whether it is a famous musician or an ordinary person, any man who encounters a groove in his marriage will spit out the same taste.

In 2004, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian issued a statement announcing their divorce, and this famous relationship in the music industry came to an end. "There are some changes in my marriage, the lyrics I wrote more than ten years ago are like fables that foresee my current life, this big city, I came, I can't figure it out, no marriage, I can only guard my children and my job." After the divorce, Li Zongsheng, who lives in Beijing, said, "The song "Cloudy Sky" is almost a portrayal of my divorce. ”

After the divorce of the first marriage, Zhu Weiyin did not turn against Li Zongsheng, and the two maintained a friendly relationship. After the divorce of the second marriage, Li Zongsheng talked about Lin Yilian, and he did not have hatred: "Shanghai is a shortage of mine. ”

Years have passed, and Xiao Li has long become Lao Li. From the stage. North to the magic capital, from Beiping to Guangzhou. state, the concert was held one after another, he nagged, people said that he was consuming Lin Yilian, but this name is indeed a name that can't be bypassed in the past.

Later, Lin Yilian came back to participate in An. Hui Satellite TV's Spring Festival Gala, contrary to Lao Li, she refused to be interviewed and didn't want to talk about that name anymore. Time has passed, the lover has changed, and the past is really with the wind. On stage, Zhou Qun asked her about the red envelope for the New Year in Hong Kong, and she was happy to share it, but there were still many viewers in the audience who said: "What about Li Zongsheng"?

For so many years, even if they don't talk about each other, they can't get around each other's names, but a man, two women, two marriages, and three daughters have really come to an end, and all that remains is the song that witnessed when they were together. The only regret is that there is no bloody insider, no accusations and complaints, and no financial disputes. The way these two people deal with emotional clutch is worthy of praise.

When you are in love, hello and I am so sweet, but when you break up, you can see the character of the chicken, the dog jumps, and I have seen a lot of tearing faces, and I know that ending a relationship is more testing the character of both parties than at the beginning. Regarding how to divide an elegant hand, Li Zongsheng and Lin Yilian made the best demonstration, and wrote it in the song as a sample, "One day you will know that life is no different without me." Life has been stormy, even if the memory can't be erased, love and hate are still in my heart. It's really going to be broken. Let it continue tomorrow, and you won't have to ask for news from me anymore. ”

Lin Yilian and Li Zongsheng, chess meets opponents in music, chess meets opponents when they fall in love, and chess meets opponents when they break up, in the sea of life, it is actually difficult to meet a person who meets your chess opponent in all aspects, so the best way is: let both sides stop being embarrassed. (To be continued.) )