Chapter 223: Crash
The question is how long Long Yifei can protect them.
No, something is wrong, the people of the secret realm suddenly made trouble, could it be that they just let everyone leave.
Wang Jian immediately wanted to leave, took the initiative to leave, and took the initiative to let Lu Qingyi leave with the three of them, and he must not hesitate.
In other words, it is necessary to make a decision on the spot.
Often, when we make a decision, we don't turn back when we open the bow, and if we don't succeed, we become a beneficiary. It's absolute, but I appreciate the immediacy of the moment. Indecisive and forward-looking people may not understand, so sooner or later it becomes a large embroidered pillow.
Everyone has thousands of big and small things in their life, we can't waste too much time on small things, we must be decisive. Leonardo da Vinci had many extraordinary achievements in his life, most notably his masterpiece (The Mona Lisa's Smile) (The Last Supper), but he was not just a painter, but also a great inventor, a medical scientist, a biologist, a geographer, a musician, a great philosopher, a poet, a building engineer and a military engineer. I don't think anyone else can achieve so much but him. However, it is said that Leonardo da Vinci was a slow man, otherwise there would be more works to be passed on.
Some people choose to fill it with affection, friendship, love. Search the world for someone who can make you not alone. Once this trend spreads, you will become accustomed to looking farther away, your parents, relatives, then your friends and classmates, your lovers a little farther away, and even strangers who you don't know very well. Every energy we get from others has become the spiritual pillar that sustains us on.
Our souls, with these countless pillars, begin to grow stronger. The shaking of any pillar will make us panic, feel that our soul is much more fragile, and we are afraid to return to the state of our soul alone.
We are always in such a state of caution: we dare not express our opinions and ideas out loud, because what if these opinions and ideas conflict with others and attract opposition and disgust from others? We are afraid of contradictions and conflicts with others, even if it is an interest that you should fight for and deserve; we are afraid of becoming an outlier in the crowd, afraid of becoming a maverick in the group, and this heterogeneity will be rejected by the group until it is isolated.
Such thinking is very common in East Asian cultural circles that have long been influenced by Confucianism. Extremes occur in Japan. In Japan, everything is sorted according to your age, status, position, and power, and everyone is "polite". Every elementary school student will be taught by their parents to be kind to others, to abide by the rules, and not to cause trouble to others. This is where all the killing decisions begin. You have experienced heart-wrenching despair and the loss of all that you trust and cherish. To be taken advantage of, to be deceived. Then, you will never need these things again in your life. You start to believe only in yourself.
In reality, why can't I do what I think in my heart? Because I think too much, like a child who wants butterflies in his heart but is attracted by flowers, and thinks about lollipops and is troubled by tooth decay. Don't complain that you don't get it, you don't really want it. You want someone to go across the sea, you don't have to tell someone how to build a ship, nautical precautions, just make him want to see the scenery across the sea. Therefore, character training to train killing decisiveness is not the method, and it is good medicine to make you think. This is also the mystery of Feng Shui horoscope, through the layout to make you keep thinking, you can do it, not the charlatans say to clear the way for you to prevent disasters. Then the method comes, the subject is nothing more than a water-type person and an earth-type person, because the other three attributes of Jin Muhuo have such a temperament. The ability to kill and make decisions is golden, and it is serious and regular in the layout of Feng Shui. This requires the subject's home to be well-organized and cold in Japanese style. Jin Kemu, more wood is also gold, so don't have green plants, the home is cold and solemn. This is why the domineering president likes this style, because as soon as he arrives in such an environment, he will let him think about the project calmly and quietly. A butterfly in a South American valley vibrates its wings, which changes the climate of the entire planet. Your details → how others see you→ change in attitude→ stimulate your inner thoughts → achieve your goals. The wisdom of the Chinese people is not to tell people what kind of person I am and I am ruthless, but to dress (personal feng shui) and home (environmental feng shui), and hint to others everywhere what kind of person I am.
Not abandoning, not giving up, just jokes and propaganda.
Regardless of whether the decision is right or wrong, everyone will think about right and wrong when faced with a choice, however, the standard of right and wrong is relative. The standard of right and wrong is changing all the time. Not every question will have an answer behind it. Seeking answers is asking others to help you make a choice. And you, give up your choice. If you seek answers in order to gain the teacher's appreciation, then the teacher's height limits your vision. Seeking answers for the approval of the world will be surrounded by walls. Seeking answers can repeat the last correctness of our ancestors, but we can never find a new path. Always walk out of your own way. Unsolved questions are all over the world, and we must create answers for the world. The answer is not important, the most important thing you need to understand is that every choice will inevitably have a result, and after making a choice, you will face the outcome. Defining right and wrong by oneself is actually determined by one's own pattern.
As a druid, do you want to be a panther or a bear, sneak in the dark or just slap your face, draw three cards or live two mana crystals, depending on your own hand, the situation on the field, and your opponent's class, these choices can lead to victory or defeat in the game, and they are everywhere in life.
Do you want steamed buns or pancakes for breakfast? Porridge with millet or black rice? Go to work with Didi or Uber? Of course, none of these choices are too important, they are only related to personal preferences and current state.
But when a college student graduates from undergrad, the choices they face can affect their whole life, and they are far more entangled than what to eat for three meals and where to go out. How do I choose, and what should I do?
This kind of thing related to one's own destiny is still left to oneself. So I don't agree with many people who give some firm opinions to other people, others listen to your opinion, and it's okay if it happens, in case there is a deviation...... Who is responsible?
The brain's decision-making is broadly divided into two categories: empirical decision-making that relies on experience, and rational decision-making, which relies on rational judgment. In daily life, unless there are more important events, we usually use empirical decision-making, although we may make mistakes, but we need to make a trade-off between accuracy and efficiency! How to improve decision-making ability? Do we want to do every decision as well as possible? I think the "28 rule" applies to decision-making, as long as we can identify and grasp 20% of the key decisions, and improve the accuracy of these key decisions, our decision-making level will jump greatly, and trying to do every decision well will only be counterproductive! So, how can we ensure that we can make the right choice at the critical moment? First, of course, we should make decisions based on rational choices as much as possible, the reason is very simple, but it is difficult to implement, and our energy and time will never allow us to think deeply about each decision, so what we need to do is to make sure that we make key decisions based on rational decisions as much as possible! Second, make good use of experience to make decisions. Empirical decision-making is a sacrifice in accuracy because it takes into account efficiency, and even a small improvement in the decision-making method as a basis will greatly improve the decision-making efficiency. Therefore, in order to improve decision-making ability, two questions need to be considered: Question 1: How to improve the probability and accuracy of rational decision-making at critical moments? Question 2: How to make good use of experience to make decisions? Question 1: How to improve the accuracy and probability of rational decision-making at critical moments?
Break the arrogance of vanity and accept mistakes in order to reduce them. A simple math problem, if the stock market is in an upward channel, 30% may fall, 70% may rise, how to trade in 100 trading days to maximize returns? Let's take a look at the inevitable choice of most "smart people", including me, because we want to make every trade right, so the trading strategy must be 70 buys, 30 sells. 70% of the 70 buys are the right choice (because the probability of going up is 70%), and 30% of the 30 selling times is the right choice (because the probability of going down is 30%), so the correct trade: 70 * 70% + 30 * 30% = 49 + 9 = 58 times. If we don't try to make every decision right, admit and accept that we can't make every prediction right, and calmly accept that we make mistakes 30 times in 100 transactions, that is, buy all 100 times, 100*70%=70 times, we can guarantee that 70 predictions are correct, and this is precisely the best strategy! The prediction ability of more ordinary events outweighs the losses, and only by accepting mistakes can we reduce errors and improve accuracy!
Form an objective decision-making framework. One of the most natural bases for making decisions is to judge which option will bring the most benefit or the least loss, and our perception of the benefits depends on the way in which the decision-making framework is formed, and the so-called framework refers to the description of a choice. For example, if you plan to go on a blind date, there are two girls, and the matchmaker describes them through the positive and negative sides: Positive description: Girl A: white, rich, beautiful, and just broke up with her boyfriend. Girl B: Beautiful, gentle, virtuous, with a stable job. Negative description: Girl A: White, rich, beautiful, looking for a pick-up man. Girl B: Beautiful, gentle, virtuous, not with a high salary. How do you choose, I believe that when it comes to positive descriptions, most people, like me, prefer Bai Fumei, because the benefits are obvious, but in negative descriptions, the choice is just the opposite, because the losses are too obvious! So, when we face the same thing, the decision-making framework is different, and we will make completely different choices.
In life, the misleading choices brought about by the information framework are extremely common, the salesman is a master of using sub-routines, they will build the information framework in a way that is beneficial to him, if he wants to sell us something, he must use the income framework to tempt us, if he wants to buy us things, he will definitely use the loss framework to suppress the price, so when we make decisions, try to consider the problem in both the income framework and the loss framework, which requires us to collect a wide range of positive and negative information, but also need to understand the decision-making framework.
Be rational about anticipatory emotions. Expected emotions are the emotions that predict what we will experience as a result of a certain decision, and the influence of anticipatory emotions on decision-making can be explained by utility theory. It should be noted that the expected sentiment is only the emotion predicted at the time of decision-making, which is inconsistent with or even deviates from what we experience after the decision, and this is also an important reason for our wrong decision.
We all know that for the same 100 yuan, the pain lost is twice the happiness gained, which is the expected emotion, but scientists have further done experiments to test how the real emotional change has occurred in this matter, and an interesting scene has appeared, the pain lost and the happiness gained are numerically the same! This can be explained by the attribution effect, that is, when we really lose 100 yuan, we will rationalize the attribution to reduce the pain, so the real pain is not greater than the happiness gained.
But if we don't understand this, when making decisions, because the expected loss pain will be greater than the profit happiness, so in the face of gains, our decisions will tend to be conservative, affecting our rational decision-making. So how do you break the misdirection of anticipatory sentiment? The key is to establish the right feedback. It's definitely too late to cramm, kung fu must be in peacetime, the longer way is to record the emotional feelings when making decisions, after making decisions, in recording psychological feelings, and then make a comparison, usually three or five times can form a correct feedback and perception, break the misunderstanding.
Increase self-awareness. Rational decision-making at this moment is inevitably accompanied by a high sense of self. The mental state at any moment is composed of two parts, the conscious mind and the subconscious, the ratio of the two determines the degree of self-awareness, when the self-awareness is high (the proportion of consciousness is high), we can stay alert and act rationally, and when the self-consciousness is low (the proportion of the subconscious mind is high), we are prone to be influenced by instinct and impulse.
The information source itself is biased, which leads to the memory process producing a biased sample of information. For example, the media prefers small probability, explosive events, so we will exaggerate the probability of occurrence of large and small probability events, the most classic is that the media likes to report on aircraft accidents, so that many people mistakenly think that air travel is unsafe, in fact, it is the opposite. In addition, the individual's preconceived view will also affect the objectivity of the information source, taking the house as an example, people who have a house like to browse information that house prices will rise, and people who do not have a house like to browse information about house prices are bearish, this bias leads to a bias in our memory, so that it is easy to make wrong judgments.
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