Seeing that Liu Nanyuan was thoughtful, Bai Sujin coughed, cleared his throat, and continued: "Fortunately, you just mistook this kind of favor for liking, if you do anything irrational to him in the name of liking, it will really ruin yourself and him." ”

Liu Nanyuan forced himself to calm down: "You mean, the so-called men like men, it's all an illusion, so the love between famous men in history is all illusory, all of them are just good feelings, not liking at all?" ”

Bai Sujin glanced at Liu Nanyuan, sighed, and said: "You are really obsessed, you like to drill the horns, let me ask you, what is the result of the love between these men in the end?" ”

Liu Nanyuan was silent, to be honest, he only knew these allusions, and he really didn't know the specific consequences.

Bai Sujin looked at Liu Nanyuan's obviously puzzled, but forced a calm look, and couldn't help but say: "Okay, you don't know, then let me tell you, let's talk about Dong Xian first, although he was favored by Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty, but after the death of Emperor Wai, he was immediately dismissed from office, and after committing suicide, he was opened in the coffin and whipped by Wang Mang, and was humiliated. Not to mention, Mi Zi is flawed, and he is in love with Aichi, and he was given death by the king. ”

Liu Nanyuan looked confused, and said in his heart: What the hell does this woman want to say, it's nonsense, it's a bit of a theme.

Bai Sujin saw Liu Nanyuan's confused expression, and continued: "I said this, I don't mean anything else, I just want to tell you that the love between men is also unreliable, and the true love you think is, in the final analysis, is just to take what you need." ”

Liu Nanyuan snorted coldly and said with a smile: "It's not true love between our men, it's true love between men and women, you say that men like men, first of all, it's an illusion, and secondly, it's unreliable." Do you think that if he likes you, he will love you for the rest of his life? ”

Bai Sujin smiled nonchalantly: "To be honest, I never expected him to love me for the rest of my life." ”

Liu Nanyuan looked at Bai Sujin with some puzzlement, and suddenly felt that the woman in front of him was not thinking that he could guess. I had to keep silent and listen to Bai Sujin continue to say the following.

Bai Sujin said calmly: "Since ancient times, there have been too many stories of infatuated women and negative men, countless of them, such as the scholars and young ladies in those playbooks, at the beginning, they were all concubines, you and me, swore by the sea, and promised each other in life and death. In the end, many scholars have the title of the gold list, and a few people will remember the original oath, those who have a little conscience, maybe they can still give a name, and those who have no conscience may be cut in two, and even worse, for their own future, they kill their wives and children, and lose their conscience. ”

Liu Nanyuan blurted out: "In this case, you don't believe in love, why are you entangled with him?" ”

Bai Sujin said lightly: "Although I don't believe in love, I need a man, I need a man who loves me." I can't guarantee that he will love me for the rest of my life, but I can confirm that, for now, he loves me. Perhaps, after a long time, he will get tired of it, and he may take a concubine, and maybe he will abandon me. If that time comes, I will neither quarrel with him, nor will I quarrel with him. I have seen through the nature of a man early on, he has love for me, I have affection for him, when one day, he dislikes me, I will raise my feet and leave, will not shed a tear, let alone plead, because, for a man who no longer loves you, this will only make people feel cheap. ”

When Liu Nanyuan heard this, he was stunned for a moment, and then said: "I really didn't expect you to have such thoughts, and I can be regarded as an eye-opener." It's just, I want to know a little, if he liked me, would you agree that we should be together? ”

Bai Sujin looked directly at Liu Nanyuan's inquiring eyes, but asked rhetorically: "I can't believe the promise of a lifetime, do you believe it?" If he likes you and he wants to be with you, then I want to ask, how do you count as together? ”

Liu Nanyuan hesitated for a moment, but still didn't answer the question after all.

Bai Sujin smiled bitterly: "That's it, even if he likes you, you are impossible, think about it, you are all men, all you can do is drink and chat, in your heart, he is gentle and polite, treat you very well, you are not willing to blaspheme him." So, in such a situation, hiding love, how are you different from friends? Isn't it nice for you to be friends with him and hang out together from time to time, why do you have to like it and make it embarrassing to see each other? There are some words that do not have to be said, and companionship is the most affectionate confession. Once you make your attitude clear, you can't go back. ”

When Liu Nanyuan heard this, he actually felt that Bai Sujin was very reasonable, yes, even if he likes it, what can he do, if he loves someone, the first thing to do is not to hurt him. He is the prince, he is a general, two people who are destined to be impossible to be together, maybe being friends is the best choice, if you like a person, you can't delay his life, in the future, you still treat him as a friend, each getting married, is the best destination, the pressure of the world, he can't afford it, and if he really likes him, he shouldn't, let alone let him bear it!

Thinking of this, Liu Nanyuan looked at Bai Sujin fixedly, and said softly: "What you said is right, since you understand people's hearts so well, then you tell me, what should I do in the future?" ”

Bai Sujin saw that Liu Nanyuan had finally turned a corner, and sighed in his heart: It seems that he will be able to straighten a crooked man soon! Holding back the snickering joy in his heart, his face was still faint, and he said slowly: "This matter, I will analyze it for you from the root." ”

Liu Nanyuan refilled the tea for Bai Sujin, Bai Sujin took a sip, put down the teacup, and began to analyze: "Let's start with men liking men, why men like men, generally speaking, there are three main reasons. ”

After a pause, Bai Sujin continued: "First, I have seen the bad side of girls since I was a child, and I have had a bad spiritual experience with girls, so I am disgusted with girls, so I trust boys more; Second, living in an unhappy environment since childhood, unable to do what they want to do, feeling a serious lack of love, so they hope that someone will love them, or hope to care for people in the same situation as themselves, so they are more inclined to boys; Third, driven by curiosity, because as early as the Wei and Jin dynasties, there was a prevalent male style, at that time, men liked men, nothing to do with love, just a social fashion, just as a game for entertainment, so this kind of atmosphere has been handed down, leading to the wrong love between men. ”

Hearing this, Liu Nanyuan nodded, his cold face melted, and said: "Yes, listening to your analysis, I found that I belong to the second type, the kind of person who longs to be loved because of lack of love, so he loves wrongly." Now that I've found the root cause, I wonder how to get the right medicine. ”

Bai Sujin glanced at Liu Nanyuan and asked with a smile, "Have you ever been in contact with a woman?" ”

Liu Nanyuan didn't know why, and asked: "What do you mean, do you mean falling in love or going to bed?" ”

Bai Sujin saw that Liu Nanyuan said it bluntly, but he was not embarrassed at all, so he simply said: "Have you ever liked a woman from the bottom of your heart, have an urgent possessiveness for her, and have an urge to fall in love with her." ”

Liu Nanyuan blushed rarely, and whispered, "No." ”

Bai Sujin was not discouraged, and said loudly: "Impossible, you tell me the truth, have you ever thought about sleeping with a woman?" ”

Liu Nanyuan thought for a while, looked at Bai Sujin's eager inquiring gaze, his face turned even redder, and he replied in a low voice: "I have thought about it." He quickly added: "But, just think about it, I've never done it before." ”

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