Chapter 25: Mother's Warning
During the winter vacation, Ansu did not go up the mountain every day to learn art as before. Faced with her grandmother's doubts, she just lightly explained that it was a graduating class, and her studies were important, so she stopped learning to paint.
Years ago, Xiang Hui came to him twice.
The first time was on the third day of the holiday. I don't know if it was because when I sent her back that day, I saw my grandmother's face full of doubts, or because I wanted to find a companion, Xiang Hui and Peng Dongjun came together. That day was the first time Xiang Hui had dinner at An Su's house, but he was not polite at all, and he quickly got acquainted with his grandmother, making her like him. Compared with Xiang Hui's self-acquaintance, Peng Dongjun seems restrained, obviously not used to female classmates. For some classmates who came to find their granddaughter, grandma warmly received her. But after the guests left, she couldn't help but ask her granddaughter why she didn't see Jingming come to the house. After all, after so many years, Jingming is always the only one who comes to find her granddaughter.
Grandma also suspiciously asked her if she had a conflict with Jingming. Ansu denied it.
The second time Xiang Hui came to find An Su was a few days before the Chinese New Year, and he was still carrying large bags of New Year's goods in his hand. But he didn't expect to see Liu Hui also when he entered the door, and his face was embarrassed.
Liu Hui didn't expect to meet Xiang Hui at Anjia. That day, because she didn't have to cook lunch for Xiang Hui, she sent the prepared New Year's goods over early in the morning.
Seeing Liu Hui, Xiang Hui greeted him embarrassedly.
Seeing Xiang Hui in An's house, Liu Hui was even more surprised. Because she found that Xiang Hui was obviously not the first time to come. She had taken Ansu to Xiang's house once, and the two children had met once, and she thought that she had forgotten about each other. Although he knew that they were in the same school, he had never heard Xiang Hui mention Ansu. She always thought that the two did not know each other. When she saw Xiang Hui standing in the courtyard with a little restraint, she understood a little in her heart.
What it means for a boy to come all the way to find a girl with New Year's goods, she understands in her heart. But after all, he was an elder, and he didn't show it on his face, but just greeted Xiang Hui warmly.
Grandma looked at the New Year's goods brought by Xiang Hui and frowned, "Child, grandma welcomes you to come to the house to play, but you can't bring anything." You still eat grandma's food, how can you spend this money on your grandma's clothes? ”
Xiang Hui scratched his head and replied with a smile: "Grandma, these are all given by others, not by me." After speaking, worried that grandma would not believe it, he added, "I don't believe you ask Aunt Hui." ”
Liu Hui nodded.
Usually, there are a lot of such things in Xiang's family, and there are even more of them during the New Year's holidays. Zou Mingfang often transfers things to relatives and friends, and even Liu Hui often carries large bags and small bags home, so she is not surprised that Xiang Hui carries things. I'm afraid that her mother will still be happy for him to help dispose of these things. But how would his mother feel if she knew that he had given things all the way to a girl?
That day, Liu Hui kept secretly observing Xiang Hui and her daughter, and asked her grandmother sideways when Xiang Hui started running to An's house.
If Xiang Hui and An Su were just classmates, and the normal exchanges between classmates, she would not object to it. But Xiang Hui's eyes at An Su are so obvious, she is not an old and dizzy grandmother, how can she not see it as a person who has come over. But she also saw that it seemed that the falling flowers were intentionally ruthless. But her daughter's attitude is ambiguous, and it is worrying to continue to develop like this. Regardless of whether An Su had any intention of Xiang Hui, she had to stop it. One is to understand the danger of early love, these two children have not yet reached the age of love; The second is to understand that An Su and Xiang Hui are people from different worlds. Although she doesn't think that her daughter is bad, the ancients said that "the right family" is still true today after thousands of years. Not to mention that her daughter has not yet reached the age of falling in love, that is, she has reached the age of talking about marriage, she will still remind her. It's not that she has a gateway view, but she only has such a daughter, and she always has to do everything possible to protect it.
She grew up watching Xiang Hui, and she knows this child's character very well. Proud as he is, he plunges into it with a hot head, what if one day he finds out that Ansu has no intention of treating him? Naturally, she couldn't talk about Xiang Hui, but she had to talk to her daughter.
Liu Hui, who was originally scheduled to go back that day, asked Xiang Hui to send a message to the Ge family, saying that he was staying at Anjia for one night and would go back tomorrow. She had to spend the evening talking to her daughter.
At night, the mother and daughter huddled under the covers.
Liu Hui has learned from her grandmother that Xiang Hui has only recently come to find Ansu, and Jingming, who has played with Ansu since childhood, has not come to the house for a long time, and Ansu has not gone up the mountain during the winter vacation. She wondered if it was because of Xiang Hui's appearance that An Su and Jingming were estranged, or because An Su and Jingming had a conflict, so she had a relationship with Xiang Hui. Either way, it wasn't what she wanted to see.
Liu Hui thought for a while and asked her daughter: "I heard grandma say that you didn't go to the mountains to learn to paint this winter vacation." You used to run up the hill as soon as you had a holiday. ”
"There is still one semester to go to the high school entrance examination, I have to study hard, and I will not study for the time being." Ansu copied the rhetoric to her grandmother and said it to her mother.
Liu Hui nodded, and said, "Grandma said that I haven't seen Jingming for a long time." Haven't you always been very good with Jingming? ”
Hearing her mother mention Jingming, An Su was silent.
Feeling her daughter's strangeness, Liu Hui asked, "Did you have a conflict with Jingming?" ”
Ansu shook her head.
"Because of Xiang Hui?"
Ansu continued to shake her head.
Liu Hui said to her daughter seriously: "Xiang Hui is a good child, but you are still young. Do you understand what Mom said? ”
An Su muttered: "Mom, Xiang Hui and I are not what you think, just ordinary classmates." ”
"Then why does Xiang Hui keep running to our house?"
"He came on his own, and I never invited him."
"You don't like Xiang Hui?"
Ansu nodded and shook her head.
Liu Hui seemed to understand.
"Mom, my love for Xiang Hui is among classmates, not what you think."
"You like Jingming?"
Ansu neither shook nor nodded.
Liu Hui understood in her heart, sighed secretly, and couldn't help comparing Xiang Hui with Jingming in her heart.
It cannot be denied that Xiang Hui is an outstanding teenager, both in appearance and family background, which is enough to make adolescent girls fall in love. Girls will love Xiang Hui. And Jingming, Liu Hui has seen it twice in total, once when he was a child, and once last year. From the first time she saw that child, she liked it in her heart, not only beautiful, but also distressingly well-behaved. When I saw him for the second time, he looked extraordinary at a young age, and his clear eyes were full of extraordinary wisdom. But adolescent girls are always involuntarily attracted to radiant boys, such as Xiang Hui, and a bright and introverted teenager like Jingming is flawed and easy to be ignored. But Ansu is different, she grew up with Jingming since she was a child, and the two are also teachers and friends. Jingming's qiē almost influenced Ansu, and she regarded her as a role model in everything she said and did, so it was not surprising that she would like him.
An Su likes Jing Ming, but the two don't interact anymore, there is only one possibility, that is, Jing Ming doesn't like An Su. Otherwise, there would be no Xiang Hui. What is the mentality of the daughter who is with Xiang Hui? This worries her very much. She was afraid that Ansu was doing this to take revenge on Jingming.
This is where the danger of early love lies. Teenagers have unstable attitudes, are prone to contradictions in love, are psychologically immature, fragile, have poor tolerance, and do not have enough experience to make correct judgments on feelings, and fail to deal with feelings maturely and rationally. Influencing learning is one of them, and it is easy to be hurt by emotional twists and turns.
"Jingming doesn't like you?"
Ansu shook her head.
"Why is that?"
Ansu told her mother about the lofty ideal of pure light.
Liu Hui was taken aback. Although today's young people do not regard the construction of the motherland as their lofty ideal as the students of the past, they also know the importance of fame, fortune and status, and all of them regard it as their goal in life. And this little boy is determined to be born and practice. In the eyes of the world, she can't help but be too passive and avoid the world, but when she thinks of the unstained young man, she seems to understand.
For her daughter's hopeless relationship, Liu Hui couldn't help but sigh.
An Su said with a wry smile: "Mom, I have fallen out of love, so I don't need to talk to me about the danger of early love." ”
No matter what, Liu Hui still told her daughter about the dangers of early love, and gave her an analysis of various bad mentalities with Xiang Hui. Sue her, this will bring all kinds of bad consequences.
However, at that time, Ansu was blindly immersed in the pain of falling out of love and did not heed her mother's warning.