Rambling mantras

The word mantra comes from Zen Buddhism, which originally meant not to comprehend with the heart, but to put some ready-made experience in the mouth, pretending to have thoughts, thinking that they knew the truth of Zen, and was listed as one of the divergent ways of Zen. The term has evolved to refer to a phrase that a person is accustomed to uttering, consciously or unconsciously. A mantra can be regarded as one of the hallmarks of a person, and it also affects the image and perception of others about him. A mantra can be a reflex of the mind that reflects the state of mind of the person who speaks the mantra. In many movies or TV episodes, the main character will say some unique mantras, which may have been created by the actors to express the character of the character in the show more distinctly. Certain mantras will become the object of imitation by many people and become a social phenomenon.

A flattering mantra is probably seen as a form of beauty and is therefore accepted. For example, the more polite "I'm sorry", "please", etc., can reflect a person's speaking literacy and cultural temperament. But the annoying mantra is a different story. For example, people who are full of foul language, scolding and other mantras naturally make people feel rude and uneducated; For example, when speaking, I like to insert a few sentences to show the old qualifications, "tell the truth", "I used to ......", "I want to be at the beginning, Lao Tzu ......"; Another example is when friends open and close their mouths, they always say that others are "really boring", "really boring", "really annoying", etc. These annoying mantras are more or less detrimental to their own image. There is an even worse mantra, a mantra of light promises. For example, some people who don't have any real skills, and when they meet people, they will say "find me if there is something" and "no problem", etc., which may be both wrong and wrong.

Mantras can be divided into two categories, positive mantras and negative mantras, depending on their meaning. A positive, motivated mantra will motivate you to face and overcome difficulties. Negative mantras also have a certain psychological suggestive effect, which can inadvertently wear down the human will.

William James, a famous psychologist, once said, "Sow an action, reap a habit; Sow a habit, reap a character; Sow a character, reap a destiny. "The habitual blurt out of a mantra is not meaningless. Mantras reflect a pattern of reaction to a certain type of situation. In particular, mantras with negative words are a negative suggestion to cognition and emotions.

Mantra: "I'm dizzy"

I believe that when I see this mantra, I have an inexplicable sense of intimacy. Whether MSN is online, in the workplace, or in private chatting, "I'm dizzy! "It's everywhere. Someone else helped her hand the wrong thing, "I'm dizzy"; Hearing gossip she didn't know, "I'm dizzy"; Being complimented, "I'm dizzy"; I didn't bring the car keys, and I was dizzy......

Anytime, as long as things are not as expected and imagined, they will be "dizzy". In fact, the problem is usually not so serious, but it is always used to exaggerating the image in the subconscious, and it is reflected in the exaggerated emotions expressed in the mantra.

【Personality traits】Lively, honest, do not hide personal feelings, but easy to be rash. The sentence "I'm dizzy" treats all people and things equally. So, she is good at starting from breadth

[With others] It is relatively easy to get along with a person who has an open heart. Every fluctuation of her emotions will be revealed in "I am dizzy". At the very least, as long as this mantra appears, even if we don't know what happened, it's enough to capture the vibration in her heart. Make amends, or persuade them with good words. However, on matters of principle, you can't take too much care of her psychological feelings, because her "dizziness" is a norm.

Mantra: "Honey! ”

This sentence should have belonged to the nickname of the lover, but I don't know when it became a common phrase in Office. Whether between women and women, between men and women, or between men and women, "dear" has become a gesture of goodwill between non-dear.

After "dear", it may be a request such as "help me get this document right" and "think of a way for me", similar to the carrot in front of the donkey's eyes, or it may be a euphemistic expression of dissatisfaction, before giving a slap, give a sweet date first.

【Personality traits】Absolutely modern, weak in traditional concepts, willing to change oneself, proactive in encountering problems, and keen in interpersonal observation. But sometimes it is changeable, it is easy to be affected by emotions, and it is likely that you were still calling you "dear" just now, but now you are extremely angry.

Don't be fooled by sweet words! Don't let this mantra overtures take you away. But in daily interactions, "dear" is a barometer of his mood, and the more often this mantra appears, the higher it is. Remember, when he's in a good mood, he'll say a lot to your requests.

So what are the most popular mantras of 2015? Now I've collected a few:

It's okay and cherished, it's also quite hard, I just want to be a beautiful man quietly, and I'm drunk! If you don't die, you won't die (Nozuonodie), and if you have money, you are so capricious, but this is of no use (but not eggs). The handsome people are still outside, and the ugly people are still sleeping. Uniqlo, in fact, I refused at first...

I also have a mantra, and after a period of time, I often autobiography mantras, such as often singing in Tangshan dialect at work: the star is still which star, the moon is still which moon, in front of friends often say: I rub, I rub, sometimes I will say: knowledgeable, no wife...

How many have I forgotten? Oh! Ask: What's your mantra?

Wang Erhammer wandering collection on 2015-12-15 at 7:50 p.m