Chapter 567: Wisdom to Show Weakness

It was precisely after receiving the news from the Zhao family, knowing that the above was about to take action against Liu Daxian's intelligence office, that Lu Deshuang would ask Qi Huan to 'betray' the news to Wu Kebo, otherwise, how could Lu Deshuang do such a self-defeating thing. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 info

Some people are puzzled, you are so awesome, what are you doing to Wu Kebo?

In fact, sometimes, showing weakness is also a manifestation of wisdom.

Just like in the valley, the snow is falling, and the snowflakes are all over the branches of the cedars, and when the snow reaches a certain level, the elastic branches of the cedars will slowly bend down until the snow slides down from the branches little by little, and so on and over again, and after the snowstorm, the cedars are intact, and the other trees have not had this ability, and the branches have already been crushed and destroyed by the snow.

In order to breathe fresh air and enjoy the warm sunshine, the grass changed its straight direction, and along the gap between the stones, it poked its head out and rushed out of the barrier of the rocks.

In the face of heavy pressure, the pine trees and grass choose to bend, choose to be flexible, choose to show weakness, and it is this choice that makes them vibrant.

It's the same with being human.

People who are too strong and competitive will often encounter more difficulties, and even die young because they put in too much effort and are under too much pressure. However, there are some people who know how to tolerate moderately when encountering problems, not too reckless, and do not take the lead in everything. They are peaceful and tolerant, able to abandon all selfish distractions, not to be interfered with by outsiders, and to persevere in doing things. Even if they are hit, they will not be discouraged, because they are calm, so they can deal with it calmly. This kind of person is not very impulsive and does not run fast, but he can often persevere to the end and to the end.

Again, the natural laws of human development testify to this.

In daily life, women are often easy to show weakness and willing to show weakness, often crying for a little "little thing" that older men look down on. However, as "weak" women, their average life expectancy is much longer than that of strong men.

In the process of getting along with others, appropriate weakness is actually a sincere attitude of acceptance. Showing weakness is the lubricant to eliminate the diaphragm, enhance communication and establish good interpersonal relationships. However, showing weakness does not mean retreating or being weak and being bullied, still less is it unprincipled self-depreciation and compromise, but a kind of respect, courtesy and tolerance, and a kind of communication and wisdom in dealing with the world. Clever weakness in communication can bring you harmonious interpersonal relationships.

In our daily interactions, we are often accustomed to showing others our strengths, strengths, and superiority. It should be said: to demonstrate to others, everyone will; And only a few people can show weakness to others in a timely manner.

Because showing weakness often requires wisdom and even more courage. Therefore, for the sake of their own survival and the development of their careers, everyone must adjust their good intentions and learn to "show weakness" appropriately. However, in many cases, lowering your position, lowering your posture, and deliberately showing weakness can have a surprising effect and add luster to your social interactions.

In fact, the greatest luck in life is not that we can have smooth sailing, but that we have mastered the wisdom of survival that is constantly adapting.

Therefore, for us, it is the person with personality who does not bow down in the face of pressure, and the person who appropriately chooses to show weakness, admit defeat, and give up is a smart person. Showing weakness is a spiritual awakening, a manifestation of wisdom. Showing weakness is not a compromise, but a kind of rational forbearance. Showing weakness is not about falling, but about standing better and firmer. Life is a difficult operation, it will never be calm, you must not only afford it, but also let it go, in order to go far. Therefore, if you show weakness in a timely manner, you can sometimes become a winner.

In the past few years, the expansion of Deshuang Entertainment has more or less taken away the interests of others, as a certain saying goes, taking other people's paths and leaving others with no way out can be said to have offended many people, which is why Wu Kebo established the Anti-Rwanda Alliance, and so many people responded.

Even if some of them don't have any grievances with Lu Deshuang at all, Lu Deshuang has been too domineering in recent years, which has seriously affected their survival.

I once read such an article, which said that men have no hegemony, the big ones do not establish a country, the middle ones do not establish a career, the small ones do not establish a family, and the people who are the strongest, the overlords are also big husbands, useless, brave, and wise. For a superior person, to be a person in the world, to make a difference, and to do a good job in his own leadership and management, he should be domineering rather than domineering.

The so-called domineering refers to doing things with lofty goals and pursuits, being ambitious, daring to go to the moon for nine days, the courage to catch turtles in the five oceans, fighting with the sky, the joy is endless, fighting with the earth, the joy is endless, fighting with others, the joy is endless, fighting with oneself, the fearless spirit of the infinite joy, daring to compete, dare to try, dare to be the first in the world, no matter when and where, should appear with a strong posture.

Lu Deshuang did this, so, on the way of development, he offended many people, it can be said that the bitter fruit of today's is just the cause that Lu Deshuang planted at that time, but in the face of this situation, he does not regret it, because he knows very well that if he was not overbearing at the beginning, Deshuang Entertainment would not have developed to such a large scale today.

In the final analysis, this is a society where the law of the jungle eats the strong, and if you don't steal meat from others, then you will face the crisis of being robbed.

It is precisely this ruthlessness, coupled with a deep capital chain, that Lu Deshuang has been able to make Dessin Media a well-deserved No. 1 entertainment company in China, a multinational group spanning the East and the West.

However, as the old saying goes, those who are too rigid are easy to break, and those who are good and soft are undefeated!

Actually, it's quite simple.

I believe you should have heard that when we were children, my father often warned us: "Don't eat delicious things alone, you should give some to everyone appropriately, otherwise your friends won't play with you, others will hate you, and you will be pushed aside if you have benefits." At that time, we didn't seem to understand these words, and we were skeptical, so we always fought with people over trivial things. When we grow up and step into society, the grinding of reality and complex interpersonal relationships make us thoroughly understand the profound meaning of this sentence.

Only when a person understands this truth can he have an epiphany about the reason why successful people are successful.

For example, when children get together to play games, one of them is hungry and takes out a delicious pastry from his bag, which happens to be seen by everyone. At this point, he had two options: give some to everyone or keep it to himself. Choices are made in an instant, but they can lead to very different outcomes in a lifetime.

Lu Deshuang had no choice before, he didn't grab other people's meat, he could only sit and wait to be robbed, but now the situation is different, Desshuang Media has jumped out of the small pool and entered a bigger river, and he can no longer look down on the little bit of meat foam in the eyes of his peers, so he can no longer continue to be domineering, which will only put Desshuang Media in a disadvantageous position.

Just like the current situation, although Lu Deshuang is not worried about the threat to himself from Wu Kebo's rabble, it can be seen from the current anti-Rwanda alliance that the existence of Deshuang Media has threatened the interests of many peers.

If Lu Deshuang continues to compete with these peers for food, sooner or later, when the dissatisfaction reaches the critical point, these peers will definitely rise up, and at that time, it will not be in the face of the current rabble anti-Rhodox alliance, but the resistance of the entire circle of peers, even if these people can't overthrow Lu Deshuang's hegemony, they will definitely be able to let Deshuang Media kill 1,000 enemies and lose 800 themselves.

Therefore, getting along with people is not a multiple-choice question in many cases - with you or without him, but with multiple choices, which can be a win-win situation. Some people don't understand, they only know that the fish is dead and the net is broken, either you die or I live. The example of fighting for fame and fortune and dying together is often staged around us. This kind of person will never realize that giving in when necessary can bring greater benefits to himself.

I just want to monopolize the benefits but end up with nothing. There is a saying: "There are no eternal friends and no eternal enemies in the world, only eternal interests." This sentence shows that the fundamental problem in the exchanges between countries and between people is actually the distribution of interests. Understanding the distribution of interests is actually to understand the essence of human nature and the truth of society.

Lu Deshuang now seems to let the people of the anti-Lu Alliance take advantage of him and dig meat from him to eat, but who can say for sure what will happen in the future, just the group of sixth-generation directors who have been raised by Lu Deshuang are enough for these people to have a headache.

Especially in the sixth generation of directors, except for a small number of people's works that can win awards and earn box office, most of their works are losing money, and even many contents are easy to be blocked by radio and television. (To be continued.) )