Educate this thing

At about seven o'clock this morning, I was awakened by a ghost crying wolf howl, it turned out that the child next door didn't want to go to school, and his mother was beating him! At least I cried for more than 20 minutes, still under the coaxing of the child's father and his grandmother! I was woken up on a beautiful morning!

There are many parents in Chinese mainland who hold the concept of 'filial piety under the stick' to educate their children, although now there is less scolding, but there are still many elders whose concepts have not changed, selfishly think that children are my private property, I can teach how I want, anyway, I will not harm him, he naturally understands my good intentions when he grows up!

Some parents really treat their children as little emperors and princesses! I can't wait to pick the stars and the moon for my children! Whether the child likes it or not, he has signed up for various interest classes! The name is beautiful: don't let your child lose at the starting line! In fact, "don't let your child lose at the starting line!" There is a language problem with this sentence! Everyone has run, everyone is standing together at the starting line, and if they haven't run yet, how can they lose?

It has been fifteen years since the reform of quality education in Chinese mainland was proposed, and the slogan for children was to reduce the burden, but fifteen years have passed, and I communicated with a parent two days ago and found that the homework of students in the fourth grade of primary school should not be completed until 10 o'clock in the evening! The child's mother can't work in order to accompany the child to do homework, which is the so-called 'burden reduction'? We keep saying: Give your children a happy childhood, but homework is tiring every day! We're adults, and we work eight hours a day! But children, it takes thirteen hours to go to class with homework! Children: You guys are really hard!

The education I advocate should be to teach students according to their aptitude! Teach without class! The child's mind is very simple, like a blank piece of paper, he will be whatever you paint them! But why not let him grow up freely, we, as parents and teachers, will control the direction for him! If you study well, you must have good moral character? If you study well, you will succeed? This is only one aspect of an individual's ability, but not the whole story! Confucius said: There must be my teacher in a threesome! Some people always have some strengths that we can learn from! We must pursue the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, and learn from the strengths of others! Everyone knows that the pyramid scheme that everyone shouts about is not good, but have you noticed that there are many things in the pyramid scheme that we are worth learning? They can succeed in getting a person to give him the money they have worked so hard to give, and willingly! Personally, I think that all the veterans in MLM are masters of psychology and behavior!

Here, I appeal: we keep our word and really give our children a happy childhood!