After sending Wu Jing away, Lu Deshuang sat in the box in disappointment, pondering alone, he carefully recalled the conversation with Wu Jing just now, I don't know why he was so breathless, the lesson of conceit in the last negotiation with Cai Zhiping did not seem to make him vigilant, and once again turned over the hole cards early, but fortunately, judging from Wu Jing's reaction just now, the other party was obviously moved, but this is still a failure for Lu Deshuang!

In fact, the reason why Lu Deshuang is so impulsive, in addition to the fact that since his rebirth, Lu Deshuang's self-confidence has developed into conceit, there is also a part of the soul reason, Lu Deshuang was born back, and Lu Deshuang in high school did not disappear, but the soul fused with Lu Deshuang who was reborn.

You may not be able to find it in a short time, because Lu Deshuang has gone very smoothly since his birth, without any twists and turns, and even Zhang Ziyi has always obeyed his arrangement, which makes his self-confidence gradually develop into conceit, don't look at Lu Deshuang's humility on the surface, in fact, there is a kind of pride in his bones that everyone is drunk and sober.

So when Lu Deshuang faces others, he always wants the other party to follow his ideas, such as Huang Bo, he likes to sing, can't Lu Deshuang be a king? Definitely not! In this era, singers rely on songs, not appearance, Lu Deshuang really wants to praise Huang Bo, a king-level singer is more than enough, but Lu Deshuang did not do this, he has always wanted Huang Bo to give up his dream of being a singer and focus on the profession of actor.

As mentioned earlier, the reason why Zhang Ziyi terminated the contract with Lu Deshuang was not only to hug Zhang Yimou's thigh, but also to Zhang Ziyi's ambition, which had grown to a certain point and began to resist Lu Deshuang's arrangement.

Huang Bo has experienced a lot, coupled with Lu Deshuang's kindness to him, so that Huang Bo did not resist, obeyed Lu Deshuang's arrangement, and contacted the profession of actor, and even in the end, Huang Bo himself also fell in love with acting, so he did not let Huang Bo be the same as Zhang Ziyi, and finally left Lu Deshuang.

It can be seen from this point that Lu Deshuang's character is flawed and a bit self-centered, in fact, this can't be blamed on him, the experience of rebirth has made Lu Deshuang see the development of the whole world in the next ten years, he knows that his idea is right, but people in this era don't think so, they don't see it as clearly as Lu Deshuang, and there will naturally be disagreements, and Lu Deshuang is lucky, since he was reborn for a few years, it has been smooth sailing, and he has not encountered something that he can't solve.

Just like Cai Zhiping, Lu Deshuang's idea is right, whether Cai Zhiping fights or gives up, it is not very important to Lu Deshuang, as long as Lu Deshuang holds the copyright, he is already invincible, even if Cai Zhiping knows the bottom line, only Cai Zhiping will compromise in the end.

Wu Jing's matter is nothing, the agreement with Zhang Yimou is one of the bargaining chips to persuade Wu Jing, and the effect of saying it early and saying it later is not much different, which can be seen from Wu Jing's expression when he left, Wu Jing was really moved.

However, Lu Deshuang is not a person who can't face up to his shortcomings, although he has not yet discovered his personality flaws, but for the problem of being unable to hold his breath during negotiations, it should be related to his psychological endurance, and the reason why he usually can't hold his breath is that he is nervous and cares too much about that matter.

Now that he understands what the reason is, Lu Deshuang naturally wants to take the right medicine.

Now facing Cai Zhiping and Wu Jing will be unable to hold their breath, and after facing those old foxes in the entertainment industry in the future, will Lu Deshuang still have a way to live? Therefore, improving psychological quality has become Lu Deshuang's top priority!

Lu Deshuang did not go home as soon as possible, but came to a nearby bookstore, until nightfall, when the bookstore was about to close, Lu Deshuang woke up from the sea of books, did not expect that he actually sat in the bookstore for a long time, no wonder his stomach was so uncomfortable, and his feelings were hungry.

Holding a few books on psychology, Lu Deshuang got into the taxi home, and in half a day, Lu Deshuang found some of the things he needed from psychology, such as success is the dream of many people, but how many people are really successful in their lives? It is not uncommon for some people to work in the workplace for many years and eventually become a junior employee, because their psychological quality is not up to par.

On the way to success, you must have a strong psychological quality, from the book, Lu Deshuang also found several examples that are useful to himself, such as positive self-suggestion, steadfastness, not in a hurry to achieve success, acting not too tough, knowing how to see the world flexibly, and so on.

Positive autosuggestion: Psychologists believe that many times an individual's inner thoughts tend to give them a hint. For example, if you mentally hint to yourself: "I'm okay, I can get bigger results", and naturally I will be more enthusiastic in my work; And if your heart tells you that you have reached the top, and then it seems that it is beyond your ability, maybe you will not have the enthusiasm and strength to strive for progress in your work.

This can be used to describe the superhuman self-confidence of Lu Deshuang after he was born, because from the moment of rebirth, Lu Deshuang told himself that he would definitely succeed and become the greatest agent, which is a kind of autosuggestion, but Lu Deshuang is overhinting, causing self-confidence to evolve into conceit.

Steadfast and steady, not in a hurry to achieve success: Some people are overconfident in the workplace, do not know their actual abilities, often volunteer when working, ask for more work than they can do, and when they fail, they will hope to make up for their previous commitments with higher merit. In this case, it is easy to have a losing streak. Psychologists have found that successful people in the workplace who have made achievements are down-to-earth and steady, and they are never in a hurry to succeed. Because they have moderate self-confidence and understand that the pursuit of success requires their own step-by-step efforts, they are relatively much more down-to-earth.

From the very beginning of his rebirth, Lu Deshuang contacted the showbiz through his father, and even obtained the first pot of gold by reselling Yiwu trinkets, and then cooperated with others to open the first Qiyuan Internet café, after several years of development, the first and second-tier cities in the mainland have Qiyuan Internet cafes, which makes Lu Deshuang have a lot less worries!

Don't act too tough: It's not uncommon in the workplace to be tough and ruthless in their words and actions, and even more so to opponents. Because they are tough, rampage, aggressive, and do not know how to detour and mellow skills, the result is likely to lead to a stronger resistance of opponents, unwilling to cooperate with work, and hinder their own careers, resulting in workplace failure. In fact, toughness is not a manifestation of ability, when it is time to be flexible, we should learn to be flexible, learn to deal with various things in the workplace tactfully, this is the key mentality to win success in the workplace.

This seems to be Lu Deshuang himself, too tough, although Lu Deshuang knows that his arrangement is right and correct, but the people who are arranged by him don't think so, if Lu Deshuang doesn't make any changes in this regard, then Zhang Ziyi is a beginning, not an end.

Know how to see the world flexibly: with the same experience and situation, why can others be at ease, but they are stopped? According to the analysis of psychologists, there is a kind of professional who always believes that everything should have a standard, which can objectively and directly evaluate the advantages and disadvantages. They think they are defending their beliefs and sticking to principles, but others may not take them seriously or even oppose them. The result is often that they fight alone, often losing battles, and naturally fail in the workplace.

Successful people are often not limited by the rules of their thoughts and actions, they know how to look at the world and work flexibly, and actively analyze the causes and find solutions when they encounter problems. And they often find a source of happiness in these efforts!

To a certain extent, Lu Deshuang's breathlessness is that he doesn't understand the flexible view of the world, if he can easily see through Cai Zhiping and Wu Jing's thoughts, then Lu Deshuang will not expose his hole cards prematurely.