Gentleman man

Gentleman: First of all, dress appropriately, you can match your own dressing style, but you must not be ignorant of fashion elements! You can be hippies, you can also be very formal in a suit! You can also try playing nostalgic British preppy style!

Clothes must be changed and washed for up to two days, whether you are an office or a migrant worker! I've seen too many men who don't take care of themselves, do you think he's really short of money? At least there is no shortage of money to add an extra piece of clothing, but he just likes that dress, and he relies on that dress to wear every day! Too many small white-collar workers in suits and leather shoes, shirts are forced to wear the feeling of gray collars, you spend ten minutes a day washing clothes can become clean and tidy, so that everyone likes it, so that you feel refreshed, I ask you why don't you do it?

There are many men who shamelessly say: We are stinky men, we should smell of sweat, you have been fooled, don't make excuses for your laziness!? It's best to spend 10 to 15 minutes a day getting your hair and beard in care and 10 to 15 minutes in a shower! Make yourself more socially accommodating!

A gentleman's gentleman is not only dressed but also behaves as gentlemanly as possible! Seeing the wind and making the rudder, seeing people talking about people, seeing ghosts and talking nonsense, this is not a derogatory term, but you know how to socialize, you come into contact with people of all shapes and shapes every day, all kinds of industries, if you can do it and everyone can have a topic, then you are really amazing! You can talk about life, ideals, and love with eighteen or nineteen-year-old college students, you can talk about office culture with twenty-eight or nineteen-year-old office workers, you can talk about the education of bear children with thirty-eight or nineteen-year-olds, and you can also talk about health care with fifty or sixty-year-old people! Find a good entry point, I believe your chat atmosphere will not be embarrassing!

Once I went on a business trip to Dongyang, Zhejiang, and needed to visit a female owner of a garment factory, at that time I was just a small white-collar worker with a monthly salary, and which eldest sister was already a billionaire with three factories under her command, and I needed her to get a copy of the employee's social security information! She can also not take it, because it is better for her staff! Because I communicated with her, talked about her children's education, said that it was not easy for her to start a business, the atmosphere of our conversation was very pleasant, nearly more than an hour, I also achieved the purpose of my visit, not only got the social security information of which employee, but also which employee received how much salary each month, what is the family situation There is also a new harvest! Before leaving, which sister gave me a few bags of specialties!

You can imagine how precious a strong woman, who manages nearly 2,500 people under her hands, and I can chat for more than an hour as an outsider because my words go to her heart!

First of all, you have to be able to compliment people, when I met with which eldest sister shook hands, I saw that she wore a new Cartier diamond-studded women's watch, the market price at that time was about 180,000, I and her entry point was to start with the women's watch, and then talked about her children, pity the world's parents, she spent 400,000 Australian dollars to send his children to Australia to study, but unfortunately the child is used to spending money like running water, leaving her has not changed, borrowing money in the name of his mother, borrowing usury, almost did not drive any eldest sister crazy!

You must learn to compliment in social etiquette, you will be complimented, don't shoot the horse's leg if you don't shoot it well! In fact, everyone loves to listen to praise and praise, and it is not easy to accept criticism and testimony! But even if you praise you, you have to be decent!

A man sees a girl and says you are so beautiful, and then he can't stop complimenting her! Where is the stiffness! Wouldn't you praise her skin, her clothes, her outfits, her body fragrance? What a straight male cancer patient!

Forget it, you are all teaching my brother to be unemployed, as the saying goes, the master leads the door, and the cultivation depends on the individual! Go and understand it for yourselves!