Otherwise, if the husband is suspicious of his wife, and the wife calculates her husband, will the wife honor her in-laws wholeheartedly? If something happens in the Yue family, can the husband take the lead? ”

"Filial piety is right to come first. The grace of nurturing is, of course, greater than heaven. But for the sake of your nurturing grace that is greater than heaven, a woman must have the ability to enable her husband to stand up for her own family in times of crisis. The husband must also make his wife filial and humble in front of his parents and family. ”

"Husband and wife don't trust, husband and wife don't get along, how can they make each other go all out for their own nurturing grace that is greater than heaven?"

"What kind of environment the next generation grows up in is bound to affect his life. If you have watched your parents love and be happy since childhood, and treat your other half in the future, you will definitely know how to cherish and stay together, don't you say? ”

If Xue Mingyu's previous theory just made Sister Ting feel a little reasonable, then she pressed forward step by step, forcing Sister Ting on the high platform, not knowing where the ladder she insisted on was.

Sister Ting suddenly remembered a figure that kept appearing in her mind these days, Yue Lian. In fact, she often thinks of Yue Lian inexplicably lately, and Aunt Lian who was fat and didn't talk when she was pregnant. She finally knew the reason, because she was afraid, she was afraid that in her future life, there would be a sudden moon of refinement.

"No matter who Tan Ji is, no matter whether your future husband can make a difference, Aunt Xiao hopes that you and your future lover can treat each other sincerely. In this way, the harmony and happiness of a family can be continued. ”

Later, when Xue Mingyu asked someone to hand the post to Sister Ting's child, Sister Ting didn't say anything, but they all replied to the post obediently and came out as promised. Xue Mingyu knew that she should have listened to it. Some things, in this era restricted by feudal etiquette, cannot be said when people see them, but if they are occasionally heard, they will also resonate faintly.

Seeing that Xue Mingyu got up early one after another to have breakfast with him, and then asked him about Tan Ji's recent movements, he raised his eyebrows quite unexpectedly, "Sister Ting really went to see with you?" ”

"Of course." Xue Mingyu also learned Qin Junxiu's action of raising his eyebrows. "However, the fourth sister-in-law should not know." There was still half a sentence she didn't say, maybe she knew, but she pretended not to know.

"Sister Ting'er should agree." Qin Junxiu asked.

"Almost. Tan Ji is a good young man at his age. Xue Mingyu commented objectively.

She accompanied Sister Ting and later watched Tan Ji three times, and the news came from Qin Junxiu. Most of them are places where Tan Ji often stays every day. Once, I asked Tsuki Takisha to have a cook, and the carriage driving the vegetables stopped at the fork in Dahuai Street. It is reported that when Guozi Jian Mu Xiu, Tan Ji was not only studying at home, but also watching the old man living on Dahuai Street playing chess at the intersection. Once at the bookstore, the two of them faced a bookcase against the wall in the corner to pick up books, next to Tan Ji's bookshelf where the bookstore had a new travelogue in the middle of every month.

Another time, it was in Mrs. Lin's house, that day it was Tan Ji who went to visit Mr., Xue Mingyu didn't hand over the post in advance, and took Sister Ting to the inner courtyard, and after whispering a few words to Mrs. Lin, Mrs. Lin took them to the compartment of the outer study.

Xue Mingyu remembered this time and again, and the corners of her lips were hooked proudly. If Sister Ting has no intention, she will not investigate again and again. If Sister Ting hadn't turned a corner in her heart, even if Tan Ji was a good talent, she wouldn't have bothered to think so much. In a blink of an eye, she remembered something again.