As for whether we can really let go of or get out of that misunderstanding, can everyone really reach that point of self-forgetfulness? When each of us is talking about it, we are actually expressing ourselves, and he is just babbling about external things, and at such times he only hopes to find his sense of existence, and he does not really understand the actual things in the concept of things.

For the people of our time, the time period at that time has become the opposite of the current people, because the so-called things we experienced in a year, until now some children have not heard of them, so modern people in the general trend of economic and social development, some people are greedy.

And in order to achieve their own goals, they are also unscrupulous, and after witnessing, you will understand that the person who can really pierce your own heart is actually yourself.

Whenever we talk about this topic, in fact, our hearts are stinging.

Sometimes no matter how well you do in society as a group, there are actually mistakes, everyone is not perfect, and the way you treat anything depends on you.

And just for your own way, you will often be discriminated against or scolded, or chattered about you, which is the so-called jealousy of human nature.

Of course, this is not necessarily negated, in fact, in real life, the feelings between us are communicated in words, but often it is this way that some people use, he is doing the kind of small calculation in his own heart, and there are some things that you really can't face.

So, how are you going to live in this society and in your life, and how are you going to do it, it's an unknown thing for everyone.

Once great men have already said it.

People are not sages, who can be without fault, but depending on the true concept and meaning of this sentence, in fact, each of us can't see it, and it's not something you can tell, it's just that life is said and done and cherished, but there are a few people who can really be cherished.

In terms of age, people of a certain era have a generation gap, and their way of thinking and way of doing things are simply not agreeable, so this becomes people's disagreement that when you do something, he has no conclusion or definition at all, only relying on all his own way of thinking and dealing with things, and others can say that you are right or wrong after you finish it.

The distinction between good people and bad people, how do we define it? This is the position in life, the era I have experienced is completely different from the present, when the economy was already underdeveloped, the so-called year is the day when the face of the loess is facing the sky, in fact, the elderly live more tired than us.

But when they encounter a thing, the so-called decision-making and choice is very influential for us, especially in the sixties and seventies, which is already the period around the *****, for some people and things, the influence is considerable, but there is an indelible impression, so people at that time were timid to do things, and they did not believe in anything.

But they have always lived with their ideas in mind, so much so that to this day, they don't know who they were talking about in the first place, so that's the way people think about everything.

Just like a family in our countryside, he trusts that family.

In the early stage, the family was very difficult, needless to say, but his husband was a teacher, and his wife, in fact, was actually a rural woman, thinking that the war was difficult, so at that time the teacher was paid, although the salary was not high, but the life was guaranteed.

At that time, I only remembered that there were already two children in their family, in fact, I also heard from the older generation, and he was left with himself in his generation, so he said that he had two sons below.

are very pampered, but in that era, no, now the economy is so developed, the so-called goods and other things are also single, at that time the average person added those cookies and candies, that is already a very good family.

His eldest son is about the same age as me, and the second son is also up and down with me, renting for a year when his family lived outside the village, and it was not in our village, and the small village at that time was only 10 households and 8 households, and there were not so many people at all, and their family was in the house in the back mountain, and sometimes we were greedy to play and go to his house to play, and they had two families there, in fact, he and his father-in-law lived there, because his family situation was not so good, so his father-in-law saw that he did not have that kind of self-control, so he recruited it here, and it was the title of teacher at that time, to be honest, he had caught up with a cadreBecause they have a fixed salary to be paid every month, the old farmers are different.

The old peasants could only settle the accounts at the end of the year, and sometimes they had to pay back to others, because at that time the food was simply not enough to eat, so the people's lives were still relatively okay.

As the child grows up year by year, the level of this teacher is getting higher and higher, and you feel that the living conditions are getting better and better, which contributes to the child, you have to get used to his words since childhood, and when you grow up, he will add a lot of unnecessary trouble to the elderly.

His eldest son is okay, but this little son is too naughty, as long as he goes out of his house, he will also give his family a lot of trouble, either beat this, or steal the things of that family, so in our place, although their family has a good life, but the reputation is not very good.

In that era, a person's reputation was very important, just like the rich society now, sometimes people are often like this, they can't say anything in person, and there are many discussions behind their backs, which has contributed to the isolation of their family.

Because of this teacher's lover, his life problem is not so good, as a year in the countryside is called a style problem, as long as there is this degree in that era, the countryside is very compromised, but we didn't understand what the concept of broken shoes is at that time, but listen to the older generation, sometimes we don't see the real kind of evidence, so we really don't understand.

That's at this level, the children of their family have grown up little by little, and the eldest has reached the age when it is time to start a family, but no one has made it clear to everyone for a long time.

But it's also very strong, and the grades in studying are good, and in the end it was assigned to become a name.

Private teachers.

It's that the money is not under the control of the state, but the level of the school's expenses, and it used to be called a substitute teacher, since there is next year, someone in their family will come to the door to give this child a heart, because after all, the affairs of the older generation have nothing to do with children, and his eldest son is also a very benevolent person.

Because the child makes the old man very worried, this teacher often drinks heavily, and the wine at that time was not too expensive, only 1 yuan 2 cents 7 pounds, but ordinary people still can't afford to drink.

So it may be a matter of pressure, sometimes he drinks too much, as a teacher, your words and deeds are in the eyes of others, and when you reach the final level, you don't know that you don't know that you are also going here and there, and for some typical things, what he says is not respected.

People are like this, and over time they have developed a habit of natural behavior, so he is the kind of person who must drink more every time he drinks, and the kind of pressure from the outside world in that era cannot be borne by ordinary people.

But maybe I thought that I still had two children, and some things were endured, and then his second son slowly grew up, but the two are not so familiar, and he didn't listen to the teacher's discipline when he went to school, and he would go to his father as soon as the teacher took care of him, and over time the teacher gave him up, and no one cared about him, which indulged his character, he was all humming nonsense in school, and no one was convinced, and in the end even his father couldn't control him, and finally the school decided to expel the child, because this was the black sheep in the school, and it was very easy to expel a student in that era。

Unlike now, now the teacher is generally unable to expel the student, so that the child is created, put in the lime, unscrupulous, ordinary people are hiding when they see him, this is cultivated, he is like a rural bully, as long as you provoke me, he dares to use a knife, move a stick, anyway, he is a child at that time The law is not so perfect, the address is to beat you, or scratch you with a knife There is no legal responsibility, which develops his high-flying and domineering character, and finally it is time to start a family, no girl wants to marry him, he is so mixed in such a society。

For his sake, his father is heartbroken, and so is his mother, and some things can really reach the point where you get angry to a certain extent, and you feel that this child really can't be wanted.

But for this child, everything seems to be natural, and he doesn't care about it at all.

The old man deliberately kept a sentence, that is true, so there are some things that are Wang Ba's fried mung beans, and he is right, and after changing in society, he finally brought back a woman.

That's it, he is also considered a family, and after he got married, it was better at the beginning, maybe he liked it after all, and he had that kind of attachment to the family, but the later period was later, because of human nature, he couldn't change it.

Maybe it's genetics, he also learned to drink, and after drinking, he is like his father, as long as he finishes drinking, he goes out to fight, so in the general village, the people around him know that no one can compare with him.

After the household registration, they all arrived, but he didn't work since he was a child, so the land was not planted, everyone went out to work, he lay at home, or went out to drink, his wife was still okay, quite a duty, a person, even if he didn't do it, he could clean up the middle of the field, but over time.

Some problems arise, because after all, there are some people in this village, so he seems to be using these relationships to maintain the family, in fact, there are some problems that we can't see at the time, others are pointing fingers behind their backs, and then his family has a son, don't say that he really looks like that kid, but others have a lot.

Later, his family stopped living on the outskirts of the village, and bought a small house in the village, but there are many farmers there, and there are more than 20 families.

Finally, with the contract of this land, the foreign population became more and more, so that their village grew larger, and finally developed to fifty or sixty households, but if the human nature of him appeared this kind of behavior once, he could not change it for women and men, a little bit, he put the people in that village in chaos, but every family knew about it, but it did not become a legal regulation at that time.

So this has created some economic sources in other families, in fact, people know it, but some people he just can't control it, and has been there for 5 years, and their family is also there, where are they mixed, but the small words behind people's words are really unbearable, and sometimes other people's daughters-in-law go to his house to scold the street, and their family still dare not come out, because what people say is true.

In the countryside, as soon as such a thing appears, it spreads ten or ten, and soon this kind of problem spreads out, and some people also want to get into it, but when it comes to that era, these things are no longer strange, and the so-called society is also popular, that is, this kind of thing to this extent in order to make money to support the family, many people are like this, because after the reform and opening up, he has an influence on everything below, has he ever said a word for you? That era has already been formed, as long as I have money to make, or it will be a hard era, so in the end, there are no rumors about this matter, and it will be natural, but to be honest, there are still people talking about it behind it.