Chapter 496: See your mother-in-law
When he arrived at the hospital, Lu Deshuang's expression had regained his calm, holding a basket of fruit in his hand, and he walked to the ward where Li Bingbing was with Gao Jie and a few others, came to the door, took a deep breath, and did not push the door directly, but knocked on the door very officially, because he already knew from the information reported by Li Bingbing's bodyguards that in addition to Li Bingbing and Li Xue, there were two mothers in the ward. Pen, fun, and www.biquge.info
"The door is unlocked, come in!" This is Li Xue's voice.
Lu Deshuang tidied up his appearance, took a few deep breaths again, maybe he had an experience, he was not very nervous, he pushed the door in with a smile, and saw Li Mu sitting at the head of the bed, chatting with Li Bingbing, and hurriedly stepped forward and greeted Li Mu: "Auntie, I'm really sorry, the company has been too busy recently, and I didn't go back with Bingbing to see you and my uncle during the Spring Festival, and I have to bother you to come over in person, it's really ......."
"I don't need to explain, Bingbing has already told me just now, I can understand it, but, Deshuang, it's not that Auntie said you, how can you let Bingbing learn boxing, is this what a girl should do? Look at it, it's all concussion! Li Mu was still angry with Lu Deshuang, although her face did not show it, her tone was full of blame.
"Yes, yes, it's all my fault!" What else can Lu Deshuang say, he can only promise to respond.
Li Bingbing was naturally towards Lu Deshuang, and when she saw her mother blaming Lu Deshuang, she hurriedly coquettishly said: "Mom, it's just a slight concussion, the doctor said it's okay, and didn't I explain it to you, I made my own decision to practice actual combat boxing, and Deshuang didn't know." ”
"No matter how slight a concussion is, it's also a concussion, and there is a problem in the head, can it be simple!"
This girl hasn't married yet, so she prefers to protect her lover, but Li's mother doesn't really want to teach Lu Deshuang a lesson, after all, Li Xue also said that Lu Deshuang only arranged for Li Bingbing to practice boxing with protective gear, and today's accident without protective gear actual combat boxing practice was proposed by Li Bingbing himself, this accident, although it is not to blame Lu Deshuang, the reason why he still blamed him was just to knock Lu Deshuang.
Don't think that our family is fancy your money, if it weren't for Li Bingbing's stubbornness, they wouldn't have agreed to Li Bingbing and Lu Deshuang together.
Lu Deshuang was already prepared for Li's mother's disappointment, who asked him not to go back with Li Bingbing during the Spring Festival this year, causing Li's father and Li mother to be unable to raise their heads in front of many relatives, and even through the report of Li Bingbing's bodyguards, Lu Deshuang also knew some rumors, saying that the reason why Lu Deshuang didn't come was because Lu Deshuang's family didn't look down on Li Bingbing, and they didn't want Lu Deshuang to marry Li Bingbing at all.
After all, Li Bingbing is several years older than Lu Deshuang, this time is not the era of female juniors and gold bricks, not to mention that Lu Deshuang's conditions are so superior, the richest man in the mainland, what kind of wife can he not find, if he has to find a woman of Li Bingbing's age, it is not right to be a household at all.
Therefore, after knowing that Lu Deshuang did not come back with Li Bingbing, rumors like this completely spread among the relatives and friends of the Li family, which made Li's father and mother very faceless, and naturally, they didn't treat Lu Deshuang very well.
"Auntie, it's all my fault, I will definitely protect Bingbing in the future and won't let her come into contact with dangerous things!"
When Lu Deshuang went to meet Dong Xuan's parents, he asked some married people about the tricks to please his mother-in-law, why was it his mother-in-law instead of his father-in-law? It is in response to the old saying that the mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, and the more she looks at it, the more she likes it, as long as she pleases the mother-in-law, the old father-in-law will naturally have the mother-in-law to solve it.
Summarize the information you ask for from those who are married, and there are nine tricks that can be used!
The first trick: ask your daughter-in-law about your mother-in-law's preferences, Sun Tzu has a cloud in the art of war, knows himself and his opponent, and will not be defeated in a hundred battles. Only by first making a preliminary understanding of the mother-in-law's preferences, at least first understand what kind of character the mother-in-law is, pungent? Gentle? Or something else, if you have a bottom in advance, it will naturally be easier to deal with.
The second trick: first understand what kind of requirements the mother-in-law had for her son-in-law before, before each girl falls in love, I believe that the mother will tell her, what kind of thing to find and so on. Let's first inquire with my daughter-in-law to see if there is anything that does not meet my mother's requirements, and when the time comes, I will try to avoid or try to change it to a type that my mother-in-law is satisfied with.
The third trick: the performance of the door-to-door visit should be good, this so-called performance, the comparison is not easy to grasp. You can't say nothing, otherwise your mother-in-law thinks you're not good at words, and you can't talk endlessly, otherwise you'll say you're flamboyant, so you have to grasp this degree well. In addition, the tone of your voice should also be as humble as possible, otherwise your mother-in-law thinks that you are arrogant, and it will be over.
In this regard, Lu Deshuang is now performing very well, with the attitude that everything is my fault and everything is taken on me, so that Li Mu does not have such a targeted attitude towards Lu Deshuang as before.
The fourth trick: dress up can't be too casual, as the old saying goes, people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles, especially when visiting the woman's parents, clothing is particularly important. is too casual, it will leave the impression of not paying attention to details, like the situation that Lu Deshuang is encountering now, it is naturally enough to wear a suit, and it can also show Li Mu that after he knew that Li Bingbing had an accident, he rushed from the company as soon as possible.
The fifth trick: gifts must be in place, as the saying goes, many people are not strange, the first time they meet, gifts are still essential, the elders feel that gifts, this is to see whether you are polite or not, if you go empty-handed, it is estimated that you will see your mother-in-law for the last time.
Of course, choosing a gift also depends on the venue and environment, just like Lu Deshuang this time, he came to the hospital, which was not a very formal meeting, so he bought a basket of fruits and a bouquet of lilies, and it was not wrong to visit the sick and give gifts.
The sixth trick: the elders should answer the questions seriously for the first meeting, and the indispensable thing is to ask about work, family background, this is every parent's concern for the future of their children, but this trick Lu Deshuang estimates that it is no longer useful, since he was on the list of the richest people in the mainland, his family background has been exposed by the media early, and if Li's father and mother want to know, they can learn directly from the newspaper.
Seventh trick: every festival to take the initiative to call to ask, no matter what festival, in fact, a warm phone call, can easily recover the hearts of the elders, because they see your intentions, maybe a phone call is insignificant, but in their hearts, it is extremely warm.
Of course, it is better to visit them with your girlfriend during the holidays, which shows that you care and are considerate of them. With such a caring son-in-law, will the mother-in-law still have an opinion? Sometimes, what elders fear most is loneliness. Especially in our generation, many families are only children, and after the daughter gets married, there are only two old people left at home.
This point, Lu Deshuang did quite a failure, he didn't say it when he was in the United States before, but now he has returned to China, and he has even admitted his relationship with Li Bingbing, this time he didn't go over with Li Bingbing to pay New Year's greetings, even if Lu Deshuang can use busy affairs as an excuse, but although Li's father and mother can understand, they are always dissatisfied in their hearts.
This is also why, in the face of Li's mother's targeting, Lu Deshuang did not show a trace of dissatisfaction, and kept smiling, and even faced Li's mother's blame, whether it was his mistake or not, he admitted it with a smile, which can undoubtedly change Li's mother's attitude.
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Today is also particularly speechless, the cold was much better yesterday, I thought I could fully recover today, I didn't think about it, but it was more serious, not to mention the dizziness, the eyelids are still fighting, the sleepiness is terrible, the most uncomfortable is the nasal congestion and runny nose, I have used a large bag of tissues, the nose is really uncomfortable. (To be continued.) )