Chapter 187: Sad Little Man Five
My wife is an earth fairy
Text/polarisa
Hearing Tang Dake's reproach full of concern, Governor Qian Da surprisingly did not refute, and even had a little shame on his face, and sat there with his head down. At this time, it was the end of the solar calendar, and it was dark early, but it was actually not six o'clock in the evening. Governor Qian Da came back very early, and the topic of today's investigation is the problems and obstacles in the development of the food export industry in the province, and the accompanying personnel are experts from the Provincial Economic and Trade Commission and the Export-Import Bank. Her husband and daughter were both in the ocean, and Governor Qian finished his investigation in the afternoon, pushed off the reception dinner prepared by the local government, and came directly to Jinzhou.
After I came, I learned that my husband had arrangements for the evening, and only my daughter was home alone. The relationship between Governor Qian and her daughter is not good, she is a person who is in a hurry, does things informally, and is bold, and her daughter's temperament is also with her, and the two of them are exactly the same. Because she was busy with her career and separated from her husband all the year round, she couldn't take care of her daughter, and she didn't know how to care for her softly, so her daughter didn't like her since she was a child.
As her daughter grows up and becomes sensible, and Governor Qian is also old, her personality slowly becomes softer, and the weight of her family in her heart is heavier day by day. Both mother and daughter want to be close to each other, eager for the ice of affection in each other's hearts to melt. Helplessly, the personalities of the two hedged, and every time they met, it was still hot at the beginning, and they choked up without saying a few words.
Seeing her husband busy in the kitchen, Governor Qian's heart was full of tenderness.
Qian Wenju is a strong woman in the eyes of others, but in her own opinion, a strong woman is actually the kind of woman who can't cook, stay away from housework, have no gentleness, and don't know how to be considerate. There are many women in the world who have made their careers vigorous, and most of them have no time to take care of their husbands and children. But there is no time to take care of and not know how to take care of are two completely different realms, do not know how to take care of their husbands and children, will slowly be alienated by the family, become a strong woman in society, this strength is not so much the strength of ability, but the toughness of the heart.
Qian Wenju doesn't want others to see her as a strong woman, although she is very compatible with the characteristics of a strong woman, she still expects herself to be a competent mother in her daughter's heart and a good wife in the eyes of her husband. However, she still failed again and again, for example, tonight, if she had a good cooking skill and prepared a family dinner for her husband and daughter, everything would have changed a lot. After all, when the husband first arrived, it was impossible for these officials to have a full stomach, and they often left the table in a hurry after a few drinks.
However, she could only sit in the living room, reading the newspaper while waiting for her husband to come home. Because not only did she not know where the kitchen was, but she also didn't know how to use the kitchen belows. Before graduating from university, she was an honor student, busy with her schoolwork every day, and had no time to savor life and touch household chores. After joining the work and entering the government, he focused on dealing with interpersonal relationships every day, and in a short period of time, he was recognized and appreciated by the people in his family, so he was fully cultivated, and he was promoted to a provincial and ministerial-level senior cadre at the age of 50.
Such a life experience inevitably requires giving up a lot, including the time and ability to take care of her husband and daughter. Today, although she was the first person in her family to return, she had no way to show her gentle, considerate and caring side. When her daughter returned, she could see her daughter's expectations at the first moment, but she couldn't meet them. At that moment, dissatisfaction with herself and guilt for her daughter grew in her heart. She knows very well that this bad emotion combined with dissatisfaction and guilt will leak out at the slightest opportunity, and become a misunderstanding and annoyance of others, but she can't do anything about it.
Tang Dake is infinitely tolerant of Qian Wenju, just like her family. Tang Dake is not the arrangement given to her by the family, and the strength in her personality will not allow the family to arrange for her. At this point, neither the current patriarch nor the ancestor of the family will force her. They understand that strength is the strength of her professional character, and no one is allowed to erode her strengths, and even someone needs to find a way to cultivate and highlight her strengths.
Tang Dake is the most successful discovery in Qian Wenju's life, and it is also her most perfect choice for her life partner. Tang Dake is not so much her lover as her best friend, understanding her, tolerating her, and loving her are the reasons why she can't give up.
When the two of them came together, Qian Wenju had already ascended to the throne of deputy county magistrate with the full support of his family, and Tang Dake was only a chief clerk in the office of the prefectural party committee at that time. When she went to the prefectural committee for the first time, Tang Dake received her, and he left a deep impression on her during that reception. In the next three years, the two went from acquaintance to acquaintance, and then to love each other. In Qian Wenju's view, Tang Dake is a pear blossom that opens silently for her on the road of her cold life. His amazement and his attention are all rare recognition and rewards from her.
Tang Dake quickly made a large bowl of tomato egg soup and three bowls of chicken noodle soup, and the family sat at the table, enjoying a simple but warm dinner. Tang Keer and Qian Wenju took turns to answer Tang Dake's questions, all of which were questions in their respective worlds, and even the content they admired the most, and they would talk happily and eloquently every time they talked about it. The dinner was simple, though, and everyone was happy.
Tang Dake, Qian Wenju, and Tang Keer know very well who is the core and who is maintaining this family happiness, and he is satisfied with this core and maintenance, and they cherish this core and maintenance. Qian Wenju and Tang Keer will not take the initiative to start a topic, just waiting for their common lover to ask the right question, and when she was talking, the other one she looked at the two people she loved with appreciation.
Finally, they talked about the mystery of the mountain.
They are all people on the periphery of the Qian family, even if Qian Wenju is in a high position, perhaps because she is a woman, she also failed to enter the core of the Qian family, but this does not affect their family's yearning and desire for the Qian family.
Legend has it that the Qian family is a family with a heritage, and there was once a prominent family for a hundred years. According to legend, the ancestor of the Qian family is already 100 years old, but everyone who has the opportunity to meet him said that he is more like a middle-aged man in terms of appearance and demeanor. Some people say that he can break the gold stone with a palm instead of a knife, and some people say that he flies the eaves and walks on the wall like walking on the ground, but the most admired thing is that whenever the family is in danger, as long as this ancestor makes a move, he can turn the crisis into safety in an instant.
The Qian family lived in seclusion in the mountains. When people on the periphery talk about the inner tribe, they are talking about how it is on the mountain. The mountain was not a wilderness, but a mountain in the heart of the city, forbidden for various reasons. Perhaps more than 100 years ago, it was far away from the city, but now the mountain is now full of traffic every day.