Because of the frequent use of my mobile phone, she gave birth to her low self-esteem, and explained to me repeatedly:

"It's not like I don't have money to buy a phone. I can afford to live in a room by myself, but I can't afford to use a mobile phone? ”

Point your temples with your index finger as you speak:

"It really doesn't work. My brain is confused, I can't remember the phone number, hey, why do you use your mobile phone? The old man and lady who live in our compound, which waist doesn't have a mobile phone? ”

I heard her say that she couldn't remember her phone number, which is also not true. She came to call and reported her daughter's phone number, crackling, like the bookkeeper planning to make a plate, and reported it after dividing five by two. Of course, it can also be understood in this way, the daughter's number is remembered, but someone else's number cannot be remembered. This is a virtue that everyone has, who remembers the phone number in someone else? But she had a phone number logbook, and she flipped through it to find anyone, and the phone number came out right after it.

I saw a landline in her room, and at first I thought it was deaf - for decoration. Tentatively dialed her daughter's phone number, but it was connected, but no one answered. immediately asked Li Xianglan to take out the phone number book, find an acquaintance to dial it, and quickly connected. The old lady chatted with each other on the phone for a long time. I waited for her to finish the phone and asked her, "You have a phone, why don't you call?" ”

The old lady did not answer, and her face was very solemn. After a long time, he said: "This phone nerve often can't be connected. ”

I could hear what she was saying; She didn't answer her daughter's phone call on a landline, and she could only receive her daughter's message by borrowing someone else's phone to call.

For Li Xianglan's daily diet, I noticed that there is a lot of it, and at noon it is four dishes and one soup. Moreover, some dishes are by no means bitten by the awkward old bachelors in her mouth, such as salted fish and dried bamboo shoots. So I asked her:

"Why do you order so many dishes? Always see that you can't eat it, and serve it to the room. You said to stay at night. It's not good to eat leftovers all the time. There is a dinner in the evening! Why did you order all your evening meals at noon? ”

When I said this, the old lady quickly pulled me into the house, locked the door, put her ear close to the door, as if to hear if there was a KGB outside, and then turned back to me in a low voice:

"Oh, I didn't order these dishes myself, the nurse ordered them for me."

I wondered: "Isn't the menu sent out once a week, sent to me, and I will draw the ticks and order the dishes myself?" ”

The old lady said, "No, they don't send it to me." They helped me order, and you can also see that there are some dishes that I can't bite, and there are so many that I can't bear to pour them, so I can only eat them at night. Child, bitter! I went to them and they said that my daughter ordered all my food online for me. I asked my daughter, and she said it didn't exist. ”

When I heard her say this, I was full of suspicion. It was impossible to tell if it was her daughter's problem or the nurse's problem. Whether it's her daughter or the nurse, I decided to help her out. Just say:

"In this way, you say that they said that your daughter helped you order the food through the Internet, whether it is true or not, as long as you are not satisfied, you can claim your rights. You are not mentally ill, you are a normal person with full capacity for behavior, and no one has the right to interfere with your freedom to eat, including your daughter. Even if a mentally ill person is mentally ill, no one has the right to force him to eat what he can't eat. Aren't you illiterate? There are many elderly people who are illiterate, don't nurses also give them menus, read them to them, and let them choose by themselves, and then the nurses tick the box? Why do you want to deprive you of the freedom to choose your own dishes, and prank you to order dishes that you can't eat at all? Well, next week, I'll order it for you, and I'll read it to you, and I'll order what you want to eat. I don't order so much, two dishes and one soup at noon are enough. You go and talk to the nurse and ask her to give you the menu next week. ”

Li Xianglan heard me say this, and according to my guess, she should be elated. On the contrary, the old lady was embarrassed, and I felt that she was afraid of those in white coats. I remembered that a few days ago, I was helping my teacher's roommate wash a dirty, green to black peeler in the bathroom, when an old lady with vitiligo flashed in and warned me to stay away from Li Xianglan with a rustic sound made by rubbing two pieces of iron, saying that no one here would want to see her. "It's right or wrong, it's right or wrong," I nodded politely, and my heart felt a sudden sense of disgust. This old lady had dinner at the same table with Teacher Xu, and I heard that she was still a high-level intellectual. She said the same thing to Teacher Xu. Teacher Xu didn't want to offend her, so he nodded his head frequently. This is not Teacher Xu's nature, I think at the beginning, she was jealous and hateful, and she had a very individual. The old Zhuhuang is worthless, and he can't even preserve his nature, so Mr. Xu should be very painful in his heart. No wonder I heard people say: "Hooligans are not terrible, but they are afraid that cultural people will play hooligans." is so old that he was sent to a nursing home by his children, and he was poked and knocked down, which is more terrible than playing hooligan. No wonder Li Xianglan only went out to do activities when she saw me, and usually locked herself in the house. Except for eating, she never opened the door, let alone saw her running through the door. It turned out that she was a pariah, isolated. I can't help but lament that where there are people, there is right and wrong, even in the pile of old people who are dying. couldn't help but feel three points of pity for Li Xianglan. She is a mother abandoned by her children and an elderly person who is isolated from society. The two complement each other, "leather pants and cotton pants, there must be a reason", the reason is that her relatives let her freeze her buttocks, and of course outsiders will water it in the snow. Man is an animal, and an animal is a beast. Man and beast are related. That's why someone said, "To study human nature, you have to go to the zoo." "I think you have to study carnivores when you go to the zoo, not herbivores. The old man couldn't even remember his age, and asked her a few times, but he didn't ask for an exact birthday. Raise a pair of children for the rest of your life. The children relied on the reform and opening up to get a few stinky money, and raised them with a pregnancy in October, and now the mother who bends over spends money - or with her own money - she has a retirement salary of several thousand, and she abandons it, cold and violent, and she is very good. I've been here for months, and I haven't seen her children. Li Xianglan took care of the calves and said that they often came at night. I left the nursing home at noon, and I didn't know what was going on here at night and in the dark. But asked the teacher. , Teacher Xu said that she had never seen Li Xianglan's children come at night. What did Li Xianglan say, why couldn't she touch it? Her 90-degree posture is a spinal problem, not AIDS, hepatitis B, syphilis, or poison! Even if she is really AIDS, hepatitis B, syphilis, and poison, you have to be humane to her. Saying goes; "What a thousand people refer to, end without a disease", the environment is very important to a person's psychology, this is to her death! I think her children wish this old burden died early! In fact, Li Xianglan is a reasonable old man, as long as she pays a point for her, she wants to return ten points. She was also a kind old man, and every time I left, she would chase after my back and shout:

"Be careful! Be sure to ride the bike lanes, not the main road! ”

"People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden", for this reason, I took the teacher downstairs to bask in the sun and passed by the nurse's station, and saw a black-faced female nurse, so I proposed to her that when I sent the menu next week, I would also send one to Li Xianglan, and with Li Xianglan's consent, I would help Li Xianglan order. The black-faced nurse rolled her eyes at me, rolled her hands a few times and couldn't move, and shook over with a sentence:

"You don't have that right!"

These words made me want to jump, and the courage of the horseman drew his sword, pointed at the black-faced nurse and reprimanded angrily:

"Yes, I don't have the right to order food for her, but you also don't have the right to deprive her of the right to order food herself! Let her eat leftovers every day, you want her to have cancer, don't you? Help her order a dish she can't bite, you want to starve her? Don't tell me, it's all her daughter's operation online, if that's the case, I'll call the mayor's hotline 12345 and sue her daughter for elder abuse. I don't believe there is such a bastard daughter in the world, and her daughter doesn't admit it. It should be your responsibility. If you treat the old man like this, won't you get old? You may not be able to afford to live in such an upscale nursing home when you are old. You are young and virtuous to the elderly, and you will have retribution when you are old. People are doing it, and the sky is watching! Why should I come every day? In addition to the fact that your food here is like pig food, there is another important reason, that is, I am afraid that there will be more people like you in the nursing home and abuse my teacher. ”

The black-faced female nurse was scolded by me and ran away and disappeared. I was still angry, and helped the teacher to take the elevator to the downstairs playground.

When you come to the sun, you will be surrounded by lush grass and thick greenery. My mood was washed by ultraviolet rays, and it calmed down a lot.

It's a big playground with a wide variety of gym equipment.

The fifth floor of the nursing home houses an entire floor of Alzheimer's. They don't know their families, but when they see people they don't know, they seem to know each other, and they are very excited, dancing, twisting, and swinging their hips, and making strange greetings. I once went to the fifth floor to meet them. Every time I pass through a room, the elderly people who need full care in their daily lives welcome me in this way.

The whole of the fifth floor was taken down by elevator now. Bathed in the Japanese breeze, shining with light. Each wheelchair is lined up, and the nurse dances disco in the sun, showing them their talents and awakening their brains that only have the IQ of children. It didn't seem to work, and some of them were drowsy to the cheerful tune "Sister Lin Falling from the Sky" from the tape recorder, his head hung down to his chest, and he had a placket. Some old people looked around, not knowing that this place was heaven and earth. However, wherever there is sunshine, there must be shadows. Suddenly, the female nurse stopped dancing, and pushed an old man to rush to the building at a speed of 100 meters, and rushed to the public bathroom. The nurse invited the old man into the bathroom and retched vigorously.

Seeing this, I felt sorry for these young people working in the nursing home, and felt that it was not easy for them to scold the black-faced nurse just now. I heard the teacher say that after so much hard work, he only gets 2,000 a month, and it is the management class who gets the high salary, and the boss earns more money. The children of the old people themselves refuse to take care of it, and push it to the nursing home, why let them be young to do their filial piety for others? Of course, it's their job, just like most young people face computers every day.