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Even if it is a small town of Baidi, due to the development of tourism and the status of the key in Sichuan, the environment is still good.

At least the various diets are not bad, although there are no rare mountain and wild game, but in this era, those things are not very popular, that is, the brain of a large monster to make big dishes, and there are even a few sources and their "whips" as gimmicks.

There are indeed a lot of people here, and the organizer is naturally a certain young master, and Wang Jian has no heart to communicate with him.

At this moment, there are countless peers in the cold and boring tunnels, checking equipment and supplies, ready to deal with the demonic beasts from afar, and these behaviors here are a bit shameful.

Although he also understands that these ferocious materials are not so excessive, under the pressure of war, the second generation is basically obedient and afraid of death, at least under the annual death figure, the safest countries in the world are there.

At this point, Wang Jian has already walked out of the erroneous view brought about by another safe and peaceful world.

This is a world where people are constantly dying, and there is a constant danger of human extinction, it seems, can we allow a little presumptuousness?

Thinking of this, Wang Jian also began to understand why some people would be so cowardly and want to escape from the earth world that raised him.

Because I'm really afraid of death.

Of course, if it's just a matter of eating and drinking, it's still fine.

It may not be expensive, but the cooking is still very clean and serious, and the corresponding is quite delicious, Wang Jian ate a few bites of food, but he was very hesitant about a fruit that was suspected to be an apple.

"Sir, this is a fresh fruit purchased from the secret realm, commonly known as ginkgo seeds, and it is a very rare and excellent product. ”

Wang Jian remembered something.

The things sold in the secret realm are very expensive, after all, the things that the channel can transport at one time are limited, so they take the boutique route, and the fruit looks ordinary, but the high-end ones are really not cheap.

He remembered that before at Ji Aoxue's house, she seemed to use a fruit to match on the cake, as if it came from this secret realm.

This thing did not flow into the private market, or did not flow into the ordinary people's market, at least Wang Jian himself had not eaten it, and the most expensive fruit he had ever eaten before was nothing more than a yellow peach produced in a certain place for twelve pieces.

Of course, this large pile of apples that looks very attractive is definitely not cheap, it is not something he can consume, but it can be placed here with a big grin, the reason is naturally very simple, the White Tiger Secret Realm is the source of this fruit, and it is naturally easy to get some for people to eat.

Well, it seems that the fruit trade is the confidence that the White Tiger Secret Realm can purchase a large number of various products from Huaguo?

Human beings are easy to have an inexplicable liking for strange things, isn't it that someone is clamoring, the secret realm is a paradise, shouldn't it be polluted by dirty humans.

There are fools everywhere.

However, this is a good excuse if you can incite it......

Wang Jian knew that planning all kinds of conspiracies and tricks in advance, and then like a machine, tightly closing and slowly pushing, this was basically not a suitable way to play.

We have to take it one step at a time, but this fruit problem is really worth studying.

In the distance, Qiao Suya was still being praised by the stars, and those who had the desire to perform were still deliberately speaking loudly, hoping to attract the attention and praise of others.

That's life.

He set himself a few lines of action.

After entering the secret realm, everything is low-key, as little as possible to attract attention.

Make more friends and praise more people in secret.

Pay attention to the movements of those key figures, those officials look ordinary, they should be ordinary diplomats, they look professional, they have been trained for a long time, but they are just a little bit worse, and those middle-aged people who look silent have expressions written all over their faces that I am going to do great things.

Of course, White Tiger University didn't know who it would send, and the most important thing was that Qiao Suya had been so silent all the time, but ......

That's not right.

Wang Jian is very good at observing words and feelings.

What is Observing Words and Feelings?

In work and business, many things to understand the intention of leadership are actually for better work.

For example, if the boss asks to write a report, and you write it several times but the leader does not approve of it, and each time you propose amendments, then if you can understand the intention of the leader and express the meaning of the words, wouldn't it be better to complete the work?

Of course, there are also people who think that the intention of understanding the leadership is to bend the intention of flattery and disobedience, and there will naturally be such people, which is a matter of values, not a methodological error.

If it is a state-owned enterprise with strict hierarchies, observing words and emotions is the basic premise of keeping a job.

If you are in a fast-paced private enterprise, observing words and colors is the core skill to complete work tasks with high quality and efficiency.

First of all, it is most basic to understand the importance and urgency of the leader's assignment of a certain task, and to prescribe the right medicine.

For example, as soon as the leader goes to work, he will explain a certain job to you, or continue to supervise and ask about progress many times, there is no doubt that this is a very important work, and you must go all out to carry it out well and quickly.

And in the process of progress, communicate in formal or informal settings, and even make some suggestions.

Because after the leader explains your work, his own thinking is also in a process of gradual adjustment and maturity, and the communication in the progress of the work can help you not be too far from the original intention of the leader when the final product is completed.

Secondly, many people will encounter the situation of infighting in the company in the workplace.

It is very common for the chairman and the general manager to be in discord, the vice president and the vice president to be in discord, and so on.

This will also be the case in the government, for example, the city senior officials and the mayor are not in harmony, and the directors and secretaries of the following ministries and commissions generally do it like this: if a certain work is explained by the secretary and the mayor at the same time or even jointly participated, such as welcoming a central ministry leader to inspect, etc., this matter must be done drastically and resolutely, if a certain work, the secretary and the mayor have not reached an agreement, then slow down, normal progress, while waiting for the wind.

As for the conflict between two distributors when doing business, or the discord between two partners of a company, etc., they must be dealt with in a targeted manner according to local conditions.

If you follow the normal schedule, neither the secretary nor the mayor will criticize you too much.

To grasp the core intent of the leader, it is necessary not only to remember what he said, but also to grasp the real "thoughts and concepts" behind what he said.

For example, when revising a manuscript, the leader may not have thought deeply about some of the content, and your consideration is even more comprehensive than he thinks, but you can't change it, then you have to think about what he wants to express and what content?

In this way, combined with the key words and repetition rate of his speech, you can roughly grasp the central idea of your material, so that you will not write a thousand words and digress thousands of miles.

Usually understand their personality and behavioral habits.

Listen to his words and observe his deeds.

Wang Jian has a memorable little story, when he first entered the office, a new leader came up from the above place, and all the cadres and directors at the department level were trying their best to touch the leader's temper, just to understand the leader's style and knowledge structure.

Then think about which direction your work should be done, in order to get the affirmation of the leader.

If he hears that the new leader has directly criticized the director of the bureau during his inspection of a certain department, then this person is still quite severe; if he hears that he has asked for the overturning of a certain original plan, it means that he is still quite tough; if he focuses on many new concepts of urban development at the meeting, it means that he may have come with mature ideas, and these are the directions of his future work.

These methods are also worth learning from the company's daily work, and putting more thought into the places that the company and leaders pay attention to, proposing new measures, and making good results, all of which are to do the work on the cutting edge.

The more you touch the core, the more your work is above the company's core values, and the higher your workplace value.

But also remember, don't be too smart, many leaders don't like to be seen through, you just do it, don't say too much, Yang Xiu is a lesson from the past.

This is Wang Jian's personal experience, and it is also a summary of his experience after hitting countless nails.

It's not a slick scoundrel, it's a better way to do things.

The leader was unhappy after being scolded by the manager above because of the high budget.

You walked over at this time and said, Leader, shouldn't we change the air conditioner, the weather is so hot, everyone is so miserable.

Don't wait to be rectified, the leader will definitely reward you, and it must be a heavy reward.

The ability to read words and emotions is not a skill that bad people learn.

A girl was abandoned by a scumbag, all her savings were swept away, she was photographed to extort living expenses, and she was in a state of collapse, maybe if you said a few good words in the past, she would muster up the courage to live and stand up again.

If you want to improve your ability to read words and colors, there is no good advice for this, and you can only practice a lot. Because first of all, you have to understand that different people have different ideas, different identities have different joys, sorrows, and sorrows about different things, and all kinds of small abacus and big abacus, so that you can observe words and feelings.

If you don't understand it, you won't be able to understand it, even if someone tells you. You can participate in more activities to interact with people, watch movies, and so on.

Observe the direction of the other party's speech, a person has a context to follow: if you pick a sentence or step on a sentence, you either have a problem with your brain, or you are avoiding a certain topic.

To look at color is to observe the facial expressions of the other person. Joy, anger, sorrow, sorrow, five flavors and five changes, one is one heart.

Observing words and colors is actually to be seen together: the interpretation of the word word and deed at this moment is the direction in which the words and expressions go!

How is it applied in practice?

The contrast is good.

What to contrast? Compare a person's normality with a person's abnormal change.

If a person is usually accustomed to expressions with flying eyebrows, and at a certain moment he suddenly expounds cautiously in words and deeds, either the matter is of great importance, or there is fraud in it.

If a person is usually not good at expressing himself, and at a certain moment he suddenly talks endlessly. Either this incident stimulates the other party's desire to perform, or there is fraud in it.

These two examples illustrate one thing: behind the expression of normalization is the tendency of normalized behavior, but behind all behavioral trends there is always the possibility of something cunning in it.

Therefore, what we can see from the observation of words and colors, the first is the comparison of pushing the boat with the current, and the second is the evaluation after many thoughts.

It takes a lot of effort and time, but the payoff ratio is amazing.

In addition to having a hard skill, that is, your professional technology and business ability, there are many soft skills that are also very important, such as interpersonal communication, time management, teamwork, etc.

These soft skills may indirectly affect your professional skills and business capabilities.

If you are not a good interpersonal person, then when your ideas need the cooperation of others, it may not go well, if you do not know how to manage time, procrastinate things, or do not agree with the project plan, it will affect the work of others upstream and downstream, if you do not pay attention to team collaboration, then it is likely to affect the work performance of the whole team.

Even if your professional skills and business skills reach a very high level, and the people around you will actively cooperate with you, you can't ignore your lack of soft skills. It may take a long time and experience to improve the hard skills of professional technology and business ability, so for young people who have just entered the workplace, when the hard skills are still relatively weak, it is also very helpful to improve their soft skills for their workplace appreciation.

One important soft skill in the workplace that is easily overlooked is to read words. The observation of words and colors here is not "seeing the wind and making the rudder", "seeing people talking about people, and talking nonsense when they see ghosts", nor is it "one set in front of the face and one behind the back" or "complimenting the boss and being arrogant to the subordinates", but to be more keenly aware of the other party's attitude and emotions in the workplace, and then make appropriate words and deeds. "Appropriate words and deeds" is not just to blindly cater to others and suppress one's own emotions, but to show one's professional quality as much as possible and reduce the occurrence of conflicts and contradictions.

The most important thing is actually the eyes.

Many times, it is very important to see something inadvertently and suddenly.

For example, Wang Jian knew very early on that if a person at the dining table looked at a dish for more than three seconds, and the dish was far away from him, then the best choice was to turn the plate so that he could reach the dish, which was usually very effective and won a person's favor.

This usually works.

It is true that a lot of things can be seen by watching a person eat.

Whether the character is greedy or introverted, has self-control or lacks self-control.

For example, at this time, Qiao Suya held a cup of cocoa and stood there all the time, not speaking, occasionally someone came over, introduced herself and the like, and responded very well, but she always held the hot cocoa, looking like she didn't want to talk deeply.

And just as Wang Jian observed that she seemed to be looking in one direction, her expression changed slightly, and at the same time, she put the hot cocoa on the table, got up and walked to the side.

Wang Jian was interested.

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