It was a few of Song Dezhang's students who came. Guo Xiaozhou and Song Zijing let out the living room, and the two came to the balcony.

Guo Xiaozhou and Song Zijing stood together, although neither of them communicated with each other*. But without talking, they both looked embarrassed.

As for the topic, there seems to be no common language for what to talk about.

Only take the system as a topic.

Guo Xiaozhou asked politely, "The eldest brother has worked at the grassroots level for many years and has enough experience, what are the most critical aspects in the system?" ”

Song Zijing didn't seem to expect this prospective brother-in-law to humbly ask him for advice, he pondered for a long time and asked, "Have you heard cross talk?" ”

Guo Xiaozhou nodded.

"There is a popular saying in the circle that excellent workers in the system are like excellent cross talk actors."

Guo Xiaozhou felt very fresh, "How to say it." ”

Song Zijing said: "Whether a cross talk actor is good or not is measured by the four lessons of learning to sing. If you want to make a difference in officialdom, you must also have the skills of a cross talk actor as an official. That is to say, learn the kung fu of teasing and singing. ”

"Hmm!"

"Someone told me to say, 'Say': Don't think that if you can open your mouth to speak, you can get mixed up in officialdom, and you must be particular about speaking within the system. You can only say it when you should say it, and you should resolutely shut up when you shouldn't say it; What can be said here may not be said in another place; You can say what you should say, and you won't say what you shouldn't say......"

"The second is 'learning', not necessarily learning from advanced models, not necessarily from the masses, but must learn from the leadership. In addition to policies, regulations, and business skills, there are many things to learn, such as how a leader treats his superiors, how to treat his subordinates, how to treat ordinary people, how to resolve officialdom crises, and how to deal with the relationship between upper and lower levels. ”

"The third is to 'tease,' to do a good job in daily work, and to work hard to make the leaders happy; to do what they like, not only to help the leaders to make the masses like, but also to make the leaders' family members and confidants happy when they have the opportunity."

"The fourth is 'singing', grasp the object and grasp the scale, don't be stingy when you should sing the carol, tear your throat and sing loudly, you have to sing in a low voice when you should be low-key, don't make the mistake of taking the lead and make thankless efforts."

Guo Xiaozhou "heartily" admired, "It is indeed in place." Benefit. ”

Song Zijing became more and more energetic the more he spoke, and simply said it thoroughly, "In addition to talking and singing, there is also the officialdom three-character scripture of 'blowing and playing'." ”

"Ask for advice with an open mind!" Guo Xiaozhou said.

"Blow, some people say that being an official now is like eating baked sweet potatoes when you were a child, if you want to mix a little famous, you have to identify the object, hold them, blow and shoot, and it turns out that this is true. The reason is very simple, no matter how stupid the boss is, he will not reuse a subordinate who opposes him everywhere. In addition, in daily work, it is necessary to appropriately blow up the performance, have face from top to bottom, and win a full house. ”

"Pull, the relationship is also productivity, in today's world, the fish has a fish road, the shrimp has a shrimp road, don't forget to use the position, work to pull the relationship, try to strive for the relationship of other people's relationship. Pull for your own use, weave your own network, this thing can be used when necessary, very effective. ”

"Playing and doing work should be like playing the piano, distinguish priorities, be flexible in dealing with people, never use force when it should be light, and hold on to it when it should be heavy, and never relax. Of course, don't take the impeachment of the leader lightly, because you don't know the delicate relationship between the leader and his superiors. ”

Guo Xiaozhou couldn't help applauding, "I've been taught!" ”

"It's all a joke I've heard, I don't know if it's helpful to you. Of course, written knowledge is one thing, and in practice it depends on personal understanding. Song Zi smiled respectfully. He has always thought highly of himself, and he even thinks that the name of the Song family's children is still holding him back. The old man spoke in front, and no one dared to take the initiative to push him to the top. Otherwise, he is progressing faster now!

Ten minutes later, Song Dezhang's student left. Song Zijing also took his family back to his home.

Then the family has their own thoughts. Only Guo Xiaozhou was more embarrassed. Where the hell did he sleep today? That's a problem.

As the father-in-law and mother-in-law, Gan Su and Song Dezhang are not easy to keep Guo Xiaozhou to sleep at home. Gan Ziyi really wanted to take Guo Xiaozhou to her boudoir, but in front of her parents, she couldn't speak.

After a stalemate, Guo Xiaozhou was afraid that Gan Ziyi would be embarrassed, so he took the initiative to say, "Uncle and aunt, I'll leave first, and I'll see you tomorrow." ”

Song Dezhang said: "Why don't you rest at home? ”

Guo Xiaozhou politely refused, "I just happened to go to the Beijing Office to find someone." ”

Gan Su breathed a sigh of relief in her heart, although she guessed that Guo Xiaozhou and Ziyi had broken through the bottom line, she would rather Guo Xiaozhou be with Gan Ziyi in private than in front of her. After all, she still has the face and bottom line of the big family in her bones. Therefore, she immediately said: "Since Xiaozhou has something, Ziyi, you send Xiaozhou." ”

Gan Ziyi said "um" and got up to accompany Guo Xiaozhou out of the room.

When the two came to the community, Gan Ziyi said apologetically: "Big brother, this person is a little ......"

Guo Xiaozhou interrupted her, "I really don't mind. After speaking, he suddenly said: "I have always wanted to ask you, what is the age of your eldest brother......"

Gan Ziyi smiled, "I haven't had a chance to sue you, I, Zidan and my eldest brother are half-brothers." My father's first wife died after giving birth to my eldest brother, and then I met my mother, and I had my second brother. ”

Guo Xiaozhou sighed and did not make a statement.

"For the Chinese New Year, don't go to the Beijing Office, go to my house." Gan Ziyi glanced at Guo Xiaozhou lightly. She's a woman who can draw inferences. Knowing that Guo Xiaozhou went to Beijing to do something was a joke.

Guo Xiaozhou unceremoniously stretched out his hand, "Bring the key." I was going to visit my wife's boudoir. ”

"I'll send you there." Gan Ziyi's eyes were gentle and undisguised.

"Forget it, you tell me the address, I'll go myself, lest we send it around. You remember to pick me up tomorrow morning. ”

Gan Ziyi handed over the key and winked playfully, "Actually, you don't have to send it around, I'll go home and sleep too." ”

Guo Xiaozhou scratched his head, but still resisted this temptation, and said, "I'm worried that I won't be able to face my mother-in-law in the future." ”

"Oh! There is no such shop in this village. Maybe tomorrow my grandfather will be mad and disagree, and you will regret it. Gan Ziyi quipped.

"No regrets!" Guo Xiaozhou cut the railway.

"You mean your desire is not strong? Or am I not attractive to you? Gan Ziyi asked slyly.

Guo Xiaozhou shook his head, "In terms of spirit and *, you have a strong attraction to me, and you also learned about *side last night on the train." I just hope to give you the most wonderful memory. ”

Gan Ziyi suddenly reached out and hugged him, regardless of them at the gate of the community, and tenderly offered her lips.

Guo Xiaozhou shrank slightly, and quipped: "There are people coming and going here, aren't you afraid of tomorrow's gossip news that the famous Gan Ziyi is kissing a man in public in front of the community?" ”

Gan Ziyi looked up at him and muttered, "Xiaozhou, be your woman, don't be ashamed." ”

Guo Xiaozhou bowed his head gently.

The two kissed passionately until Guo Xiaozhou pushed her away, "Hehe! I'm going to see Song Lao tomorrow with my spirits. Don't let me lose sleep all night thinking about you. ”

"Will you?" Gan Ziyi's cheeks are like a sunset, and her eyes are flowing.

"100 percent." After Guo Xiaozhou finished speaking, he saw a taxi coming, raised his hand and beckoned, "See you tomorrow!" ”

"See you tomorrow! Gan Ziyi soft judo.

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