Chapter 181: Jin Feifei talks about the house
After Niu Tiangou finished scooping the rice, he poured it into the rice cooker, added some water, plugged it in, and then returned to the sofa in the living room and sat bored watching TV for a while, and the rice was steamed. At this time, Jin Feifei had already brought several plates of steaming dishes to the table in the dining room.
Niu Tiangou opened the wine bottle, and the two sat opposite each other, chatting while drinking.
Jin Feifei glanced around the restaurant, her face was full of excitement, and said, "Drinking and eating in your own house, it feels different." ”
"What's different?"
"No matter what you do in your own house, you feel quiet, quiet, quiet, comfortable, reassured, and at ease."
"I think you've become a house fan." Hearing her say this, Niu Tiangou touched the cup with her, took a sip, put down the cup and said with a smile, "Isn't it good to rent a house and live in it." ”
"Cut, although it is convenient to rent someone else's house, but as soon as the lease period expires, I have to pay it back to others, and I always feel unsure."
"You just want a house of your own?" Niu Tiangou asked deliberately.
"Of course. It's a woman who wants to have a house of her own, and only when you have a house can you have a home, and the birds still have a nest. ”
Jin Feifei rolled her eyes coquettishly, and continued, "Didn't you listen to some girls? If you want to marry, you have to marry a man with a house, and you have to work hard for at least 20 years. If you marry a man who doesn't have a house, not to mention being poor, you have to wander around, even if you barely pay the down payment, you have to pay off your debts in one or two decades, become a house slave in the bank, and even put your own life's money into it, and you have to pay off the savings of three generations of grandparents. ”
"Is there really a girl who says that?" Niu Tiangou poured her another glass of wine, looking disapproving. He knows that although material things are a very important condition for marriage and love, he can't ignore other conditions.
"You still don't believe it?"
Jin Feifei had a serious expression on her face, and said thoughtfully: "Today's girls are no longer judged by their appearance, but 'by their houses', and those who don't have a house resolutely don't marry, as long as they have a house, their appearance, height, age, as long as the disparity is not too big, it is not a problem, and even whether they are good or bad, as long as they are not imprisoned and sentenced, it is not a problem."
"If you don't have a house, no matter how handsome, tall, moral, learned, motivated, and promising the young man is, you have to stand aside, which is not only the standard for girls to choose boyfriends now, but also the requirements of mother-in-law for future sons-in-law."
Niu Tiangou felt that what she said was also true. Yes, for the sake of the house, people's values and mate selection criteria have become unrecognizable. He believes that the house should be a common thing for two people, and they can work together to get it, so they can live with peace of mind, and both parties are tough, how can they only rely on the man? Isn't this the woman putting herself in a subordinate position? The house is not yours, and once you get divorced, the house is still the man's, and you still have nothing.
No wonder some girls can't find a boyfriend until they are in their thirties, confused, how many thirty years are there in their lives? It's not worth sacrificing your youth for the sake of the house!
Can't you meet a man with a house in your life, and you won't marry for the rest of your life?
The house can be rented, and then it can be slowly obtained after struggle, but youth, can you rent it? If you lose it, you will lose it forever, and no matter how hard you struggle, you can't get it back.
Of course, it's good to be able to find a man who has a house and likes, but young people who have a house and like it have long been robbed, and the rest are some immoral or old men, and in the end they can only find more and more unsatisfactory, the more they look for the older they are, and the more difficult they find to find! In the end, I had to make do with it.
Life has to go with the flow, not forced. Yes, you have already met it in your fate, and if you don't, it is useless for you to force it. Just like himself, he never dreamed that he would have a house of his own in this coastal city, which may be fate.
A shrewd girl should be, find a compatible and promising man, work hard for the house and career together, and to hell with those mediocre old men who have a house!
"I'm afraid your mother also asks for her future son-in-law like this, right?" Seeing that Jin Feifei also held such a concept, although Niu Tiangou didn't dare to agree, he still couldn't help but joke happily.
"you!" Jin Feifei gave him a sneering look.
"Have you ever seen a girl who thinks like that?" Niu Tiangou stopped laughing, took a bite of the dish, and asked again.
"Of course I did." Jin Feifei put down her chopsticks, wiped her mouth with a tissue and said, "In Huaiyin City Tianzi Beauty Salon Shop, I have three sisters who have been working for two years and quitting, one went to Xianhai City to be the second wife of a Taiwanese in her 50s, living in a mansion wearing a famous brand and riding a famous car, my cousin once persuaded her, guess what she said?" ”
"How?" Niu Tiangou smiled.
She said that her family was poor, and she had lived in a low house with her family since she was a child, and her greatest wish was to have a decent house of her own in the city. Now that Taiwanese has the ability to give it to her, why didn't she agree? The second wife is the second mother, just a name, anyway, to be a woman, you have to get married, find a young poor man to be a wife, squeeze in a small rental house and work hard, and finally be a house slave for a lifetime, what do you want? What's the use of such a milk? She said that she saw through it, the hardships of one mother and one milk, and the comfort of two mothers, depending on what you need and what you choose. ”
This girl's words were straightforward, and Niu Tiangou felt fresh when she heard it, and she also felt a little regretful.
"The second sister went to a nightclub and became a lady. I met her once, and she said that now she has no place to eat and no place to live, and although her reputation is not very good, she does not want to marry a poor man who does not have a house and suffer for the rest of her life.
She said that she didn't have the opportunity to be a second wife, and if someone gave her a chance and someone wanted her, she would definitely do it. She said that she is not very demanding, as long as she has a house of her own, food and clothing, it is better than being a young lady now. ”
If the words of the first girl made Niu Tiangou feel fresh and regretful, then the words of the second girl made him not only feel a little regretful, but also a little bitter and astringent.
"The third sister married a migrant worker who also came out of the countryside to work, at first it was okay, the two worked hard together, although they rented a house but were very happy, but then the in-laws fell ill, and almost all the money from the small couple was spent on the in-laws, she said that she originally wanted to save enough money to go back to her hometown to buy a house in the small county town has become an unattainable dream, even if she struggles to die of old age, she may not be able to afford a house of her own."
"It seems that this house is really the top priority for girls to consider before marriage." Hearing what happened to her third sister, Niu Tiangou couldn't help but sigh.
Seeing that Niu Tiangou accepted his point of view, Jin Feifei was excited: "Yes, only having a house that you can live in is the most practical and realistic home."
"Because there is no house, how many couples who love each other have been broken up, how many mandarin ducks who have lived together for many years have finally separated, and how many married people have to end up in divorce.
"Today's girls pay attention to reality, because romantic love can not be a house to live in, love and the house are always at both ends of the marriage and love scale, one side is the spiritual food, the other side is the material security, in their eyes, the material weight is always heavier than the spiritual weight, and the house is the top priority in the material, especially in today's high housing prices."
"What you said are some special circumstances, now in many cities, there are many small couples who rely on the two of them to buy a house, both sides accumulate a part, both sides of the family support part, and then the bank loan part, although this is a little harder, but there is a goal, life is fulfilling, and the heart is steady."
Seeing that Jin Feifei was silent, Niu Tiangou smiled and turned to say, "Then you...... Do you want to find a boyfriend with a house too? ”
"Of course, I'm also a woman, and I'm not a fairy, so of course I'm not exempt from vulgarity." Jin Feifei stared at Niu Tiangou for a while, her eyes were slightly dazed, and then she said coquettishly: "Now that someone has a house, of course I don't want to work hard to repay the loan." ”
"Then you can just quit your cousin's job and move in." Niu Tiangou took the opportunity to tease her.
Jin Feifei looked at Niu Tiangou steadily, and then said in a gentle tone like silk: "Working at my cousin's place, I also feel very tired, I want to find a harbor to stay, find a home for my tired body and mind, I long for a shoulder for me to lean on, I want to have a house, a home of my own." My cousin also urged me many times......
"However, my cousin has just arrived in Xianhai now, and the store is very busy, I want to help her for a while, let her take root there, and talk about it after a while......"
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After eating, after the two cleaned up, they went to the bathroom to take a shower, and then went to the living room to watch TV for a while, and then came to the bedroom.
Jin Feifei drank some red wine, only to feel that her cheeks were a little hot, and her charming face suddenly flushed, as if she had been coated with rouge, delicate and moving, like a peach blossom blooming in spring.
"This room is really more and more comfortable." Jin Feifei sat on the bed with her eyes rolling and her smile charming.
"Then you'll stay a few more days." Niu Tiangou sat down next to her, one hand on her shoulder.
When Jin Feifei heard this, a trace of confusion flashed in her eyes, she tilted her head and leaned on his shoulder, her tone was deliberately much softer, and she said in a low voice: "I really want to stay longer...... But my cousin is busy, so I can only rush back tomorrow. ”
"You're gone, what if another woman comes to me?" Look at her delicate state. A hint of a smile tugged at the corner of Niu Tiangou's mouth, deliberately amused.
"You...... Don't you dare? Think beautifully......" Jin Feifei coquettishly sat up straight, and threw him down on the bed at once...... Niu Tiangou took the opportunity to scratch her armpit a few times, only to hear her "ouch ouch" like a cat's meow......