Chapter 629: I'm Married
Mom stopped squeaking, and sat there for a long time before she wilted, "Dandan, do you like him so much, where is he good, just say that you were in college for a while, and I want to take you abroad, I see how many streets Huang Xiaoqiang has left, you said that if you agree to go abroad for a while, your mother will definitely let you go even if you borrow money, but you, why do you find such a big boss." ”
I also felt a little uncomfortable, "Mom, to be honest, I didn't like Huang Xiaoqiang much before, I was with him, and I didn't feel like a heartbeat or anything, but he was good to me, I was with him is at ease, I feel secure, I think what people lack most now is a sense of security, when I am alone in Fushun, I think, in fact, people live a life with peace of mind and warmth."
At first I was awkward to be with him and I didn't feel comfortable, but now I feel comfortable and I love it.
He never forced me to do things I didn't like, I even felt that in fact, Huang Xiaoqiang was with me, it was he who suffered, why did people dig so hard to treat me so well, shouldn't he find someone who was particularly good to him, my concern for him was too insignificant compared to him, from the perspective of paying, I owe him, Mom, don't say anything unmatched, I know very well what I want, I just want a person who can be good to me down-to-earth, really. ”
"Mom is afraid that you will suffer in the future, you know."
I sniffed and nodded, "I know, but I won't, Mom, I know that I won't be rich with Huang Xiaoqiang, but I don't want that, people are really better than anything else, you see...... This is the bracelet given to me by Huang Xiaoqiang's mother, and the ancestral things of other people have been given to me, and their family sincerely accepts me. ”
Mom looked at the bracelet, sighed for a long time, didn't seem to want to say anything more, she took out a card from her pocket and handed it to me, "This is, your father and I saved you for the dowry, 100,000 yuan, originally total, if you find a good condition, let's use this money to buy you a car to marry, our family has never thought of selling girls, now this money will be given to you, if you buy a house, I think his 200,000 is not enough at all, you keep it, if you take out a loan, don't you have to decorate in the end." ”
"Mom......"
I didn't expect her to turn so fast, and her eyes were a little red, "You agreed?" ”
Mom smiled bitterly, "I don't agree with what to do, just a girl like you, I'm still uncomfortable when you're angry with me, I'm still worried about your bad life, the money I saved with your dad is not all for you, bride price or something, I don't want it with your dad, I was angry with him that day, if his family really prepares a bride price, then put it together, you keep it for yourself, whether to buy a house, or save it first, we don't participate." ”
"Mom......" I suddenly wanted to cry, "I'm very uncomfortable with you like this." ”
Mom shook my hand, "Dan, don't quarrel with your mother in the future, you don't know no, you didn't grow up with your mother when you were a child, Mom is afraid that you won't be close to Mom, in fact, Mom does everything for you, just you, Mom really hopes that you are better than anyone else, our girl, take it out is no worse than others, Mom is just unwilling, why did you finally find a rental......"
Speaking of the back, my mother couldn't hold back her crying, "Forget it, it's your own day anyway, you've thought about it, Mom won't stop you, as long as it's good to you, you think it's good......"
Grandma came in from outside the door, looking at her mother's appearance and couldn't help but lock her eyebrows, "Look at what you're crying about, it's hard to give the child a good thing, this is a good thing, I can tell you, Danyang can't live badly, isn't it all like this now, people don't please their wives when they open a rental, three hundred and sixty lines, and the line is the champion!" Alright, Dan, don't mess with your mother, don't cry! Swallow, you should rest assured, we Danyang has grown up, and in the future, we don't need to follow C heart anymore! ”
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On October 1, 2015, I got married.
When Huang Xiaoqiang came to pick up relatives, my grandmother's small house was lively, there were a lot of relatives and friends, not to mention my aunt and aunt, even my uncle and aunt who I liked very much when I was a child and Uncle and Aunt Dazhu came.
Zhang Li and my college classmates blocked the door, the embarrassed Huang Xiaoqiang was blushing and thick-necked, and finally Huang Xiaoqiang was a tyrant, and finally hugged me out after a red envelope offensive, the happiest thing that day was grandma, she was wearing a red Tang costume with a festive face, and her mother still cried when she got in the car to take pictures, and grandma did not stop her, on the contrary, she also had red eyes.
This is an unwritten rule on our side, the daughter is married, should shed some tears when she gets in the car, mainly to repay the gratitude to the mother's nurturing and reluctant grace, the wedding planner talked about this procedure when I still held back my laughter, desperately shook my head and said I couldn't cry, think about the people who were going to be present that day knew that it would be more troublesome, and I just went through the motions, and I didn't marry 108,000 miles away, what is there to cry about.
But when it really comes to that moment, the inexplicable touch in my heart will be uncontrollable and uncomfortable.
I looked at my grandparents, my parents, and my family's old house, as if I was looking at my own past, watching myself running around in this alley, and I looked back when I drove away in the first wedding car, and I knew that my grandmother and my mother would sit in the back car and continue to attend the wedding as guests.
But I still felt that I was married, and when I turned around, I wiped my tears, Huang Xiaoqiang didn't speak, just shook my hand, "It's okay, it's the procedure." ”
I don't think he will understand my feelings, a few tears of Liao can't repay anyone's nurturing feelings, but that kind of complexity is indescribable, maybe the process of weddings in various places, or the rules that need to be guarded are different, but I want to marry my daughter's mood is the same, as if I clearly understand that I have really grown up, as a wife, and as a mother in the future, I will have to take on more responsibilities.
The host of the wedding also called grandma to the stage to speak, in order to show the formal grandma actually took a speech, I watched her read when she was still laughing at the beginning, laughing and laughing and crying uncontrollably, she carefully prepared for this, careful, I have never seen grandma like this, she used her formality, but also indirectly told my husband, my husband's family, she is my grandmother, I am irreplaceable for the family.
When I looked at my grandmother's figure as if I saw a lot of things, a smile in my eyes and a smile, all extremely clear, I remember very young I was extremely naughty, grandma would walk the streets and alleys every night to find me, let me go home for dinner, appease and warn me of the most simple and simple truth, I thought about my grandma to Fushun to see me, when I got in the car also reminded me to hurry back, in my memory she is still a young old man in good spirits, but I don't know when it started, grandma is old.
At the end of the speech, my grandmother looked at me and smiled gently, "Dan, remember, in the future, Xiaoqiang and the two of us must respect and love each other, and we must share the affairs of the family, no matter what happens, you should not panic, remember, there is still us." ”
I'm a little out of control, the perennial conservative education makes me can't do anything too out of the ordinary, but that day I was extremely out of control, I ran over, crying makeup is going to be spent hugging grandma, I want to say I love you, I thank you, thank you like a big tree, sheltering all my wind and rain.
But so many words were in my throat, and I couldn't say anything but cry, and my mother came up and hugged me, and she was the most out of control that day besides me.
…… I would like to use this document to my favorite grandmother, my favorite family, I am Wang Danyang, a girl with an ordinary name and an ordinary personality, my story is very plain, including my husband, it is also very ordinary, but, when I meet a white head, choose a city to grow old, I think, is something that all girls will insist on and guard.
I am grateful to God for his care for me, so that I have the most intimate family and the most stable family, I maybe, not everyone will have a half-fairy grandmother, but I think, as long as your life has the elders who love you and love you, it is an extremely lucky thing, whether it is a half-fairy or not, that will give you the greatest protection and protection.
My story is not vigorous, but I think you will always find resonance, I am Wang Danyang, my grandmother is a half-fairy, there is fate, we will meet again.