In front of Uncle Taurus, Niu Tiangou didn't hide anything, and then said more bluntly: "On the contrary, if my appearance makes me tempted, even if she has a bad personality, I can tolerate it; Even if she is as poor as Hanako, I would like to be close to her. I think a lot of the girls must think the same way I do. ”

Hearing that Niu Tiangou seemed to be deliberately competing with himself and "True Love", Uncle Taurus shook his head gently: "In erotic love, beautiful appearance can capture the other party's heart at the beginning, but what about a long time?" Have you lost the novelty of your appearance? Aesthetic fatigue?

"Besides, some beauties have been cared for too much since they were children, so they don't care much about their inner cultivation, and they are easy to become vase-type women, superficial and ignorant, poor in interests, narrow in knowledge, and some love to nag...... Let's just say that the peony girl you were infatuated with at the beginning, she only studied for two years, she has no culture, she is a quasi-illiterate, and basically has no common language with you, if you married her, maybe you loved her at the beginning, but now? Now that you have met Jin Feifei, Bai Lisa, and Huang Chunying, will you still love her as always? ”

Niu Tiangou was stunned, and was shocked, this old thing, picking people's **!

But if you think about it, too. If she had married the peony girl, she would have become a vulgar rural sister-in-law by now, with a fat buttocks, a foul mouth, a pig arch and a chicken planing, and nagging all day long about the trivial matters of the chicken, pig and vegetable garden, and the children's family, wouldn't it annoy him to death?

Alas, can the cultural level, the thoughts and emotions, the temperament cultivation, the IQ and EQ, and the charm and style be compared with the current Jinfei, Feibai, Lisa, and Huang Chunying? It's definitely not a grade.

Obediently, if that's the case, he doesn't know how depressed he should be now, in a local dialect, the two of them don't chatter, and they can't get together ideologically, so what's the point of having a good time?

If that's the case, maybe he's racking his brains now thinking about how to have a cold war or even divorce her, so won't the rural dad scold him to the death? Thinking of this, he couldn't help but shudder, and he really didn't dare to think about it anymore.

Nima, it's really a bit of a problem just to have physical conditions, and if this erotic love lasts for a long time, you still have to have a common language, a little spiritual condition, and the two parties have to have a little spiritual fit.

If there is no spiritual communication and integration between the two sides, it is simply facing a beautiful eraser man, except for that little thing, there is no common point, maybe more troublesome than the rubber man, because the rubber man will not nag and annoy, and throw it aside when it is used up.

Seeing that Niu Tiangou was silent, Uncle Taurus continued: "Therefore, 'Those who love their bodies are the beginning of love; Those who love their souls, love is constant', only the mutual attraction of the spirit of both parties can be long-lasting, and only the love of the soul is true love.

"Of course, attaching importance to spiritual conditions is not to completely ignore the appearance conditions, but on the basis of the appearance conditions are generally satisfactory (pleasing to the eye), the spiritual conditions should be put in the first place, the spiritual conditions are not good, no matter how beautiful the appearance is, it will not be happy for a long time, and once the freshness passes, it will be boring."

Speaking of this, Uncle Taurus glanced at Niu Tiangou: "Now let's talk about 'wealth' - material conditions." Now the girls in the world are too realistic, always staring at the man's income, savings, RV, and family background.

"It is true that love, especially marriage, needs the support of material conditions, without certain material conditions, it is difficult for love and marriage to be happy for a long time, after all, 'poor couples mourn everything', 'people are poor and short-minded, horses are thin and long', 'there is no gold in front of the bed, and there is no color for strong men', no one will want to maintain a family that lives a poor life for a long time.

In addition, although the handsomeness of a handsome man and the beauty of a beautiful woman mainly come from appearance, to a certain extent, it also comes from temperament, where does temperament come from? In addition to coming from academic cultivation, it also comes from money - without money, men are obscene and trivial, shrinking their heads, and women are poor and sour, cold, and have no spirit at all. What's so beautiful?

However, love cannot be completely built on money and materials, and love based on money and materials is not called love, it is called wealth, because of wealth and love, money acts as a bargaining chip and a glue between two people who are spiritually distanced. This kind of love of 'because of wealth and people, love the house and Wuye' is a kind of 'objectified' love that is soaked in wealth, which is the most unreliable, and in the end it can only be a wealth gathering and love honey, wealth is sparse and love, 'love changes with wealth, and the house collapses and abandons'.

"How many families in the world are quarreled from rich to poor? How many families from rich to poor have been separated? And how many couples are materially rich but spiritually empty? How many couples live in abundance and have different dreams in the same bed? Poverty and gaps, poverty and wife separation, wealth and adultery, wealth and change of wife, all because of the lack of spiritual admiration from the heart of both parties, the lack of spiritual integration of the two lovers.

"Love begins with appearance, is abundant in materiality, and lasts forever in spirit - this is 'appearance first, wealth first, soul first'.

"Worldly love tends to value material things over spirituality, which is the love of the philistine, the love of the poor; The truly wise rich have a love that is spiritual and less materialistic.

"Therefore, true love begins with appearance and does not focus on appearance, enriches in material but not on material, and lasts more than in spirit; True love cares about the blending of each other's souls, the infatuation of each other's spirits, and the tremor of each other's hearts. The spirit of the two sides is happy, looking pleasing to the eye is beautiful, being able to survive is rich, not being moved by external beauty, not being ambitious for external wealth. It gives a sense of belonging to the soul and will never turn its back. This is the charm of the spirit of both parties, and this is the perfect true love.

"True love is essentially derived from beauty—beauty of appearance, beauty of spirit or beauty, beauty of intellect, beauty of temperament, and so on; From the love of ** and spiritual love - without ** love, spiritual love will not last long, and spiritual love has greatly sublimated ** love, is the two sides of the spirit and the flesh into one, inseparable from the continuous intoxication.

"Therefore, the perfect true lover is happy in spirit, and the true lover is eternal in love."

"Then you said that my mental condition is ...... now" Niu Tiangou couldn't help but interject when he heard this.

Uncle Taurus just said that he has grown in height now, and he has a house in the city, and more importantly, his specialties are also fully revealed in front of the girls, and his current appearance, wealth, and soul have all improved by a notch, such conditions are enough to attract the girls to take the initiative to pursue, and he really hasn't figured it out, if he finds someone like Teresa Teng, he will be miserable.

Uncle Taurus glanced at Niu Tiangou meaningfully: "Your kid is now fully equipped to win the true love of the girls, and the beauties." ”

"......" Niu Tiangou looked at Uncle Taurus in confusion.

Uncle Taurus stroked his white beard and smiled: "Your character, temperament and cultivation are okay, and your diploma and knowledge are ...... It's also so-so, although your EQ is almost there, but your 'qigong' specialty greatly enhances your spiritual charm, and you have the ability to help the weak and punish the wicked, which adds a charming aura to your spiritual condition, which is enough to fascinate many beauties. ”

"But I ......," Niu Tiangou muttered.

"Bai Lisa and Huang Chunying, the two beauties, are now completely infatuated with you, right?"

Uncle Taurus didn't wait for him to speak, and interrupted: "In their eyes, no one can replace your place in their hearts now - this is their unrequited love, now it's up to you to do it - how to compare them, which of them has the spiritual condition that can arouse your admiration and resonance more, and form a double love."

It can be seen that they really love you, true love is a good thing, but this is unrequited love, unrequited love is imperfect, only you really love them, and there is double love - the two souls and flesh are one, and it is the perfect true love of heaven and man. It is important to note that unrequited love can sometimes be very hurtful if it is not handled well. ”

"But I'm ...... How can I have any 'qigong' specialty? It was just a self-defense thing that Mother Weaver Girl gave me. ”

Niu Tiangou still insisted on saying his words, and in front of Uncle Taurus, he didn't have any secrets to hide, and he couldn't hide it: "What if...... If I didn't have that bobbin nail shell, I wouldn't be a fart, how could I have the mental conditions to get the true love of the girls? Not to mention the beauties. Speaking of this, he couldn't help but feel a little discouraged.

Unexpectedly, Uncle Taurus said affirmatively: "Why not?" You are kind-hearted, honest and upright, not worldly, and quite righteous, is this not your spiritual condition? Your diploma knowledge, your level of teaching is not your mental condition? Is your writing specialty not your specialty? Then Li Xiaomeng doesn't have any bobbin nail shells, doesn't he still win the heart of the boss's daughter with his diligence, loyalty, knowledge and skills?

"You, if it weren't for the later changes and the persistence of writing in addition to teaching, I'm afraid you would have started publishing novels now, right? Isn't that a specialty of your mental condition? Isn't Jin Feifei still in love with you because of your specialty?

"Alas, this person, as long as he works hard, the East will not shine and the West will not shine. I believe that if it were not for the bobbin nail shell given to you by your weaver mother, with your personality and temperament, you would continue to improve your teaching level and writing ability to improve your spiritual condition, and you would definitely win the favor of beautiful women with your personal ability. ”

Speaking of this, Uncle Taurus sighed softly: "Actually, in the erotic love in the world, the acquisition of true love does not necessarily mean that you are better than Pan An in terms of appearance, and it does not have to be your wealth in terms of material conditions, as long as you continue to cultivate and improve in spiritual conditions, constantly improve your character quality in ordinary life, and constantly improve your ability and expertise in ordinary work, you will obtain the material conditions to meet the survival of yourself and your family, and win the true love of beauties, because although beauties are merciful and wealth-loving, But it's also soul-seeking, after all, women who are too partial to appearance and wealth are only part of it. ”

In the end, Uncle Taurus said earnestly: "Remember, the true love of erotic love is in appearance, wealth, especially in the soul, the soul is the backbone, and appearance and wealth are supplemented." Unrequited love is imperfect, only double love - the fusion of both souls and flesh is the perfect true love of heaven and man. Compared with appearance and wealth, the two sides have the same heart, and the soul is the most important thing. ”

"Oh, I see, the appearance is pleasing enough, the wealth is enough to survive, and the heart is real." Hearing this, Niu Tiangou said suddenly, "To put it simply, perfect and eternal true love is just one sentence: appearance and wealth are indispensable, and the integration of soul and flesh is the most important." ”

Seeing that Niu Tiangou had realized something and made his own summary, Uncle Taurus nodded with satisfaction, and then disappeared into a thick cloud of smoke with a wave of his sleeves......