Seeing that Dr. Xue Lian brought Niu Tiangou to visit him, Professor Weng's old face turned into a chrysanthemum, and Mrs. Weng gave up her seat and poured tea, as happy as seeing her daughter and son-in-law. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info

It seems that Dr. Xue Lian used to be a frequent visitor here and had a good relationship with Mrs. Weng.

"When I came back this time, I brought you two elders a little souvenir."

Dr. Xue Lian took out the things in the bag with a slight smile, and while putting them on the coffee table, he introduced sweetly: "This is a royal jelly capsule, which lowers blood lipids and blood sugar, prevents arteriosclerosis, delays aging, and enhances immunity. This is a sheep placenta capsule, anti-aging, anti-disease, beauty and beauty, whitening skin, I wish my aunt to live younger and younger. ”

Old Professor Weng was happy, Mrs. Weng smiled lovingly, and said angrily: "This kid, if you have time to come and see us, what else to bring, how much will it cost?" ”

After sitting down, Professor Weng asked Dr. Xue Lian about her further study in Australia, and after a simple answer, Dr. Xue Lian turned her head and asked Mrs. Weng, "Auntie, is Sister Yuerou okay abroad?" ”

"She's ...... Alas, I get worried about her. ”

When it comes to her daughter, Mrs. Weng seems to have endless words: "You said that this child has good grades since he was a child, and he didn't worry much about studying, and we fully support him to go abroad to study for a doctorate, and everything is focused on learning, but after graduating from this doctorate, it is time to consider personal problems, right?" But she didn't listen to me, she was about to be 28 years old, and she was 30 years old in a flash, and she was still alone outside, do you think I can be a mother?

"In the past two years, I have been worried about her marriage, three days and two begging relatives and friends to introduce, we don't want a house or a car, as long as the character is good and the job is stable, but I told my relatives and friends well, and when she came back to meet, there was no one suitable, I was said to be anxious, she was also very aggrieved, and said: 'Mom, don't force me, you have to have feelings to get married, you have to have feelings, you can't make do.'

"Listen, what are these words? I really don't understand young people nowadays, what does it mean to have feelings and can't make do, isn't marriage just two people living together? How can there be so much attention? How did I feel when I got married to her father, and I was okay with it? ”

Hearing this, both Dr. Xue Lian and Niu Tiangou laughed.

"Say child, you say child, what are you pulling me in?" Old Professor Weng sat next to him and muttered dissatisfiedly.

Mrs. Weng seemed too lazy to pay attention to her wife, and continued: "The last time she came back, her relatives introduced her to a university lecturer, 30 years old, who graduated from a famous university and is also a doctor, with a monthly income of tens of thousands, a house and a car, but she said she didn't feel it; A friend introduced her to a foreign company executive, 31 years old, with a monthly income of tens of thousands, a good family, and an only child, but she said she didn't feel it; Then we introduced her to a 29-year-old manager of a state-owned enterprise, whose parents were retired employees of a state-owned enterprise and had a house and a car, but she still said that she didn't feel it.

"She is not tempted by such good conditions, you say, is my child stupid to study outside?"

"Aunt, this matter depends on fate, if fate is not enough, even if you get married, you will not be happy, there is no emotional foundation, how far can such a marriage go?"

Doctor Xue Lian smiled: "Yuerou is an adult, she must have her own criteria for choosing a mate in her heart, and when fate comes, she will solve it herself, so you don't have to worry about it." ”

Mrs. Weng sighed softly: "What standard does she have?" It's still confusing, and I think she's reading and reading in a daze...... No matter how high your heart is, you are also an ordinary person, and you have to go through the process of getting married and having children...... I always feel that the reason why this child can't find a partner is that he still doesn't understand what family and marriage are all about, it's too simple, too idealistic, and too unrealistic...... Alas, I have been thinking about this matter of the child all day long, and often I can't sleep all night, what do you say about me?

"Every time she comes back from an international call, I talk to her about it, and I'm annoyed, guess what she says?" Mom, everyone on the street who looks like your son-in-law, I have to squeeze up to take a few more looks, and I'm also very tired. I don't want to get married sooner than anybody, I just want to be better off than I am in the future. Listen, how do you know if you're doing well if you're not married?

"Alas, it looks like it's about to be the New Year again, and the child will not find a partner, and it will waste a year's time, so that it will drag on year by year, and after the age of 30, there will be fewer opportunities to fall in love, and it will be more difficult, and other boys can still find girls in their 20s after they are 30 years old, and your girl can only find a 40-year-old or 50-year-old man when she reaches the age of 30, and I am in a mother's hurry."

"yes." Hearing this, Dr. Xue Lian also sighed, "I will be 22 years old after graduating from university, and with the addition of studying for a Ph.D., there is too little time left for young people to find a partner." ”

"Isn't it!"

Mrs. Weng continued: "The classmates who went to high school with her and did not go to college can now make soy sauce, and her cousin graduated from college and did not go to graduate school, and now the children are more than a year old.

"Oh, there's one more problem, and one more that worries me the most. I'm afraid she's looking for a foreigner abroad. You said that she finally found a foreigner and settled abroad, what should we do with the two of us?

"Go abroad, you are old, you don't understand the language, you have no friends, you must be lonely living abroad; Don't go, the children are abroad, and we don't feel at ease as the elderly. What are we going to do when you say that?

"We are just one daughter, and if we stay in the country, there will be no one to take care of them, and we will become ...... 'empty nest' old man, and I am afraid that no one will know if she dies at home when the time comes."

"Don't say that, isn't there still us?" Doctor Xue Lian hurriedly comforted.

"I know you...... You two children are good, but when we are too old to move, how can we keep bothering you? ”

Mrs. Weng smiled with relief, and then said: "I told you so much, just to persuade her in the future, so that she should not look for feelings, don't be too demanding, and it is better not to look for foreigners, even if you do, you must be able to return to China to settle down." ”

"Okay, we'll definitely persuade her when she comes back." Dr. Xue Lian nodded and solemnly agreed.

"And you...... Calf. Old Madam Weng turned her head to Niu Tiangou and said, "You will have to persuade her if you have the opportunity in the future." You young people might be able to communicate better. ”

"Hmm." Niu Tiangou replied with a smile.

"Finished?" Professor Weng, who was sitting next to him and never had a chance to interject, said to his wife, "It's time to cook, I still have two more drinks with the calf." ”

"You know that drinking, my daughter's business is not concerned at all." Mrs. Weng gave her wife a blank look, but immediately stood up.

"We still have something to do, so don't be busy." Doctor Xue Lian and Niu Tiangou hurriedly stood up.

"This kid, how can he leave without eating." Mrs. Weng and Professor Weng hurriedly stayed.

"There's really something going on, let's come back next time." Doctor Xue Lian and Niu Tiangou laughed and left amid the resentment of the two old men.

Unexpectedly, an excellent woman like Weng Yuerou was also worried about marriage, and Niu Tiangou was still thinking about this problem when she left the hospital.

Also, the more outstanding the talent, the more like a pyramid of marriage, and talented men and women are on this pyramid. According to the law of "men are high and women are low" in the gradient equivalence of "conditional equivalence", the marriage of talented men is to look down from the tower, and the higher they climb, the more women they can choose from; The talented women are looking up from the tower, and the higher they climb, the fewer men they can choose from.

Perhaps, Weng Yuerou is really like her mother said, there is no standard yet - it's not that she has no one to chase, it's not that she can't find a partner, it's just that she really doesn't know what kind of person she wants to marry;

Or, she already has her own standards in her heart - she knows very well what kind of person she is looking for, but she can't find the type she is looking for, so her heart is still swaying from side to side, unwilling to step into the palace of marriage, and wants to give herself a little more time and space to see, adapt, and experience.

However, Niu Tiangou knows one thing very well, for a "high-end" woman like Weng Yuerou, the "appearance" and "wealth" conditions are definitely not a problem, but she is "stuck" in the conditions of "soul" - she wants to find a heart and find a partner who is connected with her heart and spirit.

In this way, it was bitter for her mother.

Alas, my daughter's marriage, my mother's worries.