As soon as Sister Ting heard the little sister, the defense line in her heart softened. She is a little aunt every day, and she is an elder, in fact, she is really like a sister, in addition to talking and laughing for a few years, the little aunt is like a caring sister, teaching her how many things she can't understand elsewhere.

"First of all, let's calculate the situation of the Tan family in a few years. Lord Tan has meritorious service from the dragon, and he must be high above the temple. Therefore, your dowry can be saved well, so that the competent dowry can take care of it, and wait for the children to be distributed in the future. Even if you are thirty or forty years old and meet Sister Fang, Sister Hui, and they again, whether it is your husband's family or financial resources, you will not weaken them. ”

"Second, one of the daughters of the Tan family is married, and the other is in the boudoir, don't talk about it, and you don't need the support of your aunt's family. Looking at Second Master Tan alone, he is a very good candidate. If you don't want to care, whether it is in the hands of Mrs. Tan or the eldest daughter-in-law, the public middle school will not dare to shorten your daily chewing, and maybe it will carry your second room. ”

"Third, the Tan family's few rooms, at least two generations, have to rely on your back, Lord Tan and Mrs. Tan will not neglect you after a hundred years, and their children and nephews will not dare to bully your children. On the surface, what the Tan family needs to support the door is of course a big house, your second room, your husband doesn't have to sharpen his head and drill up, what kind of life you want to live is very free. If the big house is a good thing, it is the icing on the cake with you, if it is not a big house, then you have to rely on your big tree, but no matter what, the big one is the big house. ”

"Do you understand?"

The resistance in Sister Ting'er's heart was replaced by contemplation little by little, "Little aunt is saying that with the second master of the Tan family, Sister Ting can live as she wants?" ”

Xue Mingyu nodded, finally found the point, and it was not in vain that she racked her brains to say that it was all in vain. "The second master of the Tan family, you don't have to camp for the rest of your life, and in the future, when your daughter marries, only you will have to choose people, so you won't weigh so much."

Sister Ting was silent. What the little aunt said was reasonable, but she still couldn't go down the tree of the Tan family.

"Ahem," Xue Mingyu cleared her throat, "When I got married without any time, Liu Keyong and Ding Dazhi were sent to me together. Why the two pairs of people are so divided, I talked to the two of them. I told Wufeng that I would teach Ding Dazhi well in the future, so that he could be more mellow and generous, and I also warned Wuchen that he could not put the routine of training girls and scolding mothers-in-law on Liu Keyong, and give men three points of face in case of trouble. They all listened to me, of course, it wasn't that I said it, and the marriage was decided, they all went to secretly observe the husband's character. It's the same with you here, my opinion couldn't be clearer, but you have to see it with your own eyes and observe it with your heart to know whether it is suitable for you or not. ”

Sister Ting'er's eyes were confused. Perhaps as soon as her mother mentioned this to her, she resisted from the bottom of her heart. In the house for a few days, as long as she thought of it, she wanted to cry aggrievedly, and she didn't think about tea and dinner. After talking to the little aunt all morning, her heart was not so confused, but she didn't know which step to take.