"Can you elaborate on this 'conditional preference' law?" Niu Tiangou slowly heard some tastes.

"Okay then." Uncle Taurus sat down on a stone as he spoke, and Niu Tiangou also sat down in front of Uncle Taurus.

"Affected by the law of 'conditional preference', erotic love in the world can be roughly divided into three types."

Uncle Taurus said slowly while brushing his white beard: "The first type, preference for appearance type, is the love of appearance, this type is bright color type.

"To be partial to appearance is to prefer **, is **love. Most men prefer women's beauty and figure, and like to look for women with beautiful appearances and good figures, such as big eyes, small mouths, goose eggs or apple faces, long hair, white skin, big breasts, small waists, round buttocks, long legs, charming appearance and graceful posture, they fall in love at first sight, to put it bluntly, it is the 'face' of Zhong's beauty, the 'body' of Zhong's beauty, and the 'appearance' of Zhong's beauty, and they don't care too much about the beauty's material income or knowledge, cultivation, etc.

"Their understanding of love is completely stuck in the primitive ** attachment, and when they see a beautiful woman with a good figure, they have a sense of déjà vu, and they feel that looking at each other is cordial, they feel more and more pleasing to the eye, and then their hearts are racing and their nerves are in a state of high excitement, and they have sexual impulses and **, and they feel that they 'love' each other.

"Your love for private teachers Cao Yanfang, Peony Girl, and Cheng Ying of Chenghu Farm Textile Factory in Jingmen County all belong to this category.

"The beautiful and outstanding appearance of women is the 'gravitational force' of men's emotional world, and it is a fatal temptation for men.

In fact, the same is true for beautiful women, when they see tall and handsome men, they will also breed pleasant emotions, more and more feelings, and they can't forget it after seeing each other, and then get closer step by step. The vast majority of women do not want their men to be shorter and uglier than themselves, because they want to feel safe and want their offspring to be unaffected in height and appearance. Their so-called 'blind date' and so-called 'object' are to look at the man's appearance, and only when he likes his appearance can he continue to dating.

"Both men and women who prefer appearance type regard each other's appearance as particularly important, 'only appearance is also, wealth and soul are supplemented, and eye edge is important'. If the appearance conditions are liked, they will then consider the material conditions and spiritual conditions, those with good temperament can naturally add points to the 'eye edge', and those with more money are the icing on the cake; those with less money and poor temperament but good appearance conditions can also accept and come together.

"If there is too much difference in appearance between men and women, or if there is a mismatch in appearance, or if there is a large difference in height, or if there is too much difference in age, or if one of the men is too dark-skinned, and if there is a serious asymmetry in appearance, regardless of the material and spiritual conditions, nothing should be discussed, because in their view, material and spiritual conditions cannot make up for the defects in appearance.

"The man is handsome and the woman is beautiful, and when they are combined, people say that they are a 'natural pair' or 'golden boy and girl'.

"Generally speaking, this type of person who prefers appearance will never fall in love with someone of the opposite sex who is too poor in appearance, no matter how good the other person's material or spiritual conditions are."

Niu Tiangou understands this that a girl who prefers appearance will never look down on him who is only 1.57 meters tall.

He once speculated that the circulation of the magazine in August last year was at least 400,000 copies nationwide, and about 200,000 copies went to female readers, half of them were subtracted from them, about 100,000 copies were given to unmarried female readers, half of them were subtracted from urban unmarried women, about 50,000 copies were given to rural unmarried female readers, and then half of the unmarried women in rural areas were subtracted, and about 25,000 copies were subtracted from them to female readers who were unmarried in rural areas without objects.

From this, he speculated that about 25,000 unmarried girls in rural areas who had no partners had seen his marriage notice, and only more than 280 girls wrote letters to him, accounting for about 11 in 1,000, and nearly 24,720 unmarried girls in rural areas who had no partners were deterred by his height of 1.57 meters.

Seeing that Niu Tiangou was in a daze, Uncle Taurus seemed to feel a faint loss in his heart, patted him lightly on the shoulder, and continued: "It's no wonder. Because the preference for appearance is the most primitive instinct of human beings, the source of love between men and women, and the basis of erotic love in the world. The so-called 'love', 'love at first sight', 'love at first sight', 'day and night', 'lustful', etc., mostly stem from people's preference for the appearance of the opposite sex. ”

"Appearance will change over time, no matter how handsome and beautiful a person is, there will be a day when he will grow old and decrepit." Niu Tiangou couldn't help muttering.

"Yes, everyone has the day when they are old and decrepit, but in the eyes of those who prefer appearance, the ugly person will also be old and decrepit, and after the handsome and beautiful person is old and decrepit, he will still be a little more beautiful than the old and decrepit ugly person after all."

"What about the second category?" Niu Tiangou knew that Uncle Taurus had a point, he also had personal experience of his preference for appearance, and he understood that he also belonged to this kind of person who preferred appearance, but his appearance conditions were too poor, and his erotic love could not become what people called the "golden boy and girl" type, and it was impossible to become the "equal response" type of appearance conditions, so he wanted to know other types and hurriedly moved on to the next question.

"The second type is the preference for the material type, which is the material love, and this type is the rich type.

"The preference for materialism here refers primarily to women. Although women have the nature of physical love, but the appearance of handsome and material conditions, spiritual conditions are a very small number of men after all, this kind of "three excellent" men have long been robbed by a very small number of women who are "close to the water and get the moon first" and have excellent appearance conditions, and most of the rest are those who are short or ugly and richer (here for the time being, the spiritual conditions are put aside for the time being, because in the eyes of women who prefer material conditions, spiritual conditions are placed in a secondary position).

Thus, some beautiful women (and ugly women, of course, are not qualified) have no choice but to choose men who are mediocre in appearance (or shorter or uglier, of course, not beyond the limits of her acceptance) and have good material conditions, and disdain those who are taller or more handsome and have neither money nor family, no matter how superior their physical or spiritual conditions may be.

Because these beauties value material wealth more, income, house, car, family background, and men's money and success, their requirements for men's appearance will be slightly relaxed.

"In the eyes of these beautiful women, 'appearance' cannot be used as food, clothing, housing, car, jewelry—in short, 'love' is no match for money. In the case that physical conditions and material conditions cannot be both, they and their families often pay more attention to material conditions than physical conditions, as long as they are not too ugly, and close their eyes at night, is it always not like that?

"Of course, if a man can have a slightly better appearance or mental condition under the premise of having more money, it will be more satisfying, after all, 'wealth is important' and 'appearance and soul are supplemented'.

"In short, when a man chooses a woman, his eyes are aimed at the face, and beautiful women are very popular; When a woman chooses a man, her mind is on her wallet, and a man with a lot of money is more sought-after.

"A handsome man can't look at a woman's appearance at first glance, and most of them won't consider other factors, and a beautiful woman can't look at a man's appearance at first glance, and most of them will also take into account the man's money, income, house, car, family background, family scenery, home environment and other factors, because women are mostly pragmatic, besides, there are not many 'diamond kings' with superior material conditions after all, and many beauties want to marry are difficult to get their wishes.

As a result, the law of 'conditional preference' allows the 'appearance conditions' of a beautiful woman to form an equal substitution with the 'material conditions' of a wealthy man, so as to achieve the 'dislocation and equivalence' of appearance conditions and material conditions, and complete a 'happy marriage'. It is said that their union is 'the beauty of the rich woman' or the 'beauty fishing for the golden turtle'. ”

Speaking of which, Uncle Duo Niu Xing seemed to conclude: "Actually, a lot of erotic love in the world is based on money and material. ”

"Yes, material love is all over the world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, and there is no exception." Niu Tiangou couldn't help but sigh. What he has heard and witnessed in the world over the years has also made him deeply feel this.

It is not a fault for women to pay attention to material conditions when looking for a partner, it is nature, and it is nature. When men are looking for a girlfriend, don't they also want the other party to be prettier and prettier? What's wrong with a woman asking for money when she is looking for a boyfriend?

After all, good material conditions and more money show that men have the ability or good family background, and their future life is guaranteed, and they can have no worries about food and clothing.

There is a saying: don't look for poor "Song Yu", don't choose sour "Pan An", even if you are short and ugly, you can also choose "Yang Million"!

After all, men are sad to pass the beauty barrier, and beautiful women are sad to pass the money barrier.

Beautiful women marry mediocre-looking men or even ugly men, of course, they do not know that they have suffered a "loss", but they feel that compared with the material things they have gained, they have "lost".

The reason why flowers are inserted in cow dung is because cow dung is rich in "nutrients".

From this, Niu Tiangou understood why his uncle was so determined to marry his cousin Narcissus to the black and ugly son of the tax director in Shanyang County, why Cheng Ying from the Chenghu Farm Textile Factory in Jingmen County broke up with him, why the young and beautiful rural girl wanted to marry the 50-year-old professor of Huaiyin Normal College to "fill the house", and why a large number of beautiful women and even beautiful female college students flocked to the rich when they were asking for marriage......

Alas, women (including their families) love money as men lust.