Chapter 129 Backpack Debate Looking at Li Yan's excellent appearance, Wen Qianyi remembered that he just asked for leave and didn't know what to do when he went to work, and she was a little helpless, "Li Yan, I see that you belong to a donkey, and you won't leave if you don't whip it." I haven't made any achievements yet, so the little self-motivation has gone down again, and you can get that movie investment when you have time, and you usually have to do things with me. ”

"Isn't it okay? I'm self-motivated! I'm going to investigate. "What Li Yan is most afraid of is doing things seriously, Wen Qianyi asked him to follow up on the film investment project, brag and eat with those producers and screenwriters, go out and come back for a day, and if you want the unspoken rules, you can have a chance at any time, how fast! Such a good job, it's only been a few days, and it's going to be hard again.

Wen Qianyi frowned, "You are not too young, if you don't have a chance, why don't you have a good career?" Let's not talk about your career, you have to think about the future, right? Just eat and wait for death? What about later? ”

Li Yan touched his nose and said with a wry smile: "I, a man a few years older than you, am so directly criticized by you, how can I be embarrassed!" ”

"What a shame, do you know how many years older you are than me?" Wen Qianyi sighed a little hateful and said, "What does it mean for you to say this?" Eating and waiting to die? ”

Li Yan frowned slightly, and became serious: "Let me share with you a theory that I heard!" Maybe you'll understand a different way of life. ”

"Are you still theoretical?" rarely saw his serious appearance, Wen Qianyi always felt funny, and couldn't help but purse her lips and smile.

"How much does your life really weigh? Imagine you're carrying a backpack and feel the pressure on your shoulders, feel it? Li Yan recounted and narrated, of course, the incendiary strength of his narration was not enough.

Seeing that she was a little cooperative, Li Yan continued: "Okay, now put all the things in your life into it." Imagine starting with small things, knick-knacks, knick-knacks, collectibles in drawers on the shelves, and feel the stress that these put on you......"

Wen Qianyi closed her eyes.

"Then there are the big ones, clothes, cutlery, lamps, home textiles and televisions. The backpack must be heavy enough, right? There are also bigger ones, sofas, beds, dining tables. Everything is crammed in, cars are crammed in, and houses, whether one-bedroom, two-bedroom apartments, or luxury villas, are crammed into a backpack. ”

Wen Qianyi frowned slightly.

“…… It's a bit difficult to carry it two steps on your back now, isn't it? That's what we do every day. We are overwhelmed and unable to move forward. If I'm not mistaken, life is only life moving forward. Now I'm going to burn this bag. What do you want to take out? Nothing is a must! In fact, if you burned them all, wouldn't it be very easy to imagine having nothing tomorrow morning? Very comfortable? ”

"Fallacy......" Wen Qianyi snorted lightly.

Behind this backpack theory is to let people not only let go of all material aspects, but also put down all interpersonal relationships, all relatives and friends together, and put career work in an important position. For me, that's a bit overdone. I won't share it anymore, but I want to continue with the backpack theory that suits me.

In the same way, the pressure on all the supplies just now, even further. I think work and career are a big burden. Continue to think about it, in your backpack, not only do you have to put everything in it, but you also have to put yourself in it as a person who is not a thing! ”

Wen Qianyi frowned again.

"That's right, you're going to put the other one in there, and you have to go to work on time behind your back. Otherwise, bonuses, salaries, and even dismissals will be deducted, and you don't care about deducting money, you still care about the opinions of your colleagues and superiors. So you have to come to work on time every day, leave work on time, and even work overtime consciously. How much can you commission for 10 million performance? Half a million? 800,000? In order to complete the performance, you must concentrate all the brain cells, rack your brains to come up with a perfect plan, this plan to make the company profitable, to let the customers also harvest, and this is only the first step, you have to start to communicate with customers again and again, inspection, negotiation, go out again and again, even business trips, investment is the same. ”

Judging from the expression on Wen Qianyi's face with her eyes closed, Li Yan believed that she was touched.

"It's hard to complete a big order, and you may be exhausted. But you can't take a vacation to rest, because getting a high commission will allow you to buy a better car, a bigger house, a more expensive brand, and become a member of more prestigious occasions...... What do these entail? More money! So, you have to keep gritting your teeth and start the next bigger order. Not only that, but the colleagues and bosses around you will also run into your backpack and become a burden to you! ”

Li Yan pointed outside: "Take this place as an example, you have a reading office, and many business elites are fighting for their own reading office, that is an honor, and it is also a heavy burden that you must maintain!" If you don't hurry up and run with all your body and mind, you will be caught up and overtaken, and then you will go outside, maybe you can't accept it, leave your job, change the environment, but what? The competition of colleagues, the pressure of superiors, and the expectations of leaders are still the same cycle! ”

Wen Qianyi, who had her eyes closed, was already frowning. Li Yan's words penetrated deeply into her heart and touched her experience in the past few years. She can have today's reputation in the industry, can have her own house, sports car, comfortable and high-quality life, all of which are so physically and mentally exhausted.

"By this time, is the backpack on your shoulders heavy? It's like you're carrying a mountain on your back! That's why so many high-income white-collar workers and gold-collar workers will deliberately run out to relax on weekends, because it's too heavy, and if they don't relax, they will be overwhelmed. Drinking, partying, having fun, surname...... It is only through these external ways that the inner pressure can be relieved. And this is not the most serious, the most serious thing is that once this backpack is carried and wants to put it down, it is not so easy! Because it's too heavy and too big, you can only desperately carry it forward, and if you want to put it down, it will directly crush and collapse people! ”

Hearing Li Yan say this, Wen Qianyi slowly opened her eyes, as if she knew him for the first time, and stared at him carefully.

Li Yan smiled: "Looking at my backpack on the other hand, although it also has a burden, it is much lighter than many people." I don't want to have luxury cars or high-end sports cars, so I don't have to pursue high commissions. That salary is enough to sustain me, and I am satisfied, and I don't need to have the same heavy performance pressure as you. You're making me jump into my backpack right now! ”

Wen Qianyi thought for a while and retorted: "Your desirelessness is because you have a good family, which has already allowed you to have a house, a car, food and drink, if you are penniless now and sleeping on the streets, I think you can still have any backpack theories." ”

"Hey...... Yes, since I have a house, a car, food and drink, why am I so busy? Isn't it a good quality for me to learn to be self-sufficient? Li Yan spread out his hands.

"No, you're still under pressure! What if you're unemployed? That car of yours was wrecked? If you don't have savings, you're going to be even worse! "Talking about it seriously, it has always been Wen Qianyi who defeated Li Yan, and now she is suppressed by his crooked reasoning for the first time, which makes her a little unconvinced.

"Hasn't it happened yet? The problem hasn't happened yet, it's just if, not the problem. Stuff yourself into your backpack for disasters that didn't happen, and your backpack will be a lot heavier. ”

"Hmph, you are a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day!"

"Hehe, there is wine today and drunk tomorrow, so I said, after you listen to me, you may also respect another way of life." Li Yan didn't think it was so ugly.

"Still not right! You're almost thirty, aren't you? At least twenty-seven or eight. It's time to get married, right? How do you feed your wife? How do you feed both parents? How do you feed your children? Wen Qianyi is twenty-five years old, and she has passed Yu Xiaodi's innocent and romantic age, especially after working hard for several years, she has a particularly deep understanding of social reality. It's very clear that no money basically equals nothing!

"Uh...... There's a real problem with that. But it's also easy to solve, for example, not to get married. Or find a wife who can support me in turn......"

"You eat soft rice!" Wen Qianyi's eyes widened, angry and funny: "I kind of understand!" Dare you to love Director Haifu, just with the purpose of wanting to eat soft rice! ”

"......" Li Yan was speechless, "Don't jump your thoughts, okay?" Well, I'll tell you in another way: wedding, you have to buy a house, have children, support two elderly people, and also support your wife and children. As a result, those who could have traveled lightly had to carry heavy backpacks. And then what?

Don't dare to put it down! Once you put it down, it's not just you who will be crushed, but maybe seven people! And this worry becomes your new pressure to run into the backpack. So, you carry a backpack that is getting heavier and heavier, and you have added several people's burdens, and you have survived year after year, from handsome guys and beauties, to middle-aged men and women, until your parents are old, and your children grow up, and then they start to graduate, and you worry about them finding jobs, worrying about them getting married and having children...... At this time, you have become a grandfather and grandmother, your hair is falling out, your body is blessed, and you will eventually die! And until death, the heavy backpack has been pressing on you. Maybe it won't crush you directly, but maybe you can go through a hundred years, and it will be seventy or eighty years old...... This is the meaning of marriage, the meaning of work, whether it is lazy, motivated, hardworking, leisurely...... The final result can only be death, and Brother Xinchun is useless. The god of time will not slow you down or pause just because you are motivated. Everyone is the same, and the ending is fair. Since it never makes sense, why impose so much burden on yourself? ”

"What are you...... Open-minded optimism, or overly pessimism? Looking at Li Yan, Wen Qianyi sighed, and then looked strange: "Li Yan, I'm even more curious about you." can have such feelings,

(To be continued)