Chapter 458: It's common for a man to have three wives and four concubines
readx; Although Jiang Bosheng automatically ignored Shi Lei's worries with an understatement, Shi Lei didn't dare to leave like this. Pen ~ Fun ~ Pavilion www.biquge.info Shi Lei is very suspicious that Jiang Bosheng is really old and confused, or drunk confused, how can any elder think that the younger generation will not care if there are other women besides their own children?
"Grandpa, did you understand what I meant?" Shi Lei scratched his head, of course it is good to go at this time, but it is inevitable that he will have to face such an embarrassing situation in the future, so it is better to explain it once and for all, the so-called stretching out his head and shrinking his head is also a knife.
Jiang Bosheng smiled: "I'm just a little old and it's a little bad to remember my surname, and I'm not really old and confused, of course I understand what you mean." In fact, when Xiao Jin mentioned that Shen Yi before the meal, I guessed that eight | nine is not far from ten, and the reactions of the three of you children are a little too big. "The three children, of course, refer to Jin Mingjing, Shi Lei and Jiang Fengyue.
"Then you don't think this is unfair to Sister Fengyue? I may not be able to give Sister Feng a name...... Grandpa, I'm getting more and more unpredictable about you. ”
Jiang Bosheng smiled dumbly: "How can there be so much fairness and unfairness, the situation in your family is different, and the situation of those girls' families is also different, now the country does not allow men to marry more, naturally some women have no name." It's not a big deal, the important thing is that you'll make an appointment with the wind, so I don't have anything to worry about. ”
Belch...... What kind of theory is this? You're a little too open, man, aren't you?
seemed to see Shi Lei's thoughts, Jiang Bosheng smiled again and said: "Man, three wives and four concubines are a very common thing. If it weren't for the war, I would have had a concubine. As soon as there was a war, it was all chaos, and the family fled to Shenpu, and my concubine, who had never met, did not meet each other. With a family like yours, and your child himself being so capable, it's normal to have a few more women around. Doesn't that great man also have several wives......"
Belch...... Old man, what you said is simply the bosom friend of all men! If only all the elders thought like you.
"Were you quite romantic when you were young...... Shi Lei suddenly found that his worries about Jiang Fengyue were completely in vain, Jiang Bosheng, a person born in 1910, seemed to be completely different from modern people in terms of concept in this regard. The group of people who were born in New China and grew up under the red flag are absolutely obedient to monogamy, but for an old man like Jiang Bosheng, it seems that three wives and four concubines are a very common thing. Once there was no sense of crisis, Shi Lei's gossip heart began to burn again, and he immediately began to inquire about Jiang Bosheng's **.
Jiang Bosheng stretched out his hand and knocked on the door of Shi Lei's head: "What a romance!" Hun boy! Most of our people at that time, especially children in rural areas, had to order a baby soon after birth. The man is the gateway, and the daughter is always the water that is spilled out, and if the family is booked early, the in-laws will have to bear some of the daughter's living expenses. If the family is relatively poor, simply buy a child daughter-in-law and come back, and in a few years you will be able to help do some work at home. If the family is a little better, you will order a doll, and you will have to send a lot of things on the three festivals every year. No matter how good the family is, you can't be in a hurry to find a wife for your child, so you will make a family appointment for your child and take a concubine first......"
Shi Lei nodded, in fact, he also knew a little about these, many places in the Qing Dynasty had similar customs, it was easy to give birth in ancient times, but it was difficult to feed, especially in the countryside, girls are not considered laborers, which is the fundamental cause of male superiority and inferiority. So the situation that Jiang Bosheng said is indeed relatively common, but Shi Lei didn't expect that Jiang Bosheng would have such an encounter when he was a child. Anyway, when Jiang Bosheng was sensible, at least in the twenties, he was born in the Republic of China, how could he have thought that there would be such a thing.
"Aren't you always at a loss? The family didn't help to support that girl, but you didn't marry that girl back, which is equivalent to helping someone else's family support the children. ”
Jiang Bosheng smiled: "In that era, how could you think so much? And by the time I was a teenager, my family wasn't as good as it used to be......"
"Eh, yes, I remember that you were also born poor, why did you become a wealthy family again? You told me that at that time, you were judging the poor peasants at home! ”
Jiang Bosheng said slowly: "This is not the same as now, do you really think that people at that time didn't know how to deceive?" I have also beaten up the little devil and served as the militia captain in the township, who dares to judge me as a rich peasant or a landlord? The militia under my command must not shoot him with one shot? In fact, these are all propaganda that harms people, and the landlords at that time were not as hateful as you think. My family was a little better than a rich peasant, a little worse than a real landlord, but it was also a little bit of land. Later, it was said that the devil came, and the famine, the sold, and the family fell into the middle. But the family has never done a bad thing in their lives, inviting long-term and short-term workers to work at home, they are all good food and drink, and sometimes those long-term and short-term workers are better than our family's own food, and later propaganda is demonized. When I was a child, including when I was young, I saw landlords, businessmen and rich people, almost no rich people, and those who were not kind, but those with bad intentions were all from poor families. The poor have a good conscience, and most of the time there is truth in this. ”
Shi Lei nodded, and he also deeply agreed with this. Even in the life before he was reborn, he could often see the news of the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people bullying people in the newspaper media, Shi Lei still agreed with what Jiang Bosheng said. The reason why the second generation of officials and the second generation of rich people will be labeled as bullying people is actually just the result of the media magnifying some of the black sheep among them. According to the proportion, whether it is a violation of the law or a violation of morality, the proportion of the rich second generation and the second generation of officials committing crimes is much lower than that of ordinary people, but because their status is relatively high, the media is willing to report these things, while the children of poor families kill people or commit other crimes, the news value can be said to be no, and the media is naturally reluctant to report. This is a matter of orientation caused by news value, not to say how rich the second generation and the second generation of officials are really unkind. The family conditions are good, the education level and the rules of the family are mostly stricter than ordinary people, how can there be more scum with better education? This is obviously impossible.
"I understand this, but you said that there were a lot of deceptions in the evaluation at that time, I really don't know."
Jiang Bosheng smiled: "That family was rated as a middle peasant, in fact, his family is enough landlords." If he is still like this, how can he not be cheating? Okay, don't talk about this, that's not what you want to talk about. Between you and Fengyu, I don't want to ask more, that girl likes you I know, today I got a definite answer from your mouth, and I am satisfied. As long as you can make Fengyue happy, it doesn't matter if you have a reputation or not, I'm an old stubborn, I'm afraid I'm more trendy than you in some aspects. ”
Shi Lei secretly stuck out his tongue, and said in his heart that this was true, Jiang Bosheng was indeed much more trendy than modern people in this regard. Shi Lei felt that he was simply worried in vain, how could he have imagined that Jiang Bosheng would have such thoughts? But it's not surprising if you think about it carefully, Jiang Bosheng has always been a bit patriarchal, even if he knows that he has been a little sorry for Jiang Fengyue over the years, but he still hasn't shown that he has the intention of compensating for Jiang Feng's appointment, at most he has relaxed his attitude a little. However, if Jiang Fengyue was a boy, I am afraid that Jiang Bosheng would not blame her for so many years. It seems not surprising that an old man who has such a deep-rooted distinction between men and women in his mind has such an opinion about such a thing as three wives and four concubines.
"I'm a little sleepy, if you don't have anything else to do, get out of here." Jiang Bo gave birth to an eviction order.
But Shi Lei can't go, since Jiang Bosheng has no opinion on how many more women around Shi Lei, then Shi Lei naturally wants to talk about Shen Yi. However, the old man behaved very conservatively in matters between men and women, which made him go to apprenticeship...... I'm afraid it's difficult.
So Shi Lei said with a hippie smile: "Since you don't take this seriously, I'm relieved." And since Sister Feng and I don't plan to get any marriage certificate anyway, naturally we don't have to worry about any marriage law. Otherwise, I'll follow the trend and ask my sister to sum up, and give you a great-grandson to play with first? If it's a boy, let him have the surname Jiang, and it will save you from breaking the incense. ”
This is clearly a sycophant, since Old Man Jiang is patriarchal, then the inheritance of incense must also be very important, Shi Lei is called to do what he likes, and then he is ready to ask for something.
Jiang Bosheng saw Shi Lei's thoughts, and stretched out his hand to slap Shi Lei on the back of the head: "You have a child and ask yourself to discuss it, what do you say to me?" I've said I don't care about you anymore. But you stinky boy, you must have a plan for slapping my ass like this. Anyway, what do you want from me? ”
Shi Lei smiled: "Look at what you always say, am I so snobbish?" I just want to leave a queen for your Jiang family. ”
"Oh, since that's the case, I still have that attitude, you follow the wind to discuss, my old man doesn't care about your business. You go out, I'm going to sleep......"
Shi Lei knew that he couldn't hide it from the old man, so he had to wave his hand and say, "Don't mind, old man, I'm actually still a little bit of a problem." Hehe, it's just a little hard to speak, or you promise me first, and I'll tell you later? ”
"If there is something, talk about it, and it is impossible to say yes first. It's hard to speak...... Is it related to Shen Yi's little girl? ”
Shi Lei hurriedly gave a thumbs up: "Grandpa, you are really a god, you knew it was related to Sister Shen Yi without saying anything!" ”
"Don't be a sycophant, get down to business, what is required of me!"
Seeing this, Shi Lei didn't joke, Zhengse honestly described Shen Yi's illness to the old man Jiang Bosheng, and then explained the situation of Ren Ping's mother-in-law and the situation of Chen An's old boxer to Jiang Bosheng, and finally talked about Chen An's harsh conditions.
"How old is that old boxer?" In any case, at this time, if an old man of Jiang Bosheng's age is allowed to apprentice, he will still be a little hesitant after all. Although the idea of the portal has faded a lot, Jiang Bosheng is also a man in his eighties.
Hearing this, Shi Lei breathed a sigh of relief, Jiang Bosheng could ask this, which means that he doesn't particularly mind paying homage to another master, otherwise he wouldn't have asked this question. From this point of view, Jiang Bosheng seems to be much calmer than Chen An, and Chen An is more stubborn about this aspect of things. If you don't apprentice, you won't pass on your art, this is the rule on the rivers and lakes in the early years, and since the day Jiang Bosheng taught Shi Lei boxing, in fact, he has violated this rule. But Jiang Bosheng felt that these were stereotypes and bad habits that were not necessary to be followed, but it didn't mean that everyone would think like him, even Old Man Jin had apologized to Jiang Bosheng? The reason is that he passed on his kung fu to Jin Mingjing's senior brother and Jin Mingjing without Jiang Bosheng's permission.
"Four out of ninety, one round faster than you."
Jiang Bosheng listened, nodded and said: "There is no problem if you are older than me, let me worship a person younger than me as a teacher, I really can't erase this face." Moreover, I am also quite interested in the skills of this old boxer, which is not only a good thing in martial arts, but also a good thing in traditional Chinese medicine. If I don't guess, opening up the second pulse of Ren Du is just a more extreme method, and this way of doing exercises must be mainly to help people dredge the meridians, and it was a method created by a doctor in the first place. Such a good treasure, it would be a pity if it was lost, since I can have this opportunity to learn, I can also pass it on by the way, at least I can teach you and Mei Qing, and it can be regarded as leaving something for our country......"
Shi Lei was overjoyed: "You really don't mind worshipping that old man as a teacher?" ”
"When I was younger, I definitely didn't do it, and my house also has a door wall, and you can't worship under other people's doors at will. But they are all at this age, in their eighties, where do they still care about these things. Ming said that we went to visit the old boxer, I was afraid that my old bones would not be enough for the old boxer to see, and helping that Shen Yi girl to cure her illness was secondary, and the most important thing was to let a peerless school spread to the world, which was already a great merit. ”
"Haha, I'm still worried that you won't want to be a teacher! How did it go so well? I asked Sister Shen Yi to come over early tomorrow morning and ask her to thank you personally! Grandpa, you're such a nice person! ”
Seeing Shi Lei so excited, Jiang Bosheng only smiled faintly: "Okay, don't be a sycophant, if you want to repay me, just be kind to that girl, I have no regrets." Sleepy, sleepy, I'm going to sleep. After that, Jiang Bosheng let out a long yawn, and it seemed that the old man was really tired.
Shi Lei hurriedly said goodnight to the old man, and walked out with joy on his face. When they arrived in the living room, Jiang Fengyue and Jin Mingjing naturally watched the TV without saying a word, and when they saw Shi Lei's happy appearance, they could see that the result of Shi Lei's conversation with Jiang Bosheng seemed to be very good, but they couldn't figure out why Shi Lei was so excited.
"It seems that I had a good talk with the master, and the master accepted it?" Jin Mingjing asked.
Jiang Fengyue also looked at Shi Lei with his eyes, he didn't speak, and he didn't need to speak, Jin Mingjing had already asked what Jiang Fengyue wanted to ask the most.
Shi Lei laughed: "You can't think of it, I didn't say anything at all, the old man came to me and said that it is normal for a husband to have three wives and four concubines......"
Now it was Jin Mingjing's turn and Jiang Fengyu to look at each other, and the two of them thought that Shi Lei wouldn't have been scolded by Jiang Bosheng for being delirious, right?
Shi Lei walked to the edge of the sofa and sat down, and then began to repeat the content of his conversation with Jiang Bosheng after entering the room to Jin Mingjing and Jiang Feng, and the two of them were dumbfounded, never expecting that it would be such a bizarre result.
"Is this really what Grandpa said?" Jiang Fengyue naturally couldn't believe it.
Shi Lei smiled and nodded: "I was also stupid at the time, and I still wondered in my heart, it can't be that the old man is really old and confused, right?" It wasn't until my grandfather said that he also had a concubine who didn't meet back then, that I believed that the old man was all right. We were worried here for a long time, but I didn't expect it to be a problem at grandpa's......"
Jin Mingjing finally recovered from his dumbfounded state, shook his head and said, "It's amazing, according to what I say, I really doubt what kind of attitude my old man will have towards this kind of thing." ”
Shi Lei said with a smile: "Even if Old Man Jin thinks that it is common for men to have three wives and four concubines, I am afraid that he will not be like his grandfather to express his position so publicly, after all, he is a party cadre, and there are some things that cannot be said." ”
Jin Mingjing thought for a while, nodded and said: "It makes sense to say this, no wonder my eldest brother-in-law was rumored to have a mistress outside, including me, I thought the old man was going to be angry, but I didn't expect the old man to just say lightly, this kind of thing, there is nothing to guess, there are rumors outside, the family must support him, and must not follow outsiders to crusade against him." At that time, I thought that the old man was just taking care of the overall situation, and specially instructed the eldest sister not to make a big noise, so as not to force my eldest brother-in-law to do something that should not be done, and even ruined his future because of this. As long as you don't abandon your wife and children because of this, it's nothing......"
Shi Lei listened and laughed.
However, Jiang Feng whispered to Shi Lei with a little surprise: "Can you become more and more unscrupulous in the future?" ”
Hearing this, Shi Lei suddenly sobered up a lot, and he seemed to be a little carried away. So he hurriedly explained: "Actually, this is not the reason why I am really happy, I am happy because I told my grandfather about Sister Shen Yi, and my grandfather only asked the age of the old boxer, and said that even if it is for a stunt not to be lost, it is worth worshipping a master, not to mention that I can save someone by the way." Grandpa has already agreed, go to the old boxer's house tomorrow morning, learn from the teacher, and then help Sister Shen Yi heal! ”
(To be continued)