Jin Banshan once said that if you want to find your own suitable network resources in the officialdom, you should try to find the things and hobbies that the other party is interested in, and then approach him from this aspect. If there is no opportunity, or if it is not easy to achieve, then you should try to choose the best interest of the other person for your own use, and the main purpose is to make him interested in you.

If you want to build a special relationship with others, you must express your most "genuine" interests, and a simple word of interest is not enough. When asked, you should never hide your true interest so as not to be self-defeating. Therefore, you must have sufficient knowledge of the subject to prove that you have studied it considerably. The more you are close to someone, the more you should try to learn more about what interests him, so that you can cope with him and make him happy to provide you with what you want to know.

"Honestly, I think." Jin Yang returned to the Tao unabashedly.

"You don't think about location?" Zhao Miao asked slowly.

"If you had brought this up, I wouldn't have hesitated in the slightest." Jin Yang has an extremely strong reflexes.

"Don't put a high hat on me." Zhao Miao smiled: "Politics is politics, it has its own rules, and it will not change because of your origin or good intentions." ”

Jin Yang smiled, climbed up the pole and said, "I only know that it is good to enjoy the shade under a towering tree." ”

"That's the time of year, and even the biggest trees will suffer from winter."

"In winter, the big tree can at least shelter from the rain and snow."

"I've seen your file and resume. Your strengths and weaknesses are equally obvious. Zhao Miao paused and said: "You have a strong team spirit, but there is also obvious individual heroism; You must know that in this era, the real heroes are the masses of the people. I think your biggest weakness is the expansion of your personal sense of morality. It does not mean that a person has good moral integrity and bad conduct. But the Tao is a thing that is used for self-discipline, not for measuring others. Machiavelli was hated for telling the truth about politics. He said that if a person is concerned about what is actually going on in order to do what should be done, then not only will he not be able to save himself, but he will lead to self-destruction.

He reminds us that "when we are engaged in politics, we should never forget what politics is actually about." ”

Zhao Miao continued: "If a leading cadre wants to swear to be kind and self-reliant in everything, then he will be destroyed among many unkind people. Our ultimate goal is the goodness of the end, not the goodness of the point. ”

Jin Yang smiled: "Yes, I admit that I like to be a bad person." ”

"The point out does not mean the result." Zhao Miao suddenly asked: "When you have a conflict with the leader, what do you do?" ”

"When there is a conflict between my opinion and the leader's opinion, I will do the following." Jin Yang replied without hesitation: "The first choice is to obey the leader and strictly abide by discipline. This is the basic principle of our party's work, and I will first handle problems in accordance with the requirements of the leadership. Two: If I think my own way will be better, then I will choose a suitable time to put forward my opinions to the leader in a more tactful way......"

Zhao Miao interrupted him, "This is a very formulaic answer. What if the leader doesn't accept it? Jin Yang was going to reply, "You should also obey the leadership." First, because our work experience is insufficient, and the policy level is limited. So, believe in the leadership, believe in the organization. But after Zhao Miao's interruption, he knew that he should not read according to the script, and he should reply to extraordinary people.

So he took a deep breath and said, "I will find a way to make the leader accept." The premise is that his opinion is wrong and leads to unpredictable risks. ”

"Everything in the universe is in contradiction all the time.

It is inevitable to have conflicts and opinions with leaders. In fact, it is not terrible, the most important thing is that we can bravely face the contradiction and use our wisdom and skills to resolve it. Like the way you dealt with the crows yesterday was a failure. Zhao Miao didn't wait for Jin Yang to explain, and continued: "I don't know how you and Wang Xiaoshan's crow crows clashed" But in fact, your current strength is not equal, just like a heavyweight boxer against an underage child. What effect can a child play when he finds an opportunity to bite each other? It will only be counterproductive. ”

"Either stab him to death, or use the time machine and drag. Delay until you have the ability to resist attacks......" Zhao Miao said solemnly: "The most important thing in engaging in politics is to stress strategy." Learn to wait, wait for the right time, when the conditions are ripe. In political practice, we must learn to face it with a more tenacious attitude and a clearer mind, rather than opening our mouths as soon as we see an opportunity to bite someone. You have to consider the consequences of biting "cost and cost ratio." ”

"Brother Miao, I suddenly opened my mouth, like seeing clouds through ......the fog" "you, how did you coax Su Juan to get it?" Can't use any sycophant words? ”

Jin Mei saw that Zhao Miao rarely showed some true temperament, so she joked: "A celebrity once said: Because of mistakes, it is vivid", so it is true. ”

"Which celebrity?" Jin Yang raised his finger and pointed to his nose and said, "In the near future, I will definitely become a celebrity for this sentence." ”

"You're still using the wrong words. Affirmations should be changed to possibilities. Anyone can be anyone. The key is how likely it is," Zhao Miao said here, raised his wrist and looked at his watch,

"It's time for me to buy a ticket."

Jin Yang immediately jumped out of the car, "This kind of queuing work must be done by me, not maybe I." As he spoke, he smiled at Zhao Miao and strode towards the ticket office.

There weren't many people at the ticket office, so it barely took up much of his time, so he took his ticket and turned around and walked towards the parking lot. When passing by the railway station, a familiar voice came from his ear, "Mom and Dad, don't worry, there is still half an hour before the train." ”

This seems to be Zhan Li's voice? Jin Yang's heart flashed, and he turned around.

Zhan Li dragged a trolley, holding a fù woman in her fifties with her left arm, and next to the fù woman was a middle-aged man who was about the same age.

"Golden ...... Place? A flash of surprise flashed in Zhan Li's eyes.

"Instructor Zhan is good, uncle and aunt are good." Jin Yang smiled and stepped forward to greet, "Are you going to go far away?" "Take your parents on a trip." Zhan Li introduced her parents with a smile, "This is the old superior of Hanyang North Road that I once mentioned to you, and the Jinsuo is now the secretary of the Provincial Party Committee. ”

Even the two parents who were immersed in the world, their eyes were full of surprise and awe, "Secretary Jin, hello, hello!" Without waiting for them to say hello, Zhan Li said to his mother, "Mom! You and Dad are waiting for me. I'll have a few words with the Golden Division. ”

The two elders looked at each other and said in a loud voice, "Okay!" Waiting for the two elders to leave, Jin Yang asked, "Is Handyang all fake?" I remember being busy for a while every year after the holidays. ”

"I applied for a transfer." Zhan Li pretended to be an understatement, "Guanghan City has recently had a group of ** cases, and the provincial political and legal departments have dispatched elite soldiers to support me. I'll go to Guanghan next week.

There will not be many opportunities to accompany my parents in the future, so take this opportunity to go out with them for a walk. "The Guanghan mining area has been making trouble recently, and Jin Yang also knows about it, and Peng Fang has also lost his temper at the public security department meeting for this. The local mines, public security bureaus, and many bureau chiefs and deputy directors have been dismissed. But he didn't think that Zhan Li had been a good thing in the past. So he frowned, "Why sign up?" The mining area in Guanghan is too complicated, you are a woman after all, isn't this jumping into the fire pit? ”

"My strategy and tactics are: don't keep people here, change the place." Zhan Li's answer seems to be tǐng, but in fact, it implies a needle.

Jin Yang sensed her imminent state of mind, knew what she was hinting at and knew why she wanted to leave Wujiang. He really didn't have a solution to this problem. Only set of silence.

The two of them slowly paced along the Jinghua altar of the "Guangchang".

"Sit down here, okay?" Zhan Li whispered, took out a tissue and spread it on the altar.

Jin Yang sat down with the determination to go to the soup and fire, and said in a deep voice: "Can you not go?" Zhan Li attacked without delay.

"I've already signed up." "I can figure out how to get your list down."

"Do you think it makes sense for me to come back?"

Jin Yang was silent.

"You want me not to go?" Zhan Li's eyes lit up with hope, "You know what I want." If a person has no feelings, she must rely on her career to anesthetize herself. ”

Jin Yang looked up at the pale gray canopy, and carefully selected the words, "There are some things I can't give, and it's better not to give them than to give them." Otherwise, you and I may be enemies when we meet again, instead of being able to talk calmly and calmly like we are now. "I'm not afraid of a woman, what are you afraid of? Afraid I'll pester you? Afraid that your reputation will be affected and your promotion will be affected? Zhan Lihuo stood up, her voice trembling slightly.

This is not the ending I wanted, right? Jin Yang looked up guiltily and explained, "Don't be angry.

Not what you think. It's just an attitude of mine towards life. Maintain a calm mind, no entanglement of interests, and an attitude of kindness to others. ”

Of course, Zhan Li could feel that kind of concern. But one of her hearts was splashed with cold water by him on one side and churned hotly on the other side, hot and cold, which made her extremely irritable. She couldn't help but sneer: "Hmph! I'm an aunt-level woman and a divorced woman, and I've never had the luxury to possess you. I can't compare to Cathay Pacific's Su Zong, who is rich and beautiful, and I can't compare to the youth, beauty and vitality of college students......" Jin Yang got up suddenly, his eyes were full of sparks, and his face was extremely grim: "You investigate me?" Zhan Li, I hope you don't joke about our sincere friendship! ”

Zhan Li's shoulders drooped, as if she couldn't do it. She tried her best to answer very plainly: "You know that I am engaged in household registration management, if you insist on giving me a hat, I can accept it." ”

Jin Yang looked at her, his heart couldn't help but soften, and he breathed a sigh of relief, the matter between him and Su Juan and Bai Xiaoqin really couldn't be communicated with outsiders. No one believed it. He couldn't explain it to Janri, and he couldn't explain it clearly. Anyway, Zhan Li will stubbornly think that he can be as small as Su Juan

Qin is engaged in three and four, because of their beauty, youth, wealth and status.

Seeing Jin Yang, he was silent for a long time. She suddenly felt disheartened.

"It's almost time for me to pick up my parents at the station. I wish you good luck! Good bye! Zhan Li didn't wait for him to reply.