Chapter 105: The Strong in the Heart, Not the Form (1)
Chapter 105 [The Strong Are in the Heart, Not the Form] (1)
It is said that the mother-in-law likes the more she looks at her son-in-law. ~~ ", watch the latest update of this book) This is true. Before the meal was finished, Xie Fuyu "discovered" Jin Yang's countless advantages.
First of all, self-confidence, then modesty, then politeness, as well as good appearance and conversation, many of the above can be expressed through words, but Xie Fuyu observes more of Jin Yang's body language.
Xie Fuyu is a very good friend of a certain psychologist at the hospital, and she got a lot of knowledge about body language from her. For example, if someone buys a new set of clothes that they feel good and asks a friend, the friend compliments her with "tǐng with yours, very good, bāng is amazing" and so on, but her expression is slightly frowning or her eyes are flashing, and her body language is incongruous with her words, such as fist clenching. These actions show that she doesn't have a good impression of your outfit, or that she rejects it. When this happens, you may want to ask a few more people, and if most people show the same body language, i.e., verbal praise and physical resistance, then you better change your outfit because most people don't like it.
And apparently Jin Yang's verbal and body language blend very well, which proves that he comes from the heart. Because language can be controlled, but body language is difficult to control, and what it reveals is a person's true thoughts.
In addition, in addition to self-confidence, Jin Yang is courteous in his language. This made Xie Fuyu appreciate it very much.
She also occasionally watches "entertainment blind date shows", and feels that some of the NV guests on the stage, especially some who live in Shajiabang, are almost everywhere, and they haven't found a man worthy of them after looking for a year. Honest and reliable, I think that people's aura is weak, and I say that I like men who can control themselves. She still wants to manage others, so that men are strong in the world, but they have to be weak in front of themselves, nòng has to be like a princess choosing a concubine, even if they themselves feel that they are not worthy of others, they will do everything possible to find a few reasons to damage the other party to find a step down for themselves, and mock others domineeringly. The most ridiculous reason is "I know he will destroy me, then I will kill him first", in fact, at that time, she was inferior, and it was precisely because of her inferiority complex that she took an extreme way to cover up her inferiority, pretend to be strong and confident, and maintain that pitiful dignity. In fact, there is no need at all, a truly confident person dares to face himself, rather than stepping on others to elevate himself and seek dignity.
The moderate humility shown by Jin Yang in her home can better interpret the inner self-confidence, the strong are in the heart rather than the form, dignity is not won by pretending to be cool and deep, appropriately lower their posture, self-confidence without losing humility, it is easier to win respect and favor.
After the meal, when Xie Fuyu took out a family heirloom "Blue Background Partial Huā High Purity Ice Jade Guanyin Pendant" and gave it to Jin Yang, the three members of the Zhao family were shocked.
Even Zhao Jun, who has always been impartial, was surprised. His wife is not a very authentic Buddhist, and she has no faith. Her belief is that her family, parents, husband, son, and son are all about burning incense every year to pray for peace and well-being. This "yù Guanyin" is a treasure that she has treasured for many years, and the value alone is about 600,000 yuan, but for this kind of high-end varieties of yù stone, it is "hard to find" in the market, and it is rare for people to choose jiāo. After his son went to college, he had the idea of "it", but Xie Fuyu rejected it.
Today she actually took it out and gave it to the quasi-"NV son-in-law", which shows that the attitude of the NV people has changed, sometimes faster than a rocket!
Jin Yang happily accepted, even if he didn't understand yù stone jadeite, but this crystal clear jade Guanyin didn't look ordinary, but fortunately, he also gave her an agarwood bracelet of good value. Watch the latest update of the book)
Zhao Pu winked at his mother, as if to say that you are so biased.
Zhao Doudou looked calm, not knowing what he was thinking.
After dinner, he went to karaoke at Zhao Pu's request, and invited his parents to go with him. Zhao Jun didn't like or adapt to this kind of place, so he refused very tactfully, causing Xie Fuyu, who wanted to go with her son, to follow her husband and say no.
Four young men went downstairs to the parking lot of the new world garden.
Uncle Li and Che waited quietly for Jin Yang and Zhao Doudou.
Jin Yang was very uneasy and asked Uncle Li to eat something first, while Zhao Doudou looked at Jin Yang with a smile on his face. She had lived in a guard-escorted environment since she was a child, and she had become accustomed to this kind of thing.
Uncle Li gently told Jin Yang that while they were eating at Zhao Jun's house, he had ordered takeout.
Jin Yang smiled and handed a cigarette to Uncle Li.
Uncle Li took the cigarette and did not light it.
After half a year, Jin Yang learned from Zhao Doudou's mouth that in addition to excellent skills and quality, it is the most basic criterion for those who can serve as high-level guards, not smoking or drinking, otherwise, if a guard with a smoking addiction and alcohol addiction participates in a super long guard mission, sometimes one stop is more than ten hours, or even a few days and nights are possible to go out on a mission in a row.
Zhao Pu and Qiu Yue got into a Nǎi Huang Sè's Beetle NV-style car. I can't see anything brilliant about the license plate, and the model is ordinary, but it is the two cars that set off towards the "No. 8 Club", and after turning two streets, Jin Yang seems to find that a black sè official car is followed behind the two cars. The "guard" he thought was arranged by the Zhao family at that time, glanced at Zhao Doudou, pointed to the back of the car, and whispered: "It's too grand." ”
Zhao Doudou's eyes blinked slightly, as if he wanted to say something, opened his mouth, but closed it again.
Half an hour later, in front of the "No. 8 Club" mén, this club mén mouth chā multi-country flags, Jin Yang got out of the car and saw a group of foreigners who looked like they were from the embassy area was politely rejected by Mén Wei, and Qiu Yue and Zhao Pu seemed to be frequent visitors here, and the fierce Mén Wei respectfully led the four of them in.
As soon as you enter, you will be greeted by an exotic atmosphere, Gothic, Roman, Baroque architectural styles abound, and the design of the clubhouse is unique. There are more than a dozen floors up the winding staircase, and the signs indicate the function of each floor, and the spacious individual elevator is reminiscent of words such as "sī secret" and "noble".
Jin Yang skimmed through the signs, and at a glance swept the "shè punch hall", "taekwondo" hall, "constant temperature swimming swimming pool" and "karaoke hall" and other service items.
Under the introduction of Zhao Pu, Jin Yang learned that this No. 8 club is tailor-made for the "rich second generation" disciples in Kyoto, and the theme is fashion and luxury, elegant and comfortable, fully functional, some in Europe and the United States, and No. 8 has it, which belongs to the membership system and is not open to the public.
When the elevator arrived on the eighth floor, Zhao Doudou's mobile phone rang suddenly, she glanced at Jin Yang, and said in a low voice: "It's Gong Qian's phone." Then he said to Zhao Pu, "You take Jin Yang to the room first, and my sister will answer a work call." ”
Jin Yang knew that Gong Qian was the director of the office of the Xuanxuan Foundation and Zhao Doudou's assistant. A call at eight o'clock in the evening must have been a tricky incident for the Foundation.
Zhao Pu warmly beckoned Jin Yang to walk up the corridor, and the empty corridor was covered with jīng-chic bō sinia carpets, and the reliefs on both sides added a noble and mysterious atmosphere.
Since they stepped into the No. 8 clubhouse, except for the security guards they encountered before entering Mén, they have not seen half a figure until now, not even the waiters.
However, at the other end of the hallway, there was a burst of uninhibited laughter.
Jin Yangding saw that there were five or six young men and young people, and among them there were two acquaintances, a long sister of Shen Fei's deputy father, and Wang Xiaoru. Gong Wei is in front of Wang Xiaoru and behind him, there are two other men and two NVs, looking at their dress and temperament, they are all children of expensive or expensive families.
Wang Xiaoru was grinning, and suddenly, her eyes swept Jin Yang, and the laughter stopped abruptly, and her playful eyes patrolled back and forth on Jin Yang and Qiu Yue, and her mouth "tsk" and said, "Yo yo yo!" Every time Director Jin comes to Beijing, there are different beautiful NV diggings around him! What's the matter, dumped my Yuetan family? Have you had enough of it or are you tired of it? Do you want to change your taste and look at the girl paper next to me? A ......"
Jin Yang sighed gloomily, how big Kyoto is, how can he meet Wang Xiaoshan's spicy sister every time he comes to Kyoto. Obviously, Wang Xiaoru misunderstood. Because Zhao Pu took the lead in leading the way, he and Qiu Yuena took a step back, and the two of them were side by side, looking like a couple.
"Miss Wang, you misunderstood, this is ......"
Wang Xiaoru interrupted Jin Yang's explanation domineeringly, raised her fingers, and said, "No! Needless to say, there's no silver here! ”
A group of male NVs standing on her left and right followed suit.
Zhao Pu stared at Wang Xiaoru curiously, although he is a child of a first-line family in Kyoto, he is different from his sister, he is inherited from his elegant father, low-key and rarely goes out to contact the "Shejiāo circle", and almost never sees such a "jumping" demon yàn.
Qiu Yue's eyes showed a faint disgust, she stepped forward silently, grabbed Zhao Pu's hand, and said softly: "Let's go." ”
The contempt in her eyes completely angered Wang Xiaoru, she took a sideways step to block Qiu Yue's way, and grinned: "What's the matter, little sister, you think it's great to have a membership of the eighth?" ”
A look of disgust appeared in Qiu Yue's eyes again, this young man not only looks vulgar, but also has bad words and deeds! "Give way!" There was unmistakable majesty in her crisp voice.
"Yo! Yo hey! What a temper! Wang Xiaoru is not a fuel-efficient lamp, she sent out an unbridled laughter, not only did not let her footsteps, but moved a step to the left, completely blocking Qiuyue's way.
Jin Yang was a little annoyed, and scolded in a low voice: "Miss Wang, please don't be so boring!" Cherish each other's time. ”
Wang Xiaoru asked bitterly: "Did anyone say that you are annoying?" After speaking, he snorted coldly, and his disdain was overflowing.
At this time, Zhao Pu opened his mouth to speak, and he said very politely: "This young lady, we don't know each other, please give way, okay?" ”
"This young lady? Little brother, do you know what a young lady is? Have you ever called Miss? Wang Xiaoru approached Zhao Pu's side coldly, and the close-up of Ye Yàn's charming facial features was magnified in his present, and a pair of apricot eyes stared at him in a dazzling manner.
Zhao Pu suddenly took a step back, his face was red, and he stammered: "Miss is not that kind of young lady...... Uh, I mean......"
"Oooh! You're so cute! Wang Xiaoru approached Zhao Pu again, and exhaled like a land: "What is the name of the little brother, studying in that school?" Tell my sister, and my sister will take you to play in the future......"
Qiu Yuexing's eyes were round, and she suddenly reached out and pushed Wang Xiaoru, "Shameless thing, get out!" ”
Her words and actions were shot, Jin Yang knew that it was going to be bad, Wang Xiaoru seemed to be Ma Daha on the surface, crazy all day long, but her xìng son and her brother are in the same vein, and they are the kind of xìng grid that must be reciprocated.
He had just stepped forward, ready to separate the two NVs.
But Wang Xiaoru's counterattack was so fast and swift that he was dumbfounded.
"Smack!" Wang Xiaoru slapped Qiuyue's cheek.
Qiu Yue couldn't seem to believe the pain in her eyes and face, and after a second, she suddenly exclaimed, "You...... Dare to hit me? You ......"
Zhao Puyi's face was pale, his shy face was full of anger, he moved to stand in front of Qiu Yue, pointed at Wang Xiaoru and said: "I don't beat NV people, if you are a man, I ......"
"Wow! Didn't you find your little brother, are you still a gentleman? Wang Xiaoru's beautiful eyes widened, her fingers pointed at the two men behind her lightly, and she grinned, "You can pick any one." Before you choose, my sister might as well introduce them, they just came out of the taekwondo gym! ”
"Wang Xiaoru, that's enough!" Jin Yang approached Wang Xiaoru with a heavy face.
"What's enough? I think tǐng is interesting! She shook her head disapprovingly.
Jin Yang sneered at the corners of his mouth, and his sharp eyes looked directly into her playful eyes, "You are the same as your brother's xìng ge, this is very bad, and sooner or later it will ruin you." ”
"Hmm...... What's wrong with my brother? She thought seriously for half a second, her expression changed, and her tone was flat, "Oh! I see, you're afraid of him, aren't you-"
Jin Yang's gaze looked at her lightly, and he walked towards her.
One shoulder knocked Wang Xiaoru away, Wang Xiaoru's expression exaggerated "ouch", staggered against the wall paved with ancient Roman reliefs, and there was a hint of ridicule in his eyebrows.
The two male companions behind her didn't do anything, and they scolded and walked towards Jin Yang.
"Shenma thing, dare to be disrespectful to Sister Xiaoru?"
"Beat him to death!"
When Jin Yang saw it, he immediately exhaled lightly, turned his head and said to Zhao Pu: "You take Qiuyue to retreat away, and watch your brother-in-law teach them a lesson." ”
Zhao Pu nodded, took Qiu Yue's hand and stepped back.
At this moment, there were several rapid and powerful running sounds in the corridor, and three young men in black suits rushed into the corridor.
Qiu Yue stretched out her hand and pointed at Wang Xiaoru and her gang, and said angrily: "It's them, start beating people." ”
Jin Yang looked at the momentum of these three people, and immediately felt bad, the steps and aura of these three people were cold, and they were either thugs on the road or soldiers.
The first time he saw his mother-in-law, the first time he went out to play with his brother-in-law, and he didn't want to cause trouble.
He didn't know the details of Qiuyue, but Wang Xiaoshan obviously couldn't afford to wait for idlers to provoke him.
What about Zhao Doudouren? Where did she go. This knot can only be untied if she appears.
The three young men walked towards Wang Xiaoru and the others with cold faces.
Jin Yang smiled and stretched out his hand to intercept them, "Don't be impulsive, don't ...... you."
But no one bought his account and crossed him one after another.
Moments later, there was the sound of fists and feet in the hallway, as well as the screams of two men.