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"Lian'er...... I'm sorry...... I couldn't find you in time...... You've been wronged......" Xiuyu stroked Yun Lian's hair with a distressed face.
"I'm fine, I know you'll find my ......" Yun Lian gently rubbed her eyes.
"Two benefactors, thank you, your great kindness and virtue can only be repaid in the next life." Xiuyu bowed to Xia Xunfei and Shen Qingyi.
"You're welcome...... Hehe...... Then let's go, what should you do, reincarnate early, don't come out and be scary. Xia Xunfei looked at the two ghosts floating in the air, he still couldn't help but feel a little frightened in his heart, he didn't want to stay here at all, he turned around and whispered to Shen Qingyi, "What time is it?" I feel like I've been tossing for most of the day, why hasn't it been dawn yet? It feels weird, so let's get out of here. ”
"Hmm......" Shen Qingyi also felt the same way, I don't know why tonight's time seems to pass very slowly, the night is very long, and there is a dead silence around, and there is no sound at all.
"Two benefactors, please stay, I don't know if I can help us the last one......" Xiuyu called Xia Xunfei, who just wanted to run.
"Huh? What else do you have? Xia Xunfei really didn't want to have anything more to do with Xiuyu's ghost, but he was afraid of angering her, so he had to turn around and listen to her.
"Me and Lian'er...... If you want to marry here with heaven and earth as a witness, I hope to ......"
"We are witnesses?" Shen Qingyi interrupted Xiuyu's words and asked.
"No...... Because Lian'er and I can't touch the ground, so we can't bow down, I take the liberty of asking if you can let us attach ourselves to our bodies...... Help us say goodbye......" Xiuyu said with a sigh of relief.
"Possessed?!" Xia Xunfei shouted.
"No, it's not possessed, it's just slightly attached to your body, it won't control your body, it won't drive your soul out of your body, you just need to help us complete the act of worshipping...... I beg you to ......," Xiuyu asked very sincerely.
“…… Okay......" Shen Qingyi thought for a while, she stretched out her hand to Yun Lian, and Yun Lian also timidly floated into her body along Shen Qingyi's arm, it seemed that because of Yun Lian's relationship, Shen Qingyi's body had a glowing figure shaking slightly, like a layer of light like a misprint.
Xia Xunfei saw that Shen Qingyi was so enthusiastic, so he gritted his teeth, closed his eyes and looked like he was at home, and said to Xiuyu: "Come on!" He only felt a cold air approaching, and then panicked in his heart, and the whole person instantly cooled from the bottom of his feet to the top of his head, and he opened his eyes to see that his body was also glowing with a faint blue-green light.
"That's ...... Is it okay to worship? Xia Xunfei asked Xiuyu in his body.
"Yes, benefactor......" Xiuyu's voice floated above Xia Xunfei's head.
"Then ......" Xia Xunfei watched Shen Qingyi swallow his saliva and then plucked up the courage to take her hand, "Worship heaven and earth......"
Shen Qingyi didn't resist, let Xia Xunfei kneel down like this, and bowed to the sky with him.
"Second worship high hall...... Hey? Where are the elders in your family? Xia Xunfei asked Shen Qing about the Yun Lian in one.
"Worship the mountain, our family's ancestral grave is on the mountain over there......" Yun Lian's voice sounded in the air.
So Xia Xunfei led Shen Qingyi to turn to the dark mountains in the distance and bowed.
"Finally...... Husband and wife worship each other......" Xia Xunfei looked at Shen Qingyi in front of him embarrassedly, and his liver jumped cautiously, as if it was not Xiuyu and Yunlian who were worshipping at this time, but himself and Shen Qingyi.
"Don't think about it." Shen Qingyi seemed to see what Xia Xunfei was thinking, "Hurry up and worship." ”
"Oh, good, good......" Xia Xunfei hurriedly bent down and bowed to Shen Qingyi.
"Licheng!" As soon as Xia Xunfei finished speaking, she felt a gust of wind blowing in her body, and with a "whew", Xiuyu's ghost came out of her body, and she hugged Yun Lian, who was crying with joy, and said softly: "Lian'er, now that we are husband and wife, we will never be separated in the future, no matter which family you are reincarnated in the future, I will find you." Yun Lian cried so much that she only knew how to nod.
"Benefactor, thank you very much this time, we will always remember your great kindness. Lian'er and I are leaving, please take care. Xiuyun circled around the air a few times with Yunlian in her arms, and then gradually disappeared into the night sky.
"Whew, great, finally solved a tricky matter, let's go, go back." Xia Xunfei exhaled heavily, as comfortable as having completed his graduation thesis, he got up and patted the soil on his knees, and then reached out to Shen Qingyi to pull her up.
"Well, it's time to get light when you go back......" Shen Qingyi helped Xia Xunfei to stand up, but before he could speak, he felt dizzy, and his eyes turned black, "...... Not...... "She was weak and fell into Xia Xunfei's arms ...... all of a sudden.
"What's wrong? Qingyi! Xia Xunfei hurriedly hugged Shen Qingyi, who had fallen, but he didn't expect that his eyes would suddenly turn dark, and he couldn't stand steadily, and he couldn't support it after a burst of tinnitus, so he hugged Shen Qingyi and fell down.
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“…… Knock knock knock ......! …… Boom Boom Boom ......! Come back, hey...... It's coming......"
“…… Finding Wrong! …… Wake up! ”
"Looking for Brother Fei......"
"Xiao Qingyi...... Xiao Qingyi ......"
“…… Why aren't you awake yet? …… Does it really work? ”
“…… Or call an ambulance......"
Xia Xunfei was in a daze and heard a noise in his ears......
"Get out of the way!" It seems to be a small dark voice.
"Hey! You wait! ”
"Whoa——! Xia Xunfei felt cold all over, his body seemed to become wet, who threw him into the water? He felt groggy in his head, as if he had slept for a long, long time......
"Hmm...... Who? Xia Xunfei closed his eyes and sighed.
"Wake up! He's awake! ”
"Lift him up!"
Xia Xunfei felt that someone gently helped him up and sat up straight, and when he opened his eyes, it was Jin Hao.
"Hmm...... ...... early" He rubbed his forehead, his head still seemed a little dizzy.
"Early?! What time do you think it?! …… Seiichi Ko! Xiao Dian threw away the bucket in his hand, ran to Xia Xunfei's side, and helped Shen Qingyi, who was struggling in a daze, up.
"Why are you all here?" Shen Qingyi put his hands on Xiao Dian's shoulders and asked weakly.
"We just wanted to ask! Why are you dressed like this and sleeping in front of a haunted house with Xia Xunfei?! I woke up in the morning and I didn't see you, I couldn't find you anywhere! No one usually comes near this haunted house, but fortunately, Yaling said that she saw you and Xia Xunfei last night, so we will come here to find out! Xiao Dian said angrily.
"Why are you two sleeping in front of a haunted house? What happened last night? We found that you were hugging each other, and you couldn't wake up no matter how you screamed, and my cousin was afraid that you would be scared away from the ghost, so she specially brought all the magic weapons to you to shout surprise. ”
Shouting surprise? Xia Xunfei looked up and saw that his cousin was really well-equipped, wearing a Xiangyun gauze Tang costume, with Buddhist beads around her neck, a few clothes for herself and Shen Qingyi on her arms, and a gong in her hand. In front of himself and Shen Qingyi, there was a bunch of ingots and candle incense, and there were burned paper money ashes on the ground.
"We're not dead! Do you need such an exaggeration?! Xia Xunfei was so frightened that a spirit jumped up.
"Brother Xunfei, this is not to worship you, it is my mother who is crying out to you. Great, you're alright. Yaling leaned over and said softly.
"Say! What did you do to Seiichi Ko last night?! Caused two people to faint here! Although Xiao Dian helped Shen Qingyi, her fierce and sharp eyes could still make Xia Xunfei rush to threaten.
"I ......" Xia Xunfei looked at Shen Qingyi, who was still pale, and then at Yaling, who was red and shy, "Last night...... I can't sleep! Just go out for a walk and ...... Accidentally walked here, and then ...... I saw a sister appear behind me......"
Shen Qingyi glared at Xia Xunfei, but she didn't say anything about Yaling's appointment to Xia Xunfei to Longyan Garden last night, but followed the context of Xia Xunfei's words to complete what happened last night, but in order to avoid misunderstanding, she didn't mention the matter of worshipping heaven and earth.
"That means the ghost in this house is gone? No wonder I can't feel anything......" Xiao Dian looked at the strongest local tyrant style of the small building.
"Oh, you've done a great thing! I'm going to tell the village chief about this! These hundreds of thousands of buildings can finally be put into use! Aunt Cousin said happily shaking the gong.
"Brother Xunfei, you are so brave!" Yaling looked at Xia Xunfei with admiration.
"Huh...... It's nothing ......," Xia Xunfei touched his nose embarrassedly.
After tossing for most of the day, Xia Xunfei and his party finally set foot on the way home. The seven-seater car was stuffed with gifts from the villagers of Jinshapai Village, and Jin Hao drove happily, bringing his colleagues back for a vacation this time, which really saved him face. Xia Xunfei's mobile phone "jingled", and it was a text message from Yaling: "Brother Xunfei, I will miss you, remember to come and play often when you have time." Xia Xunfei held the mobile phone, hesitating what to reply, Jin Hao glanced at Xia Xunfei and said, "It seems that my sister is interested in you, how about it, do you want to think about it seriously?" ”
Xia Xunfei hurriedly covered the phone screen with his hand embarrassedly, and said nervously: "I, I just think she is my sister, don't think about it too much." ”
"Hahahaha! What are you nervous about? Do you have someone you like? Jin Hao laughed.
"I ...... You mind your own business first! Xia Xunfei glanced at Shen Qingyi sitting in the back seat through the rearview mirror in the car.
At this time, Xiao Dian was already lying on Shen Qingyi's lap and fell asleep, and Shen Qingyi picked up his little coat and covered her to prevent her from catching a cold. Shen Qingyi gently tidied up Xiao Di's long double ponytail, she didn't speak, just looked at Xiao Di's sleeping face gently, remembering the first time she saw Xiao Di at the bus stop. She never told Xiao Dark, when she first saw Xiao Dark, looking at Xiao Dark's helpless appearance, she wanted to help her, it seemed that she owed Xiao Dian in her previous life, and she specially asked her to pay it back in this life.
From the perspective of love, the difference in the concept of love determines whether people prefer to be in love with the same sex or the opposite sex. Not long ago, the news of the legalization of gay marriage across the United States caused a global sensation, and this constitution that favors same-sex marriage provides people with a variety of marriage options, which is a manifestation of the pluralistic development of human culture.
The U.S. Supreme Court's judgment reads: "No union is deeper than marriage, which symbolizes the highest ideals of love, fidelity, sacrifice, and family." As some of the petitioners in this case show, marriage
It means a love that goes even beyond death. Their aspirations should not be criticized, they should not be left alone and excluded from the oldest system of our human civilization. They seek equal dignity from the eyes of the law, and the Constitution will grant them that right.
But in China, the traditional idea of "passing on the family lineage" is still the main purpose of marriage for young Chinese today, and it is undoubtedly the biggest obstacle for gays and lesbians to come out. Under the constraints of the social concept that "family-oriented" is greater than "individual-oriented", many people choose to marry blindly, and even more homosexuals marry heterosexuals in order not to be knocked down by public opinion for the sake of their parents holding their grandchildren, so we can often hear words and phrases such as "cheating marriage" and "same wife".
A large part of China's surplus men and women are now "created" by public opinion, and there is no "leftover" in this world, but there are "leftovers" when there are more people talking. What exactly is the purpose of getting married? To have children? In order not to be pointed at? Or is it for the sublimation of love?
Only when China's concept of marriage is freed from the traditional shackles of "passing on the family lineage" and "honoring parents" can China's unmarried young people truly gain the freedom of marriage.
The author believes that whether you love a man or a woman or not, as long as you truly love each other, and do not hinder others, do not destroy other people's families, and do not harm society, then love. It is believed that one day China will follow in the footsteps of world civilization and agree to same-sex marriage.
Ask the meter
"Ask Rice", which originated in China, is a spell that cooperates with the deceased relatives and friends and their families. Through the goddess, the ghosts of the underworld are brought to the yang world, possessed by the goddess, and talked to the people in the yang world, because a bowl of white rice is placed next to this ritual, and the locals call it asking rice.
Shouting surprise
Shouting shock, the Han people believe in folk customs, popular all over the country, and the Western Zhou Dynasty has been very popular. In the old days, most of the old people and women in Huizhou believed that people had three souls and seven spirits, and that children were seriously ill and dying, because the souls were frightened and coerced by evil spirits and left their bodies. The screaming will be carried out at the place where the child is frightened, and if the cause is unknown, it will be near the door of the house or the nearby street, as that is where the child is most frequented. First of all, prepare all the incense, treasures, candles and "deed money", the pious also have "three animals" and "water and rice", the old woman (grandmother or elderly aunt, some please the goddess) with these offerings and the "patient" shirt (face shirt can also be), mirror, ribbon, peach branch and other things, to the three-way intersection to put the offerings, after lighting the incense candle, holding the "patient" shirt, in front of the incense candle while swinging, while shouting: "so-and-so turn (come back), turn quickly!" Gods and ghosts are not afraid, snakes, rats, poultry and animals are not afraid. Turn; The three souls and seven spirits turned with the shirt. Turn to eat sweet tea, eat fragrant rice, and sleep (sleep) until the daylight. So-and-so, turn it, turn it! "Whether the people in the city are crying out in astonishment, or in the countryside, they use a low, earnest tone to prolong their voices, and shout loudly so that people from far away can hear them clearly. After shouting surprise, grab some paper money ashes, put them in the shouting shirt (or wrap the paper money ashes with your own shirt), and whisper as you go: so-and-so turned...... walked back to the bed of the "patient" and shouted affectionately in a mid-bass voice: so-and-so has turned, and all diseases have been eliminated...... Slap the bed a few times and put the paper money ashes on the bed.