Chapter 028: Lin Lei enters the game
The black Ao with the classic streamlined body lines appeared in the heart of the wine in Mocheng "Just waiting, Zhao Zhigang, who was standing at the door, suddenly showed a smile on his face, and the doorman of the hotel looked at the front of the Ao Qiang car that was almost a little dazzling, "The Soviet Union No. 4 license plate, hurriedly piled up a smile on his face, and hurriedly greeted it.
The Audi car stopped steadily, and a young man got out of the driver's seat, looking still a little green, but he deliberately pretended to be mature and steady, it was Lin Lei. After getting out of the car, he smiled slightly at the doorman, and then looked at Zhao Zhigang: "Mr. Zhao, you have been waiting for a long time." If someone who is familiar with Xiao Zhen sees him, he will definitely smile, because how his words and deeds look like Xiao Zhen, gentle and modest, confident and natural, Lin Lei still lacks a little naturalness, and it seems a little deliberate.
"Hahahaha, Brother Lin is too polite, you are the master, if you don't come, of course I have to wait here, right?" Come on, let's go up and have a couple of drinks. Zhao Zhigang smiled, not at all like he was invincible in front of ordinary people, but as if he had seen the appearance of some big leader, not only polite, but even seemed to have a hint of flattery.
Lin Lei is just a student who has just graduated from school, where has he experienced such an occasion, he suddenly laughed happily, and let Zhao Zhicai take his hand and walk into the hotel enthusiastically. went upstairs and entered the private room, there were already two guests waiting in the private room, and looking at their pot-bellied appearance, you knew that these two were either bosses or officials. As soon as Zhao Zhigang pulled Lin Lei into the bag, the two guests stood up with smiles on their faces.
Zhao Zhigang laughed and introduced: "Brother Lin, let me introduce you, this is Director Liu Dachun of the Urban Construction Bureau, and this is Director Qian Bo of the Transportation Bureau He said while introducing Lin Lei to Liu Dachun and Qian Bo: "Bureau Liu, Bureau Qian, this Brother Lin should know you without my introduction, right?" Yes, it is Secretary Xiao's confidant, Lin Leilin, section chief of the Organ Affairs Section of the Municipal Party Committee Office
"Section Chief Lin, fortunately, Zhuo Hui!"
"Chief Lin is young and promising, and his future is immeasurable!"
Lin Lei thought that he was young and had little qualifications, and was about to say hello first, but unexpectedly, Liu Dachun and Qian Bo stuck the time very accurately, and as soon as Zhao Zhigang's voice fell, the two of them had already opened their mouths with a smile on their faces, and by the way, they stretched out their hands, so that Lin Lei had to quickly reach out and shake each of them, and said: "Director Liu, I am fortunate to be happy," Director Qian was polite
Lin Lei, the "section chief", is the same as Liu Dachun and Qian Bo's director, the deputy word is omitted, Liu Dachun is the deputy director of the Urban Construction Bureau, and Qian Bo is the same as the deputy director of the Transportation Bureau. Lin Lei is also the deputy chief of the Municipal Party Committee Office Affairs Section.
When Chinese people are officials, the most taboo is the "sub-word" "No matter what level the sub-word is, not only is the treatment not as good as the main level, but it can never be worn, and the laurel crown of "number one" does not sound pleasing to the ear, and there is a suspicion of "depreciation". Fortunately, there is one in the system, "unspoken rules." : will take into account the face of the deputy, and the subordinates, peers, and superiors will take the initiative to "delete" verbally. Go to the sub-word. This point of face is especially important on business trips, meetings, social and other occasions.
"Brother. Since the word is related to fame and fortune, there will inevitably be fierce competition between "vice" and "positive". The knowledge here is even greater, smart and clever people will generally build themselves from the three aspects of close to the leadership, improve the professional level, and do a good job in the relationship between colleagues, which is called being an official, "if the trick is to eliminate the unhealthy trend of employing people, run the official and buy the official, people with the above three abilities, more than three or five years, as little as one or two years, can be," Fuzheng. "And even" to the next level of officialdom. Timeless, generational, mysterious, unfathomable.
In fact, under the current system in China, the position of the junior deputy is sometimes rather tragic. In the event of an accident, the dismissal of a deputy official has become a model in Chinese officialdom. However, a closer examination of the correspondence between responsibility and power among the chief and deputy government officials and the effects they induce can be seen in this problem.
No matter in the formulation of the legal system, government administration, enterprise management, citizen self-discipline, etc., it should reflect the "reciprocity of responsibilities and powers." principles; A citizen, if he is not given any power, has no obligation to bear responsibility. There is also no condition, capacity and motivation to take responsibility; If you want him to be responsible, you must first empower him. With a little power, there is a bit of responsibility.
Personnel power and financial power are the core of the power of the current administrative organs, and they are all in the hands of the "top leaders" of each unit, according to the principle of "equal responsibilities and powers." The principle that he should be negative to the unit "core." Liability. But this is not the case, the top leader often divides the work one by one to each deputy and claims to be fully responsible, but in fact he is a "hands-off shopkeeper"; The results are their own, and the problems are in charge of the leadership. And the deputy has no power at all, how can he do a good job?
In a leadership group, the deputy leader is actually an important role, but also a special role, which plays a key role in connecting the upper and lower levels and dividing the division of responsibility.
Therefore, if you don't know how to be a deputy, it is difficult to become a qualified leader. Only by being good at being a deputy can you expect to become an excellent leader,
As the saying goes: a fence has three piles, and a hero has three gangs. This shows that no matter how capable a person is, he needs a deputy and an assistant. Therefore, studying and grasping the status and role of deputies is undoubtedly of great practical significance for deputies to clarify their own powers and roles, to coordinate well the relationship between their superiors and subordinates, and to promote the development of leadership work. In view of this, it is very necessary for all those who are mixed in the system to examine the role characteristics of the deputy leader and the position of the deputy leader, and grasp them in practical work.
As a member of the leadership team, the deputy of the leader must have the corresponding basic qualities, in addition to some special normative requirements: the first is the overall view: as the deputy of the leader, he should be good at thinking from the perspective of the leader. Leaders can also imperceptibly educate them so that they can give full play to the role of their deputies.
The second is to assume part of the responsibility for the leader: the process of leadership is bound to be a process of offending people, and the deputy should be good at thinking about the leader. He is not afraid to offend others. If all the contradictions are handed over to the leader, the leader will inevitably be overwhelmed, and this is not a good deputy. The main role of the deputy is to take part of the responsibility for the leader, so that the leader can free up his energy to concentrate on the big problem. People who refuse to take responsibility for their leaders. It cannot be selected as a deputy.
Then there are a few people who should be the leaders of the counselors, and it is impossible to do everything, so they should think more for the leaders, put forward their own views, and correct the mistakes of the leaders. If you agree with any opinion of the leader, you lose the meaning of the deputy. Putting aside the organs and units for the time being, in most enterprises, there are too many people who nod their heads to the leaders and say yes, and if the deputy is the same, no one will dare to correct the wrong decision, which is quite dangerous.
Then there should be a high degree of complementarity with the leader: the deputy should try his best to develop in the direction of the leader's shortcomings, so as to make up for the leader's shortcomings, so that a harmonious relationship between superiors and subordinates will be formed. If the deputy blindly develops in the direction of the leader's strengths, it is only possible to form a "competitive" relationship. Like what. The general manager of a foreign trade company has good German, and his deputy's German is also good, so instead of appreciating the German of the deputy general manager, the general manager may find out the grammatical errors of the deputy general manager. Conversely, if the general manager has a good command of German, then the general manager will appreciate the deputy's fluency in French.
Finally, we should do everything we can to help leaders build their authority. The deputy should take the initiative to deal with some things that are inconvenient for the leader to participate in person, and it is incumbent upon him to assume this responsibility, so that the leader can become the spiritual pillar and source of confidence of the group. It's like Cao Cao wants to kill someone, but usually Guo Jia, Chen Yu and others propose that someone should be killed, and Cao Cao pretends to say a few words of regret, and finally kills him "as a last resort". If it is like Zhou Yu who wants to kill Zhuge Liang, Lu Su, as a deputy, not only does not help the leader to raise this question, but instead helps outsiders, he will not be a deputy, otherwise how can people say that Zhou Yu is small? This is what happens when the deputy doesn't do it properly.
It may be difficult to choose a deputy based on the above requirements, and in actual work, it is difficult for leaders to meet and not ask for a satisfactory deputy. But finding a good deputy is undoubtedly a powerful guarantee for the success of the leadership career.
As a deputy position, the most important thing is to keep in mind the position of "assistant". As a deputy, if there is no personal ambition, the wisest thing to do is to avoid becoming some kind of intersection of possible contradictions. In the system, of course, there are people who don't follow anyone. His standard of conduct and work is: neither being particularly close to someone nor being particularly alienated from someone. He feared that he would fall victim to the political struggle of officialdom, and he refused to be a confidant of any leader, nor a dissident of any leader. In this way, he did not succeed because of the promotion of any leader, nor did he become bad because of the downfall of any leader.
Some leaders pass rules and regulations, so that deputies have no "power" and subordinates have no power; Put everyone under the system and put yourself above the system; Put everyone in the responsibility and put yourself outside the responsibility; Find ways to restrain others and try to make things easier for yourself; Try to control others and try to let yourself live. This kind of leader's deputy is more difficult to do, Xiao Zhen met such a leader Lin Zhili in Dingqing District at the beginning, so he had no choice but to "revolt", but of course he can't be regarded as a peasant uprising, he is a family gate valve uprising, just like Li Tang replaced Yang Sui.
But when the leader is in office, his speech is always very important; When you go below to inspect and inspect, you will always be warmly welcomed, so that the following will be greatly encouraged and spurred; Report to the leader and ask for instructions, and the instructions received are always very valuable and timely; All the achievements below are due first of all to the wisdom and correctness of the leaders and their tremendous help. But what about when the leader is not in place? After the politicians go, public opinion is chattering.
The relationship between the first and second leaders is not handled well, and the one who carries the black pot is usually the second in command, which is already the consensus of officialdom, unless this deputy has a very hard background and was originally gilded, then it may be an exception.
It is very difficult to be the second-in-command in charge of administration or business in a locality, a unit, unless he gives up his personal will to the greatest extent, or he is passive and slacking off, deliberately doing nothing, deliberately creating contradictions, waiting to be transferred or dismissed. If he is too dedicated, too thoughtful, too capable, and too prestigious, he may arouse unexpected suspicion and even make people feel politically ambitious. Sometimes excellence is not an absolute good thing, but it happens that the deceased is easy to break.
Within the system, it is normal for the top leader to evaluate the other comrades in the group to the higher authorities alone. And it's conventional; It is taboo for other members to talk about the leader behind their backs. Even if you report the situation to your superiors, you may be seen as restless, and you may even be seen as non-organizational behavior. Seriously, non-principled friction between team members should be resolved through frank communication, as long as there is a public mind. But that's basically just an ideal. Power is a social responsibility, but it is often regarded as a personal value. The power sensitivities that may arise from the exercise of responsibility are often seen as an affront to personal values. This is often the most unacceptable thing.
How to deal with the relationship between the principal and deputy positions? Many successful people have research, such as Wang He has experience, his reputation in Wucheng is quite high, and his reputation is quite good, so Mayor Ren Xuanping is suspicious of him, but he has never caught Wang He's pigtails, because Wang He summed up the "three nos" that the deputy should do to the main position: no offside, no overstepping, and no overstepping. At the same time, Wang He can also obey and not blindly obey any election, respect but not flattery, and ask for instructions without passing the commission. In this way, it is naturally difficult to find Wang He's pigtails.
As for the main position and the deputy position, there are many experienced people, and in Xiao Zhen's view, it is nothing more than three points: trust but not laissez-faire, love but not protection, strict but not strict.
In today's China, no matter how big the officialdom is, it seems that it is difficult to get rid of the differential treatment between positive and negative. Usually, the identity and responsibilities of the deputy are somewhat different from those of the confidential staff in charge. Confidential staff. It's just that the supervisor's cronies are small, and the deputy is positioned with the difference in the relationship with the supervisor.
Some deputies are really the right and left hands of the supervisor, and he is deeply authorized by the supervisor to perform some of the powers and responsibilities assigned by the supervisor. Since such a deputy is in power, he naturally has to be responsible to the supervisor, and he has to advance and retreat together with the supervisor, and his status is quite a confidential staff member of the supervisor.
However, there are a lot of deputies, usually sitting on the cold bench position. Such a situation may be a transitional stage in the progress of an individual's position.
It is also possible that due to the ups and downs of a moment, you have encountered a frozen situation.
What is the attitude of the deputy? Should he be proactive, or should he live in silence? In fact, this must depend on the situation of the environment and the attitude of the worker, and it is inevitable that there will be misunderstandings and conflicts between people. A deputy who knows the right thing should be fully aware of the existence of this fact. The deputy needs to have a normal heart, especially in the face of power, honor, and merit. Because the affirmation of the main job and the appreciation of the organization are the best rewards for every member of the organization, in fact, the most likely contradiction and misunderstanding is nothing more than the pursuit of these things outside the body.
If he encounters a master who attaches importance to the distinction between power and responsibility and pays attention to work efficiency, then his deputy will tremble. There is also a considerable right to share part of the responsibility for the owner. The deputy who is in charge of power and responsibility is not necessarily easy to do, not only has to bear a certain amount of responsibility, but also has to be comprehensive and detailed. If the main owner has the sole power, he can only let the deputy be silent and take care of the idle things, which is of course very unpleasant in his heart. is also a deputy, one is for the sake of the master everywhere, deeply used, and is expected to be corrected. The other is that the superiors are not granted the right to vote, and the subordinates are not respected, and the days are passed away while drinking tea and reading newspapers on the Internet.
The importance of the deputy's position in the unit is also reflected in the difference in the attitude of the subordinate employees to meet and deal with it. Most of the part-time workers are "not afraid of officials, but only afraid of management". They serve the main master, usually do not dare to be sloppy, and either do not offend or ignore the deputies who are usually kind to them. Everyone knows that it is difficult to be a deputy in terms of name and position. But to get ahead in an officialdom, few people don't need to pass this hurdle. They bear a lot of responsibility and put a lot of effort into assisting their bosses, but they have to bear the risk of success or failure with their bosses, and they are always a little shorter than the main ones in terms of status; And some people are obviously unwilling to sit on the cold bench and unwilling to endure the contempt of their subordinates, but it is difficult to give up this position and are unable to reverse the situation of backwardness and vacancy. There are many distinguishing characteristics of a good collaborator, the most important of which is that both partners have their own strengths and complements. This kind of cooperation will last for a long time, and this kind of cooperation will be fruitful. Because the deputy is good at some aspects, he will be relieved of more attention and worries in this regard, so that the main job has more time and ability to solve other difficult problems. Another good deputy should dare to take responsibility, and don't always mistakenly think: since he is a deputy, what is he doing with so much heart?
The deputy's self-color is so complicated, and his identity is so ambiguous and embarrassing, it should be a very difficult period in his career. In fact, many deputies are stalwarts noses. Without their hard work, it would be difficult for the cart to start.
Therefore, Huaxia's deputy is also a favorite to be used by superior leaders to "train people." position, young cadres like Xiao Ke are delegated to the grassroots level to be the main leader, and they also start from the deputy position, which is what it means. Only after experiencing "multiple leadership positions" can you have a perfect resume and be promoted to the top leader.
However, this is the case, and there are some situations that need to be treated differently. For example, Xiao Zhen's current secretary, Shen Cheng, was originally only the chief clerk of the secretary section of the municipal party committee office, but once Xiao Zhen selected him as his secretary, he was immediately promoted to deputy director of the municipal party committee office. Rather, because of the special status of the secretary of the municipal party committee, "those who are highly deserved are purely here to improve the administrative level."
The same is true for Lin Lei's organ affairs section chief, the driver of the municipal party secretary, generally speaking, in addition to the deputy chief of the organ affairs section, is often the captain of the municipal party committee's team, but Lin Lei is too young after all, and he drove for the secretary of the municipal party committee after graduation, and he has no qualifications in the system, so although the municipal party committee office asked Xiao Zhen what he meant, to see if it was customary to let Lin Lei be the captain of the municipal party committee's team, but Xiao Zhen naturally refused. In fact, the so-called team captain, that is, everyone is accustomed to saying this, there is no such position in the official establishment, it is entirely because a large part of the drivers of the municipal party committee are dedicated to serving the leaders and have "official addiction", so it seems that the unspoken rules of the municipal party committee team and the team captain such a statement appeared.
Now Zhao Zhigang's introduction has won the true taste of officialdom, three. "Deputy" is gone in his mouth, Liu Dachun and Qian Bo know that Lin Lei is only the deputy chief of the Municipal Party Committee Office Affairs Section, but in their opinion, this position is completely irrelevant, the key problem is that he Lin Lei is Secretary Xiao's driver, and Secretary Xiao himself is "Path." The driver who was transferred from Langliu after the driver that the Municipal Party Committee Office was going to arrange for him showed his trust in Lin Lei, and this was enough. But Zhao Zhigang's statement misunderstood Lin Lei, a fresh graduate with little experience, and really thought that both of them were directors.
After Zhao Zhigang's introduction, the four of them naturally began to enjoy a big meal. In fact, the conversation about eating is a big thing, and because of this, it is called a dinner. The so-called dinner, this "bureau." Originally, it was a term for playing chess, and it was also a measure word used in competitive matches. In a narrow sense, it means "situation, situation"; In a broad sense, it has the meaning of "gambling, partying, and trapping", such as making a game and getting out; At the same time, bureau is also a term for government agencies and levels.
The combination of "rice" and "bureau" is a great contribution to Chinese language and Chinese culture, because our ancient ancestors had too many traps on dinner. To make a good meal complicated, cloudy, foggy, swords, swords, and intrigues, it is really necessary to have the "great wisdom of the mouth and the belly sword."
The "meal" involved in the system has multiple meanings: one is related to eating, but "eating." It doesn't have to be a "meal"; The second is just eating, not for the bureau, the bureau here should go beyond the original intention of eating; Third, there is no limit to time, place, and method, but the level must reach the "bureau" level.
The dinner is actually like an underworld, with organizations, factions, ties, commitments, conspiracies, brothers, yin and yang, truth or dare.
What's the point of the dinner? It's just that the meal is out of the game. A person's many meals means that there are several subtexts: he is a person with many friends; He was an important person; He is a popular man; He is a man with a successful career. No one to play with you is a more horrible thing than unemployment, lovelorn and blindness, which means that you have become an outcast of society. People outside the circle. For most people, their hearts are not strong enough to be constantly recognized by seemingly harmonious relationships. The so-called connections, the so-called circles, the so-called social relations, the so-called resources, the so-called one's energy, the so-called friendship, the so-called business and transactions. The two and the two can't get around the rice and meat. Friendship is left in the heart. The field joint book came, and each person got a social relationship credit with varying amounts
Through the Chinese people in the dinner, we can see the political interests, social relations, interpersonal rules and cultural tastes in the way of eating.
"Brother Lin, you are a distinguished guest today, we don't even have any wine here, just waiting for your orders" Look at what kind of wine you like, liquor? Liquor?. Zhao Zhigang smiled and said enthusiastically to Lin Lei.
Lin Lei hurriedly waved his hand: "I won't drink the wine, Secretary Xiao is fishing in Shihu, and I still have time to come out here." I don't know when Secretary Xiao will drive again for a while, if I drink, it will be a bad thing
This was an accident, Zhao Zhigang was stunned for a moment, and secretly said in his heart that it was a pity, a young man like this with no social experience, a few mouthfuls of horse urine, it was natural to look at everyone as a brother. This kind of man with strong blood drank wine, his courage was strong, and he was suddenly arrogant, the eldest and his second, no matter how difficult it was, he could pat his chest and agree, if you didn't let him agree, he was still angry, saying that you looked down on him. Zhao Zhigang originally wanted to make Lin Lei drunk for seven or eight minutes, and he was still two or three minutes sober, and then inquired about whether the quality problems in the construction of Bibo Road really aroused Xiao Zhen's concern.
Zhao Zhigang has a relationship with Wang He, Huang Ping, an old organ, gives him breath, and the municipal party committee and municipal government are in one. The office in the courtyard, there is any disturbance on both sides of the government, how can he, Zhao Zhigang, not know? But Xiao Zhen, the secretary, is new after all, and Wang He has not yet established any contact with him outside of work, let alone Huang Ping, so now Zhao Zhigang is a little confused about Xiao Zhen's thoughts.
Zhao Zhigang was anxious, the cause of this matter was really Wang Wenyuan, Wang Wenyuan was the head of Wuzhong District, and he was the leader of the government of Wuzhong District, it is said that most of the administrative things had to be decided by him, and the tasks assigned by the municipal party committee and municipal government above, at least he could pass it, so when the construction of Bibo Road had quality problems, he had been concerned, and it may have been hindered by some reasons before, Wang Wenyuan did not show too much interest in this matter, but since Xiao Zhen came. Things are starting to change a bit. Zhao Zhigang is very sensitive, and naturally quickly knows the reason: Xiao Zhen and Wang Wenyuan have known him as early as Langliu, and the news he got has only reached this step, it is said that Wang Wenyuan's father is actually the former deputy secretary of the Xiaonan Provincial Party Committee, and now he is the executive deputy director of the State Economic and Trade Commission of the Government Council. And when Wang Wenyuan and his son were in Xiaonan, they took care of Xiao Zhen, who was serving in Dingqing District. In this way, Zhao Zhigang knows the relationship between Wang Wenyuan and Xiao Zhen, which is very similar to the relationship between him and Wang He, no wonder Xiao Zhen came to Wucheng as the secretary of the municipal party committee, Wang Wenyuan suddenly became a lot tougher, he didn't seem to care much about the affairs of Bibo Road, obviously he didn't really care, but he didn't have enough strength at hand so he endured it, and now that Xiao Zhen is here, Wang Wenyuan has the support of Wucheng's leader, so naturally he will not continue to taboo Wang He, so the attention to Bibo Road has been greatly improved recently, The issue of Bibo Road was raised at the meeting three times in a row, and the relevant departments should be held accountable for "thorough investigation to the end". And "no mercy".
Although Liu Dachun and Qian Bo have power in their hands, not only are they only the deputy directors of the city bureau after all, but even if they are the top leaders of the city bureau, there is nothing they can do if the second-in-command and the administrative leader of a certain county or district below have to hold on to any project, after all, the project is made on other people's territory, and they are also responsible. Because of this reason, Liu Dachun and Qian Bo are a little anxious, what is the situation of Bibo Road, Liu Dachun and Qian Bo are naturally clear, the project money of nearly 30 million, absolutely not even one-third of the project, according to their private estimates, Zhao Zhigang can invest six or seven million in this road, then it will be very good for them.
But what can be done about it? Not to mention that there is a Wang He behind Zhao Zhicai, even if there is no Wang He, there is a Huang Ping! Besides, Zhao Zhigang is more likely to "be a man.? He Liu Dachun, he Qian Bo, which one of them does not have Zhao Zhigang's small "kickback" in his pocket? Qian Bo, who was directly responsible for the approval of the highway construction unit, even took a seven-figure kickback! If Wang Wenyuan, who is stunned, has to investigate this matter with an iron heart, then the result is unimaginable!
Zhao Zhigang knew very well that the person behind Wang Wenyuan was Xiao Zhen, not only was it useless for Huang Ping's side to go out of this matter, but even if Wang He was small, it was obviously impossible to suppress it. I think that when the construction had just exposed the problem, it was just Huang Ping who called Wang Wenyuan with a phone call, and Wang Wenyuan didn't say much, just said a few words of "keep paying attention" and then there was no follow-up, but now looking at Wang Wenyuan's appearance, it is already necessary to have real actions with real knives and guns, which shows that Huang Ping and the Wang He he represents have a small face!
So, there is today's dinner.
The Chinese people advocate that "the people take food as the sky." He also said, "Life is in the world, but the culture of eating and wearing two words can be said to be a window of changes in the history of Chinese civilization for thousands of years." The so-called historical verticality, cultural corridor, customs and customs are small up and down for 5,000 years, in fact, they are all contained in the daily life between eating and drinking, the so-called wonder of the meal, not in the "meal" but in the "bureau" is also the dinner through the ages, the gains and losses are known.
The most famous dinner in ancient China was the "Hongmen Banquet" more than 2,000 years ago. However, the mystery and murder hidden behind the staggering of milling chips may not be the normal state of the Chinese dinner tradition. The Four Gentlemen of the Warring States Period attracted 3,000 diners, and every day there would be large and small dinners to open up the earliest circle culture in China, which was born in the dinner of night sheng songs. The so-called dinner here is not a meal from the beginning.
Lao Tzu said in the Tao Te Ching: Governing a big country is like cooking a small fresh. It is said that those in power govern the country, just like a star chef, who blends and cooks all kinds of food ingredients, so as to achieve a good situation of political communication and harmony. Song Taizu Zhao Kuangyin has an allusion called, "A glass of wine releases military power." It is also a classic textbook for dinner politics.
Between the tax planning and mistakes in the dinner, in fact, the meaning in the bones is to ask for people to do things, get promoted and make a fortune. First is to invite guests to dinner, and then to give gifts in the middle of Jia has a lot of political communication skills and officialdom thick black learning in Buqu family to eat together, is a familiar process, is a process of acquaintance, is the beginning of cooperation, usually a glass of wine, is Alibaba, sesame open the door "is the key to open the door to wealth. The people who are like fish in water in the dinner are usually the ones who mix well inside and outside the system.
Professor Yi Zhongtian, who studies Chinese and Western cultures, is also quite insightful about the politics of dinner, and he has a detailed explanation of politics is eating in the book "Gossip about Chinese People": "Since politics is eating, whether you can eat, whether you know how to eat, and whether you are good at dealing with food problems are related to whether you can be a person, whether you can be an official, whether you can fight, and even whether you can win the world." ”
Qian Zhongshu also said: "There are many social functions in eating, such as connecting with feelings, talking about business, and so on. "The culture of food is the best weapon for making friends. In China, there are dinners everywhere: there are dinners for marriage, there are dinners for further education, there are dinners for apologies, there are dinners for errands, there are dinners for festivals, there are dinners for dancing, there are dinners for playing ball, and there are dinners for opening businesses. It's really nothing, just make up a reason to do it.
For Chinese people, the way of eating is also the way of human harmony. It can be a meal, a communication between friends and family, or a negotiation in a business field, and in this regard, there is a cultural difference between being a corner of oneself and sharing a meal with Westerners.
Yi Zhongtian said that Chinese people like to invite guests to eat, not because Chinese people are delicious, but because of the ideological core of Chinese culture. So. Looking at what kind of dinner a person often mixes in, you can almost gain insight into his interests, hobbies, wealth, status, and status. Dinner in China is also a person's social identity system.
What is Lin Lei's social status? is not a fresh graduate of Xiaonan Public Security College, nor is he the cousin of Xu Fei, deputy director of the Propaganda Department of the Langliu Municipal Party Committee, but the driver of Xiao Zhen, secretary of the Wucheng Municipal Party Committee.
Therefore, he can have dinner with the wealthy Zhao Zhigang and the two deputy directors of the real power city bureau, Liu Dachun and Qian Bo, and call them brothers and sisters together, and even the latter three have to pat his ass to some extent and act according to his face. "Secretary Xiao wants to use a car?" Alas, a little drink is also a meaning! How can you go out to eat without drinking? Brother Lin, Zhao is not relying on the old and selling the old, to tell you the truth, this is mixed in society, especially in the institution, it is not as good as in school, studying in school, and those who don't drink are good students, but in this government unit, it is not okay not to drink "Otherwise, let's drink some beer." Zhao Zhigang said with a look of "brother, I am for your good".
Liu Dachun also immediately seconded: "That's it, that's it, the beer content is low, Brother Lin looks like a heroic person, drink some beer, isn't it the same as drinking water?" Just have a few beers and have fun! ”
Qian Bo also advised: "Yes, the time is right, Mr. Zhao and Liu Ju are reasonable, beer is trivial, why do you have to drink some wine when you come out to eat?" Now that we have an alcohol ban in Wucheng, it's really "Oh, hehe, Brother Lin, don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that the ban is bad, it's just that if you don't drink it on weekdays, you should drink it even more on weekends, right?" Just a few beers, so it's a meaning. ”
Zhao Zhigang had the two of them, and suddenly smiled even more, and put one arm on Lin Lei's shoulder, looking like a good brother: "Brother Lin, let's talk about this, if you don't nod your head, it will be too bad to give us face" Just two bottles, okay?" ”
Lin Lei looked helpless, hesitated for a while and sighed: "I can't drink enough, I can't do beer" He looked at Zhao Zhigang and the three of them were about to speak, and hurriedly waved his hand and said: "Hey, hey, wait for me to finish, wait for me to finish." I can't drink enough, two bottles are estimated to be lying down, and I will have to pick up Secretary Xiao later" In this way, I will drink one bottle and do my best, okay?" ”
Zhao Zhigang looked like he hated iron and steel, and said helplessly: "Okay, okay, one bottle is one bottle, there is always a mind", Liu Bureau, what do you think about the money bureau? ”
Liu Dachun and Qian Bo naturally had no choice but to sigh helplessly, and they had no choice but to respond.
Lin Lei breathed a sigh of relief, Zhao Zhigang had already sat beside him, but he turned to the waiter and ordered: Sister Curse, come with eight bottles of high-quality Langliu dry beer. ”
Lin Lei was taken aback: "I only drink one bottle." ”
Zhao Zhigang laughed, patted him on the shoulder, and said with a big bag: "Eight bottles of wine, auspicious, don't worry, Brother Lin, can I still be strong against you?" I'll help you drink that bottle of old brother! ”
Lin Lei put his mind at ease and said gratefully: "Thank you Brother Zhao for that." ”
Zhao Zhigang laughed: Meaningless, meaningless, what do we have to do with it, what are you doing so politely? ”
Lin Lei nodded hurriedly, looking very grateful.
Zhao Zhigang suddenly approached Lin Lei, lowered his voice, and said seriously: "But brother, wine, I'm helping you drink, I want to ask you something later, don't fool my brother." ”
Lin Lei stopped doing it when he heard this, sat up straight, and straightened his waist: "Brother Zhao, you look down on your little brother when you say this, if you have anything to ask me, don't I say it yet?" ”
Zhao Zhigang was stunned for a moment, and then laughed: "Okay, okay, it's me, it's not me, it's not mine," Miss, add another bottle, take nine bottles. Then he smiled at Lin Lei and said: "I said the wrong thing, punish myself with a bottle, and I wish the friendship between all of us a long time!" ”
Lin Lei was grateful and moved, and even seemed to be a little speechless, just nodded again and again, and poured a sip of the chrysanthemum tea that had been prepared on the table a long time ago, as if he couldn't suppress that emotion.
The dish was served quickly, because it was prepared early, and the wine came faster, Zhao Zhigang personally opened the bottle to toast, and soon Lin Lei's batch of high-quality Langliu dry beer was already in his stomach, and his face was already red, it seemed that he was really not good at drinking.
Zhao Zhigang saw that the heat was almost over, so he laughed, put one hand on it, put his arm around Lin Lei's shoulder, got closer, and asked enthusiastically: "Brother, do you know about Bibo Road"? ”
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