Chapter 265: The Background Revealed
In fact, it is not a big problem to find it or not, but the key is to destroy the case that was left in the hospital before it can be modified, otherwise it will be bad to find out that there are two different birth certificates when the time comes.
And he originally had a birth certificate at home, he asked once before, but his mother said that it was bitten by a mouse, which is a normal thing, a piece of paper, to keep for more than ten years, it is really not easy in the countryside, it is likely to be damaged, or lost. is saying that the certificate at home is useless at all, and now the main thing is to destroy the copy left before the hospital.
He hasn't told his family about changing his age yet, because this is to get Li Yulan through the door in advance, so he came to change his age, and plans to take Li Yulan home after everything is done, and explain it to his parents together when the time comes.
At this time, Dean Xiao answered: "I remember that in 67, Mr. Cao delivered the baby, you went to the reference room to look for it, and asked someone to invite Mr. Cao over." ”
As soon as Director Wang left, Dean Xiao explained that there was only one gynecologist in the hospital at the same time, that is, to see gynecological diseases, and to deliver babies. Teacher Cao, who used to deliver babies for Fang Dajun, has been retired for several years, and the local teachers, doctors, veterinarians, etc., are all called teachers.
After a while, Director Wang came back and said that he had not found any information, and even had found the information of Fang Dajun's two sisters and two younger sisters, but there was no Fang Dajun himself.
Just make up one of the birth certificates, and it's already in the household, so it doesn't matter if you have it or not, but now the key is that Fang Dajun wants to revise the certificate, which will be more troublesome.
Dean Xiao brought in the original midwife, and it is estimated that he also had the meaning of greeting. All aspects are notified in place. Modifications prove it. In the past, it was a trivial matter, but now it is a period of family planning, so it should be perfected.
Fang Dajun also had two samples of birth certificates in his hand, whether it was in the sixties or now in the early eighties, the birth certificate was a simple piece of paper, without even a cover.
Only now the proof is more detailed, on paper in the sixties. Only: baby's name, age, baby's name, gender, date of birth. And the name of the hospital, plus a stamp, it's as simple as that.
In the eighties, the certificate was more: the number of children present, the date of birth of the previous child, the home address (commune, brigade), the head of the household, the place of work, (the new law of midwifery, the old method of delivery), and the signature of the midwife.
It's as simple as that, because there is no ID card yet, plus it's not a computer system, it's too simple to fake.
Beidou's current family planning is allowed to have two daughters, which will not be fined. In the rest of the cases, the second child is an overbirth and will be fined. There is a relationship, and even two children who are several years apart. Change it to twins, so that it is not considered superborn.
Waited a little longer. In the end, he was told with certainty that the hospital did not find any information about him when he was born, sixteen years ago, and the memory was too far away, not that the person concerned could not recall it at all, so he had to rely on records, but now there are no relevant records.
Now I have to wait for the arrival of Dr. Cao, who delivered the baby, whose home is in the town, but he is over 60 years old, and his actions are certainly not so sharp. But after waiting a little longer, the old man still came.
He is not tall, but his spirit is quite good, and he is capable of delivering babies, and his personality must be a neat person.
Before Fang Dajun could speak, the old man spoke first: "Young man, I have something to say to you alone. ”
As soon as these words came out, Dean Xiao was also very face-saving, and immediately went out, not only because the seller's army had face, but also because the midwife doctor had a great status in the township, and the old man had retired, so he was considered an elder, so this face naturally had to be given.
Fang Dajun was a little puzzled, he just came to change the proof, why was it a little mysterious? He also thought that he might run for the people's congress in the future, so he didn't want to leave a handle, otherwise he would directly ask the hospital to issue a certificate, and he could take it and change his household registration.
Dean Xiao took the door when he went out, and Fang Dajun was not easy to hold up, so he got up and beckoned the old man to take a seat, and before he could ask, the old man actually sighed and said: "It happened more than ten years ago, and I don't know whether to say it or not." ”
"Grandma Cao, is there anything else hidden at the beginning?" Fang Dajun is also a flexible person, and under speculation, he feels that there is only this possibility.
The old man sighed again and said, "If someone else finds it, it will be more than ten years, even if I delivered the baby myself, I can't remember clearly, but you are different."
I secretly burned your birth certificate, and I erased the registered ones. ”
"Is that you? Why, there are two copies of the certificate, don't I also have one at home, and you can make up for it if you lose it, why are you? Fang Dajun hurriedly asked, it is indeed the case, it is just a certificate, it is of no use in normal times, and it will only be used if it involves the change of household registration.
"Your biological mother and your current parents swapped babies." The old man sighed again, as if he had told the secret, and the whole person was much more relaxed.
"What? Are you saying that my current parents are not biological parents? Fang Dajun was shocked, and he also felt that his head was big, he was a traverser, he already had two parents, and now it is possible that the current parents are not biological, and there is no blood relationship, this, this is not such a play.
The old man affirmed: "It is indeed not, your mother gave birth to a baby girl, and she was born two hours later than you. The baby girl I delivered after I delivered you. Your biological mother is a female educated youth, not an educated youth in our town, who came from outside when she was about to give birth.
Later, both of them found me, and they both asked to exchange children, so they exchanged you and the baby girl, and within two days, the female intellectual, who is your biological mother, left Beidou with the baby girl in her arms.
As for you, you were picked up by your current parents the next day. ”
Fang Dajun was directly dumbfounded, psychologically speaking, who are his biological parents has little to do with him, the parents in his heart are still from the previous life, but the current parents also have family affection, and he has gradually integrated into this era. So even if it is not biological in terms of blood, it has nothing to do with him. He's a traverser. Ideologically, it is no longer the original Fang Dajun.
But suddenly such a thing happened. I was shocked on the spot, because it seemed to involve a lot of things.
"What was my biological mother's situation at the time?" Fang Dajun still asked, as if he was asking for the original owner, and also for the current bloodline. As for the truth of the matter, he has already believed ninety percent, this kind of thing, the old man does not need to joke with him, and this matter can be confirmed by asking his parents. And also. Although more than ten years have passed, if you really want to investigate, there will definitely be clues. It really doesn't work, and when the DNA identification comes out many years later, it can be confirmed by science.
The old man shook his head and said, "I only know that it is a female intellectual, and you also know the situation back then, we only take care of the delivery, and we can't take care of other things." At that time, she came alone, and she was able to prove that she was an educated youth. I just don't know where it's assigned, but it's definitely not in Beidou.
At that time, her name was Yang Rong. I can't remember the exact age, but I was very young, and the people assigned at that time were all early batches of educated youth, and when I was 67 years old, I would not be too old.
As for why you and the baby girl were exchanged, I don't know. At that time, the educated youth could not return to their hometowns, if you were willing, in a few nearby towns, or the unit in the county that originally managed the distribution of educated youth, you might be able to find out, but it is also possible that Yang Rong is not his real name. ”
Fang Dajun was stunned for a while, but finally shook his head and said, "No need to check, my parents are the current parents." "It's not that he's cold-blooded, but even if he finds out, he doesn't know what to do, since that's the case, then forget it.
His mind is messed up right now and he thinks of more things.
The old man nodded with a smile, Fang Dajun's situation is not an isolated case, but it is generally to take children out, rarely exchange children with each other, and it is to exchange baby boys for baby girls, so she remembers it so clearly, and she delivered the baby, and there was only a difference of two hours before and after, which is also a knot in her heart, and now she says it out, it is also because people are old, they also see it, and they also begin to believe in Buddhism, and they want to accumulate more virtue.
She said what she said, as for how Fang Dajun would deal with it, it was none of her business, but she still said her thoughts, and the old man said: "That's okay, one of your current sisters was also delivered by me, I heard that later, your current parents gave birth to another daughter, and you are now a boy in your family, and both parties were willing to exchange at the beginning, I can see that it is not who forced whom." In any case, your current parents also have nurturing grace for you.
And you have become the factory director again, and the business is booming, and there is no need to go to your biological parents. However, if you can, I still suggest that you find your biological mother, who was not in a good situation at the time, and maybe you still need to be filial, or that baby girl, on either side, can be considered your sister, and maybe she needs help. ”
Fang Dajun nodded, he understood what the old man meant, but he still couldn't help but sigh, thirty years later, it is said that there is a lot of pressure on children alone, especially men, because they have to support both parents, but now he counts before and after the crossing, there are already three pairs of parents, if he counts the daughter-in-law's parents, okay, he wants to raise four pairs of parents, this is not scientific!
"Grandma Cao, thank you for telling me this, and please keep this secret too." Fang Dajun said.
Then he carefully understood the information about his biological mother, maybe he would be able to use it, as the old man said, maybe his biological mother, and that sister might need his help, he was also confident that he had this ability, but whether to look for it, he had no right to speak, so he wanted to go back and listen to what his parents meant.
Even if he finds his biological parents in this life, he doesn't have any feelings for him, blood-wise, he has the ability to support him, but he won't really be a son.
Family affection is not only blood, but also needs time to precipitate, and in his opinion, the grace of nurturing is better than blood.
Father Fang Donghua loves him very much, and his mother is the same, this kind of love has even exceeded the love for his own son, now that he thinks about it, he is actually a little sorry for the original owner, two sisters and two sisters. It was he, who was not biological, who robbed them of their parents' love.
And now what makes Fang Dajun most entangled is not the question of whether to recognize his biological parents, but the second sister Fang Yan...... (To be continued......)