Chapter 424: Who to Live For

"What about you? How will time make you? ”

Zhang Yurong asked this. Li Yan was also a little surprised, he didn't expect Zhang Yurong to ask like this. This is a disguised inquiry into his opinion on the future of the two people!

Li Yan drove the car and stopped on the side, since such a serious issue is discussed, of course, there must be a serious attitude, the environment and atmosphere are very important.

"Yu Rong, for you, what you need is not what time will become of me, nor what time will become of you, but what you want to become in the days to come, what you want to become of me!" Li Yan answered this question seriously.

Seeing that Zhang Yurong was stunned, it seemed that it was difficult to understand his words, Li Yan smiled: "Maybe what I said is a bit profound, to put it simply, what are you living for, and have you lived for yourself." Let's take the relationship between the two of us as an example, in this, you are completely passive, you are for your father, in order to fulfill his wishes, so you have never met me. Someone who doesn't know anything you know gets married. But what? For a long time, we didn't get along very well, and your father's health has improved a lot, and theoretically, he can withstand some shocks.

But you didn't, you still silently maintained the status quo, living under the same roof with me, who you don't like. Of course, our relationship has changed since then, and now I treat you differently than I did before, and so do you treat me. But there is a new problem in front of you, your parents want a grandchild, they want to force you, or let you have a child earlier, and this is not the life you want, at least not what you want now-ha! It's just nonsense, both of us are still like that, it's impossible to have children at all.

But what about your attitude? If my estimate is correct, if my father-in-law and mother-in-law say it too many times, most of you will still agree for the sake of filial piety, and you will choose to give yourself to me, and reluctantly live with me, thinking that it will be just okay. And then have a child, maybe they have other requirements in the future, such as having another child, you think, forget it. Let's regenerate......

Your life is like this, and your future is like this! And I, in your life, is no longer just me, or just a code name, this may be me, or it may be another person, because you are not for yourself, but for the filial piety of your parents, you are making yourself make do! You don't think about what you need. ”

Li Yan said a big call and said it in one breath, which made Zhang Yurong's eyes widen, and her mind quickly digested his words. Fortunately, she was originally a genius, but her IQ was too good and her EQ was relatively weak, so it was difficult for her to sort out these aspects by herself, but when Li Yan helped her say it, she was still able to quickly understand and absorb it.

"You mean, I've been living for my parents?"

"Live for others! Of course. When I say that, it may seem a little heartless. But in the true and strict sense of the word, parents are also two of the others. Maybe you think you can do anything for them today, but if you marry me, follow me completely, and have children with me because of this. One day in the future, maybe you will also live for me, and one day you will live for your children. In this, you are not thinking about your own problems. ”

Li Yan grabbed her hand, squeezed it vigorously, and laughed softly: "But, you fool, have you ever thought about your parents, do you need you to live for them?" What they want is to see you happy! When your father was dying, he thought about helping you find a person to rely on, and seeing that you had a person to rely on, he was relieved. But what about us? In order to reassure them, keep putting on a show, showing affection, and let them get the wrong message that you have been living happily ever after. That's why they will continue to match, mix, in fact, they want a grandchild, although it is the wish of their older generation, why not to make young people more affectionate? How did the child come about? Manufactured, of course! And when we enjoy the manufacturing process, we will undoubtedly get closer. ”

Zhang Yurong took a sip: "What are you talking about!" ”

"I'm telling the truth, although the older generation may not think so, but this idea of the ancestors has actually been secretly in line with this, otherwise it would not have been passed down from generation to generation. If the elders want grandchildren. It will only make the relationship between the younger generation very bad, and if there are many examples, naturally no one will use this way. This shows that most people will still become more affectionate because of this. ”

"Really? I don't know......" Zhang Yurong didn't look at him, this problem, the two of them haven't reached that step yet.

"Then the question arises, now, do you live for yourself or for your parents? You're still passive! Let's put it another way. At work, in terms of work, this is your absolute strength, and you can arrange it very correctly, confidently and calmly. For example, you can arrange a job position for me step by step in order to get me closer to your goal in my work. Or the rest of the company, it's the same. But in life, you let other forces dominate and influence you, and you never took the initiative to choose.

For example, a strong woman like you, you don't ask me what I will be like in the future, but what you ask me to be, what the man you like, and what your husband will look like! Now I can be considered to have started pursuing you a long time ago, but you yourself are very confused and passive. Because you don't think about what kind of man or husband you want at all, you just because I've had a lot of contact with you, or sometimes I move you. So passive acceptance. You already have your own goals, you will choose, take the initiative to fight, for example, you don't like me to pick the nose, and I happen to have a habit, if you don't change it, you may just pass, and now your mentality is to slowly tolerate! ”

Listening to Li Yan's words, Zhang Yurong felt that it made sense, although this guy was working properly. I never care, but these crooked aspects always seem to be able to break a little truth. It's just that the disgusting metaphor of picking his nose at the end made his image of being a little tall just now, and he returned to his original form.

"It sounds like that, but ......" Zhang Yurong seemed to be much more cheerful, not as confused as she was just now, "...... But doesn't your words make me feel like you're a selfish person? Aren't you afraid it will affect your image in my heart? ”

Li Yan shrugged his shoulders, "I was originally a selfish person, did you just find out now?" Let's just say that the 2 million debts you asked me to recover yesterday are for example, if the big boss of the company is not my wife, I don't bother to pay attention to it when I am full, just drag it out, let the legal affairs and lawyers deal with it, what if the cost is a little more? What if you can't get it back? What does it matter to me? ”

"Bragging!" Zhang Yurong pursed her lips, as if she didn't believe his words.

"Whatever you think, I'm used to it, in my eyes, hehe, I myself is the first thing. Of course, now I've changed a little bit, for example, you are very important in my heart. ”

Looking at Li Yan's smiling face, Zhang Yurong sighed lightly: "Do you think that a hippie smiling face can pretend to be selfish?" People who are truly selfish will not be so high-profile. If you weren't filial, with your lazy character, would you come back? Will you suffer from a cold face with me for half a year? In comparison, you are more temperamental, more filial piety, you are still for my parents! When you have no relationship with me, you have to pretend to be very loving every week to please my parents, a person who only cares about himself, can he persist for half a year? ”

Li Yan was a little sweaty, in fact, there were not so many, it was half a year, and it was only more than 20 nights. "Hey...... You speak so great of me. It made me feel great, and I was a little fluttery. ”

"Li Yan," Yu Rong said seriously: "In this regard, I think you are very rare, if not great, I have always felt that even if we are separated, I owe you what you have done for my parents." ”

Seeing that she was so serious again, Li Yan hurriedly said: "So, it's best that we don't separate, so that what's yours is mine, and mine is still mine, haha, there's nothing to owe!" ”

“……”

After his words, Yu Rong had a feeling of sudden enlightenment, she looked ahead, and said firmly: "I decided to understand your words well, and start to care more about myself in the future, and strive for what I want, instead of passively accepting it!" ”

Li Yan still held her hand and squeezed it a little harder to show encouragement.

"But I don't understand, why would you tell me so directly? No one has ever told me this before, you could have taken advantage of my ignorance to fool me and tell me so bluntly. I'll be more sober, a big-tailed wolf, I'm afraid I won't have a chance! Zhang Yurong showed a hint of a smile.

"Because...... I love seeing your sober smile and not your blank look. Li Yan also smiled, that's what he said now!

"Huh?" Zhang Yurong was a little surprised.

"Uh...... No, I should have said something great. I am actually a noble person, I will not fool ignorant girls, what I want is not only your body, but also your soul. Yes, so, I don't lie to you, I want you to see it carefully, and I don't want you to regret it with me in the future. Yes, I've always been so great! ”

"you, you're a selfish pervert!" Zhang Yurong laughed and scolded.