(ps: Yesterday I was upset for a long time, I drank a little wine and fell asleep at nine o'clock, but I couldn't sleep at half past one, so embarrassed, I still got up after lying down for a long time, no matter what happened, I tried to face it with optimism, thank you for your support and encouragement.) ）

Tang Wenhui scored 559 points, 17 points higher than the minimum admission line last year, which is already a little bit to get rid of the fate of being assigned to a major by the college, and he can also have more independent choices, which is naturally a gratifying thing, after all, this is only his progress in more than a week, and if he improves and improves the rest of the time, the situation will only be better.

Therefore, it is normal for Tang Wenjing to be so happy.

However, after the initial laughter and celebration, Tang Wenjing's demeanor changed a little and stopped, which made Huang Jingyao wonder, "What? Just say whatever you want, we are not outsiders, so why hide it. ”

"But isn't it, what else do you two have to be embarrassed about, this is almost a couple." Tan Weiming, who was eating fruit in the back, also interjected suddenly, just now Tang Wenjing was about to happily throw herself into Huang Jingyao's arms and cheer, but was alarmed by the crisp sound behind him, it was Tan Weiming who accidentally touched the cup because of surprise.

Under this joke, Tang Wenjing's face became extremely ruddy again, but then she just glared at the back, and said with a smile, "It's not a big problem, I'm just a little worried about the future, you see that my brother's grades are getting better and better, and there is no need to worry about him doing too badly in the college entrance examination, and it's good to be able to get into a good one." ”

"But after he really did well in the exam, if we fulfilled our promise to let him play games casually during the summer vacation, then the addiction of playing games ......"

I'm a little embarrassed to tell why. Let's talk about it. Tang Wenjing's expression was still Huang Jingyao's targeted counseling. It's to make his grades improve rapidly, but the addiction to games is still there, don't worry too much about the college entrance examination, as long as the game addiction is there, it's still a big problem when he goes to college and is still addicted like this.

But Tang Wenjing is not stupid, she is a sound-thinking adult and knows that things have to be solved little by little. It is already excellent to be able to solve the problem of poor study before the college entrance examination.

She didn't complain about this, she wanted to continue to ask for help, and wanted Huang Jingyao to help his brother solve the problem of addiction to games, so she was embarrassed.

Tang Wenhui needed to trouble Huang Jingyao when he was a student, and he would continue to trouble after graduating from high school? Even if she and Huang Jingyao have a good relationship, they still feel embarrassed, and they feel that they owe too much to each other and don't know how to repay them.

"Hey, Wen Jing is right, Jing Yao. Although her brother's academic performance is getting better and better, he is addicted to games, and ......" is Tan Weiming who also interjected again after hearing these words. looked at Huang Jingyao curiously.

Huang Jingyao smiled, "Do you think my previous method is to treat the symptoms rather than the root cause?" But both of them ignore one thing.,When your brother is learning for various reward mechanisms in reality,His addiction to the game itself,It's already fading.,This is a withdrawal.,He's still full of expectations for the game.,Full of desire.,But the time to play is really getting less and less.,No matter what you like about something.,Once you're isolated for a long time,That obsession will fade.,Even if it's really summer vacation for him to play casually.,He may not be as obsessed as before.。 ”

What is the definition of obsession? For one thing day and night, life almost feels like it can't continue, Tang Wenhui used to be like that.

But when you get used to it for a long time and you can live with peace of mind without much contact with it, the obsession has gradually faded, and maybe you will still be looking forward to it in your heart, but this expectation and desire may not be an illusion. If you are given an obsessive environment after a long time, you may not be able to regain your obsession.

Speaking of which, it's still a matter of habit.

For example, many modern people are often inseparable from the Internet, and some people will feel that leaving the Internet will be boring to death, but leave him in a place with a bad network signal for a while, because the network can only do other things, even if he will be extremely looking forward to nostalgia for the past, eager to return to the past, and really return to the usual environment of the signal, because he has been used to not having much contact with the Internet, he may not be able to get back that feeling when he is on the Internet for a while.

Explaining with a smile, seeing that Tang Wenjing and Tan Weiming were still a little skeptical, Huang Jingyao smiled and said, "In addition to what I just said, there is another problem, that is, you have not had an in-depth understanding of the mentality of some addicted players, for most people, they are addicted to games in addition to liking to play, but they are more reluctant to invest in the game, this investment often does not refer to money, but the time and energy paid." ”

"The equipment on the account, pets or something, if he has worked hard day and night to accumulate, then he will establish a deep relationship, maybe he is bored to death in the game, and he has nothing to do all day, but he will not easily think about not playing, because emotional investment is difficult to cut off, and he will be extremely reluctant."

"But your brother has turned to buying game products with real money, and the game equipment bought with money is far from being compared to the former, even if it will make people feel dependent. In the process of helping him become a RMB player, you are also helping him weaken part of his game addiction. ”

The easier question to understand is, in a word, that things that are too easy to come by tend to be less cherished.

Not to mention that you have worked hard for a few days and nights on the game, and you have not been sleepless to save up a piece of equipment, the sense of accomplishment and the emotion invested are far more than what you can buy for hundreds of dollars.

Stepping out of the framework of the game, it's the same in other ways.

"Weiming, you often get up at five or six o'clock, prepare for class, correct homework and other busy, and buy a new mobile phone with the salary you earn for several months, another possibility is that you are lucky to pick up the same new mobile phone, will you have the same attitude towards two mobile phones? Which one is more cherished for you? ”

As soon as this sentence came out, Tan Weiming suddenly realized, and directly clapped his hands and smiled, "Isn't it, usually my salary is really calculated, and saving money to buy a mobile phone is definitely a treasure for fear of bumping into it, but if you change to picking up a mobile phone, even if it is new, it is estimated that you can use it as you want." Anyway, it's picked up, and if it's broken, it's earned for nothing. ”

"Combining these two aspects, your brother will still play games after the college entrance examination, but it is estimated that it is difficult to have the feeling of forgetting to sleep and eat for the game before, and as long as it is not for the sake of the game, it is not a bad thing to play the game properly."

"When the time comes, if the energy he plays still worries you, then he is looking for me, and we will continue to find a way."

Huang Jingyao looked at Tang Wenjing with a smile, Tang Wenjing still seemed to understand a little, but soon she nodded again, and her mood became cheerful.

How to say it, for a long time, Huang Jingyao can do almost anything, she also has an instinctive sense of trust and dependence, and feels that what Huang Jingyao said is right, since he said so, things will definitely be like this, so there is nothing to worry about. (To be continued......)